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Plz poster, Chaircover has said it all. Just yield to her advice.

Poster, you are a honest man, a man of integrity and who will not want to compromise his integrity on any ground. I salute your courage.

The Bible let us realize that IF YOUR RIGHT EYE IS THE ONE THAT WILL MAKE YOU FALL INTO SIN, PLUCK IT OUT!. It's a simple analysis. What enters the mind is not sinful but what comes out of it.

The question of smone having control over his AP or not does not really come into everyday temptation, temptation that is not temporar, but the one you live with everyday, then everyday you see her, you get tempted and smday, you will take the girl to bed. "If Rev. Fathers could be tempted and fall on the alter of sex, what more cannot happen to you and me, followers of the clergy man?"

My advice:You are the head of the house, the chief controller of the home affairs. Nobody dictates to you on what comes in and goes out of the house, who you can take in or eject. Stand your grand, YOU DON'T WANT HER, PERIOD!

A little while after, you may call her to explain reasons behind your decision on the girl. Am sure, she will respect you the more and depose more confidence in you.

i don laf tire for here ooooooo!

the inset pics looks like somone i knew back then in Jos, Funmi Amao . Dont know if she's the one

i love cc, her comments, , everything about her on this forum, so my vote is 4 her!

THIS IS THE BEST PICTURE I'VE EVER SEEN IN MY LIFE. I LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE THIS

THANKS FOR MAKING MY DAY, IN FACT I COPIED IT IMMEDIATELY IN MY LAPTOP

LET ME TELL U CATEGORICALLY HERE THAT Kmoney HAS SAID IT ALL. TRY TO UNDERSTAND THE BODY LANGUAGE THE WOMAN WAS TRYING TO PASS ACROSS TO U.THE HANDWRITING IS CLEARLY SEEING ON THE WALL. I WILL NOT ADVICE U TO THREAD THE PATH OF PEEPING INTO THE HONEY POT OF THE TWO OF THEM IF YOU LOVE YOURSELF AND YOUR JOB. EAT THE CAKE THAT CAME BEFORE YOU FIRST(THE BOSS) IF SHE PRESENT IT BEFORE YOU. DON'T FORGET TO GIVE HER A CLEAN JOB- MIND THE HUBBY AND THE SISTER HAVING KNOWLEDGE OF THIS.

JETTISON THE IDEA OF GETTING DOWN WITH THE SISTER FOR NOW, THAT MAY COME IN LATTER PROVIDED EITHER YOU OR SHE IS NO LONGER WORKING IN THE OFFICE AGAIN. AS LONG AS YOU STILL SEE THE PLACE AS YOUR PRESENT PLACE OF SURVIVAL, THE ANTY (YOUR BOSS IS YOUR GAMING). PBLEASE MAKE THINGS SNAPPY. CUT OFF SEEING THE SISTER, PRESENT YOURSELF A GOOD BOY AGAIN BEFORE YOUR BOSS.

THIS MAY SOUND ODD, BUT IT'S GOOD FOR YOUR HEALTH CONSIDERING THE PRESENT SITUATION OF THINGS

ROSSIKE, THIS IS QUITE GOOD FROM U LOVE THIS POSTING, CAN WE STILL RECEIVE MORE PICS OF THE PROJECT IF U DONT MIND, AM GOOD-PICS FREAKED

THANKS

I appreciate you Oyinda, FlGators aka Ilekeidi, Mukina2, Spikedcylinder, Aisha2, OmomEko and everyone , I LOVU U ALL

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I met her by the river-side of babylon while she was singing the song of Zion,, precisely, December time! Then i joined her in the act, the rest is story,

I really appreciate this, please we will like to have more of this seldomly time to time. It's very educative

NA ME, yes NA ME

A lot of things happen in life that one does not understand. We live in a society bewildered with spirits that cannot be seen with the physical eyes. You hardly know the antecedents of this guy in terms of character- as it is not detailed in the excerpt. Let's put Christianity aside here, anything could happen at any-time to anyone.

Can one know a little about the guy's past relationship? His family background, his inter-relationship/ temperament with peers,,

I will advice here that they should both go spiritual, seek true Pastor's help with fervent prayer and fasting.

I think we should appreciate good things for once. Everyone knows the kind of ordeal associated with getting/buying a home in Lagos. This man called Fashola is a phenomenon! I dont live in Lag presently, neither am i related in anyway to him. No governor in the whole country has done what Fashola has done in less than four years of his administration considering Lagos state for that matter. I think the guy has surpassed any governor in rating. He has a lot up-stares to offer Lagosians and the whole country as it were. He has set a pace for others to follow. CAN WE ALL GARNER SUPPORT FOR THE EVER-WORKING GOVERNOR!

Just have to be candid with you here as a married man with a whole lots of experiences before and after marriage. The truth is that; YOUR WOMAN HAS BEEN SEEING ANOTHER MAN OUTSIDE, LATELY. That is the honest truth that I have to tell you, take it or leave it. Ask her, she will not tell you the truth, come what may, except you are a smart one, that is when you can get this truth out from her.

It is not that all hope is lost. Firstly, may I ask you the following questions:

1. Has she ever complained before at any point in time about your performance on bed?
2. Has she ever made a comparrison between you and any of her ex-boyfriend before?
3. When the two of you are in the act, does she bemoane some "strange names" expressing some kind of sexual satisfaction?
4. What kind of comments does she make each time you have sex or during your private close-talks, does she express satisfaction by making comments about your perfomance on bed?
5. Are you TWO really close as couple, do you discuss sexual issues?
6. Be honest to yourself, has she ever caught or suspected you before on having an affair?
7. How much do you know about her past ?

Well, we can talk privately out of this site if you so wish. The truth is that, there's a lot more to her rebuff or turning you down when you ask her for sex. Afterall, you both agreed in a union to live together primarily for legal and safe-sex. Why now the sudden change? You can chat with me or mail me on "pamelerin@yahoo.com". Wishing you the best in your marriage.

Just a little more addition, the pregnancy brought the whole thing to your close knit. What if there was no pregnancy or issue to bring their sharp sexual act into the limelight and you got married to the same guy, only for you to discover their long time hidden practices after you have had like two issues for him(your boyfriend). So, you need to be thankful to God for exposing them in time before it was too late for you. Am sure you will not kill either of them if you discover their practices after like three issues. SO, MOVE ON WITH LIFE,

Permit me to say here that you have experienced one of the bitter side of life and you need to swallow the bitter pill in other to move on with life. It's quite pathetic and intriguing.
Whether the guy was a pig or sister was a bitch is immaterial, that is the mathematics of God that we humans cant understand to the fullest. PLACE NO TRUST ON ANYMAN BUT GOD. You may think the guy was a LovePeddler, how are you sure your sister did not start the moves by seducing the guy. The knife cuts the hand and you throw away/destroy the knife. Has the knife not done the cut?. The question now is how you move on with life. Thank God it happened SOMETIMES IN THE PAST, you need to move on with life. Follow the Biblical injunction you profess to belief and thread path of forgiveness. With your whole mind, hearth, body and soul, FORGIVE THEM ALL, everyone that was involved including the guy. This is not easy to do but you can make it happen if you really want to. And that is the only way with which you can move forward and achieve more. This will mean a whole lot of maturity in in disply. You need not questioning the guy nor your sister so that you dont reopen the healed wound. See it as if it never happened so that you can be happy yourself. Like you said earlier, the little boy is innocent. Take it or you leave it, the reality is now dawn on you now to show the innocent boy some love. Who knows what God has in stock for you through the boy in the nearest future.

You also need to open your mind towards embracing progress in life by not living in the past, pardon me to say that the so called Pastors/Imam even do the worse if God should open your eyes to see the kind of things they do in their closet. All guys are not same. Embrace new relationship and always belief that NO ONE CAN BE TRUSTED EXCEPT GOD and dont use the experience of the past to relate or judge the new guy but SHINE YOUR EYES. Wishing you the best in life, you deserve the very best of life, IF YOU CLOSE YOUR EYES FOR A BAD PERSON TO PASS , YOU WONT KNOW WHEN A GOOD ONE WILL PASS YOU BY, so open your mind, embrace new things. Am sure they are all regretting their unwholesome practice.

LET ME QUICKLY SAY HERE THAT I AM PARTICULARLY HAPPY WITH YOU BECAUSE YOU ARE ONE OF THE AMBITIOUS ONES. AND I PRAY THAT GOD WILL SEE YOU THROUGH IN YOUR ACADEMIC PURSUIT.

IN AS MUCH THAT GETTING EDUCATION IS VERY GOOD, WITH ALL IT'S PECULIARITIES AND ADVANTAGES, IT WILL ONLY SERVE AS ONE THE QUICK MEANS OF GETTING A GOOD MEANS OF LIVING, IT MAY NOT GET YOU "RICHES". I READ SOMEONE MADE MENTION OF THE BILLIONAIRES THAT THE WORLD HAS PRODUCED SO FAR, HARDLY WOULD YOU FIND ONE THAT GOT HIS RICHES BY VIRTUE OF QUALIFICATION HE/SHE HAD FROM COLLEGE. ALL THAT EVERYONE NEED TO BE SUCCESSFUL IN LIFE IS THE BASIC KNOWLEDGE OF YOUR CONCEIVED IDEA. LET'S LOOK INWARD A BIT, THE LIKES OF DANGOTE, DELE MOMODU, TO MENTION BUT FEW DID NOT GET THEIR MONEY FROM ANY QUALIFICATION BUT THEIR LONG CONCEIVED IDEAS.

I DON'T AV MUCH TIME, I WILL ONLY ADVICE YOU TO LOOK INWARD(MAY TAKE A LITTLE TIME ANYWAY), AND IDENTIFY THAT WHICH YOU ALWAYS LIKE TO DO, THAT WHICH YOU'VE ALWAYS WANTED TO DO. LIKE I SAID, IT MAY TAKE YOU TIME TO DISCOVER THIS, IT MAY SOMETIMES SOUND RIDICULOUS, IT MAY NOT EVEN APPEAR LUCRATIVE OR PERHAPS, YOU MAY FEEL A LOT OF PEOPLE ARE INTO SAME VENTURE, LIMITATIONS, MONEY?.

START SMALL, HAVE FOCUS, LEARN ALONG THE LINE TO ACQUIRE KNOWLEDGE. EVEN IF IT IS IN THE SAME ACADEMIC LINE, DON'T WASTE TIME, PURSUE IT TO THE BEST OF YOUR ABILITY.

GOOD LUCK

A GOOD JOB IN PLACE. THAT'S TO TELL US THAT WE AV A LOT OF TALENTS UNTAPPED IN NIGERIA. WE WILL GET THERE SOMEDAY

may his soul rest in peace,, may nigeria experience peace in all facet of economy.

Nigerians are grossly disappointed over his uncanny political gimmicks this days! He's another maradona in the making, he has succeeded in making his first perpetration into the number sit of Edo, watch out for more of his sharp practices under the tent he has pitched with the Father Maradona himself, IBB

You ain't see anything yet in Nigeria politics. But alas!, remember Chuba Okadigbo's travail , something similar will definitely come their ways. Nigerian were foolish yesterday, but today, we are wiser than the wise ones themselves!

i watched the rally on AIT. IBB was given the humiliation of his life when festus keyamo came on stage to address the crowd and he said IBB's presence was not needed here that his not a true democrat for annulling the the june 12 election, that nigerians shuoldnt vote for him and IBB buried his head in shame while the crowd rained abuses on him(IBB). the most embarrassing moment of it all was that IBB wasnt allowed to address the crowd like the other niger delta governors. SHAME ON IBB!

[pre][/pre]Can anyone here tell me hw better nemesis can catch up with someone even right at his nosedive than this? This is just the beginning, watch out for a lot more in his life time.

Firstly, i pity you, bt the situation is not the one to to take be pitied. As the head of the family, you are meant charge. Thank God her family got you a job, theirs is not the first neither the last to help a son in-law get a job. You had a son son out of wedlock is never a disease neither does that call for her incessant demand for money. The questions i want to ask you are: does she work? do you plan to get married to her? what is your sexual habit like - i mean do you hang with other girl(s) when she's not there? Because these are some of the issues that may warrant her to be demanding money from you unnecessarily since she wasn't like that when you met each other. Well whatever be the situation, call her to spend the night with you and do it without any provocation. When the night falls and there is complete silence, in the dark hour of the night, present to her all your plans for the future of both of you. Let her realize that nothing is permanent in life bt change. If the wind should blow either way, how do you both survive the tide if all you are supposed to have as savings have gone into spending-spree? Let her realize that you look forward into making the future better for you both but not at the expense of today. She's a human being whom i believe has a right heart to think straight. I am time constraint, i would have loved to say more. Wishing the best as you take the steps to make her see things the way you do

Wonders shall never end! You can't quickly conclude here dt ur girl is having an affair wt the guy in question. what if the person dt answered the call pretended to be her boyfriend, in a way, pulling your legs? Well, smone will call it an expensive joke! Can't u be patient for a while,try and find out what the truth is. Even if she tells you lies, never mind, like i said, time will tell the direction where the wind blows.

The truth is dt God (pls dont get offended over this) himself gave way for 'sexual cheating' among humans.He has made the population of women to be far greater than that of men for reasons best known to him, he made a lot of attractions round women, a class of religion let us understand dt a man can av as many wives as he could take kia of, the other religion does not specifically made mention of the number of woma(e)n a man could av, we only follow the statement in the lines of the holy book, our culture also permit that anyway. Civilization of the Western word, economic instability coupled with poor standard of living has made a part of religion teaching in this line to entrench in us the 'one man one wife" idiosyncrasies.

Now, beating ur Dad's girl does not stop her from dating him. A lot of reasons underscore the lady's behaviour. No right hearted lady will want to date someone as old enof to be her dad. Bt check it out, she has a lot of reasons for doing tha which do not occur to you. If u would not be in her shoes someday, someone close to you would. What would you do?

NOTE: Am not an advocate of one man plenty women(girlfriends) neither vice-versa. Let us sometimes reason in the line of another person sometimes, bt not being myopic.

PLS, AM ALSO INTERESTED IN KNOWING WHEN THAT OF OYO STATE WILL BE CONDUCTED AND POSSIBLY THE VENUE & TIME

ONE SEEMS TO BE KEPT IN THE DARK HERE AS PAR THE INTERVIEW INFO

Having Dora back in the cabinet goes a long way to safeguard our polity. If you don't forget too soon, of all other ministers of the Yar Adua cabinet, none of the so called FEC member could voice out when it became necessary to do so. If she had behaved like others too, neither the FEC member nor the senators would have done anything towards making Jonathan the Acting President, dissolving cabinet, and other development that followed. Nigeria would still be 'stagnant', with possibly no direction. She boldness is instrumental to where we are today, Left to me, it will do us a lot more good in this country if we have a lot more of Dora in the cabinet to checkmate our excesses.

thanks a million, more grease to your elbow, just submitted my cv, am an experienced job seeker