₦airaland Forum

Aderemi275: U must be a BIG FOOL...
Did dey mention west there

You are the BIGGER FOOL.. SO U CAN'T DICIPHER THAT I MEANT THE U.S.A?. IDI0T

rokiatu: Gbam!!! Even married men. Lord I fear the peni...s.

you fear the what?!. I doubt this is rokiatu postin with her handle, mayb someone has hacked her account. The rokiatu I know don't fear the peni...s, she conquer it.

xynerise: If her husband will allow her then no problem.

I don't think the husband should have a say on that aspect of the ceremony. It is the bride's decision that counts when it comes to bride's maids

Rest in Peace Alhaji.

Wow. ONE wife?!. I like that.

That guy is sick in the head.

Many weird and fo0lish things happen in the west.

Danhumprey: I have said it time and again,you gals tend to easily generalise about men when things don't work out your way and when men generalise about you gals,you start crying something else.



The fact is such men are available,but they are few are scarce in number. Not all men help ladies with the intention of getting something back.

@bolded, no b lie. Dm go say any man wey near girl na only one thing him dey find for her body, if the same man help her without doin anythin na mugu dm go call am. #confused lot

bellong: From her post, I guess she is a counsellor. So she is doing her professional work, she can speak with the husband.

Even if she is a counsellor, she shouldn't talk to the husband.

kreami diva: I don't know what to say. Enough has been said from page 1 to 101. Our lives don't start and end with a man. She should apply wisdom.

A friend of mine too is in that situation. Her hubby is super rich. Built a house for her father in the village. When my friend caught him with a girl,he gave her 1million naira cash to appease her. He opened a big frozen foods business for her. She gets everything she wants.
Last Christmas,she was bought a Honda Pilot. Yet,he beats her,calls her names,locks her out of the house sometimes and cheats on her.

My friend said she's not going anywhere. Say she'd rather stay married to him because of course,she's gaining a lot from the abusive marriage.

Maybe your cousin stands to gain a lot by staying but let her know that it's only the living that enjoy the good things of life!

Like many girls do say, "it's better to cry inside a jeep than to laugh on a bike"

@babylolaroy, see the bolded from her earlier post. I just want to know when I said women aren't humans.

alutacontinua: Try the last sentence of ur siggy nd start from der. I know a part of u is still weak for women buh u've too many misconceptions nd generalizations abt ladies dt ain't cool. Guys 've nt been d best things to happen to me in lyf either but i'll never ever come here to bad-mouth guyz, (except i'm kidding)- Infact, i don't even generalize it, i dn't bliv in gender fights, i bliv we're all humans! There are good men, there are bad men, der're are good women, der're are bad women. Dt one guy is bad means just that-the guy is bad NOT guys are bad!!!

So, maybe, for once, try nd see it dt way too! Try nd see ladies as humans first before any other thing and stop generalizing! There're wonderful ladies out der just lyk i bliv u're a wonderful guy too!


I deal with humans as humans, not male or female. A few hormonal differences is not enough for dt much discrimination!

Abt d hug, rules are meant to be broken! I might be d first, no worries, i' try to avoid contact with the sensitive places if u wanna avoid!

Once again, i'm sorry for the misconception.

Beware, that reconciliation might just be a smokescreen.
I remembered a movie I watched with my mom "Sleeping with the enemy" starring Julia Roberts, I was a kid then but I still recollect some scenes from that movie. The little I know about abusers is that when/if there victim(wife) flee from them, they will do whatever it takes and say whatever people wants to hear just to get her back and when they are back, the abuse continues. They would rather see the wife dead than be happy.
Some men are just SICK

A 33 year old man, Sunday Eze is on the run after murdering his wife with acid, on Friday October 11th.
Sunday Eze who hails from Obiofia Nnewichi Nnewi in Anambra State, went to his father-in-law's house at Edoji Uruagu to see his 23-yr-old estranged wife, Ebere Eze (Nee Agwuncha) who had moved back to her father's house after a quarrel with her husband.
The victim's in-law said Sunday came to the house that Friday and claimed he had recently bought new plots of land he wanted his wife to see, he managed to convince Ebere to go with him to go see the land.
The clueless Ebere who never suspected anything followed her husband and as they approached Oraifite/Ichi axis in Ekwusigo Local Government, Sunday Eze turned on his wife and attacked her.
He beat her with iron, poured acid on her and then forced some of the acid down her throat.
It was her sreaming that attracted some policemen who were passing by the area but by then, her attacker was long gone.
m.naij.com/news/49706.html

seedord247: Have you ever seen someone that divorced and be ok?

Yes.

alutacontinua: Do u jxt derive pleasure in whining me

gaskiya I no knw wetin I do na. Tell me

alutacontinua: Passion, is der any chance dt u're an hausa guy, cos d way u interprete English is strange to me! Do I need to speak hausa language to u

wetin I do again?. Wetin concern hausa wit Passionate?.

Where for abk e happen?. The name of the street.

Businesslocator: Op ur oWn good!!my happened this year march 2013.
My room mate emeka and I where chillin in mama kelvin joint. Which was a store very close to my hostel her gen was on bcus had no light 4 weeks peeps in abraka no as e dey b!!
I was chargin my bold 2 and playing wining eleven wit my roomate emeka a guy from anoda hostel was watchin movie on his on system too.
Time was about 9.30pm normally we dey stay dere reach 11pm when the woman close.
As I was gaming with my roomie I suddenly felt an urge to sleep!!so I stood up and headed to my room giving instructions to my roomie to bring in my lapi and fone when e is coming in.
As I layed down to sleep na so I hear boom
As a sharp warri boy I knew 4 sure it was gun shot!
At first I thought they had come to rob our hostel!!so I got up ready to jumb over the fence and disappear!!
The next tin I hear was "make una come o dem don shoot me"
I listened again and recognised the voice it was my roomie!!
I was shocked seeing blood flow from his body!!
He was pleading for help!!
All my padi 4 hostel where busy locking their doors!!
At once I gathered liver and ran towards him and pulled his shirt and tied the wound!na so I shout 4 help o b4 people begin come out slowly!!
By then my lapi and bold2 along with my roomie fone and neighbour lapi don enter armed robber moto!!
We later went to the police station got a report then headed to the hospital!!
I swear that day na GOd save me o na me 4 collect that bullet o!!!
DELSU na 4 strong men o but I love them anyway!!!#team delsu

alutacontinua: Try nd see ladies as humans first

aluta, where I say girls no b human?. Jesus Christ.
We give up

Mazi, ur stories dn put ideas for guys head o. This is d 2nd time within 7hrs wey I dey read where ppl make mention of ur stories.

De Beauvoir: I am psychic.....I have special powers to know.

o I see. Ladies nd Gentlemen, we have amongst us a high priestess of the gods. So which deity do u serve?.

De Beauvoir: Anyway, let me not be biased. Let me tell the truth.
I think it's very nice that muslim women get to keep their names after marriage, it's one area where muslim women are empowered more than women from other religions so I admire them for that.

I Africa, they don't keep their names. #fact

alutacontinua: I'm sorry too if I went too far...I'll modify the word sharpaly. Ur e-attitude shows it though but I've probably exaggerated it!
Once again, i'm sorry
Can we hug The BFF kinda hug

dislikin some particular characters in the female folks doesn't mean I hate them.
Just because I said I dnt have a gf doesn't mean I hate girls.
My e-attitude doesn't show it, I dnt knw where u get that feeling from, bt it's not cool.

I'm sorry, I don't hug

#team handshake

De Beauvoir:
I don't understand.

who tell u say I b Christian?

tintingz: spell it out.

This is Africa

De Beauvoir: Because you are a christian.

where u see me talk so?.

Eyah.

Na wa o.

Me misogynist?. Haba, aluta u go too far o.

That means I hate my sisters, aunties, cousins, nieces, etc?. Never..

If na so e pain u reach. I no talk again. I am so so sorry.

De Beauvoir: Alfa tingtingz, am not a christian.
And bride price paying is not in the Bible

If you are not a Christian, then why bing the Bible into this?.

tintingz: a wife keeping her father's name is not common in Africa, it is not even a practice in the west, but it is a practice in the arab world.

T. I. A

tintingz: but he paid the bride price right...?

according to islamic marriage a wife doesn't have to bear his husband name she has to keep her father's name.

is it practiced?.

De Beauvoir: But you know that paying bride price is not in the Bible.
It's not a christian thing to do and it's origins is in pagan religions.
Bearing of husbands' names is also not in the Bible

wow. Nigerian girls knw hw to quote Bible when the want. Then show me in d Bible where the bride wore white to her wedding?. When Jesus turned water into wine in the Bible, what did the master of ceremony say to the groom?

De Beauvoir: But why should your wife bear your name when you are no longer providing money for her?

why shouldn't she bear my name when I did the necessary things to get her?. I paid for her hand in marriage and after bringing her to my house u still expect her to bear her father's name?. Na wa o. We give up

babylolaroy: excuse me jor. which kyn blue blak. wetin ah do am nah. i tif im money?

I no knw o.

Bt on a serious note babylolaroy, no start to turn to feminist o. No let aluta turn u. U re a Muslim and I knw what the Qu'ran said about gender roles. Yes it's very good to be independent bt also remember ur home training. When u get married, cook food for ur husband if he decieded to help u out in d kitchen, na good thing, if e no gree, still cook. No ask am to enter kitchen cook for himself when him say him dey hungry.

We Nigerians too dey ova do things