We humans think we are so special but in fact, we're but a tiny speck in an ever expanding universe. Absolutely insignificant in the grand scheme of things.
But still, we all have our purposes which we must fulfill regardless of how fleeting and insignificant our existences might be.
I don't know who needs to see this but I wrote a small book on freelancing.
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I don't know who needs to see this but I ended up compiling the freelancing seminar into a small book.
I called it The Zero To #250k Freelancing Blueprint
It's a short read and you can read everything within 5 minutes.
It's December 2021 and it's high time people stopped all the trial and error associated with freelancing online.
If you are a newbie who is just learning the ropes, you will see exactly how to set up your freelancing career for success...
And if you're already a freelancer, you will learn some of my top level strategies that I use to get constant daily orders on Fiverr with many offering more than my normal gig rates...
So, if you want to win the war against empty pockets, insufficient funds, and have a successful freelancing career than many dream of but only a few ever attain,
Did you know it's possible to earn up to $500 (#250,000) monthly through freelancing on Fiverr with or without any skill?
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Yes, the economy is terrible, but some people are still living large because they have the right information.
One of such is information about *how to make money through freelancing on Fiverr with or without a skill.* One guy used a secret strategy to create 40 different Fiverr accounts and *He made $500+ in all 40 accounts within 7 days.* That secret strategy is one of the talking points of a free class coming up soon. Wanna know how to make $500/month on Fiverr? Click this link to join the class (only 13 slots left): https://mywa. link/8zboso1v
Did you know it's possible to earn up to $500 (#250,000) monthly through freelancing on Fiverr with or without any skill?
To you, it may sound like a scam or something impossible but it's very possible, and there's a free tutorial coming up on How To Succeed As A Freelancer On Fiverr.
If making money online in dollars (with or without a skill) without sacrificing your time, freedom, and personal dignity sounds good to you, click this link to join the free tutorial: https://mywa .link/8zboso1v
Toks2008: Creating this thread has been on my mind for a long time but for some reasons I kept shelving it but after coming across a thread on front page about a 41 year old single lady asking for advise I think it is about time I drop this.
Now what you are about to read is for ladies who are still single in their late 30s and I will make it as simple and as real as possible...
You will never come across the advise I'm about to give you from pastors or many relationship experts but as many people already know me, I keep it as real as possible. 4. A man who will love you will love you.
Some may say once they are single mums, guys will run from them and YES I agree but this will also attract real men who understand that single motherhood is not a taboo but Infact a proof that a lady is fertile, a proof that she is responsible enough to keep a baby even when they had the choice to abort.. No genuine man will reject a lady cos she is a single mum especially if the child(ren) is her first.
So, in your opinion, men who know what they want and avoid single mothers are not real men?
Such men are also not genuine?
Hahaha...
At first you said it's your opinion, but later, you made it sound like your opinion is a fact.
It's not a fact, neither is it a well thought out opinion.
The truth is, one man's food is another man's poison. Some men mind, others don't. Their choice doesn't validate or invalidate their masculinity...
Your problem is, you're trying too hard to sound reasonable.
I said on another thread earlier that opinions are like buttholes. You have yours, every other person has theirs...
That doesn't mean we should go around trying to shove our buttholes down each other's throats...
sirjamesjnr: There is no sure thing as a sexual quota. And there is no such thing as a ‘hoe’. Men that slut-shaming women are not mature to be in a grown-up relationship. No lady is not accountable to any man for her past. It's none of a man's business.
That lady A has one guy she sleep with when she was 15 till she clocks 30 and married, lady B has a body count of 100 before her 30th birthday. The truth is the two ladies have sex and they don't owe you any explanation.
If you are going to marry for 'purity" look for a virgin girl. Do not condemn a man who wants a team player, homemaker, companion, and someone who can resonate with him. A virgin girl can tick all the boxes agreed. If you found that virgin girl with these qualities good luck. There is a lady out there for every man. Time is hard, while the world is moving forward, the Average Nigerian man is talking about body count. Shouldn't you be worried about a lady who can build a great home with you so your generation won't abuse you? Whether you are wealthy or you are coming up, I will like to think you need a proper woman to build your home with you.
My time in this uncertain world, both in the corporate world and among great minds. What we care about are ladies with decent character, basic moral values, ethics, cleanliness, abilities to accept responsibility, and willingness to learn something good. Never for once within this circle of friends and learned mind do we care about what a woman does with her body. What you do when you are in a relationship with me is what matters.
To that man who is in a decent relationship: I know how you feel. When you develop strong feelings for a girl, it’s hard to think of her being with other guys. Even though you can rationalize that her past relationships happened before you met, it doesn’t make it any easier to accept that there were others who had been intimate with her. But you can’t dwell on this. It will destroy you, and it will destroy your relationship with your girlfriend.
Unless your girlfriend is the kind of girl that is very flirtatious, and who loves all the attention that she can get from guys, you probably don’t have anything to worry about. If she were a “hoe” she wouldn't want to have a decent relationship. So how do you get over this? There are only two things that I know of that you can do:
1. Don’t torture yourself with the details. There is no reason for you to know with whom she did it, how many times they did it, what positions they did it in, how big the guys were, and if they were better in bed than you or not. As tempting as it is to ask her these things—don’t! And stop her from volunteering that kind of information. Knowing these things will not help you or your relationship with your girlfriend in any way. They will only become mental and emotional burdens to you—obstacles and barriers that you will constantly have to overcome in order to treat her the way that she deserves to be treated. You protect yourself and you protect your relationship when you avoid rubbing your nose in her past.
2. Change the way that you look at people. Start realizing that every one of us is screwed up in some way. There are no perfect people. Every single one of us does dumb things and makes mistakes in our quest to find love and belonging. Your girlfriend is no exception. Choose to see her through the eyes of love and compassion, rather than through the eyes of judgment and condemnation.
To our ladies. I have one thing to say to you. You don’t need to apologize for your past relationships, and you don't need to explain yourself to any man. Simply understand that all you need is to be loved by someone, and if it didn’t work out, move on and build your life. Hopefully, your next relationship will work out for you.
Me personally? I’ve never longed to be with a virgin except for an ex and my girl(I am not with her because of sexual purity). I prefer my sexual partners to already know their way around their own sexuality. That means they’ve gotten some practice. Now I understand that as a man you need some certain confidence that some of you may are probably still forming. But when someone says something derogatory about the woman I’ve chosen to love I don’t reconsider my love. I conclude the person saying it is an idiot and ignore them in the future. I have faith in myself which leads me to have faith in the people I choose as partners.
Ladies out there, know the class of men you allow into your life. Be responsible for your actions.
Nice opinion...
But the thing is, "Opinions are like buttholes, everybody has one."
Keep your butthole where it belongs bro, don't be here trying to shove it down our throats...
Guys, What you're doing on this thread is both toxic and degrading to our lovely Nigerian ladies.
I will not stand by and watch you throw unmerited shades at innocent ladies who are only here to contribute to what is supposed to be a meaningful discussion.
Please stop raking our women over the coals before this thread is derailed.
McSaviour: I don’t know why I born in to this evil country!
Bro, nothing is either good or bad in this world because opportunities abound in every situation.
Your inability to get a job should be taken as an intiative to start a business, learn a skill, or just do something.
Waiting for a job can be a waste of time... While you wait, search for other ways to be productive.
If you can at least write simple English and you can search for information on Google, you should consider checking out how to become a copywriter/content writer.
Yesterday I read a story about a guy (let's call him Guy) who walked past a gold mine everyday for 5 years but never made a dime.
Guy is your average Joe, with a half-empty pocket and a bag of dreams.
Dreams of riding nice cars, living in huge mansions, going on luxury vacations in Ibiza, Dubai, and the likes. Guy even secretly wished he could fire his own boss and never have to work another day of his life.
And sure enough, the Universe gave him the perfect opportunity to achieve all of that, but guess what Guy did?
He saw the opportunity every single day, for five years and he just walked right past it every time. Even 1 Kobo no enter hin pocket
Five years later, someone much smarter than Guy has discovered the opportunity and has turned it into an automatic income generator.
That person is YOU Yes, it's you.
Because today, you're reading this message and it contains the link to the gold mine. Here is the link: https://nairarain.com.ng/cprtg Use it now.
PS: The above message is an email copy I wrote for a client for a small $100 fee... Took me around 30 minutes to write... That's how easy and lucrative copywriting can be... But you have to put in some work to become good at it.
CitynewsNG: This is actually funny, revealing and Unbelievable.
A creator praticalised this and it shows how things we see many times may be far from real, as some only packaged things, especially with padded bras and the likes.
Warriboy1236: I wonder why guys come online to write about women doing things that make them unique in some way.
Nigerian Women are very wicked people, this is not a human thing, this may be some societal factor of some sorts.
As a struggling young man, i had joy believing love was there, turned out she was screwing around and even set me up when i found out, i nearly lost my life.
I have seven serious babes, i don't even remember the last time i sent any of them recharge card. If i want, i call them to send and even go as far as asking them to call their ex and deceive dudes into sending them stuffs and money all in the name of meeting up. Some work and some are students that rely on their father and family members or some side dudes... The relationship is serious to them but to me, it's plain life
All relationship is already soiled dude. Drop it.
I have always said it.
Even though society portrays us men as unfaithful pricks devoid of emotions, the truth is all men are pure and simple until a bi'tch happens to us.
The way Nigerian girls behave ehn, any man wey still believe in love suppose get gold statue for Aso Rock.
Guys can I pay 30k for Hookup girl? I am a social study teacher earning 50k per month. Can I pay 30k. She said she will stay overnight.
She is a University student. She looks fresh and is my spec.
Note that I am loaded cuz I just collected my last month salary and she said she will treat me well
More than 40k in my account
What shall I do?
You can pay.
You should make it a monthly thingy.
Since things are so cheap in Nigeria, you can survive on the remaining 20k and be totally fine until you collect your next salary.
But try and negotiate nah, 30k for one night is too much. Tell her that you want to be her regular customer so she should give you a nice discount.
But for real, first of all find yourself a nice little side-hustle that generates passive income. Then you can fuel your lustful desires without having any regrets the morning after the deed.
Your choice should depend on what you're most interested in and what you have the capacity for.
Ask yourself this question before you choose one, "will I still want to continue with this skill even if I don't see any tangible results after 6 months?"
Dizzyish: Please I need advice, any advice. I graduated with a 3rd class in Chemistry from three years ago (I only blame myself for that) and after I finished my NYSC a year ago I just plunged into a depressive state in regards to my mistake (my education) and my future (career) sometimes breaking down in tears when I think of things I've taken for granted in my life.
I started working on myself a few months ago and I've made some progress I proud of but every now and then it's easy to be overwhelmed with self doubt. I made a cv without work experience along with a cover letter a few days ago and applied for a few entry level jobs like graduate intern, sales, restaurant supervisor etc via jobberman and the companies email but I'm not too sure I'll be getting any calls from them. I didn't come here to get sympathy just an honest advice or opinion on what to do.
Can I do a pgd in chemical engineering or just chemistry or pursue a business or computer/tech course, are there jobs I can get with my degree maybe to get skills and work experience? I deeply appreciate any advice. Thank you.
Third class graduate like you. I learnt a skill and started freelancing with it a few months ago.