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frozen70:
You never can tell, run a test and have your BP checked

Noted

frozen70:
Go for sperm count test
Mobidity test
Mophology test all this is done with a simple sperm test

Check your sugar levels

Have you been on any medication or drugs of late

Men from 40yrs and above could experience erectile dysfunction and can be corrected with drugs

Do you masturbat
Have your mind be worried for some days prior to your noticing it

None of the above mentioned factor unless in the aspect of being worried and stressed/depressed for atimes as a man one may be prompted into "over thinking'" may be financial challenges and the way things are going. That's all

Ammishaddai:
You may have to see a doctor. And by the way, what is your age range?

Early 40's and this just started recently, precisely more than a month now

I just discovered that my sexual performance has drastically dropped from 30 to 45 min before I can ejaculate to atleast 5 to 19 min. I don't know what is the cause and this may affect our love life as my partner by her body language is not happy over the situation even though she will not openly tell me for I know that one of the things that made our love stronger is good bed performance and lasting long before ejaculation which she commended on several occasions and showers me with lovely names.

Now I don't know what is happening that no sooner that we will start love making than I will ejaculate immediately and it will take a long before the rod stand up again. Please advise

Their room is okay and the bed is comfortable. Nothing is wrong in their room.

I am only asking as part of parenting training or lecture or anything we can call it- to get knowledge for nobody knows all and to know if I am doing the right or wrong thing. The children are males not females.So I am just asking whether there are age limit one will tell or enforce children to sleep on their own and mind their own room or is it a normal thing to just leave it.

Please at what age should male children stop sleeping in same bed with their mother or is such act okay and normal.

The children have their own room and bed but most often prefer sleeping in the mother's room while the father will be in the other room.

pelusi:
Marriage is a sacred institution. However the rate of adultery seem to be on the increase among couples. In some cases, when a man that is doing well started having some challenges and setback,in most cases some attest that if married woman commits adultery,it can have an adverse effect on the husband whether the woman confessed to the husband or not or the husband discovered by himself or not, others also assume that even if a married woman is sleeping with as many men as possible,such has no effect on the progress of the husband that all you need to do is just pray and seek for forgiveness.Most tribes and communities by tradition do have some attributed side effect on the husband if such happens.
What are the effects to the man whose wife slept with another man(men)

sorry i made a mistake posting this on Politics section. It suppose to be at the family section. Admin ,Please can you help me and direct it to Family section. Thanks.

Marriage is a sacred institution. However the rate of adultery seem to be on the increase among couples. In some cases, when a man that is doing well started having some challenges and setback,in most cases some attest that if married woman commits adultery,it can have an adverse effect on the husband whether the woman confessed to the husband or not or the husband discovered by himself or not, others also assume that even if a married woman is sleeping with as many men as possible,such has no effect on the progress of the husband that all you need to do is just pray and seek for forgiveness.Most tribes and communities by tradition do have some attributed side effect on the husband if such happens.
What are the effects to the man whose wife slept with another man(men)

A case of a Lady snatched ones husband using honey pot with better 4.k is in the offing.The wife should wake up and stand against it before it become a story. The power of pu.ssy cannot be emphasized. For you to go for away match just few months apart is condenmable.Its very bad.Please its better you tell her to avoid a story that touches.Pu.ssy is a powerful tool that has broken many union

Nothing this nairaland wont see.So this man is boldly telling us a married woman love him and he love her?. Be sincere to yourself,if this woman say she want to marry you,I am sure you wont agree,but you can agree to put your prik inside her- another mans property

Please,this is meant to be a mature discussion especially for the mature mind irrespective of the heading of the topic because this has generated a lot of debate among friends.

A lot of people especially men folk has argued that the best and easiest way to have a woman fall for you in love and open her leg for you is to give her money/gifts,that most women feel Hot for any man that spends on them and quality sex is so easy to get from such women.That the man need not to even toast some of them anymore as their body language speaks all once such offer iare tendered to them.All their mind will be on you and that they are willing to dump their hubby or boyfriend for you or cheat on them.

On the other hand,not giving money or gift to women generates their lack of interest on you and results to dry pussy and hardly can such woman fall in love with you let alone have deep sexual feelings on you or getting a quality sex from her.

Please how true are these statements?

Papasmal:
U don marry mammywater na.....ur destiny don dey evaporate small small.

My destiny can never be evaporated

Se.x is like daily food for me and my spouse.She is so sexy and both of us have high sexual drive(libido) that we make love almost on daily basis at any point in time anywhere in the house,even in kitchen,she may be cooking and on sighting her booty,i will quickly insert my di.ck and she too will respond and enjoy it as well.She can also grab my di.ck at any time and quickly insert it by herself.pre-intimacy is never in our dictionary because our body is every ready.Both of us dont used to be tired of it.Seeing her fair complexioned beautiful sexy body alone,eye,face,laps,booty,boobs,pants,etc ,my di.ck will stand immediately that i can never resist her.She is so beautiful and sexy that no matter what she wear,on seeing her,i must be struggling with my erected di.ck to calm down but to none,let alone if she happen to be naked.To compound the whole issue,she too has a high libido and also love and feels se.x so often.The one that used to got me angry about this matter is that even if we had little misunderstanding,i will say within my mind that i wont make love with her or talk to her,but will stay on my own,but no sooner will i make that decision than i will break it immediately and start having sex with her even when it is clear she is the cause of the misunderstanding.I may wake up and see her,but before i know it my di.ck is already up like agama lizard.Honestly i dont know how to go reduce this act,ours is like a case of high libido man with a sexy beautiful irresistible high libido lady. Atimes i will decide instead of approaching her for sex,l will masturbate,yet during masturbation i will be recalling everything about her,yet that did not solve the matter as after sometime i will still come back to her.No thanks to sexy beautiful woman.I have tried in every way to reduce the rate at which we have sex regularly,but to no avail.Its too much,Please what shall i do.Please help.

Where are my Yoruba brethens that ganged up with the North and voted out GEJ to put President Dullard and evil APC.We are watching.#GEJmyHero

Pls who knows the days eye patients are attended to at General hospital Marina,Lagos.I don't think they have a website as I have searched for their contact numbers but to no avail.

Ejaculate:
The big clit is very sensitive but very dangerous for a careless shooter

Hmmm

A friend of mine insists that women with big sized clitoris has a higher sexual urge,wet easily,demands sex more and consumes more(hardly satisfied),and enjoys sex more than the opposite.In order words,the uncircumcised ones to the circumcised.That you don't need to have even a long foreplayand romance with them before sex,that once you touch the necessary place,instantly they will wet immediately with fluid all over ready and begging for you to insert your sim card and start the action and they can moan at a higher rate.They are really enjoyable on bed than the opposite.He gave example of two ladies among the women he had sex with who fell into this category as a confirmation. Please how true is it.

Acidosis:
Na wao, have you tried to ask her?

Sometimes I wonder whether people actually marry strangers or their friends. Someone has been calling your wife, and the best place to demand answers is Nairaland?

Brother, she is your wife, ask her about it and ask for the TRUTH. If you indeed married the right woman for you, she will tell you all you need to know. Failure to say the truth means you married the wrong woman. If the latter is the case, then get ready for more troubles.

This is not jealously or low self-esteem, it is called "enquiry/inquiry".

Thanks.

Almajiri1:
You need to man up and take control of your home.She could have a pure mind while the mystery guy is scheming to have a taste of your lawfully wedded wife.

You need to get to the root of this mystery and solve it.I always see people's wives as a reflection of who they are.

Thanks

keepingmum:
This man again, please people read through his previous posts. You seem to be a VERRRRYYYY insecure man
- You married the woman and didnt pay her dowry
- Una fight tire
- She reminds you to pay her dowry years after yet you no gree pay
- You tell her to leave, she pack leave you begin complain say you no know where she pack go
- You feel she has a high sex drive
- You believe you are not man enough in bed
- Now, its is another man is calling your wife on the phone.
- Tomorrow it will be another man is looking at your wife when she goes out

Abeg, i cant advise you i get the one wey de do me, which good samaritan will sow £10000 into my life?

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You are more than stu.pid since your job is how to check peoples post than addressing the issue raised.Lazy stu.pid amoeba.All posts posted by all OP's is from him/her.Keeping on searching all nairalanders past posts,thats shows how idle and jobless you.

For some weeks now,i notice that one man do call my wife like five times daily and anytime i happen to be arround and the call enters she would not pick it and if the caller persists on calling,she will pick it and be shouting hello hello..,poor network.This act prompted me to begin to look deep into her phone to check her call logs,only to discover the man used to call her like five times daily especially when i am not in the house,likewise she calls or flashes the man atimes.All those while till now i did not ask her about who the man is and their regular calls and conversation.She is from same tribe with the man and i dont understand their language even if she manage pick the calls in my presence say one thing and start shouting hello hello ...poor network or cut the call.I am no longer comfortable with this and begin to suspect her.What should i do?.Please advise.

We have ONLY one TV station in Nigeria and that is Channels tv. For some that are asking why them for 10th time,pls start today n be listening to Ch*nnels and other TV,u will see and know why

MrsPhyno:
That's better than loving you for ur money na, assuming u have any

Most NL guys are praying for this kind of story

Yes ooo,that's what bond our love together oo.I beleieve most men have what sticks them to ladies-character,beauty,shape,well endowed.Look at oshomole and some politicians and most rich men,have u ever take a look at their wives,but in d end,we still call it true love.Same applies to many ladies that attached or married their respective men,there must be something that made them stick to d man,but at d end they still say it is true love.Ours is d story above and it is also true love,...lol as it is bonding us together and we are happy.

Nelgenius4me:
Your wife telling why she married you is not out of place. Love is nothing more than a coincidence of interest-you married her because of her beauty and other attributes and likes wise she married you because of the good sex you give her. No need to worry your head over the admiration she gets from men. I will advise you to improve yourself and stand tall in the league of well to do husbands.

On point!. Thanks

My wife boldly told me that the only thing that made her marry me and keep the marriage is because of the strong thing i have in between my legs and how i bang and fully satisfies her on bed,that i neither have money nor a handsome guy and character wise not i that i am not average.She said that her past relationship is not as strong as mine bedwise,and that having known that she is sexually active and atimes prefers it more than food and consumes more, hence she needed a strong man that can meet up her demand and since she confirmed that mine is big strong,reliable and 24/7 dependable,so she stick to me irrespective that i dont have money or handsome,thats all.I responded to her as if it was a shocking statement to me but deep inside me,i know that what she is saying is true because some ladies i dated before equally confirmed it.Most times,people find it difficult to believe that i am the one marrying her or how this lady accepted marrying this man-she is very beautiful,very sexy,well learned,hardly can she pass any man than that man will not look back to her again.She can be likened to the type that if big politicians set their eyes on,they are willing to spend anything money to have her,behold that is the kind of lady that fell to me.The number of men that eyes and toasts her despite being married because of her beauty is so worrisome that atimes it gives me sleepless night.She is a queen and an epitome of beauty and a lot of people will begin to think whether i used charm to hold her,but its only me and she that knows the secret.However,my concern is,is her statement not a costly one? does she truly love me or the love is based only on my banging efficiency? and is this a true love or lust ?,can this affect the union? and can good banging induce true love?

@ OP, I said d solution na to send her back to d father house n have ur peace.They no born my wife to be acting like n still with me.Alternatively u can take her for deliverance,I guess she may be possessed....,to break familiar spirits n spirits of unstable marriage,that causes looking outside n chasing men arround.She is materialistic and a di.ck lover.The worst thing that can happen to any man is to marry a Liar, unfaithful or possessed wife,and in case u don't know,such woman brings badluck to d husband.U can hardly leave this kind woman and travel for long without her messing up with men,quote me anywhere.Nothing can be compaired to marrying a decent and responsible lady from a responsible family.Sorry bros!

I dont think shouting and beating a child is the best way to scold/raise a child.Shouting and beating in itself is a sign of irresponsible act and doesnt speaks well for a mature responsible dude.You are pouring anger on the innocent child and you may not know when you mistakenly beat or shout the child beyond expectation.You are putting fear on the child and harming him more.Correct your child politely with love, and in much learned and lively way.

Hmmm,though its a source of help to d family,but its not d best job so far depending on if she is d lose or materialistic type n doesn't have fear of God n can easily fall to some of this Randy men who dont have sincere business to give her but rather on how to lure her,flash her with material things to sleep and useless her,n promise her heaven and earth,just to have their. Imoral way,turning a private thing into public one.(Pls I m not insulting ur post)but talking from experience sombody has.For me,d job is prone to infidelity,what we see outside is not what happens inside d job,just like banking own u mentioned.Think wisely!.All d best!

Please is there any symptoms one can use to detect if your fellow male friend,room mate etc is a gay?

Please what business can somebody that lost his job can start with five hundred thousand naira.This will serve as the source of income and has to put all his focus and time on it and forget about searching for new job.kind suggestion please.

cocoberry: I had a lying boyfriend back den, whom I loved soo much, he lies unnecessarily, couldn't stand him, I walked out of d relationship painfully.

Only somebody who have experienced this kind of thing will know its one of the worst kind of experience in relationship or marriage.Good that you walked out on time.