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Did they call her a mother? I doubt if she is one.....imagine selling your children in other to survive forgetting that that same children will be the ones to bring you out of poverty. Wonders shall never end in this life............

onyefin: You are the kind woman that make man hate marriage
Sugar mummy like you

And you are the kind of man that ends up hating your wife or even being irritated with her for not supporting you financially because she is not bringing home any income. Gone are the days when men bear all d financial burdens alone. Providing financially should be a two way thing ok? I wouldn't want to end up being at the receiving end in my marriage.So instead of heaping insults on me,why not advice the OP the way u would advice yourself or even your younger sister(if you have one)? How would you feel if your sister stop supporting you financially after she is married assuming she was the bread winner? Love should be a two way thing so both of them should meet themselves halfway,the sacrifice shouldn't be done by one person alone except if the fiance is financially bouyant .

chaircover: In the car so excuse my "disjointed" post

My take is somewhat different. I dont believe in resentful wives and I dont believe in one sided decisions.

This girl has explained how long it took her to find this job. We all know what that means; the disappointments, the frustrations, the questioning herself if she is good enough and so on. She was probably offered sex in exchange for jobs severally, she would have watched people not as qualified as her stroll in and get the job simply because their dads were friends with the managing director. This is Nigeria.

She finally gets the job and now hubby to be has told her to resign. My question is what was he looking at all the while his finance was looking for a job in Lagos, when he knew that she will be settling down in Abuja with him. Question number two what is he doing/strings he is pulling to get his wife a job in Abuja? Its not just good enough saying resign.

LOVE!!! works both ways. If she loves him, yes to give up a career and marry him, but if he loves her he wouldn't want to put her in an unhappy situation either.

without any information to hand such as the length of the relationship, the guys financial status, his age, and if the wife has any dependents etc. I can only advise blindly and that is to say that they meet halfway; they start looking for a job in Abuja and postpone the marriage for a few months which will give the wife enough time to save up some money, satisfy her need to work and time for them to both find a job or start a business in Abuja.

You really read my mind....what if she has family/siblings depending on her for their upkeep? If the fiance is in love that much to want to marry her,let him ask her what she truly and really want with this job,moreover,must a woman be d one to make sacrifices in every relationship?yea yea!!!I get it women must be submissive right? Rubbish!!!!!!!!

Hello doc.
Am in my late twenties and about to get married but I have this issue with my monthly circle for the past few years now.It comes scantily and very dark in colour. I want to know if there are any drugs I can take to solve the problem as I have been to medical and trado.without any solution whatsoever. .thank you

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otheloze, its is Zinox not zinos, my papa na Donald Trump

make Una follow join me in thanking and praising baba God for his blessings and upliftment in my life. I tell you guys it is good to have the fear of God and be honest. last weekend as I was going home I came across a small bag and I opened it and behold what I found inside: 20,000.00 pounds!!!, fear first catch me,but I took the bag home and when I emptied it and found some documents , ID cards, ATM and some phone numbers. one mind told me to call the numbers and the other told me to throw the documents away and use the money. I made up my mind and called the numbers and lucky enough the owner picked the call. When i told him about the bag, he told me he was the owner and told me everything that was inside the bag. We had an appointment and met and i handed his bag and the contents to him and he gave me 2,000 pounds but i rejected it and left. Yesterday he called and offered me a job worth 750k a month with Chevron, A 3 bedroom flat fully furnished and a 2011Toyota Camry. As i was smiling and testing the car i just woke up.

A pretender who thinks he is a pastor

Dr. i keep sending you emails on kennyhaastrup@yahoo.com but it keeps coming back.what's up with that?

Nne Ohuji (our pet name for her),you cooked and gave the best meals i have ever tasted in my life. i still miss ur meals whenever i travel to the village.is it the ofe owerri with lots of dry fish, snails and goat meat? is it the afang soup you prepare more than the calabar women even though you are ibo? you made me love my village in owerri more than any other place on earth because of your delicacies.

happy bday maradona. i really don't know what you did to Nigerians to warrant so much hatred even on your bday but am not God to judge,so i will leave the judging to the most high,all the same, happy belated bday

@nagoma;
(sighs and look up to heaven for patience to deal with this slowpoke) first of all nagoma,am a gurl.secondly i answered your question that is if ever a question was asked in the first instance,thirdly,i refuse to exchange words with you cos am too intelligent for that crap,finally,don't make me exchange words with you cos am too intelligent not to tell you what would give you sleepless nights all the days of your life.(*heaves a sigh of relief*.thank you lord for giving me the patience to deal with this slowpoke) what type of a name is nagoma?

@nagoma.
the ibos are synonymous to development.we are the face of industrialization,capitalism, we are development, right from inception.

[b]The foolhardy of some of my Igbo brothers is astounding. How can anyone in his right senses buy a house or land in a place where he cannot defend his property with weapons? Is it that I understand the value of money more, or that folks are simply "money miss road"?

I would rather blow my money on self indulgence (and there are millions of them I can pick from Cool), than buy a piece of land outside the range of my defense ability. . . which explains why I (so far) seldom buy lands outside Igboland.

I think we (Ndigbo in the SE) should chase back these so called refugees to go back and fight for their properties. Cool


please do not blame us the ibos , we are not used to living in shacks,open fields and face -face ,so we tend to build mansions.wait a minute though,without the ibos i don't think the north would have any mansion in their region.they should b grateful to us instead of fighting us all the time.the north would have been one phucking desert without the ibos and the development we took to them.

Gaylord, i have always suspected you are one,now i know.

Barman get me alomo bitters ,shekpe and monkey tail mix together on tha rock please!oh and make it fast.

you have never been one of ma favorite persons but with this singular heroic act,you just won ma heart, I LOVE YOU INI!

don't judge me for this, i always attract men that see me as a mother,always telling me their stories of woe and expecting me to solve the problems which i always do and then they end up hurting me.(finally i said it!pride always stop me from telling ma friends cos they feel i have it better than them)

should i laugh?

Abeg na everything dey cause cancer now?

sweetie,what the heck are you still doing pinning over a guy that obviously does not want you again?hey! i say move on girl!

we all know that in time of domestic disputes,the children always take sides.