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I traveled outside the country for 8 months now while my family is in Nigeria.

Now I will be returning to Nigeria next week. For this 7 months, I kept myself and did not mess around(slept) with any woman.

However, it's not that I don't trust my wife, but atimes I have an instincts that she may not hold herself like I did and may have fallen in hands of men.

Where I come from, it's an abomination for any married woman to sleep with another man because of the dare consequences it has on the husband of the adulterous woman.

Now I'm coming back soonest,I'm scared if she has slept with another man and I was suggesting before sleeping with her to sit her down and ask her to sincerely tell me if she has fallen in my absence,so that necessary things(cleansing) can be done before I sleep with her.

On the other hand, I'm reasoning whether asking her such will cause a misunderstanding in the marriage.

Please advise on the best way to go about this.

Women here should educate us on whether a big sized penis or constant s3x by woman can expand the vagina or not. Or what can make a vagina to suddenly expand from what it was before. Let's start from there.

farous:
Please which of the three Presidential Candidates has more of Agberos and touts are his core supporters and campaigners?

A. Atiku Abubakar of PDP
B. Obi of L.P.
C: Tinubu of APC

Please be sincere and select wisely as such will also define the type of person such a presidential candidate also signifies.

You should also add corrupt politicians.

That is :Agberos,Touts,corrupt politicians


Answer: Tinubu of APC (100% correct answer)

Having seen the handwriting on the wall, their Agbado/Cassava Presidential Aspirants have resorted to sending some of them on training on how to rig the election as the only option to play out.

All right thinking Nigerians should embark on anti rigging plan of Tinubu.

That has been the sole agenda of Buhari and his fulani Jihadists and they have almost achieved 90% of their plan. It's only waiting for the D-day for the take over to be executed.

VoteTinubu2023:
Orton is a lightweight.

Despite his Fulani cries against Buhari in 2019.

He only won his state narrowly for PDP.


Vote Tinubu-Shettima 2023. Vote APC.

Confused payroll urchin that don't know even when his own shadow left him

Tinubu is the one floating Kwankwaso. Many may doubt this but take it or leave it. Just like the game Tinubu played during presidential primaries where he secretly planted most aspirants by purchasing the presidential form for them with the purpose of stepping down at the the kast minute in convention ground(It was well planned ).

That's same thing he is using Kwankwaso to do during Presidential election. TINUBU'S game plan is to use Kwankwaso divide Southern votes(mostly Christians) against Obi and that's why he chose a Southern Christian (Bishop).

Then divide Northern votes against Atiku by ensuring that he collapsed all his (Kwankwaso) supporters who are supposed to vote for Atiku to vote for him (Tinubu).- all Kwankwaso supporters he is gathering will vote for Tinubu. Take this or leave it!.Once the deal is achieved. Atiku and Obi are out.

Whether you believe this or not, but this is an already established secret fact that will come to play.

Tinubu and his co-corrupt sponsors employed many urchins on their payroll and mandated them to create atleast 20 nairalands account each person and must be online all time (rotation) and ensure they attack any post about Obi.

Even if he like, let him employ one million online urchins. Obi is unstoppable and he ( Tinubu) know that no sensible Nigerian can vote an old corrupt certificate, identity/she selfish drug baron as he is.

Is this one news?. Special adviser decamping to APC is news?. Tinubu simply offered him one housing Estate in Lagos and handed him over other avenue of making dollars in Lagos. He ensured the Adviser that even if he works as adviser to Governors all through his career life that he can't match up chicken money he will get with what he is offering him. The adviser quickly decamped

All I keep telling people is that IF NOT OBI, THEN LET IT BE ATIKU, BUT FOR TINUBU -NO NO NO NO NO!!!. That means among the three top contenders and others:

First choice: Peter Obi
Second choice: Atiku Abubakar
Third choice: None
Fourth choice: None
Fifth choice: None

It is very ridiculous that people will be leaving a RULING PARTY when in normal sense of it, it is supposed to be the opposite. Evil corrupt failed party/administration

How can people be leaving a RULING PARTY

May God in heaven bless this man of God. This man of God mean well for this nation. He boldly said it all. What a must watch video.

Why is it that anywhere the evil party call APC win, it will be with a wide margin

I think this Opinion deserve front page for people to share their own opinion

Tinubu ,sorry Yekini Amoda paid nairaland urchins have disappeared over this topic.

Nonsense talk from Yekini Amoda. The old evil most corrupt selfish age/Certificate scammer that intentionally want to cause crisis among Christians and Moslems

farous:
I have noticed that people don't talk much any longer about Tinubu (APC) and Atiku (PDP) both online and offline (physical). I most cases i observed that some feel discouraged and no longer bold enough but shy away and in most instances are afraid to mention in the public (gathering) that they belong to APC or PDP let alone Campaigning for any of the two Preseidential candidates (Tinubu & Atiku) publicly. Why?

Honesty I observed same. Probably the #NewNigeriaEffect#

Corrupt senile Tinubu and his co evil plotters hired millions of hungry selfish Youths to always be online and standby on social media to counter any statement against them and speaks good of him. Shame!!!. Are we truly ready to revive this country that a human being in his or her normal senses will ever dream of Tinubu to be president of Nigeria?

Unbelievable!!!.

And some gullible,shameless and corrupt like him are still supporting him for presidency. Some people are not interested in delivering this country. It's a pity

It's not a good idea to engage in borrowing of money to sort out unavoidable household expenses but most times one has to engage in it if you have no option and have the opportunity. Again it's never an easy experience to beg a friend to borrow you money, many will turn you down that you may regret why voicing it out to him,/her in the first place.
There is this loan app that I used to loan money from and I noticed that for some time now, they have increased their interest rate that to loan N20,000 and pay in one month time will attract N24,000. That is interest of N4,000 which is 20% interest of the principal amount and N30,000 will attract around N6,000 or more.

Is this not on the high side and considering that these money are more often used to augment family upkeep. Please do you know of another loan giving company/app with lower interest rate?, I am fed up with the higher interest rate.

Since my Partner started her recent job, everything concerning our sexual and material life has reduced drastically. By 5am she has started preparing and left house at most 6am and back to house between 9pm to 10pm because of traffic and once she entered house and managed and took her bath and eat,the next thing is to the bed and slept off so tired and exhausted. The next thing is waking up and start preparing for work again. No more time for discussion let alone to make love as she don't even know when I am touching her or initiating sex let alone to respond to it. I will wake her up over and over and roll her here and there to initiate action, ...for where, no response.She don't even feel sex again unless before she started the job,it was always a good fun. Infact this time around things has fallen apart

The work entails Monday to Saturday. Even on Sunday she hardly go to church service as she will still be on the bed till even those that went to service came back and before you know it,preparation in readiness for work for the new week(Monday) has started

No more time for love making and discussing important matter as couple thereby making "konji" to be disturbing me signalling a temptation to start looking for outside.

What should I do. Should I stop her the work.Please advise.

Do you know that some ladies are already wet inside on watching this pic?. True or false

farous:
I don't believe in the general saying of most people that " men are polygamous in nature". I have interacted with a man who told me that he has never for one day as a married man seen any woman and started having sexual feelings /lusting over her except his wife.

He went ahead and explained that he would have suspected whether the wife did one thing or the other to him for any woman never to look attractive before him let alone having feelings for any other woman expect she,but on the other thought, that the wife has everything in a woman -Good character, very beautiful woman,more than good in bed and ever ready for it, that most times he is the one that runs away from sex and that she is very supportive. That may be it's all these qualities that made him never dream of looking outside let alone having feelings for any of woman or engage in extra marital affair.

We begin to ask, what exactly make men to engage in extra marital affairs-sleeping around with other women apart from their wives?. Share your views.

Sexual feelings and satisfaction, varieties.How do you feel eating only one type of soup all the time?

depure:
Hear this it will help you.
Firstly before the main job try and have pre-intimacy with her finger her very well..make sure she scream heaven down before you start the main job.....you are not satisfying ur wife that is what I observed in your story....make her cum she will definitely tell you is okay...

Don't hurt yourself because you want to satisfy your wife on bed.Yet it is necessary but it's not as important that such will cause you unexpected.

How many men go many rounds at a ago?, every men will brag that they go many rounds,don't mind them it's a lie. How many men last up to 30mins before ejaculation?, Many will come and tell you that they last 45min,1hr, etc and your heart will be beating that you are not performing, it's all lies. Most of them doesn't last past 5min or 10 mind and none will come here and tell you.Some don't even last up to 5min

Play pre-intimacy with your wife, locate her sensitive area and let it be your focal point,activate it and let her start shaking or moaning before you start the main job.Do your best and remove your mind on how long you last or rounds you go. One good fantastic , remarkable and enjoying round is better than two unfulfilled rounds

LadySarah:
Nonsense!
It then means that the adulterous men are the reasons their wives don't do well.
Stupid seers.Reveal problems without commensurate solutions.

I may not know your tribe but are you aware that in some traditions that once a married woman slept with another man, the husband of the woman will not sleep with the wife again or eat what she cooked unless traditional cleansing was performed otherwise something bad & misfortune will be happening to the husband. Same applies to the woman. Make enquiry should you don't know.

One of the worst things in marriage is adultery and dealing with a wayward wife. A marriage that has such is almost at 50petcent on brink of collapse and having adulterous wife constitute alot of man's risk. Divorce seem to be the solution. Imagine a woman secretly opening her honey pot to other men to be piping from it,terrible and wickedness

Op ,sorry to say this,that you married a demon possessed witch. Where in this 21st century can a man has such wife and still keep her. The way forward is divorce,but I also blame you for not noticing such evil lazy act during courtship or you noticed it and still went ahead and marry her because any man with this category of wife is rather like being in hell fire. What love and happiness do you expect in this kind marriage. No man can be happy

I think many did not understand the OPs explaination if I am not wrong I think I observed two things from the post,the OP is not really annoyed that she is not contributing but that apart from she is not contributing,that she don't care about how he is running the family even in a very challenging difficult financial situation by the husband,she is nonchalant and don't care ,even to call the man and ask him how he is coping, encourage him with words,infact feel concerned about what's going on.A wife may not be working but has a husking spirit,cares and encourages the husband,exhibit a supportive spirit which even those that marry millionaires and billionaires can do ,but this one is the opposite who feels all she can offer is just Bleep when there are many well groomed classic working class /career women out there looking for a husband to grow together.This type of woman will not even be happy to see you grow and that's a characteristics of the possessed and a witch.They derive joy in ensuring that the person is not happy or moving forward. OP sorry for my use of words but I am telling you the fact

Had it been you have an ugly wife that can't even wet but dry when love making,that's when you well understood how lucky you are on what you are enjoying that many men are looking for.

Men, how do you feel when you are making love with her and she will be moaning loudly andall she will be shouting is: "Thank you so much, I love you ....,oh yaa!!, ooh shit!!etc.
Again does it mean the man is really good at bed and that the woman is really getting good sexual satisfaction from him.