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Alikaxon: my dear, It was a mere abbrev. Abi person nr dy use slangs again? It's better to use slangs than to be speaking wrong correct english. I humbly corrected her, and instead of her to appreciate, she resorted to attacking me. Don't get me wrong.

Which 1 b "wrong correct english" again?

ASUU no wan gree o. Dm want gov to pay dm for d 4 months wey dm no lecture

They want to call it off.

Na wa o

Thunder go fire those guys. God nd devil go collabo punish dm for life. This thing just pain me nw. See innocent girl, pure girl na im dm go defile. Chai. Make dm carry her go pyschologist o. She fit dey traumatised till d extent of commiting suicide. O My GOD

Jan 2010 thread on fp in 2013?. Na wa o

Gold45: not yet

I see. Then she is comfortable with her parents wish. When she dn mature, nobody go tell her say she need to make her own choice. No bi her papa suppose choose for her

Getting married doesn't signify happiness for a girl.

See enslavement. I pity for d girl.

paradoxqueen: I am not concerned about him not being number one in the bedroom. He might be able to work his way to that point.

I really like your sense of reasoning.

paradoxqueen: Yes but it will take much rime before then. I figure I am 2-4 months from a proposal, a year until a wedding after that, 6 months after until he becomes suspicious, and 1-2 years after that until I cant hide it anymore so that gives me almost 4 yrs...by then I might be o.k who knows or maybe it wont matter to him by the time he figures it out
So I don't think I should tell him...
I just dont want him to think I dont care about his culture because of this. ..

I thought being in a serious relationship is all about openness and trust?. Why are you scared of letting him know?.

So oyinbo babes too like marriage?

Gold45: She feels she has come too far to look back.

so she also agreed with their reasoning?. Will she b what d rich guy want?. Does she possess the qualities he wants in a wife?. @Gold, is she a graduate?

Khalessi: Ok, for those who didn't get the chance to read the OP's post before she modified it...she said she's in love with Harrysong

Make she go tell d "Harrysong" na.

Gold45: It's not the fault of some of the ladies. I have been married for a few years now while my best friend who has always had nice suitors from 20 yrs is still single. Why? Her parents have drummed it into her for years that her husband must be a millionaire. If she tries to disobey, they threatened to disown and curse her marriage. She has met some great guys but her parents want more. I feel that may be the same with some other ladies out there.

are they poor?.

Na wa o. We jst dey see sm kind dirty news everywhere.

Na wa o. See wetin toto dey cause

Cute face, she set die. Not like toolz

Noooooooo. No Totti?.

Fine gal

@2sexy, wetin u expect from girls?. Later when ppl say dm get fish head dm go dey open dia mouth dey yarn okpata

Harbosede02: no be by force 2 hang out na!

I jst ask qstn na. Na bad thing I do?.

Amaechi do quick decamp o. Cross carpet make we hear word. When u dey talk like market woman

Your location.
Will you go dutch? (You pay for ur drinks nd food)
etc

See wande leg na

Ngokafor: ..but it's not the same thing na...it's almost physically and emotionally impossible for a woman to want to get down if she's upset,no matter how hard she tries..

... i believe her husband shoud take out time to coax and get in her in the mood first..

What's d fastest way to a man's heart?. Then imagine when he rejects your foods. It shows that he's not pleased wit u. Or do u want him to register his displeasure by hittin u?

Ngokafor: ..this rejection of food is something i never saw my dad do so am not used to it and it's kind of unsettling thinking about it..but if i may ask, is there no other way men can register their anger other than rejecting their wives food?...it's not fair at all after the suffering.
I know it will hurt me to be honest and i may not even be able to eat myself..*sighs*..

Some women also deny their husband punny at nite to register their displeasure on a particular issue. They might use d guise that they are tired or their down below hurts. So I heard/read somewhere

Rejoice5000: Anumanu Bush goat.

hahahahaha. E dey pain u?. Y u carry am for head na?. Satan baptise u in illuminati's name.

Ntabeh: What do u do when he start calling his gf b4 u just to make u understand he has an alternative

Is this possible?. I don't think a sane man will do such

hafi: 4) Reporting your wife to friends and family:

Wen yur wife offends, correct and talk things through. You don't have to tell everyone about her mistakes, that will paint her black nd sell her cheap such that you will not be able to redeem her back. It is also out of place for any man to love his mother more than his wife and kids, doing this only sets up your home for crisis.

5) Competition:

Have you seen couples who compete with each other over material acquisitions? Their properties and investments are always in separate names.
As the wife borrows to buy a Ferrari, the husband is running after a bugatti. How childish can we be? This also leads to insecurity, jealousy and inferiority/
superiority complex. Please let's check ourselves and work as a team

@bolded, why una dey jealous?. Bt una own mama go dey chop money from una yet e go dey pain una when husband buy 1 wrapper for im mama. Mama wey una no knw hw she suffer reach train pikin una jst enter im life wan control. because him dey suck una front dey knack kpekus u want make him no love im mama reach d way im love u. As for me, na my mama first b4 children then wife. My wife fit divorce me, set me up make her bf kill me so that dm go stay together bt my mama no go fit do am. I love my mom

Honestly I go happy make amaechi decamp to apc o. Atiku sef na political ashi

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