MrsChima:


Are you married nosy mofo? If you are going to jump into an argument....look first.

A chatter posted a verse from a bible and I responded the above as the tegards to the bible being a Christian thing. What other religions you know reads the bible?

Exactly.

Sorry that this has to come from another woman, but the way you carry this feminism, makes you look like you are angry and frustrated about something. You degrade, attack and insult men at the slightest opportunity, even the ones who happen to be very polite, like the one you replied with this text. Is that what your feminism is about? Hating men and dragging authority in the home with your husband?

I think either of these three things must have happened to you a) you have been badly hurt by a man or men b) you are finding it difficult to get a husband or you had a bad marriage and this has led to your bitterness. c) your father must have hurt your mum previously.

But your bitterness and anger cannot change that which is the norm. If i am married, i ll respect my husband as my head. If you can't then don't get married and keep your frustration to yourself. You arguments are irrational and pointless, you are just dancing from place to place without logic it's embarrassing to descent women here.

I know you ll reply with vituperations, bile and insults. Darling i understand your situation , and i forgive you already, so bring it on.

Incase

We v always known that these bastards were in sambisa forest. The question is why did it take our security agencies this long to invade sambisa? Posterity will judge Gej

Thought and taught

Wow, she must have hurt him so much. Op take heart

Dey r popular, not so fyn. there r beta lukin nairaland guyz nd gals, dey just dnt make noise e.g

https://www.nairaland.com/dicefrost

marieolae:
Ehhh is that suppose to be a good thing lol?

Eh na

danbrowndmf:
1000likes.


Will You Marry Me?.
Am a Good Man.

Good men dnt find wives online

Dicefrost......... Brilliant writer, intelligent dude nd errrrrr handsome.

Missclassy......... Knows alitu about everything


Marieolae........... errrr all d guyz av a crush on her

I hope u v learnt ur lesson. Cheating can b addictive i tell u, even if u regret it, u may do it again

One bitter lesson i av learnt is dat d 'good' guyz arent stupid, dey r just who dey are. Dey can b bad but dey choose 2 b gud. We sometimes miss a gud husband because we r luking 4 adventure.

Ladies, if u find a gud guy, dnt ever let him go.

repogirl:
OP, keep pleading with him but at the same time prepare your mind for the worst.

If he releases the pics and video nko? People will castigate you for a while but eventually they will move on to the next interesting thing.

Strengthen your mind girl, nothing can bring you down if u don't let it, many celebs nudes were leaked recently, they are still living their lives, how much more, you that no one knows?

Girl, keep pleading with him but if the immature i'diot does his worst, take it in stride as you move along.
hope u have learnt from this! Stop distributing yourself, it can have serious repercussions!

Thank you, av learnt enough already, i just want tis to end without losing myself

dicefrost:



Gold digger? Were u taking his money?

He was helping me out with skool fees and stuff 4 a while after my dad died. i can pay him back d money if dats d issue

dicefrost:



Can you prove that d idiot in question has the video? I guess not. Immediately you call for an undertaking, he call in his lawyer, he could claim he has no knowledge of the said video, and the op is trying to set him up after a bad break up. As long as tgis is standing, any undertaking is invalid! He could go to court first. Does op really want the drama? The best option here is to involve the guys family his mum everybody should brg him. He ll respect his mum at least.

I went to his sister today, but he has travelled, for law school. She hates me 2, but she only assured me dat his broda ll not dare release d video or picture. She called him in my present, he denied everything. And d sister belivd him. She has neva liked me frm day 1, she c me as a gold diga or something. I knw his mum ll bliv him 2

I'm going to see his sister today to tell her everything, they can help me beg him or something. i don't know if it's a gud idea

modelmike7:
........ Sure she is an annoying cheat, sure it is all her fault and she knowa all this, she is lookin for a solution now, which is more of a 50/50 thing, it is either she got the solution here or she carry her cross! Its a two way thing, I know she has learnt her lesson.... Op, are u still in sch or a grad? Cos if u r stl in sch, I knw u will still do dis over and over again?!

I just graduated

modelmike7:
........... Still more like the same area then. Are you on good speaking terms with any of his close pal?

Yes I'm close to his frnd, but dey knw i cheated on him.

theplanmaker:



Lol u tink its everyone d police can just arrest and toture? Wat if dey find nothing on him? Or u tink he is so dumb? Judt let naughty lady pay 4 her sins jhor

Im not going to d police please, I'm begging

modelmike7:
........ Another town in the same state you mean? Or another town in another state?

The same state, less than an hour away

theplanmaker:
When you hurt some so much, it's only fair they take a bite from you too. He ll just blackmail u 4 more sex, being d biitch u r, I'm sure u won't av a problem wit dat

Plss i beg u

modelmike7:
.......... You moved to another state or another area in the same town? The solution may come outta here.

Another town

Samfigo1:
Are you the only one in the video? If he exposes you, he's exposing himself...
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But wait o...are you a dog? What breed?

I dnt blame u, i probably deserve d insult

SeverusSnape:

Simple!...go to a police station,report him to them and give them his address, they'll go there without you, arrest him, bring him to the station, interrogate him;if necessary torture him,believe you me, He'll surrender everything, I trust the NPF on this one.

I'm scared of dis, he is not someone d police can just wisk away

modelmike7:
.......... Sure, rightly so! You tormented him and that is what he is doing to you as well....... Do you live in the same vicinity with him or you are both far apart?

We use to live in the same town, but i hav moved

missberrypop5:
Tell him to send me the video, then i will confirm if this Good night story is true. Oh, he's a nairalander, mention his name.

Pls i won't com hereto waste anybody's time. I only registered because of dis. If i put his username won't i b d one lukin 4 trouble?

SeverusSnape:
Your first post, I see you registered just to get solutions to your problem.

Report to the police, simple!...Let them confiscate all the footages. You can't do it on your own.

Bros i thought of d police option, wat if he saves dem somwere nd delete it frm his fone? Bside if i arrest him, pepo ll ask wat hapnd, dstory will spread.

modelmike7:
This is a very serious issue! I really feel your pain girl, I won't like to start castigating you for the heinous act you commited by cheating on your guy, I will only like to comment on the solution to your predicament, the only thing you can do is to keep begging him and let him know how so sorry you are, (tho I know how I will feel assuming it is a girl that did that to me anyway), tho assuming he even let u know he has deleted all, what is the assurance that he hasn't transfer it to another medium while making you believe he doesn't have it anymore? It is a very dicey situation you have put yourself into girl. I just pray he is the forgiving type, if not, I really feel for you for the consequence of your unfaithful act. I pray he forgives you and let you move on with your life, cos if not, I know some very crude actions some other girls will take to cover up this kinda act, it could actually take lives, which I don't pray this escalate to! So just keep begging him so he can have a change of heart!!! Some holes aren't just loyal!!!

I have been begging, i have cried, av knelt down, he just doesn't say anything. It's like he is tormenting me on purpose

I dated my ex for about 2 years, somewhere along the line i started cheating on him. It's not like i didn't love him then, i just don't know what came over me. Somehow he found out when he saw a conversation between me and the guy i was cheating with. I begged him, he forgave me. It kinda happened again, and the guilt was too much to bear, so i broke up with him despite his pleas cos i felt he deserved better. He invited me over, and begged me to have sex with him one last time,. I didn't know he recorded the whole thing. He later showed me the video, and some nude pictures of me on his bed. He didn't say why he did it, or what he was going to do with the pictures and videos. But I'm terrified, i can't sleep at night knowing that a guy that now hates me that much has my nude pictures and a sex video. Please i need help, what do i do? What if he starts to blackmail me? I have begged and begged, he refused to delete them. i know i am a bad person, and i regret everything i did please forgive me, i know you are on nairaland plssss