Ebubu: I don't know about foreign countries or other Nigerian traditions, but in Igbo land if you haven't returned her bride price you can keep the children.
She is free to remarry.
This can vary in other countries, reason why I'm skeptical about being a married man in the abroad, no matter how much I trust my wife, she may change when I take her there.
This is why we should find out how she thinks, first from her family and herself. Some people don't go to the law because of religion or tradition. If the family will take you to court, it means they cannot influence her and the elders cannot settle any matter. I was just saying what I said because when I watch justice court and read court judgments on marital cases, child custody almost everywhere in the world is the problem. And some of these countries, they have customs and traditions but children are emotional ties to the parents so each case may be different depending on how the couples treated themselves.
Ebubu: a cheating wife is unforgivable bro. EVEN IF KIDS ARE INVOLVED. Maintain the bride price so you can keep the kids but send her out and never retain her no matter what, even if she threatens killing herself, allow her, the blame won't be on you. Retaining a cheating mother or wife kills men. And if you allow your kids go with her while you divorce her, they may learn bad morales from her. Take your kids to your mother as a man to train if you need motherly presence, or train them by yourself while they live with you, but know it might be hard for you as a man to remarry as a single father is not the first option of many women.
So in hindsight, find a good woman who won't put you in all these stress, but if it happens, let her go and bear the burden, you are a man and supposed to be strong.
It's not as easy as you think it is. Child custody is a big deal anywhere in the world where there is separation. You think she will let her kids go like that?
Hopss: Read about a case some few years back, a man bought coca-cola in quantities and shipped abroad, thinking of the profit he's going to make, when the consignment got to the designated country, it was shipped back to Nigeria , declaring it unfit for human consumption. so the man sued coca-cola bottling company. The following conversation took place Prosecutor:Why did you produce a substandard product for me to export, there by making me to lose my resources. Defendant:we never knew you wanted to export it, the drinks we produce in Nigeria is made for Nigerian market and not for export. So you see, the coca-cola might look same but not the same quality. Mind you this really happened in Nigeria, it's no fiction .
Coca-Cola of Mexico is the sweetest and it is sold in US.
eejo: I watched how Nigerians are becoming slaves all around the World and even in their own Nation. Our Women are rape, expose nudeness on Social media and many into prostitution, In the same vein, our Men are dying in the desert, turning to gamblers and other vices due to Poverty and high unemployment. Immigration to other Countries is no longer a solution to our problems as anti Immigration Parties like Reform party in the UK, AFD in Germany and Trump in America just to mention a few are against Migrants. The time to act is now to save our Children future. Nigeria must rise to save Africans from the Race war that is coming. I will be presenting my blueprint in the next few months on how Nigeria can create 50 million jobs in two years and turn our Economy around. My condolence to all Nigerians who have lost love ones to Insecurity issues facing our Country and my plan will also include how to curb insecurity.
Go with your instincts and do what it tells you. Stop looking for doubts online. These people online don't know him as much as you do. Follow your instincts. The best way to know a man is through his wife and it looks like you know him from how his wife knew you. Good luck.
Ilekokonit: Una never see anything. MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way) is the new mantra for men. A lot of men are now realizing that not having regular sex will not kill them and so the power of pussy over a man is slowly losing its grip. Women now need more than fine face, body and pussy to keep a man interested for long. They need good character and good morals and a FEMININE attitude to get men to take them serious.
Today's men lose interest at the slightest show of nonsense from a woman. life is too short to spend it on a rude woman.
The day a man realizes that women can hold him back from achieving his goal on time is the day the man begins his step to being delivered from dependency on a woman's so called affection and company. In fact a lot of successful men are bachelors. Examples - Dangote and Don Jazzy.
When you said a lot, I thought you would have given 10 names or more. Dangote's close friend, Otedola is married. Don Jazzy's before before partner is D'banj, another married man
Newton1045: In medicine respect is very important. An independent examiner will mark her worst.
I only feel sorry for those the exam will be failing with her. The exam questions go really tough. The human body has no syllabus. She can't say, them no teach her that one.
If you target someone, you are no longer independent. You have a target.
Racoon: Don't just get the idea of making and sharing nudes on the social media. It is really sickening especially when minors are involved.
It is really sickening whether minors or majors are involved. Maybe it's porn or how many people were recording themselves before phone cameras came out? And how many of them showed it off or kept it a secret? I think mobile phones have made us lose our senses, especially the internet because of to say na only infrared the phone get, e no go get time share all these things
EDGEof2MORO: people pull statistics out of nowhere these days, create funny graphs, and share online.
Na statistics we go chop? 😂 At least some people are keeping records and love empirical evidence. Some people will just generalize, no evidence, no data, just their opinion they assume for everyone.
Sucre6: The way women reason is really baffling, u met someone online without meeting with him in an open place and getting acquainted, u carry ya self go for a sleep over in a total stranger's house, hmmm may her soul rest in peace
This generation takes risk because they don't know risk. They are more comfortable online than in person. They are disconnected from reality.
I don't think this is for Islam only. Have you noticed Nigerians want to show others how religious they are
It's almost as if they cannot have a personal relationship with their God. This is why if they change their location or go abroad without these things, religion will leave them. It means they did not understand why they were doing what they were doing, they were merely following it because everyone is.
Our country is the way it is because we have a lot of religious hypocrites. They are dangerous. That is why they discriminate against others and fight everyone else. Your number 3 is what I found in this video. BTW Drew Binsky is Jewish
That's a lazy professor. It's not wrong to use it, it's how you use it that matters. It means there is a poor review of curriculum and course content in that school. Or maybe it was a test?
Kemetian: I believe they did some kind of jazz on our people to forget who we are.
It's not normal for a people who were once worshipped as gods and saints (Africans) to suddenly forget who they are and start bleaching their skins to look like the people who used to worship them, straightening their hair, and even 'forming accent' to sound like them.
Jashub: These old fools aren't passing bills on other pressing issues , but they are quick to want to pass something that's suppose to be an individual's choice.
They didn't think that they should start from the Senate where voice vote should be removed and every vote can be counted electronically. If they can get that right, Nigerians EVERYWHERE AROUND THE WORLD will vote from the comfort of their homes and we will see the results immediately. It's not rocket science but they know what we know they know but they are pretending like we don't know.
I don't like this article. Did you notice that it is written in descending order? So what you are saying is that after Tinubu, Babangida would have dropped from the top 5 and another President will push Tinubu to Number 2