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I noticed you hadn't been active on nairaland for a while but didn't think it was because of certain challenges and now this.
Wow, am still in shock and also my heart weeps.
I will miss you soldier.
RIP Hungerbad.

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pls people, before calling her a liar, do a research on it.
I heard this from a friend before now and like most of you, thought she was lying until I did a research on it.
It's possible but rare.

Abagworo:
So emotional. The girl must have a good heart

Of course her heart is, if it were damaged, she wouldn't be there

come Holy Spirit, I need you come sweet Spirit I pray. come in your strength and your power come in your own special way.

enemyofprogress:
Welcome back bro


Abeg make una show me some love today is my birthday

Fear no go gree me show enemyofprogress love o. no vex abeg.
Nevertheless, happy birthday!!

Omoluabi16:
At worst, there will be voter apathy in the South east. Election will go on in other parts of the country. A winner will be declared.. whoever wins will NEVER grant a referendum or Biafra. And kanu will be in Israel granting press statements. These dunderheads just do not understand workings of politics.

You are very right my brother, these ipob guys keep acting like touts and miscreants.
How in the hell will they be granted Biafra with this kind of display.
Please note:- Not every Igbo person want Biafra.
Imagine the way they bullied their fellow Igbo people. How then would Biafra be.

SonyObsessed:
Please speak for yourself you dimwit. Which Africans have always been anti-gay. Before your forefathers were born, majority of Africans have always been gay and they still are. No one is bringing anything to Nigeria, a lot of Nigerians and Africans have been gay/bisexual before Obama even legalized it in the US. Please get educated or shut up.

Personally, I don't give a cow's dung if u are gay but pls don't come near me thinking of my ass, cos I would nearly kill u.
Secondly, saying majority of Africans have always been gay is a bloody, fat, n a big lie, gays are in d minority.
Thirdly being gay had never been tolerated, do u think straight guys just started kicking against ppl who are gay?
That being said, the law of d land ( Nigeria to be precise), frowns at gays and their filthy activities. If u are gay, just to respect yourself n live peacefully, quietly leave Nigeria n go to any other country.
#SAYNOTOGAYS.!!!!!!

contigiency:
That is the sorry situation we are in. they claim they want the country moving forward, but they hate the truth on why the country can't move forward if managed by those who have held it at ransom and looted the resources in the past.

They had been agitation for a youth to come forward, they hated buhari because he is old and also a fulani man. Today, we have youths in other parties other than APC and PDP, nobody is talking about those ones. They rather prefer another old fulani man called Atiku. So one would ask, what the real reason for hating buhari other than that he has refused the mindless looting of the national treasury.

You are right, we have other younger men in parties other than the PDP and APC, but I'd like you to be realistic.
Can these younger men successfully win votes from the North?
You also said the reason for the hatred for Mr president, is that he has refused mindless looting of the national treasury.
Well I think the reason is he lacks knowledge on how to move a nation forward economically( He is a monumental failure actually).
Need I ask, who are the current people in the APC? were they not former PDP members that also helped in destroying this nation.
Oga the both parties are corrupt, we simply want the common man to smile again and as it stands Buhari and the APC can't achieve that.

oyeb15:
Why are Biafra people now interested in Nigeria they once call zoo, try to break away from ,kidnapped her people,cause confusion in.

Ibos hate South West. They only adore rebels from d region such as Fayose. Haven't seen an Ibo man praise omoluabis like Awolowo, Tinubu, Fasola, Fayemi, Osinbanjo ,Adesina etc


PDP will surely win in Nigeria media by 98%

APC will win on the election day.


Let's enjoy d noise of our Biafra brothers on loudspeaker while Atiku waste some money.
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Contrary to what you have just said, I don't think Ibos hate d Yorubas, it's just u guys here on nairaland that keep propagating hate speeches n nothing is being done about it. Didn't d Ibos vote for Obj?
What merits about Buhari did u people consider before voting him in? Under which party was d late Yar'adua ?
Bros if we continue like this without considering the common good of the nation n shun tribalism, n pass this hatred for other tribes down to our unborn kids, we might not be able to stay together as a nation in future ( am referring to both Ibos n Yorubas)
#nationalinterestfirst.
SHUN TRIBALISM!!!!!

This isn't new, the church has been doing this continually for years now. GOD will continue to bless the Bishop. nice one Papa

Very good of Buhari to declare June 12 democracy day, but u guys are quick to forget how he tarnishes Nigerians in the eyes of international communities.
Do you remember "lazy Nigerian youths" ?
If you wanna vote him in again with all the nonsense going on in d country, no p.
I will respect your decisions but we all dey here abi?
whatever happens after that, pls do not complain!!
A DECLARATION DOESN'T MEAN ALL IS WELL IN THE COUNTRY!!!
People dying everyday, hunger everywhere, loss of jobs, dollar rate, increase in prices of food stuffs etc.

Ellabae:
Nobody wants poverty.

hmmm!! Nobody wants poverty ba?
wait till he sees this.

Ellabae:
Nobody wants poverty.

hmmm!! Nobody wants poverty ba?
wait till he sees this.

400billionman:
Ogun is in South West Nigeria,, check the Map

lol, you guys won't kill me on nairaland.
I wasn't expecting this comment.

whether the owners of those cars report to the station or not, they still will be needed for questioning to help investigate and probably catch the robbers, that's one.
If those robbers had the mind to kill a lot of innocent ppl, the owners of those cars could be dead.
The important thing here is to CATCH THOSE BASTARDS!!!! and tear them into two halves using horses.

Opoki:
Thank God he's good at reporting, that's enough, Sai Baba has no good record.

Yes, no good record but you voted him in.
We actually wrote, sang, wailed and told you guys that Buhari wasn't it back then but you wouldn't listen.
How can I trust your judgment of character now, sorry that guy can't have my vote.

Meant no harm quoting you bro.

HBD woman of GOD, you have written many inspirational books and you are a role model to many.
May GOD continue to bless, keep and protect you in JESUS name.
GOD bless.
#mynewdawn.

superhumanist:
Are you related to ishi-love? This your gra-gra is something else!

Please learn to admit mistakes. They have every right to protest. Taxi drivers have been getting a bad rep for some time now and this latest ra*pe accusation is the straw that broke the camel's back. They didnt just p
rotest because of just one ra*pe case but for many stereotypes and unfair accusations against them.

Calling them !diots just makes it look like you didnt think before commenting

my brother you said it all, she really didn't think b4 commenting.
How can someone just spew thrash without even thinking hard.

beautiful232:
the truth is,this texify,and uber drivers,they are someone husband,someone boyfriend,someone brother.I'm so sure lot of them have good certificate but because of no job the decided to drive instead of stealing or doing Yahoo,let's try and show them some respect when we call for their service.Peace.

Awww, beautifully said, splendid my dear.
you have a beautiful heart just like ur name implies, GOD bless u for this piece.

Didn't really wanna comment, but we all are not children.
1) Do you think the guy would relent after d kiss in d bathroom, where they were both semi unclad?
2) That very day would see d guy ban**** the hell out of the babe at night when we will not know or see.
Bottom line, if I were d guy, just move on, don't have time for promiscuous girls.

bebe2:
TO ALL U SIDING WITH THIS TAXIFY DRIVER, WAT HAPPENED TO THIS LADY WILL HAPPEN TO UR DAUGHTER,NOT UR SISTER oooo, BUT UR PRECIOUS LITTLE GIRL.

AM SO HAPPY SHE WAS ABLE TO THINK FAST AND SCREAM THAT LOUD , SOME PPLE WOULD HAVE FROZEN IN FEAR AND JUST FOLLOW ALL ORDERS, ITS 12am THE DARKNESS ALONE IS ENOUGH TO PUT THE FEAR OF GOD IN ANYONE.

NIGERIA IS A SHITHOLE AND READING THE COMMENTS HERE JUST PROVED SOME OF THE PPLE THERE HAVE SHIT BRAINS. U GUYS DESERVE THAT COUNTRY.

So u had to place a curse on people who decided not to believe her story, right?
Well, we shall see whom that curse will fall upon.
SMH

She was recording the event, yet it didn't show she was afraid, she was so calm when the driver went to open the gate.
Mind you if he meant to rape her, he wouldn't call her a ritualist.
Am just trying to add up issues here.
It was when he grabbed her that she started screaming. hmmm

Dcholeric:
instead of typing trash ...I think you should read the OP ..oh also read the first thread.

only the line where you ASSUMED the OP was bringing naija style into the marriage fit make me break your head at the expense of spending my life in a cell. to even think that you blindly accuse the guy of being an handicap makes me very sick.
take the break down .
according to the OP before your useless assumptions.

The wife neglects the home cause of her school.
The OP is also a student but tries to remember his home at his best

The wife doesn't want to work but she is bent on getting a degree.
The OP is doing his best to provide for his family and he is also a student.

The wife wants a business and a very good degree but doesn't want to work.
The OP is struggling with his school and his work and a demand for 10k dolls for his wife's business and also to provide for his home.

the wife is now a graduate but still refuses to work and also demand for 10k dolls and doesn't want sex or love making.
the OP is still a student but has to provide for his family and has to sort 10k dolls issue and sex denial issue.

just say the OP cheated and he should be sorry he did. forget the crap you wrote.

LMFAO, bros abeg no break his head, he may be high or just check out his profile name.

glogirl:
Saadd.
@OP,

can you just forget about yourself and put yourself in her shoes?

you have been married for 5 years...
she lost her mom 1 year into your marriage..
within the remaining 4 years, she had 3 kids...
Relocated to america(for you), away from family and friends and the stability she had in nigeria...
took up schooling...caring for the kids... taking care of the home...do you provide enough support in all this?


all you can do is look at her and not see the girl you married.. of course you should not see the girl you married.. you should see a wife that has made sacrifices for you and borne 3 of your children..a woman that is strongly supporting you....

Poster, she was overwhelmed..and you do not want to see or understand her(i am sure she has communicated this to you), may be if you loved yourself less, you will notice/listen to your spouse.

and then you crowned it all by cheatingg.. Of course she knows, she is not a fool... and then she realizes that she cannot trust you with her body, her heart and most of all, the rest of her life...

so she made the ultimate decision.. to stand tall , move back to nigeria and fend for herself and her children...

please note these...

while you are both toiling to make a living, keep her smiling... tease her, tickle and play while in the kitchen before you ask for sex in the bed.. she is not a generator that starts with a key... maybe you need to warm her up first..

to maintain a happy home while cheating or being selfish is not easy. Every man is doing it they say, but they will not tell you the state of their homes,cheating changes the psyche of a woman , especially one that loves you..................................

connect with your wife, if she is cold to you as usual, talk to her about her fears, her worries, does she even sleep well or night, or does she toss and turn, do u even notice?

talk to her, if it turns into a shouting match or a cold discussion, write to her.. keep writing.. in fact writing is the best... she can go back to it and reread......

i have soo much to advise , but what do I know? Maybe you both are better off apart...

God will help you

This is excellent!!
kudos dear, kudos.
well said

op, from earlier post u made it quite clear that u didn't find ur wife attractive anymore but u still loved her, well as a man, I'd say that's a lie, if she is no more attractive to u, u can't by any means still love her, u only had respect for d marriage.
She is a human being, n as such would have known from ur attitude ( no matter how much u tried to conceal it).
The earlier we guys know that women are intelligent d better for us. Am not saying she doesn't have a fault but as a man u lead, she follows.
Get to ur wife n save ur marriage.
I don't wanna say much.
I already feel sad about d situation.
May GOD give u wisdom n heal ur home.