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D guy is a learner

Where some guys can't even remember the number of girls they've GOKO.

and some counts starts from 100

Shey his own is only 8?

He should come to Naija and learn work.

Even though the entire BBN was a test-case of immoral and purposeless show, and despite the fact that the BIG BROTHER would have preferred someone else other than EFE to win the money prize in order to continually elevate and subliminally market indecency as the new GOOD, the people, Nigerians specifically, had demonstrated that Morals, Values and Originality are valued far and above Sexual indecency, selfish manipulation and Fake living.

I could not help laughing out so loudly at the kind of free Sex dosed out by those who think their powers lie between their legs.

I can't forget how stupid it felt listening to a man deny his beautiful family, Gosh! I felt irritated. Some people value money and public praise than their Priceless and Great Loved ones, it is easy for them to fake who they are not, to spite who they are.

And that my sister, who has a PhD in LIOLOGY; Damn! She was a great liar of all times.

To think that within the same house, and period of few weeks, a lady can sleep with more than one man under the same roof, in front of the same viewers, and still feel its cool is the height of absurdity, and societal decay.

Now back to the point of my thread; BE REAL. We have young people trying hard everyday to be somebody else. Living in the shadow of people who are struggling with complexes shielded by sophistication. People who despise ORDINARINESS, and think you're old-school if you live sincerely and real.

Now we all can see how real people and the real world (Not the world they want you to believe) appreciate and celebrate real people. If you have to impress people by imbibing certain lifestyle, you need to think again. It is no more rocket science, it has been demonstrated in plain screen.

I walk pass people everyday, people who are battling with culture and identity shock. Guys on Ragged jeans they are not so bold to wear, Ladies on eye-lashes that made them look like test-tube babies. Men's hairdo that doesn't match their persons and girls sucking up alcohol, and messing around when their brains activate REJECTS BUTTONS.


EFE was true to himself. He's a low-class and he was not afraid to state himself as such. He didn't have to fake an accent, or claim some family wealth he never had. He was not out to impress anybody, he simply remained himself. And when the time to judge came, all the other housemates look exactly the same, and only one was different. That's why he got so much votes. Not a sympathy or pity vote. People may applaud you when you do stupid things and exhibit an indecent lifestyle but their mind can tell if you are of value or not.

Bash me if you like, but most of the things we are going crazy for in life are things that people dont really care about. If you drink wine and I drink Zobo, my guy Na Sweetened water both of us dey drink. Your father has billions in his account and mother no account to start with, if I am your school mate and I lead you in class, shame on your money.


Let us grow the sense of value, and not the sense of money.

Teach people around you to be happy, not to be rich.

Nature has been good to us, it gave us our PERSONALITIES, but we want to change it at all cost. Ko le werk! Lailai.

One Trailer of Alomo Bitters for everyone who felt good that all those DISGUISED-OLOSHOS lost the crown. Amigos!

I am Patriot Temidayo.
#Temidayokingheart..com.ng

All I see is faked up chat.

How can every chat and reply come within same minute, no matter how long the chat is?

That's some cooked up sh*t right there.

The electioneering year is here, so someone need to look good to win again. That's the logic based on LOGISTICS.

The world need to win the war on Terrorism, and it is all our duties to do so. Show love and shun hatred.

Here's a way to start winning;

Disabuse your mind from the believe that one religions is a terrorist religion, there are people in medical fields that are using the whole world as a laboratory, and experimenting with people's lives as they wish. They created diseases of different kinds and modify their abilities to be cured by simple medication. They've killed millions.

However, our religions need to stand up to their roles, if your followers keep killing without confrontation, then something is wrong with your teachings. Start a deliberate re-orientations and create the atmosphere for change of mind.

One world, one family. Peace!

Inec can't win, but EFE is winning. No problem. All Na winning.

So.

Ok.

Based on logistics

Because they are not brainwashed or they do not have the herder genes that make people line up behind stupid believes.

Jos is a modern city, not in terms of its structure or look, it houses some of the most intelligent people I have ever met. They allow mainstream education and despite the fact that they are religious people(Christians majorly), they educate their children and allow reason access to their minds. That's the difference.

I don't advocate violence or bodily harm but its high time we started holding these set of morons, who think they are of superior luck to account.

Those POT-BELLIED nuisances.

What Corruption fight?

I don't see any?

All I see is political wizard-hunting.

Not until our honourable GRASS-CUTTER GENERAL is removed from office and prosecuted, followed by Ama-Echi's removal as minister, then It remains a charade.

Abi Na lie I lie?

And the funny thing with this govt is, they make simple issues and problem look like MOUNTAINS. And sing a simple achievement as if they travel the moon. Simple Meningitis that had forever been curtailed and suppressed mostly in northern states for ages now seem like one big work to them.

A one-chance govt that politicizes everything. Imagine that mumu of Zamfara saying rubbish! I tire for these clowns abeg

And untop of that, budgeting ANOTHER ROUND OF MONEY TO BE LOOTED SILENTLY.

Yolo for them.

Good people do bad things at times.

Ezeoba was one of the best CNSs d service has ever had. In the space of one year in office, he changed things and great structural and functional projects were rising up from every corners of different "ships".

They (Evil ones) don't like good jobs, so they booted him out. And now this; Good person don join badh gang.

akoko11:
Tanx bro, for being part fiscal federalism team, do give me a mention when issues like this occurs in the nearest future

I gladly do so. One Love!

And they want REAL men in their lives?

Faked self-esteem everywhere

akoko11:
This have nothing to do with my title, if u read tru my previous post again, you will see that I use the word "pls" I don't bully people, or force them to do anything against their wishes. I only made a passionate appeal to u to amend the topics and some amendment on the body for the sake of our beloved country Nigeria. But if u adamant to that no problem with u.
Thank u.




Fiscal federalism is d sure answer to Nigeria's problem

That was meant to make you laugh, actually. My brother and friend, I stand with you on True Fiscal federalism; that is the pathway to greatness. Let every region develop at its own pace. A broken appendage shouldn't hinder the other from going forward or far. I stand with you.

Patriot Temidayo.

Shey Na my fault. Oya Koman fault me Na.

A leader that cannot take responsibility.

akoko11:
Bros, I have one more thing to tell you, pls edit ur write up and the heading bcoz it not good for us as Nigerians. Though u have some point but it was blown out of proportion, hence u cannot draw any logical conclusion from these fallacious premises presented above. Thank you

I remain Pere Akoko (advocate fiscal federalism)

My bros, you may be the tiger or lion of Niger Delta but that's your domain, e no move me, not an inch. I nor go change my thread. Here's the thing, if you understand English, you'll know that the phrase "punching-Bag" is not exactly a supported action. It means molestation and selected maltreatment. So what I meant by that Topic is simply that the world is abusing Our people. Period! And I stick with it.

MrMaestro:
I get that, but we can't control all Nigerians. There will ALWAYS by Nigerian criminals. That's a fact of life. But once you make it acceptable for other countries to be xenophobic towards ALL Nigerians because of these criminals, you are damning all Nigerians to attack and harm. Which is a BIG problem.
Would Muslims say, "yes, continue to attack us, we deserve it because we have a lot of terrorists!" Or would Cubans say, "yes attack and kill Cubans because we have drug dealers!" Of course not. Only a black person would defend someone attacking their people, and it's crazy and pathetic. If there are Nigerian criminals, they should be reported to the police like any other civilized society in the world.

Your mentality for defending xenophobia against Nigerians is entrenched in self hatred and I would not have any part of it, so you should just stop trying to convince me because there isn't any circumstances where I will defend xenophobic attacks on Nigerian communities. So just stop it.

And you're not a patriot, all you've stated is negative things about Nigeria a d defended the attack on all Nigerians. You can call yourself a patriot a million times, but that wouldn't make it true.

Did I hear you says defend Xenophobia?? Where and how?

English is very difficult these days. Read the post again. Chastising my child for doing wrong and bringing shame to me and the family is not exactly the same as encouraging someone to beat my child, get that straight or go somewhere else with your abridged understanding. Hating who please? Comedians everywhere.

Lets just clean our acts up and pursue justice for our brothers and sisters out there. Simple!

akoko11:
Crime is not peculiar with only Nigerians in abroad.
U will agree with me that the two countries u mentioned in ur write up practice racism. Like what somebody have already said, India discriminate against her own dark skin citizens, what about SA, racism in SA is worst than that of India, will not deny that.
Op let me ask u few questions, why were Nigerians not been attacked in UK, France, USA, Italy, Canada, Brazil, Japan, Spain, South Korea, UAE, even in China etc.


The way u portrays Nigeria's image in ur write up is far out of proportion, if we are to go by ur write up, it means u are fantastically corrupt, not only u including ur family, community and state. Do u think it is only Nigerians that will read this trash. Why are u spoiling the name of Nigeria?
Going by ur example of bad things Nigerians are doing abroad, drug trafficking for example, if Nigerians are actually champions in drug crime, US would have use it to act series of drug trafficking movies, instead they use Mexico, eg cosmos in power.
This is not to say that there are not bad people among us, but u blew it out of proportion, personally I don't think Nigeria is leading in any type of crime in the whole world not even corruption. Let me tell u there are millions of upright Nigerians that u don't know. Have u not heard of people who see millions of naira and returned it to the owners?


Buhari pls Sir give us fiscal federalism or Niger Delta Republic period.

I remain Pere Akoko (fearless Niger Deltan)

I agree absolutely that there are millions of good people, people of value and ethical standards. And true, Nigeria doesn't have monopoly of crime, however, there is nothing wrong in holistically critiquing what have led to the incessant stereotypical attacks. If there's a window to improve our self-Image from the home front all through to the rest of the world, I think we should do it. The questions is, why Nigerians in most cases. If it were terrorism, we know whose citizens the world would attack, while violence is never justifiable, decorum is expedient in our drive to make money at all cost.

I remain Patriot Temidayo.

MrMaestro:
What statistical data could she possibly have presented to you to prove that all Nigerians are bad? Please, this is nonsense. If you lost the argument you just weren't smart enough to debate her properly and she bested you. Don't bring this mentality to other Nigerians.

Mexicans and Cubans have consistently been engaging in numerous hard drug crimes in America. Yet there is no xenophobia and attack against their communities in the USA. Many people from numerous middle Eastern countries have killed hundreds of U.S and European citizens through terrorist attacks, but you don't see them being hunted and attacked in their communities by citizens like Nigerians are. Nigerians are ACCUSED (with ZERO PROOF, if you have proof, I want to see your primary sources) of drug crime, and somehow you want us to accept this jungle justice attack on all Nigerians in their countries? You have to be mad. You need your head checked.

No citizen has the authority to beat or attack Nigerians, or any other immigrant for that matter. Why are all of these xenophobic apologists wanting us to accept this nonsense? Or does India and South Africa not have police investigation to handle crime? Why are idiot Nigerians still making threads like this?!?!?

Charity begins at home. No one is supporting Xenophobia, I am not. But even here in Nigeria, we know the kind of people we are. We need to change. We need to rearm ourselves with morals and revive a sense of value amongst ourselves. That is the point of this thread, if you like curse and chant insult, the truth is the truth, no amount of noise will change it to a lie. Peace!!!!

When Xenophobic attacks first became loud, many of us were singing HATE. We argued that the reason the south Africans hated and still hate us is because we were successful in business, and they are not. We sighted the sheer laziness of the south African people, especially the black men, and used all narratives to boost our self-image as against the legion of crimes the country accused our men and women of. Ranging from Drugs peddling, to ring of prostitution, to fraud and importation of fake pastors, among others. Some will even say that south African men hate Nigerians because our men are more romantic and treated south African women better. What a hilarious argument.

Last two weeks, it was south Africa, this week, its been India. The question is, Where next?

Is it safe to say the Indians hate us because we are very successful? Wouldn't the world laugh at us if we keep using that shallow defence line? As far as technology and advancement is concerned, India is light years ahead of us. So why the attack?

A Lady friend of mine, of South African Origin had taken me to the cleaner once, simply because I was trying hard to prove to her that not all Nigerians are bad, and back home, here in Nigeria, we have good people, with high moral values and conscience.

On both arguments, I lost. She is an IT expert, and had travelled 19 countries, working for some of the biggest financial and communication companies of repute. Not only had she seen Nigerians in their craft in her native country, south Africa, she had shared spaces with them in most, if not all the countries she had visited, including Nigeria. She was clear about her experiences with and Knowledge of Nigerians, her points were solid, with examples and statistical data to back up her claims.

I love my country to the bone, and like the skin on my back, my heart clip to her. However, there is a truth we need to tell ourselves, a truth that political correctness and false patriotism would not allow us say.

Are we only known for crimes? The answer is NO!

Are we ruthless in crime? Yes!

Are we very creative in criminal ventures? It is a YES YES!

Do we invent and introduce crimes to countries where they were originally unknown? And the answer will be a loud YES!

And lastly, are all Nigerians bad? It is a No! No! All Nigerians are not bad, and some of you reading this might have made big sacrificed to remain different from the packs of the hush-money gang that can do anything, just anything to be rich.

When I was in year 5 in the university, one of my course mates travelled to south Africa. This story will give an idea of what might have instigated the whole world against us. This brother, to my limited knowledge, was one of the baddest gang in school. Few days after he left for the greener land, a neighbour gave me a load-down of what he was going to do, below was what I learnt about his Journey to SA:

"Dayo, did you know that ZZZ is going to south African as a pastor?" I was like Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Da?

"His brother owns one of the biggest Pentecostal churches in SA, and while ZZZ was aboard his plane, his brother ordained him a pastor and asked him to ACT as such once he lands in SA"

A top man of a campus gang, who was a celebrating his journey to SA with Booze and Babes just few hours ago, would land in South Africa changing "God Bless you".

The truth is cold but we have to serve it when necessary. Many of our young men and women are mainly going out of the country for activities that are far from legit. I remember a sister once gave a testimony about her sister who travelled to Italy, and had been there working for 6 years without permanent visa and stay. In simple term, she had been prostituting, and yet the sister could come b4 the Altar OF God, and celebrate such.

The thing is, our moral compasses are broken and need be fixed. Some of the people reading this post will come to bash me, not because I am wrong, but because they no longer see anything wrong with wrong actions. The world don't hate us cuz we are smart (cuz we really are), they hate us because our smartness is destroying their homes, morals, and even insult their sovereignty. If you are different and really wanna work hard through legit means as a Nigerian, you'll be hated and insulted by your peers. Parents wouldn't wanna give out their daughter to a brother who is climbing the ladder of life slowly and steadily, they want someone who can jump in and start spending money on their needs, as if marriage is now a POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAMME. churches only celebrate people who could contribute to the work of God and make the humble guys look like failures, through their preachings.

In all, the zeal to get rich at all cost and the saddening reality of celebrating money instead of values and morals have gotten us here. If the whole world decide to make Nigerians account for their sins of criminal activities, half of the countries would be on our trail by now. As we speak, some of our men and women are just wearing their shoes to go into another kinda crime. They never listen, its all about the money for them.

If the whole world decides to give Nigerians the south-African and Indian treatment, this country will be one hell of an IDP camp, and the biggest in history.

Truth hurts, but it heals ad well.

#myopinions
#PatriotTemidayo

Those road transport unions that collect "owoda" at every blink-distance are so annoying. Damn! Driving yourself is like heaven compared to using commercial, you'll wanna punch them in gut.

CarolineOlawale:
All these epistle? Boy its certain your brain is leaking! Do something about it before its too late!


All these teenage boys with mtn 10mb sef. Smh!

I know your type. Keep your ego. Peace!

CarolineOlawale:
Why are u posting childish stuffs online?

Maybe you have an irredeemable childish mind. And that's how you see things. I guess the points made in this post speak to your person directly. Otherwise you wouldn't say what you just said.

Learning is difficult. Accepting truth is more difficult. And adapting a truth is a neck breaking adventure, people like you would rather bask in your overrated sense of things, than listen and learn.

How old are you again?

Backinfront:
Why should a caked face and bleached skin matter in the first place? If women are bringing only these "artificials" to the table, doesn't that imply that's what's in demand?

Why supply what's not demanded? That would mean running life at a loss You think women are not smart?

Everyone in this world is a marketer. And a good marketer must first study the market, identify what is desired and how to meet it. If 98% want product A, it's only rational to ditch the remaining small percentage and focus on the 98, that is if you want to succeed.

You don't show you want products A and expect marketers to know you need product B. If you need product B, you must show it from the go, after all that's what's most important to you.

I don't go gaga over a woman's looks or act like that's the all and be all cos I don't want to send the wrong message. I throw compliments at decent women, like their photos and appreciate their virtues. Why can't other guys do same? Why over glorify slay queens and then turn around to say that's not what you will settle for. I laugh, you better prepare yourself cos that's all that's going to be left if you continue in your stupidity.

If you want decent women, better start appreciating them from the go. You don't expect a plant you don't water to remain alive. It's going to die. Good women are going extinct because they are not encouraged to continue . It's very simple.

If you can't bring yourself to love the virtuous women, then get yourself ready for the repercussions of fawning over curvy queens.

And now and in future, when you meet your waterloo please spare us all the epistles of how all women have gone bad and your irritating self righteousness. And how no man is getting married again bla bla (women are not getting married too again. Many women are beginning to embrace their single lives.) It's all fair and unfair.

{FYI, beautiful and ugly women have been getting married from time immemorial except you have research based statistics to dole out.}

My few cents.

You said caked faces shouldn't matter, and then you said men should be the ones to lead the change. But let me ask you this, who forced you to have great dreams and aspirations in life? Or who made you believe in God? And If your friends do a thing, is there a law that says you must do the same?

Listen, you can either learn a lesson from posts like this, or pick up a fight (Cuz I saw something like stupidity in your response). I wouldn't believe you're against the points made in this post. Which was that, your value as a woman is not about your physical looks, it is who you're, inside. And if you had paid attention to points in the post, you'll see where I stated categorically that a man require his woman to be both the WANTS, and the NEEDS. which means, while you dont base your worth on your look or how good you can pump him, you should look good, while providing the values a man desire. But your value is not between your legs, on your chest or your face and curves. That is the point of this post, nothing else.

So, understand it or leave it. It is not by compulsion.

CarolineOlawale:
How old are you?

Am a young adult, early thirties.

sEGXY2:
I think that's where virtues and compatibility comes in

Exactly! After a night or two, caked faces or bleached skin wouldn't matter anymore........

sEGXY2:
Its funny how men preach about women looking simple yet they go about chasing women with caked face and seemingly flawless skin from bleaching, though I like ma woman looking simple but the truth is all those make up and other beauty enhancers help stimulates physical attraction

Thank God you said physical attraction, after that then what? Read the post again. You said the truth but to what extent do the caked faces matter to most men? Am sure you know the answers.

CaroLyner:
Marriage is the only achievement in Nigeria

Sisi Caro, marriage is not the only achievement, am sure you're in Romance section, and you're not supposed to read about Engineering or business success here. So we are talking about the essence of values in relationship, not career success. If you want to read about That consult business section.

I am almost certain to draw the ire of certain class of girls with this thread, however truth is one gift of Nature sorely underutilized, but that eventually vindicates, if applied.

If you are like me, you would have wondered about the factors responsible for getting a man committed to a woman. While it is not one thing, or one theory, or one factor, there is, to a universal acceptance level, a minimum impression needed by a man. And to be honest, it is not your curves, or your face, neither is it your HEAVILY APPLIED MAKE-UP.

In the few years I've lived, as a young man, I've come around lots of Ladies, and to be honest, it is different stroke for different damsels. While I might, at one time or the other, played the role of a counselor, it is quite confusing to state that having a one-theory-fit-all for relationships is a mirage.

Why are men shying away from Marriage, even when they yawn to settle down in the deep of their hearts? Why would a man date a girl for 10 years and still never propose marriage? This question opens one's eyes to a depressing reality of our time.and here's is the joker: A man can stay committed to you for his own purpose and needs, and not your own purpose and needs.

Confused?

Let me break it down:

Commitment is relative, it is not absolute. If a man sees you as a sex object, or a bed companion, he can stay committed to you for that purpose, for years. It depends on what impression he garners from your lifestyle, your words, your desires and your thirst. If a man think you're only good for sex, he can stay with you for years, so long you serve to solve his sexual needs, but when you think of taking it to next level, he'll change it and let you go.

So I've seen girls taken from one eatery to another, from one shopping mall to the other, and with cash-loaded accounts but that are only sex objects. Not because they want to, but because the impression deciphered from their lifestyle, and look is that of a sex object.

When some girls want to condemn men, they say things like "after having sex with me, he left me". Wake up girl, you know sex is involved before you went into the relationship, so stop bringing that up. Your virtue doesn't lie between your legs, or on your chest, it's whom you are. If all you can give is your virginity or sex or curves, believe me, you have nothing to give

So what do most men want?

Did I hear a girl, someone shout SEX!?

If you say so, YOU'RE VERY CORRECT. all men want sex. But mind what I said, "WANT".

Now to next question;

What does a man NEED?

So, here we are, the point of truth. Where you need to listen and listen goodly. Men look out for two things; their WANTS, and their NEEDS. Are you good enough to be your man's WANT, or his NEEDS. do you satisfy him with what any other girl can give him, or bring into his life what he can't find anywhere else, and would regret if he lost it?

This is the reason ugly girls are getting married, and the queens and princesses of this world remain bed-mates and fun buddies. Your look, your curves and everything you see in the mirror fall totally into the category of WANT. But those virtues, those qualities and Values that his physical hands cannot grab and caress are his NEEDS.

Remember, to hold him forever, you need to have both his WANTS and his NEEDS, but when there is only one option, a man can let go of his wants, in order to keep his needs. You dont want to be the dispensable one.

So you asked, how about all the sacrifices I've been making? And I'll ask you wether your sacrifices include giving him a good show on bed. Girl, that is no sacrifice! Period!
Sex is everywhere but real woman are so scarce. So scarce that men are scared to even approach girls, even when they know they'll get lot of sex.


Take this piece of counsel from me; Be a need, and not a want. Any woman can give a good sex, with the advent of make-up, any girl can look as stunning as possible. It is no more about that. Make yourself a value, a need that is irreplaceable.

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This is the most unintelligent statement ever made by a serving IGP.

Did he really explain anything other than the hausa-fulani bigotry? Nah! Dont think so.

$2.6Billion in less than two years, yet Dasuki is in Jail for $2.1Billion in 5 years. And the most of military hardware we have today was bought by Gej/Dasuki.............

Something is not clear here.

Please someone with a better understand of what billions of dollars mean can help me understand how many Billion Naira that translate to.

It is well.