₦airaland Forum

dudu19:
@Pataki

I ve scrolled up and read a few of your post, u really crack me up. You really sound like one of those that call their wifes my Queen which is pretty awful, well if a husband and wife call themselves My Lord or my Queen in the confinement of their bedroom then maybe that is ok

I don't have wives. A husband of only one woman I shall be.


We will so call eachother whatever we decide is appropriate and right at whatever time and period. I would not be stereotyped to all the singular jargons of Hot, sweetheart, darling, my sunshine, sweety and all those other world wide over-used slogans of name calling in relationships.

onyinye2:
why do men want to be called lord?? is there a feeling of power in such a name?? a queen means a women leader basically. but lord means savior and someone to worship. and if your first name aint Jesus and last name Christ I AINT WORSHIPPING YOU!!!!!!!

Ask the queen of England, why she is is referred to and called as Her Royal Majesty. Then you will realize calling names in relationship strengthens the relationship and flows.

Jackal:
What else could it possibly mean? Praying??

Nope, random sampling.

Can someone please tell me, Is the word My Lord a criminal word to be used in marriage between a man and his wife?


Haba!!!!

onyinye2:
oka when you call your woman a queen it doesnt mean that much . well i mean it does mean something but to compare that with the word lord just doesnt cut it. by me calling my husband my lord i get the feeling he is my savior or something or a god. queen and lord are in to different categories.

Are we going to swim into semantics with this topic now? Or I am rather confused now what different categories does a Queen and Lord belong to, which makes it most inappropriate for consenting couples to call themselves?

I still say, I see nothing wrong with the subject matter.

No two way about it. It is first class cheating.

Save except both partners decided they were going for swinging.

onyinye2:
oh heck NAW!!!! i could never call my husband my lord. i might love him but im sorry i just couldnt do that. i hate the feeling of being inferior to anyone and by calling him that it would just add to that. i understand that there are some men you call their woman their queen but that is a whole different story.

Miss you are only inferior simply because you allowed yourself to be inferior to whomever.


Pray tell me, what is the different story when I call my woman, My Queen? Why are you women looking at this matter with your concave lens?

jennykadry:
uncle pataki y would she seriously call her hubby my lord?which kain loff nwantiti is that one is she respecting her husband or is she scared of him,which one?abeg that is nonsense pataki

Aunty Jenny, It is both love, respect and admiration she sees in her man. If you truly know the heart of a man, you would know a man inherently respects and values a woman who adores and cherishes him. When it gets overboard, then abuse is likely to set in depending on the character of the man.

It is left on the woman to know how to be moderate when giving out her love, respect, admiration to her man.


I still see nothing wrong with her calling her husband My Lord. Please show me otherwise.

@ Busta and Jenny,

What is wrong in a woman calling her husband: My Lord? You people just like to take things out of context all the time.

@ Busta,
You are a yoruba woman, are you telling me you cannot call your husband, ''baale ile mi''? A man that services you when you need to be serviced.


I perfectly see nothing wrong with it. Can someone show me otherwise

If my silent observations are correct, I thought Paribus is married and Delta007 is engaged to a Delta chic?


@ Funky,
Have we found suitable and credible sponsors for our wedding now? I think we are making progress now.

Sheniqua banned again?

You like trouble no be small matter.

I do not pity you though.

If you are running out of names for nairaland, try: trouble-madam. Or Xiomarra2 Or **Tshenasa


All the same, I do not see banning as a punitive punishment at all, moreso when he who is banning, deserves a ban himself. I was sent an email that if I ever address his moderators any how I will be banned. Na today? Journalists criticizes our leaders, I guess they should be banned for their effrontery.

All the best.

Happy birthday twinny.

I met the baale ile too last year.


He is such a gentle and cool man.

buzyDiva:
your eyes will just fall off for no reason!

On my day!!!

Wish me well now.

God has given us eyes to see, I will make good use of it, before it grows dim.

uspry1:
Happy b-day Pataki!

Ore mi, thanks a lot.

@ tkb,
So you don't know I was there for the introduction and engagement ceremony, when you was doing the baale ile.

I meant the church in London oh. I was even in their church one Sunday like that last year when he was been commissioned as an elder in the church.

Thank God for Jesus.

@ tkb,

Thats nice. I didn't know she was getting married this weekend. And I was still thinking of seeing her this Sunday when I go to her church here in London.

Congrats oh. I hope ''R'' prostrated well well for you. When are you hitting the wedding bells man?

Cheers man!

Uncle for where?

I be bobo youngee oh. Abeg no add title for my head yet oh.

I don forget that clash tey tey.

Aunty kadry!.

jennykadry:
happy byday uncle pataki and jkpretty

Was the kiss meant for Jk Where is my own kiss?

Thanks a lot too aunty!.

Me and you sef don clash for the other side, anyways, you are still owing me those kisses anyhow.

@ Antidote,

Thanks a lot dearie. You have shown me that we can fight today and become best of friends tomorrow. You are an angel in disguise.

See you on the other side.

@ BusyDiva,

Thanks for the wishes too. Still wearing those bikinis for summer? I ma go have a look now on facebook.

@ nana,
How did you know Jk and I are twins? Thanks for the wishes sincerely.

@ Tkb

Chairman, I dey humble oh. Na so so busy full my hands these days. Thanks for the birthday wishes as well.

So you don't know Jk and I are twins We were born on the same day, month and year. In my previous nairaland life, we both shared the same profile picture without knowing eachother! We met on nairaland though, I can't remember how it happened very well now, but we are twins and good friends too.

How my people for that side? Seun me nko?

@ twinny,
Happy birthday to you dearie. Long life and prosperity.

@ Toyin,

I would implore you to edit your post there about your family. I do not know why you have decided to post it here, but please edit it off. I may be hard and all that, but I would not come on nairaland and display your family history here. If I ever harangue you, it is going to be something between you and I.

You may have offended me in times past, but no one has ever heard anything bad about you from me mouth. So kindly erase it off.

Thanks.

sheniqua:
do your worst!!
all these threats here and there
if a girl clings to man, trouble
she runs away, trouble
she clings to woman, trouble
abeg stop all these threats,this is childish

You really need to enroll in an anger management class!!!!!

Silly.

NubianQ:
Pataki, u are supposed to be a gentleman, na u don dey deal with woman for here. haba show your nice side na

Ok, I hold back me evil side.

Its 02:30am here.

4Her:
ohh pataki, all those who know you knows you're nothing but noise. . .
See you eh, internet gave you strength. .
Honey, this is the net, unless you know about internet bleeping. . let Nairaland know.
because as far as I know it. . everyone here is joking. . .only baba important takes it serious.

& FYI, notice all you can. . .no one is blinding you

The appointed time for nairaland to know all your dirty and stupid clinging on men is not yet here!

I will so decide when I want to.

Miss my mother will slap me if she knows what I am doing on nairaland!

4Her:
who?
Jackal or paraki?
hehhee. . .who the mess have time for paraki. . .I was talking to Xerxes, some just love my attention

Same here. . . . . I will deal with you at my own timing!

You know me and how I roll it out! I have noticed all your anecdotes all the while.

I will deal with your whorish arse later.

@ Xerxes,

Let it be for now.

jennykadry:
ROTFLMAO @pataki i tot u were asleep

Mrs Kadry, I was settling financial issues with my clients online. . . . Thought I was going to bed early enough too.

4Her:
This wan don pass crying on. . .yeye boy


Wake up and smell me fart^{as funmi will say}, this is a motherfcuking FORUM. . .deal with it!

You must be very daft not to listen to simple instruction!

sheniqua:
this boy is always angry
na wetin?
take it easy so you can even fall asleep

If you have an anger management school, I am not one your potential students, look somewhere else.

@Pataki, sharrap Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue

@ Antidote,
In fact am off to my bed again. If glorified feminist idiots like red-dolt-chic topic is the one topping the night of hit topics, I ma hit my sacks.

It is like as if every night, there must always be a celebrated idiot on this Romance section.

And often times the case, some WOMEN are the sole proprietor of this vacancy.

RedHotChic:
Are we going religious this time? God admonished us to judge not for i would've .

You are indeed daft! Why include God in this matter now? All your postings are based on what? Your moronic judgments abut men?

Why do some men lead the women in their lives on when they know their relationship ain't going nowhere? which is more masculine, leading her on and not being man enough to tell her it's over or telling her straight up it's over? Could it be that cruelty is part of manhood or that these men actually think it's cool as long as the woman in question is not their relation?

In as much I do not want to attack your person, I am more than convinced you have psychological problems. A high form of malady that cannot be corrected again.

An absolute example to the generation of womanhood that have no brains and wholly senseless. What is it that worries you? What do you have that makes you think you are worth any piece of reasoning or a second look?

You have been going about uttering your manner-less tongue on anything masculine with a devilish inclination, yet you fail to see that you are the temple that the devil/serpent now resides in.

I pity the man who ever makes the lifetime mistake of saying I love you to your kind.

May the devil continue to lead you on. . . . .

stephanay:
ive been dating my boyfriend for close to 2months now and im sensing some traits of a control freak. he questions every one i \m friends with and tells me who i shld see or not. i don't av a prob wt him aving female friends but he just doesnt want me to av any guy friends and he tells me its a "guy thing"
we got into a big argument lately and he said he desont like d fact that a male friend dropped me off after class one day. he was only trying to help me with transportaion home. and my boyfriend said its because he doenst av a car that i don't want to brek my freindship wt d guy.
ive explained to him that i'll never cheat on him but trust issues keep coming up and i don't know how much of ds i can take.
he loves me very much and he's very caring but he calls me like all the time to find out hw im doing, wants to see me everyday if he can, doesnt like almost all my frinds, even d gals. i first tot this was his way of expressiing love but now,, im feeling choked up! what do i do??

All I know is your own side of the story. No guy chokes on a lady for no reason. There must have been somethings he saw that he has decided to give all this attention all to you.

I do not see you as the all-in-all perfection for this relationship. I am sure you must have your own faults in this relationship.

What else do you want from him? He gives you all the attention a lady would crave for, yet you are complaining he is choking you up. If he had the ''I don't care attitude'' you do be complaining about that as well.

No man is the embodiment of perfection in a relationship. Talk it out with him and do not think the suggestion people proffer here will set your relationship straight.

Until I know his own side of the story, I do not think making a one sided judgment on this matter is worthwhile and appropriate.