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FamilyRe: My Neighbour's Wife And Her Wahala by patomalabosan(m): 8:28pm On Jun 22, 2023
Adonispco:
Am sorry for my writing pattern; I am in a serious dilemma since January.

I live in a face me I slap you house with just four co-tenants and the landlord.

There is this neighbour of mine that parked in on December 2021, a married man with three kids; two daughters and a son,the eldest daughter should be around 14 years old while the son and the last daughter should be about 4 & 2 years respectively.

We where living in peace although one has to make tolerance a friend for there to be peace.
These my neighbour's eldest daughter to be honest is morally bankrupted, she steals and lies without remorse.

My neighbour's wife always try to cover up her daughter bad behaviours. During christmas time 2022, I noticed a sudden suspicious behaviours from my neighbours wife towards me in particular; she does as if am a diabolic person, as a cool headed guy I focused on my life until on January 21 2023 when I heard the worst words towards my dignity and reputation as a common person;

Fellow nairalanders guess what? My neighbours wife accused me of poisoning his two little kids.

As a cool guy and from what i learnt never to take action when angry, I maintained like its nothing but told our landlord.

My neighbour who is a driver usually travels and can stay there for weeks, so I have to wait for the man of the house to return and hear from him before taking action, so on 29 January he returned, a general yard meeting processed; he was asked to explain more on the accusation from his wife towards me and this was what he said;

"Someone in our yard premises poisoned his children using mirinda and biscuit" that we all are lucky nothing happened to his kids otherwise he will call the police to arrest everybody in our yard.

When asked how he found out that it was someone from our yard and what sickness his children suffered; he said that his children were vomiting blood in the middle of the night, and he went to a spiritual doctor who told him that it was someone from the yard he lives in.

Please Nairalanders what will I do cause I have tried to let go of this heavy accusation but it havent been easy and to make matters worse the once loved innocent easy going guy have become a depressed soul due to the crack on my previous solid reputation.

Please anyone with a good pragmatic solution should help a brother.
If you dare move out of that compound without first establishing your innocence, forget it, you're further strengthening the case of your neighbor against you.
The Authorities would say you left because you are trying to escape from the wrath of the law.

Get a lawyer to file a petition against your neighbor at the Police Divisional Headquarters in charge of your area, whether or not you want the petition acted upon/investigated is another thing. Then you can move put.

Whenever you want to deal with that neighbor of yours, you can always give life to that petition you submitted at the Police [so long as you have your acknowledgement copy].

I'm a lawyer, this is my widow's might to you.

I can do the petition for you free of charge if you can establish that you're a genuine Christian.
Reach me via patomalabosan@gmail.com

Regards.
FamilyRe: My Neighbour's Wife And Her Wahala by patomalabosan(m):
Relax, you'll be fine.

I have quoted you with an additional information.
FamilyRe: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by patomalabosan(m): 10:47am On May 26, 2023
You'll continue to battle this issue as long as you continue to compare your wife with your "alternative options"
The moment you come to terms with the fact that your wife is the only woman you're legitimately allowed to have and no other alternative options, and work on your mind in this regard, you'll be fine.

Marry another woman and continue in this your delusional sexual-mental habit, it's just a matter of time, you'll come back to this same issue because your mind is your problem - it's a psychological issue.

Get your mind to understand that there are no other options - only your wife, and you will be alright.

Remember, there is no space for adulterers like you in heaven!

All the best.
FamilyRe: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by patomalabosan(m): 3:47pm On May 24, 2023
Only an unwise person will reach a decision or judgement without hearing from the other side of the story.

We may not be aware what led to the man's overwhelming insecurity in the marriage. The poster noted that the lady before marriage was a life of the party... that might be it!

So, until I hear from the man, parties should maintain status quo and do whatever make them happy without committing sin/crime.
PhonesRe: Which Internet Is Best For Lagos? by patomalabosan(m): 12:51pm On Jan 13, 2023
Lagos Island and mainland, I recommend HOOP TELECOMS.

If you're in Lagos and you're not connected to Hoop telecoms strongest 4g LTE, you're missing.

Call them: 07065088756.
CelebritiesRe: Singer Chike Buys New House And 2 New Cars by patomalabosan(m): 9:18pm On Jan 03, 2023
Congratulations.

But why is he looking like an inmate in one of the prisons�
PoliticsRe: Banditry: Philip Shaibu Indicts Obaseki by patomalabosan(m): 6:29pm On Dec 27, 2022
Philip is just being a politician creating the impression that he can be trusted with the office of the governor of Edo State when Obaseki's tenure is over.

Na so politicians dey talk. Make una no put am against him boss.

Last last, I see Obaseki reconciling with Oshiomole. Everything politicians do, they do with personal and selfish interest.
PhonesRe: What Is The Best Phone You Used And Enjoyed So Far? by patomalabosan(m): 2:11pm On Dec 27, 2022
optimistfeel:
Tecno camon12
I like the functional system of the phone.....still on it sef cos I don't have money to another... still active like before..
I'm still rocking mine too �

Camon 12 pro
6gb RAM
64gb ROM
EventsRe: Pictures As Abuja All White Pool Party Holds In Grand Style by patomalabosan(m): 9:52pm On Dec 13, 2022
All shades of fornication and adultery.
God have mercy!
CrimeRe: 6-month-old Pregnant Woman Brutally Beaten To Near-death By Husband(photos,video by patomalabosan(m): 10:53pm On Feb 07, 2016
I've painstakingly gone tru the whole Mata nd people's comments nd I must say that the man got it entirely wrong. But I want us to first hear from the man. We never can tell what really happened or causative factors. It could be warranted provocation from the woman. Inasmuch as I Vehemently condemned the man's action I want us to apply the principles of natural justice which says: audi altarem partem meaning: hear from both sides before you condemn. It's a domestic affair. I would love to see or hear from the man. Can anyone help connect us? Thanks in anticipation.
07065088756.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Polytechnic Graduates Share Your Victimisation/promotion Experience by patomalabosan(m): 9:24am On Jul 11, 2015
It has been written, 'Bsc have i loved nd Hnd have i hated'.
CrimeRe: Gunmen Abduct Winners Pastor During Prayer Session by patomalabosan(m): 6:30pm On Jun 14, 2015
Too bad people now engage their creator in a battle... The bible says: Touch not my annoited nd do my prophet no harm.
CrimeUnlearned Nigerian Journalists by patomalabosan(op): 9:02pm On May 25, 2015
Nigerian journalist ehn, dem mumu sha. They be like: Amaka (surname witheld) was brutally raped raped by Akpos (surname witheld)... The victim's elder brother ( tho dem no tell us whether na step brother or half brother) Obinna Okeke speaking to our correspence said he was very bitter when he got the news abt his sister's rape. Now tell me, if Obinna Okeke is Amaka's elder brother, is she not Amaka Okeke? Why dem come dey hide her surname? Mumu journalists! sadNigerian journalist ehn, dem mumu sha. They be like: Amaka (surname witheld) was brutally raped raped by Akpos (surname witheld)... The victim's elder brother ( tho dem no tell us whether na step brother or half brother) Obinna Okeke speaking to our correspence said he was very bitter when he got the news abt his sister's rape. Now tell me, if Obinna Okeke is Amaka's elder brother, is she not Amaka Okeke? Why dem come dey hide her surname? Mumu journalists!
PoliticsRe: Jonathan Appoints Ongoebi Maureen-otebu As VC Maritime University by patomalabosan(m): 5:37pm On May 21, 2015
Oga jona, na otueke we dey send u go, no do like ur name sake for bible else, buhari go send crayfish go just swallow u. U no say crayfish belle small.
PoliticsRe: Jonathan Appoints Ongoebi Maureen-otebu As VC Maritime University by patomalabosan(m): 5:37pm On May 21, 2015
Oga jona, na otueke we dey send u go, no do like ur name sake for bible else, buhari go send crayfish go just swallow u. U say crayfish belle small.
RomanceRe: 8 Silly Things Men Do During Sex That Leads To Pregnancy [ADULT ONLY] by patomalabosan(m):
What are u guys talking abt?
CareerWhat's The Fuel Driving Ur Destiny? by patomalabosan(op): 2:56pm On May 17, 2015
Vision is to the human destiny what fuel is to the motor car. There must be something that drives u nd makes u dont wanna give up on ur dream. To me, Mission & vission: Irrevocably commited to giving justice the whole nation irrespesctive of the social and financial status of the concerned citizens. So help me God...
Add urs nd lets make it happen.
EducationRe: NYSC: Angry NOUN Students Threaten Nationwide Protests by patomalabosan(m): 7:07am On May 16, 2015
Protest is not the solution. I advice as a legal practitioner that the school management and all affected students on NOUN take the mater up in civilized way. They can sue the federal govt through the office of the attorney general of federation, i tell u they are going to win nd the supreme court will order the NYSC to fix them up for service. I can beat up my chest nd tell u that the discrimination relying on the authorities of sections 1 nd 2 of the NYSC Act nd section 42 of the 1999 constitution, is unconstitutional. U guys can come to my chambers let me help you take up this case. ALUTA CONTINUA...
RomanceRe: Can You Date Or Marry A Lady That Looks Like This (pics) by patomalabosan(m): 10:44am On May 14, 2015
VictoriaBee:
She-males are not lesbians.
Lesbians are 100% female.
i dey suspect u. Ur defence is questionable. U be she-man rights activist?
Christianity EtcRe: Reasons Why You Must Not Go To Hell Fire by patomalabosan(m): 1:04pm On May 10, 2015
MrPresident1:
The coded myths are being used to hold people fast in captivity and bondage.

We are all in hell, all of us, we are all in hell.

Simple explanation; America is heaven, that is why everyone wants to go to America, Nigeria is hell, that is why people wants to run away from Nigeria.

We are already in hell awaiting redemption. Jesus Christ will come to redeem us.
He came Himself over 2000yrs ago, the msg is what u hear abt everyday (the gospel of Jesus Christ) he's coming again in glory to judge the living nd the dead. But meanwhile, bfr that time He's admonished us to be contantly prayerful nd to keep watch all time.
CrimeRe: SEE Dead Bodies Of Police Corporal, Inspector, Girlfriend Who All Died Over ‘lov by patomalabosan(m): 7:53am On May 05, 2015
The result of recrutin unlearned, psycologically nd mentally unsound men into the force. This isn't the medieval age when Romie nd Juliet died for love... The only thing one should be ready at all time to die for in this 21st century, is the GOSPEL OF JESUS CHRIST!
CrimeRe: Fake Lawyer Arrested In Court In Lagos by patomalabosan(m): 2:17pm On Apr 25, 2015
We suffer 5yrs in the university campuses, plus 1yr in the nigeria law school, plus another 1yr serving Nigeria NYSC giving legal aid to the poor. Thats a total of 7yrs just to be called a BARRISTER nd here u are trying to eat the food that belongs to the learned men. God don catch u grin
if u wanna be a lawyer go nd write JAMB!
Christianity EtcRe: Jide Macaulay, Nigerian Gay Pastor Writes Letter To Homophobes With Bible Quotes by patomalabosan(m): 2:58pm On Apr 10, 2015
My people perish for lack of knowledge... End time signs!
Christianity EtcRe: GODWIN; Gospel Or Secular??? by patomalabosan(m): 2:43pm On Apr 10, 2015
Even mr devil himself knws dat God is alive... So u need not be told that 'God win' is a worldly music made by a circular nd worldly musician(s)...
As una begin like my post,,,,, God win!
PoliticsRe: Don't Be Afraid Of Jail- Aisha Buhari Tells Patience Jonathan by patomalabosan(m): 8:54pm On Mar 20, 2015
Guys mk una marry person wey fit SPOKE at least simple English.

Anyways,
#teamBuhari
FoodRe: Man Dies In Drinking Competition At A Funeral In Edo by patomalabosan(m): 9:58pm On Mar 18, 2015
Too bad!
I doubt the culpability of the friends dat arranged for the competition afterall he was not coerced or put under duress to partake in it.
Some people nor dey use eye see free drink. I blame it on poverty!
GO GEJ GO!!!
PoliticsRe: Safest Cities/states To Stay In Nigeria During The Coming Elections. by patomalabosan(m): 4:08pm On Mar 16, 2015
Zonacom:
The safest should be one's village. No dog fit shout there.
u don forget say Zambisa na person village?
RomanceRe: Ladies: Can You MARRY A Guy That Smokes(marijuana)? by patomalabosan(m):
It depends
PoliticsRe: My Husband Must Complete His Two Terms – Mrs. Jonathan by patomalabosan(m): 9:09pm On Mar 14, 2015
If only Mrs Jona knew that over 80% of those she's addresing and sharing the money meant for employment creation to are all gonna disapoint her. Mr nd Mrs Jona, never again shall u rule us. My people don too suffer! We need CHANGE nd CHANGE we must have!
FoodRe: See The Evolution Coca-Cola Bottles Went Through Over The Years! (PIC) by patomalabosan(m): 8:39pm On Mar 14, 2015
My Papa tell me say d only constant thing in this whole wide world is CHANGE!
let there be change in Nigeria we've had enough of the stagnation nd perils.
We need change nd change we must have!
RomanceRe: Make A Shout-out To Ur Dear Ones by patomalabosan(op): 10:13am On Mar 13, 2015
Slimdolly:
physically? Nah! But thanks for the comp.
u wlcm. If u dont mind, we can chat bera on whatsapp.
RomanceRe: Make A Shout-out To Ur Dear Ones by patomalabosan(op): 8:42am On Mar 13, 2015
Slimdolly:
my S/O goes to the OP. He's so dare to me
thanks boo for d complmnt. Ur pix is so cute. Can i get to meet ya? cool
Slimdolly:
my S/O goes to the OP. He's so dare to me
thanks boo for d complmnt. Ur pix is so cute. Can i get to meet ya?

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