₦airaland Forum

Jesu! this market go hard ooo!

i did not even know changing my key board was an option! :Pi did not even know changing my key board was an option!

I wonder, was she patience elected or was Nigerias first lady elected? If she was elected then i think she is right in doing so, if not whom ever the new first lady is should assume the duties.

Drinking Alcohol is not a sin, if she is qualified for the job then she should take it. She will not be forced against her wish to drink at any time.

Oya it is time to mark your scripts!

i got a 50% failed one of my predictions, Although i don't yet know the end of the Rivers state tribunal saga.

I just wanted JK to win sha!

It is funny how the group referred to themselves as intellectuals and yet the simple meaning of the word immigrant eludes them.

I personal feel offended by the use of the words "immigrant" and "refugee" to people from the same country. I care very little for what else they said because they were airing their personal opinions and feelings, which every human being been has the right to.

They may also be correct in their description of the Igbo people but to be called immigrant in your own country where many Igbo people own property and have lived peacefully with their fellow Nigerians for years is deeply troubling. I think an apology would be in order.

For avoidance of doubt I have included the definitions of both refugee and immigrant below.
refugee
rɛfjʊˈdʒiː/
noun
noun: refugee; plural noun: refugees
1. a person who has been forced to leave their country in order to escape war, persecution, or natural disaster.
"tens of thousands of refugees fled their homes"


immigrant
ˈɪmɪɡr(ə)nt/
noun
noun: immigrant; plural noun: immigrants
1. a person who comes to live permanently in a foreign country.

Such sad new, in Enugu of all places.

So the elections are almost here, almost every discussion now in Nigeria centers around politics. Let us predict the winners for the various states and see how it pans out after the elections, Lets know the prophets amongst us.

My Predictions
Lagos - JK PDP
Rivers - Wike PDP

Lets see yours. You can predict for as as many states as interests you.

I have never lied about my age before! No need...

how do we know this is Lagos sef??

englishmart:
in my family, everyone has access to the kitchen.
#Teamserveyourselves

Even as children abi? mchewww

How about tieing wrapper over ur chest, or backing children? I always feel that that makes your boobs go flatter. Myth or Fact?

Seriously i don't know what all the hype is about. Its just an ordinary pic?

stolen from the movie "intimacy t.a.p.e". They could have been more original...

Traffic wardens Instead to employing engineers to fix traffic lights and cctv to catch those that jump the light, na to employ traffic warden?? back wards ever...smh

Woged2005:
6 Reasons That Keep Nigerian Ladies Above 30yrs From Marrying. Please Avoid Them!


This is a Sista -to-Sista Talk. If you like take the advice or leave it, it won't change a thing. I listened, I found

1. Acting Immaturely: When you are above 30, you are not in the the same category with ladies below 27 anymore. Except you have things to show for your age such as solid career, fat bank account, strong investments, impressive academic accomplishment, etc the odds are stacked against you in competing with a younger lady. Men who will look for you are mostly men seeking for the above qualities and perhaps also some maturity. Therefore if you have none of the above and still behave like a teenager, you are going to stay in your papa's house for a longer time. Please be different and bring some maturity into your relationships to gain some advantage. Reduce your playing 'hard-to-get' games. If you see what you want, got for it, and nail it koi-koi! Shekina!

2. The Feminist Scare: African men are trying in their intellectual accomplishments, but honestly majority of them still don't accept feminism. At 30 +, a lady is most likely to have formed her core believes and ideologies. Unfortunately, most African men still can't draw any difference between an argumentative lady, a highly-opinionated lady and a feminist. They lump them all up together as feminists and hate them equally. Therefore, sista you will do yourself a favor to be less argumentative, be flexible in your opinions and reduce unnecessary negative energy that scare men away. African men are still scared of feminists. One day they will get there, but for now sheath your sword!

3. Talking About Your Ex: Everyone knows that at 30+ plus you probably have had a couple of failed relationships. Please can you stop bringing them up in your current relationships? Stop talking about how one Ex loved you, cherished you, spoiled you with gifts, how the relationship was a bliss, etc. The bottom line is the Ex didn't marry you; he didn't find you good enough. He left you and married another lady. So stop praising him. It's foolish to hear some ladies say "he tells me he regretted not marrying me; wishes he can get a 2nd chance" .. . Pleeaaasssee! that's an old trick for men who dumped you to get into your pants again as a side chick. Get real! he's someone's husband now.

4. Unnecessary Shakara: This one is a relationship blunder No.1 for ladies above 30. DON'T give a man any reason to believe he's only one of your options. What are you thinking? , What's the shakara for? You want to be married and you met a matured man who wants to marry without delay.You have tested him and he is good to go, then you begin shakara, like there's a long queue out there for you? Once you do that, then you give him reasons to check out other girls too. Relationships go south from there. Abeg, once he is inside your territory, lock the exit pam! .

5. "My Pastor Said..": Please leave your pastors and spiritual advisers out of your relationship. Pray to God for guidance. Nothing is as annoying as seeing a matured grown 30-something year old 'mama' going to ask her pastor to see if a man is her God-approved husband. Is your pastor God? How will he know? Pastors can counsel you and put you through marriages courses, educate you on how to be a better christian wife but not to choose a husband for you. Abeg! wise up.

6. Pay For Your Own Stuff And Be Content : At 30+ you should have your own things. Stop begging for money and gifts like you are still in school. That's for students. Stop fantasizing about celebrity cars, dresses, shoes, jewelries, houses, bling-bling like you are a teenager. It makes you look either too childish or like a cheap materialist. Serious men pay attention to all those clues. At 30+ you should have saved some money to buy things you want for yourself. But if for some reason you haven't, be modest and feel content with what you have.

I Pray May This Year Be Your Breakthrough Year On Marriage!

There is a thin line between all of these and being desperate. And i have heard being desperate is distasteful.. be your self, that way you'll know you were not forming.

Tell him am also seeking true love. He shud come

poster pls i think you should accept your faith and learn to live happily with your new wife, you are the major cause of your problems so for me now you should try and live with the consequences. live peacefully with them, get a job and secure your own future and that of your kids, do this with urgency. Your not the first person who's husbands marries another wife. Take solace in the fact that your the first and his only legal wife. Live Laugh and Love.

This circular never reach portharcourt oh! We still do not offer the hand of peace.

xule20:
How much was your flight from lagos and wot was ur total budget pls?thanks... I need a tour asap

Flight from lagos was about 135Naira(return), you can pay my flight ticket and i would be glad to give u a tour around when we get there.lol. but depending on how many days you want to stay and the kind of luxury you indulde in, you can spend anywhere between 300-800k

nice one, good read.

milychocs:
I actually love this look, lol
If it had hot water I would stay there

yeah?? it wasn't that bad after all, we grew to love the place, and we did not have a choice at that particular time. but the beach was great.

frustratedman:
Stop using maids



Lazy parents use maids. Register at a creche or bring in your mother to help u with ur kids when u're at work.

Your mother does not have a life of her own?? and those whoes mothers are late nko? Its almost unavoidable, maid are a necessary evil. May God deliver those children from the hands of the maid.

babeface3:
If you drink I would recommend you taste Ndovu, Serengeti, Konyangi and Kilimanjaro.

I did try kilimanjaro, did not come across anyof these other brands. Also tried some local brew at moshi, that one was horrible. yuck!

princeefosa1:
@peren plss can u tell me what to expect in tanzania cos am about to go for a trip over. There the people and the environment are there jobs plss and what of their immigrations

Tanzania is a great place to vacation, the people are nice and friendly as toursim is one of their main income sources. I didn't not go there to seek jobs but i can't really imagine what kind of jobs would be available there. Once they establish you are there on toursim their immigrations is also not an issue. I hope you enjoy you stay there.

lukuluku101:
Why would he NOT collect it? Is she asking for "favours" in return? It'll only be a problem if he keeps asking her for assistance afterwards. Therefore, if he's the business-minded kind, he'd better ask for the money instead.

She is not asking for any favours in return, and he didn't even ask for the assistance it was offered.

justmag:
Then wat wud he say to his wife?? Are u gonna be..."Honey!! I just got this car! It's perfect for the family. Do you like?? "" ...if she is a real woman she will kick ya ass to the curb.

He said he could talk his wife into understanding, so according to him that would not really be an issue.

lalasticlala:
OMOTOLA JALADE EKEINDE

What is the craziest thing a fan has done to you?There are so many, as many as you can imag­ine. But my fans are very respectful and lovely and they could be very crazy too. But they have not done anything to harm me.

GENEVIEVE NNAJI

Asked the craziest thing a fan has ever done to her, the actress, who says she would act opposite any actor who challenges her, breaks into a smile and says, “nothing really. I consider my fans more passionate than crazy.”

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Very irritating responses!!! Feeling all fan loving and diplomatic, nonsense..

AJ01:
Is he a learner

does that mean he should or not take the gift?

My colleague just brought his dilemma to our office, he says he recently found the contact of an ex girl-friend of his and they got talking, she found out that he wasn't doing as good as she and offered to buy him a car. She is married with 2 kids and he is also married with 3 kids. He is greatly tempted? Should he take the car or not?

I hope people can now get their items that have been shipped thru all these companies.