₦airaland Forum

solepager:
Your moniker self na discouragement.

His moniker is fine... If you Bleep a woman that has given birth or a slay queen/ baby mama then you are literally a fucker of someone's mother...A MOTHERFUCKER!

I wish there is a way in which I will tell you to stop playing the tribal/sectional card and look at the issues as problems of human beings in Nigeria irrespective of tribe or religion but as it is, I may not succeed because the reality is stacked against reason.and I honestly dont blame you....Cheers

cooljo85:
Greatest naija people.....hmmmmmm....let's us think well oo before we enter their trap...hmmmm...I am suspecting a grand conspiracy here by the entire north ...we should not be fooled...The northerners want to hold on to power for a long time with their born to rule mentality and to also continue to be at the helm of the nation's affairs. They want to continue to milk us, forget all the anti-corruption noise by PMB, it is ceremonial. They are still looting and will not stop. Why do we have so much killings in the north despite having most of the security chiefs coming from there? Why do we have so much hunger in the land? Why do we have a battered economy with so much inflation? Why are things becoming worse instead of improving? I suspect the northerners may be behind all these so as to demarket PMB after he has almost spent a term (4 years) and then present another Northerner to the electorates. If eventually the new Northerner wins, after 4 years, he would seek for another term of 4 years making their entire tenure 12 years not minding the fact that they are the only tribe that had ruled this nation the most times. Me thinks , let PMB have his constitutional right of another term and leave that corridor of power. With this, no Northerner would smell that no 1 seat until all other regions have tasted power too. It should be rotated equally . just an opinion though

wickyyolo:
The responses are very shallow that's why. Stop to indirectly insult me.

What specific response from the Bishop is "Shallow" and not truthful?
If you had said too DEEP for your level of reasoning then you may be forgiven but shallow? No, you are lying and only seeking refuge in your dishonesty because I know you are not ignorant!!!

The depth and gravity of the issues raised by the Bishop stare us in the face. He has always been consistent in his take on national issues. Always plain objective and honest.
I am waiting to see the gullible denial that some no-good he/she-diot will come here with.
The good bishop is on the side of the Nigerian masses but I know some cursed being will refuse to see the issues raised but will only see that the issues were raised by a Bishop, a Christian and therefore, the enemy of the god they now serve, Buhari.
He can never do wrong even if he removes fuel subsidies, increases pump price and still pays the same subsidy without appropriation. Even of he openly is sectional and nepotistic.
He is a god who can never be told on issues of the economy, polity he is clearly wrong on. You have to be a PDP member to raise issues that are wrong with this government.
Even the affairs of the nation are coordinated lopsidedly no one can ask for the government to examine its anti- people, tribalistic policies.
Some foool- and I use this word simply as a description, not an insult- will start blabbing about how PDP has destroyed the nation for 16 years as if our history only began 16years ago and all along it had been wonderful with the Abachas, Ibb, Obasanjo until a certain Jonathan came along to mess it all up.
PDP and APC are mere letters of the alphabets but people across religious, tribal and political divides have continuously raped this Nation!
God bless the Bishop who has worn the gown with dignity and consistency.

This is simply a bad attempt to whip up sentiment using the "married women card"..

It is bad that you lost your job(and i honestly feel your pain) but it is inexcusably wrong to play the " women are victims" card.

Everything that has a beginning will end one day, including the jobs we are enjoying or enduring!

You were not sacked because you are a married women! It does add up. Employees do loose thier jobs especially in the private sector.

This is a question for men and women of conscience:

How can IPOB be a terrorist organization when Miyetti Allah whose members have been committing genocides in Nigeria is still a legal organisation?
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/10/breaking-29-killed-fresh-plateau-attack/

IPOB only agitates and we all applauded the so called python dance...miyetti Allah has been terrorizing Nigeria, literarily and no one is talking!




Put this on front page, please.

Please what of palmwine tapper, is it white collar or blue collar? Cos here in Otueke, we dey take am hammer.

Oh I should have known, my bad. I will stop deceiving myself now, thank you!

funmisticqueen:
keep deceiving yourself

The company I keep is of ladies who have sufficient self-respect and wisdom to understand that they have a stake in life and that no man, no matter how financially successful can determine their destinies. They therefore do not go about saying things about men who are either struggling or genuinely on their path to destiny or even those who are poor. Trust me, I know ladies that are phenomenally successful and focused. They don't peg their existence on what men can give them. I am married to one FYI.
If you girls are not pestering boys to be millionaires to feel good- to take good care of you, and if you are in the circles of ladies who have focus and are on their path to destiny, why is it so important for men to be rich, I mean why should it matter?
About self esteem, I think it is obvious that people with scarcity mentality are those mostly talking about their phobias. I am working hard to make you girls understand that you should have sufficient positive regard for yourself to the point where it does not matter if a guy is broke or not because you already have your choice and you are sufficiently happy with or without a man. But you are painting the town red with you wails about people being broke and all that stuff, so much for the circle you keep!

funmisticqueen:
the girls that are millionaires in the making do not need to paint the town red, if you changed circles maybe you would see some.

if u are a millionaire to make women feel good then you have self esteem issues.

funmisticqueen:
true, but many guys on social media are not millionaires in the making,they are scalar quantities with no direction in life

And how many girls on social media are millionaires in the making?
Do you not all breath the same air and meet the same standards for education and employment?
And if they were to be millionaires in the making, would that make you girls millionaires? abi Millionaire too na gender role?
How many people of the 180 million denizens of Nigeria are millionaires? and why should all men be Millionaires just to make women feel good?
I don't get the value system we are working to project as young men and women! I really don't get it.

Make I rant small today abeg...
when will this foolish childishness stop among Nigerian ladies... why must men live up to your financial standards?
Does your father meet the standards you are always struggling to set for young men? If he does then good for him atleast you have a man who meets your standards and he should be available for you!
Are there not female millionaires? So why don't you lazy, inferiority complex infested girls aspire to such ideals and achievements? Who says your destiny is tied to that of men? Every man will find his woman and so shall every woman.
In the whole world, Nigerian girls are the only ones I see insisting on making the issue of money central to their happiness and lives. No wonder our ladies wallow in mediocrity because life for them, is all about what a man can give them or better still, what they can beg off a man.
There is no single rule that guides all lives and all men can only manifest their own destinies not your fantasies. All fingers are not and can never be equal... so also are the lots and destinies of men. Success is not necessarily dependent on hard work alone.
If you decide that a man does not have sufficient money to be with you, then fine, you are not obligated to be with him... go find yourself your kind of man. And same applies for the men too...
Don't go around spreading your poverty mentality about men must own this, men must have or be that... be with who ever you decide. Not some false generalization about all men should have money. Being rich or successful or what ever you call it, is itself subject to definition... what you consider rich is essentially poverty to someone.
Please let life takes its natural course. Some people are rich in tangible things while some other people are rich in other ways, humility, wisdom, kindness, spirituality etc... some people,s lives just positively impacts and adds to human happiness and humanity...
Just don't go about talking money and trying to force your vain aspiration down the throats of some young men and even women... making it look like if they don't have money as you believe, then they are not successful.
Why do you reserve for yourselves the position of the human species that have a right to be broke without any qualms? Life is actually a process and the poor man of today can be rich tomorrow and vice versal.

I am just trying to be the sane voice in this conversion by trying to remind us all men and female alike that life should be about setting goals and achieving same as well being about the pursuit of happiness as we individually understand it.

PS.... before you choose to ignore the substance of my rant and try to force your classification on my poor head, by the special grace of God, I am beyond what you will call poor but I still remember a time when all I could afford was 10 naira card on my girlfriend's birthday. Today, I am blessed by God's mercy alone, to the point where I can do things for her in seven figures, if you get my drift! So that is life for you

Just setting the record straight!

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jhudit:
Are you a student in the said institution?
Your written English is enough to kill a python.

Dear Madam grammarly,
I am still looking for errors in the OP's post ! Except for "climed " & "stock".. Which could be common typos especially due to the use of mobile phones.
To be honest with you, the OP's post is grammatically consistent... except may be you saw something else and you could easily have corrected that in a subtle manner.

O boy see as my people suddenly went into hibernation...
No comments from the morally bankrupt gang!
Life is itself a lesson, chai!
The Truth Hurts and even Haunts,...really

agarawu,...unsoldable? hmm....
That is open to interpretation ooo

agarawu23:
Not new

My mother sold unsoldable too for me to survive

I don't usually respond to folks on NL when they decide to be mischievous but yours is on a whole different low level!
And my guess is your parent succeeded in life giving birth to someone like you, right?
I think "failed in life" has a whole new meaning now... must you comment even when you
know you are exposing your parents for the good job they did in " raising you well"
How could you insult someone's mother in such a manner? smh
what do you know about success and failure in life? haba

ecoeco:
...

Really

She is a super mom for training u in a cheap govt uni

No b her mate train their pikin Abroad

Dont go n look 4 job

B celebrating som1 dat failed in life

CHEAP MEDIOCRITY

Mtchewww


#Eco99#

PassingShot:
Where are the heavyweights?

Makarfi cannot win his state against Buhari.

Atiku will struggle to win any other state outside Adamawa.

Kwankwaso has a formidable match in Ganduje to share Kano's votes.

Forget Dankwabo. He's too inexperienced to even mount a serious fight against PMB.

Fayose won't even win Ekiti state let alone the entire SW.

Bottom line: If PMB recovers completely and decides to run for a second term, none of these guys can win him in the NE and NW, and he will do very well in NC too. The votes he needs in the SW will easily come from Lagos, Oyo, Osun and Ogun plus Ondo where he worked to install the governor.

Also, the knowledge that a Yoruba man will most likely succeed PMB after 2023 will easily make him win in SW hands down.

SE and SS won't matter much as a handful of states will give more than the required 25% needed there.

Make Una forget online ranting and Nairaland "likes", PMB still holds the trump card.

Dankwambo inexperienced
Someone with over 6 years of managing the National Treasury as Accountant General of the Federation and a two term Governor?
The only PDP Governor in the whole of Northern Nigeria?
The only person able to rubbish APC & Bubu's CHANGE propaganda right there in the North, in their strongest enclave, where Buhari is literally worshiped?
What is inexperience supposed to mean?
If I ever see a viable choice then I will SUPPORT DANKWAMBO to unseat Buhari already having proved that he can hold his own during the 2015 Zombie apocalypse of CHAINS and SAI BABA!
Smart, intelligent, young and a great performer!!!
my two cents

Where in Nigeria is IGWEOCHA?

DrGraveYardz:
[qcolor=#990000]I think the major reason most relationships and marriages fail today is because the man feels there is no need to notify the woman before he makes any decision that affects the family. I don't know if this is as a result of the fact that he thinks the woman is too impatient.


To the men, please respect your women and always seek their opinion in ANY decision you are about to make.









Ps: If you're in ANY abusive relationship —be it psychologically, sexually and any other area— just QUIT[/color]

Are you a married woman/man?...
Every marriage is a unique relationship. Do not always suggest a silver bullet solution to issues of marriage.
I think people should stick to maintaining thier boy/girlfriend relationships... Especially all those that are deceived into thinking that the ONLY solution to marital problems is QUIT.
I don't think if someone has simply "QUIT" some of these e-life experts would be here typing shallow, ill-thought, cheap-Mb enabled comments
Nothing really happens in isolation.

Please let her marry and find companionship. As for sex, would you rather risk hearing that some young man is befriending your Mom? Encourage her to re-marry and have joy, let her enjoy the physical consummation too... I respect you and respect the memory of your Dad but let Mummy have some love again, you hear... it's not a sin. i pray she marries a good man.

brandydaniells:
my dad died in 2006


she is lonely


a wealthy man wants to marry her again

me ans my siblins dont like him

but then there is my mums happiness cos she clearly loves him too


cant stand another man drilling her ..
i will die


i feel as if she betrayed my dad


advice pls

Hydrogen Helium Let better Boys Come Near Ogun for News Near Maiduguri All Silly People Should Clear Away Potassium & Calcium


Hydrogen. H Hydrogen
Helium. He Helium
Lithium Li Let
Beryllium Better
Boron B Boys
Carbon. C Come.
Nitrogen. . N Near
Oxygen. O Ogun
Fluorine. F For
Neon Ne News
Sodium Na Near
Magnesium. Mg Maiduguri
Aluminium. Al All
Silicon Si Silly
Phosphorus P People
Sulfur S Should
Chlorine. Cl Clear
Argon Ar Away
Potassium potassium &
Calcium Ca. Calcium

It is 'natural' but it is meant to be kept covered up! The last time I checked the stretch-mark- infested-nyansh is supposed to be a PRIVATE PART but it has been converted into an eye-sore "FASHION ITEM" with which our sensibilities are constantly bombarded.
If she had covered her stretch-marked "private part", I don't think people, some of them young enough to be her children will make a "BIG FUSS" about what they don't see!!!
We never look baboon nyansh finish now Ladies, mothers, "role models" have decided to abuse our vision with with their nudity!
Let's say the truth. even if it's for once!

makydebbie:
Don't know why people make a big fuss about stretch marks when it's natural..

All these APC (i.e. lie-lie) "Men of God" sef..NA LIE ABEG... Fake Pastor can't make a bat blind! If the pastor no strike freezer with blindness make thunder fire him left abunga!

AND WHEN SHE MALTREATS HIM?

Recharge card beggars calling people broke...
It makes me want to ask, how many ladies are really not broke?
Everything is broke, broke, broke... as if being broke is dependent on gender!
Both genders can be broke, unfaithful and all shades of bad.
You can have, do and be whatever and whoever you want to be without pegging your life and happiness on any other gender and the achievement or otherwise, of another person.
Just work hard and decide who you want for a companion...
Don't just go broke this, broke that like a broken record!
Unfortunately, this is the only country on earth where the stereotype "Broke" exists... mtcheew

Ishilove:
It seems you don't know who Kemi Olounloyo is. If you did you would have spared yourself the effort of writing this sensible post. 'Sense' and 'Kemi Olunloyo' are parallel lines

Thanks for the steer, jare! Take care of your fine self jor

:-XMadam Kemi, should please spare us her stale rants about being a medical professional...
Every time it's medical advice...
Na ONLY YOU know medicine ni?
Did anyone ask for your advice? Is it your obesity...?
I thought advice is usually solicited for, not enforced! And mark you, even the best advices can be rejected..
How does a so called medical professional make a diagnosis without due examination? Even Babalawo don upgrade now, Dem dey send people go lab.
I happen to also know that some "obvious" medical conditions could simply be symtomic of some other issues.
Obesity is a function of Body Mass Index(BMI)... have you measured the BMI's of the persons you are shaming, all in the name of marketing your nonsense dieting recipe and what ever it is you are hustling people to buy from you on your blog!
Should "medical advice" to an individual be dished out via social media? What happens to privacy and disclosure standards, Madam John-Alice cum Medical director?
I submit that sharing and disclosing a person's medical condition inappropriately is simply wrong and shaming... could even be discriminatory, Madam Know-all.
When did a "so called Pharmacist" become a qualified authority to diagnose ailments, and to do so from Afar via social media?
I also think obesity is a less serious medical condition or equal at worse, to psychiatric conditions...
Please respect your age and stop insulting people in the name of "medical advice"... just leave sane humanity alone Biko
Just don't try your obesity tricks on another PH pastor, you know how those ones roll...

Sombori hep me with that Westin concern you meme, abeg!

The political discourse in Nigeria has obviously become very heated lately. A lot of people are feeling hurt and disappointed understandably in many cases. Still, permit me to make some suggestions that I hope can help us keep discussions civil and matured as much as possible, while we still make our points. Unnecessarily angering other people may score you cheap points but ultimately, will make you more unlikely to see the change you may want to see in them, or in the situation you are decrying.
(1) Try not to generalize. If someone(s) has done something bad, ascribe it to the person, not their whole tribe or religion. For example, Mallam so and so did this, or a group of people from that appear to be Fulanis did so and so, not Hausa/Fulani Muslims did so and so. Remember, there are bad people in every group, and there are good people in every group. That way, you leave the door open for everyone with an objective mind to be sympathetic to your course, rather than alienate and upset whole groups.
(2) If someone says something you do not agree with, address the issue you do not agree with, rather than try to attack the whole being of the person. For example, Jerry Gana said so and so. Who is Jerry Gana? His village is . . ., etc. Simply address the things people say that you do not agree with, and offer your own perspective. That way you leave the door open for a healthy conversation to continue, rather than generate more tension needlessly, than there is already.
(3) Avoid trying to discredit something that others consider sacred whether rightly or wrongly. Reality is, there is no religious book, at least the ones I know, that is perfect, from a moral stand point if you look at it critically enough. Even if you win the argument, you have not done anything productive as far as your cause is concerned.
(4) Do whatever is in your power to ensure fairness and justice whenever this is possible, and direct justice to the actual criminals, not someone else that is similar to them in some way, but has nothing to do with the crime. (Do your best to avoid becoming a victim in the first place by taking all reasonable precautions to protect yourself, family and valuables from bad people and bad things in the first place. Defend yourself when you need to.)
(5) Try to be fair in assessing and analyzing situations. Do not jump to the defense of someone or something that is really not right. Speak up when others have been wronged even if the perpetrators are "your people".
(6) If someone is agitating for something, don't just condemn his agitation, try to listen to him, feel his pain and then advise him appropriately. (Courtesy of Takarda Michael).
If you think of other tips, please add them to the list, and if you find this helpful, please pass on the message.
Source A Facebook post by my guy, Gideon Danmaryam

I don't need your virginity but I am willing to mentor (guide and support) your brother and hopefully we will find a good job for him soon. But why are you limiting his opportunities to Lagos? get your brother to reach out to me!!

ConcNiggress56:
I am offering my virginity for anyone willing to give my brother a good job in lagos.

I don't want him to commit suicide. he's already contemplating that.

studied metallurgical and materials engineering.
good with Microsoft tools and other computer softwares.

willing to learn new things..
very humble and hardworking.