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That awesome moment when you take a Nigerian girl out on a date and she paid for the meal and your transport.

4reigningqueen: Presently living as if am married. Too many restrictions, too disciplined and too principled.
Oh Lord! I hope am not missing out.

No you are not. There are some girls that wished they are like you too but they are just not bold to admit it. I will advice you to remove that thought of you missing out, out of your mind.

owolabifunke14: we go through the bible everyday in my house. it is a norm in my family,mother scolds anybody that doesn't participate especially the boys.

That sound frightening

indigene: These shall be your daily chant, before going out everyday.
Look straight into your eyes in the mirror and strongly say these words
I am the most beautiful woman in the world (10)times
I love myself (10)times
I am wealth, I am Joy, I am abundance (10)
Almighty God!You made me original (1)

Wetin b this?.

owolabifunke14: 1corinthians chapter 7 verse 10-16. Please read and understand the bible's view point.

Nice one, though it didn't talk marital abuse. The husband can still beat the woman when they are together. As for me in that case of marital abuse, I support divorce. Don't b offended bt is any of ur parent a preacher?.

Cherryf: Gona drop al bad habits especialy sex but kisn is alwd lol

after gettin married, u will drop sex?. Na wa o

bettyaliu: Tnx to all d peeps the gave meaningful advive, mobawa, princess Zoe, pdizzle, sunny t and a host of others tnx. Even before openin d thread i've done wat needed to be done am only human am sure most persons hv gone tru wat l went tru in on way or d oda ones ability to pull through is wat makes one responsible, l cn see some guys hating and ranting pouring out their frustration on me lyk dem pharasees as though d are saints nw l knw hw hypocritical some ppl can be hating as though d are perfect. Anyways am so happy l've gotten mysef together. For all of ya dissing ur opinion does nt define me so no shakin more no take panadol for person headache if u take na u sabi

Now I know why she didn't see what she did as cheating. She's way too proud and boastful. It will happen again, but next time she wouldn't be too bold to ask for solutions or approvals.

hippyzuki: You no what hurts most? I just got out of a terrible relationship my x got another girl pregnant and didn't tell me about it till she gave birth. I cried my heart out and she was aware of everything n aftr all the pressure to move on, this!!!

Go conduct hiv test, I no jst knw wetin dey happen to our youths. Upon all d adverts abt safe sex ppl still dey pyto skin to skin. Baba God na ur hand I dey o

bettyaliu: well said however l don't consider that cheatin cuz l wanted us to just be friends the kiss just happened l stopped as soon as it started we didn't go further l can't consent to such more so, am nt plannin to leave my bf cuz we've been through alot together, l admit am wrong am remorseful that's why l told my bf what happened and am avoiding the guy.

U kissed another guy twice and u said it just happened?, and wit d little I knw abt kissin he might have felt ur body wit his hands, he might have even fingered u sef

flolancracker: you kissed another dude and your bf knows about it and didn't flip? no offence, your bf is either kissing someone else too or hoping for a 3some which includes †he guy u cheated with no offence

Me think the guy might have even chopped d girl.. After these nairaland girls will say guys re nt to b trusted, all guys re d same, etc. See how they behave. When a girl said girls like nice guys, I jst laughed @ her. Most girls re a very confused bunch

Josy jay: uniport students and alumni's lets meet here.drop your contacts-mobile number,2g0 username,pin.... have fun

where ya mobile?

Thank God I no get any "ex"

owolabifunke14: In such case,Jesus advised such couples to separate not divorce. Separation here means each living in a different house but still remain husband and wife.

Where Jesus give that kind advice?

Fresh

Thank God sey u dn wise up.

owolabifunke14: The reason why is for better for worse is this;the only ground approved by the bible for divorce is when ones partner commits adultery not fat or pot belle. Interpret it without bias you would see what for better for worse really meant.

so when a man beats his wife mercilessly up to d point of tearin her cloths in public. This has happened like four times, just because d man hasn't commited adultery/fornication the woman shouldn't divorce him?

owolabifunke14: It has been long you attended a wedding,the verses I asked you to read are spot on

Very long. I stopped attending when I realised nobody keep to the oaths they swore b4 God. That for better or for worse. The verses deal on infidelities and immoral acts within the marriage institution.

chiover: He asked you the passage not all these bible verses you up here smh

Thank U o. Na so ppl take dey confuse ppl. Even d verses she pt sef na d honour ur husband, marriage bed should remain undefiled, etc. I want that "For better or for worse"

I no believe say as I dey read this story, my mind dey tell me say na fiction. The girl try o.

Coldfeet: Beautiful isn't It? I pray ur strength don't fail you too! okpebe.

wetin b "okpebe"?

Treasure103: Wish I can find mine here because good men are hard to find.

To your own understanding, what makes a man "GOOD"?

I go just soak garri then go to bed. But na only God go save her when she go need me to do something for her.

IamAthens: why won't soaps and creams be expensive?

u funny o. I meant weekly church service not what is on ur mind.

Coldfeet: Op are you Antoine Omeihe? If yes then I REPEAT you are *G*A*Y*!!!! Using diff monikers to comment on your poo thread! Btw who asks you why you are single and without a girlfriend? Do I bleeping care? Oloshi oloriburuku omo ale! Few times I be calling sumone names on nl. Back page/door tinz mtweewz.

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R2bees: Arsenal addiction...

I no go drop am o,instead of me to drop am, I go dey go church regularly, plus including weekly service, I fit even join worker sef bt I must to watch my match. If na so marriage go b for me, I rather remain single

emmadiva: it is very good for the girl .The man doesnt even want his wife to hear, lesson. A sugardaddy can never sacrifice his family for you

somehow you are right. But I will lay the blame on the parents of the girl for not lecturing her of the dangers of underagesex and the man for doing such a thing when he is already married with kids. And I will also blame the man for doin it skin to skin. The man just useless

yoged: Thats really awesome. But truth be told, its 50/50. Am not the kind of person that believe in such. Tried it some weeks ago, i think adaobi or ogugua's comment led me to the hook up/ exchange BB pin romance section. Added a nairalander. After a week of debating about let me see ur pics, no, yours 1st coz none of us wants to blow his/her cover.. Collected her number and i called, gosh, she was just talking like an okro soup, she needs to renew her BIS. I was like, o di gba, o doju ala, o da rin na ko.

@bolded, no matter how the girls deny it, they must request for money in one way or the other. Yet they will come here and start layin d blame squarely on d male folks as if it's we re just plain deceptive nd treacherous in all our ways. Can't a guy jst have a platonic friendship wit a girl without her demandin for one financial assistance or d other?.

owolabifunke14: You see the way you reason? Fat issue ke,when you were dating why didn't you take notice of his/ her potential fatness? For better for worse till death do you and her apart. Bible didn't mention till fat do you and him/her apart

even if the bible didn't mention it, she should be able to keep in shape. And pls kindly tell me the passage of the bible where the bolded could be found.

Olajumokeibk: Hehehehheee
Madam! I just checked ur profile, guess what I noticed...
I'm prettier & more shapier!!

hahahaha, girl u wicked. Bt true sha, she no get shape only big belle she carry dey press javelin, bt u no pt ur full pic only bobbi ur own stop

He said d truth. He forgot to add the fat issue. U marry a girl she gets fat after 1 issue, a girl get married to a man after a year d man developes a tummy like that of Rick Ross.