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Big congrats dear henshaw

koife:
Then where are they?

they are with you wherever you are, my guy and his friends used to be like this few years back, but to my greatest surprise he was arguing with one of his friends on social networks when the guy said there were no good girls again..... He told him his babes(me) have changed that thought in him and that he now believe there are still good ones.......


One thing i know is that likes poles attract, i just hope you are good yourself in order to retain a good lady.... Good luck

koife:
True bro, av given up on love, ladies r fake!

dont give up my dear, i bet you there are still good ones out there, its just a matter of time and prayers

kristonium:
If you a christian,forgive..opening up alone and seeking for forgiveness would have nullified whatever effect your tradition may hold.Don't forget,you also confessed to not being a saint too!
Forgive and receive her back!
Never allow such breaks again!

my dear, no reason am oooo especially if the op is from benin

mazazatonda:
There happen to be some misunderstandings between me and my wife coupled with the fact that there was financial challenges on my side,hence the two reasons for giving ourselves break as in temporal separation for some months so that we can figure out what used to cause misunderstandings and quarrel and for things to normalize before we start living together again,so she went to stay with the parents.However,we get united again last week as in she coming back and we start living together.When i wanted to touch her as in love making,she keep on turning it down,i was suprised how after missing each other for some months does it mean she doesnt has sexual feeling.The more i keep making advances,the more she is rejecting and i begin to think whats is wrong.She was giving difference excuses,later she said she dont know to do and how to tell me this and that it is disturbing her and cant allow that we make love as her conscience and what could be the consequence is disturbing her.I told her to tell me what it is,she finally said that since we separated till now that she made love with two men.I was shocked,thou i reason she may fall into such because she has a very high sexual drive,that i hardly leave her and travel for more than a month without coming back because of the nature of her body unless i buy intimacy gadgets and keep for her.She said that apart from her high libido,that she has been having the apetite and bearing it and was thing that i have use style and abandoned her as in divorcing her.She pleaded,and i am confused on what to to because our culture has implication on woman commiting adultery but i cant tell my parents otherwise they may say that i sent her packing.I only explained to my elder sister and she said from her knowledge,that she doesnt know much about how our tradition handles such,but since she confessed that i can forgive her,unless she do it again.Thou i am not a saint anyway for i know i have committed adultery since i marry her but i dont know how our tradition handles this matter and i cant tell such to my parents.She begged and begged that even at two days ago,i later fall and made love with her which i said i wont do but i am disturbed.Please what should i do.Advise pls.

hope you are not from any part in benin? Because if you are, save your self your own life and tell your Elders/parents especially if you paid her bride price or a male child is involved ....... .my dear i have seen many repercussions and they weren't funny at all

Nice write up but i think you have to explain it more for better understanding ,,,, thank you so much

johnnday222:
LOL I was just exaggerating aswell...bt seriously,it more than 20%
I might consider 30%

odikwa serious ooo

Mckayzee:
HeheheheheHehehehehe
#Wicked...Uncle won't understand what's making him underperform...

neutrotoba:
eoven 85% of this generation's girls will fail it

ehn ehn!!! You mean am?

Easy going but don't push me to the wall , high i Q, always distinguished for the best among my peers ,very coordinating, hate lies and deceit









Above all am a no nonsense person... You do anyhow, you see anyhow

These are the foods i will be preparing in my house now, ife need to take a break of his

These are the foods i will be preparing in my house now, ife need to havr a break of his

Lolzzz see gist oooooo.. Abeg make i park well book space.









Where are the experienced folks in the house, your attention is needed please

donbenedict:
oya he should come and adopt me

hajahjqjahahahahha u get mouth i swear

Marshallian:
Seriously?

Seriously?

very well

noblegrex:
funny enough,some women of today will fail this simple test.

you are very correct as well

johnnday222:
thank God u said 79% just like 80% of ladies these days will fail simple tax of cookn cos many are now olosho.

80% ladies fails in cooking? Haba, this is strange....... I will take 15-20% because of these infomie generation babies but not in the 80s

domopps:
According to who?




Cheeeeeeers

pet4ril

If you have your girlfriend's picture on your phone, use it as wallpaper and give her the phone to check pictures. Always remind her of what she wants to become in life especially in terms of carrier and please, don't even try to have any pant down with her cos she's still liyyle as you said






Tell her you see her more like a sister and receive her in an open space when she comes for visit because konji can be bastard sometimes..... Thanks and good luck

its very bad...... I thought she is supposed to be one with the hubby not the father or, maybe the man does not worth it sha

Waooo proud dads indeed ......79% of Nigeria men will fail this

Osahon7:
y u dey yarn like person wen nr go school? It happens everywhere! Its not specific to edo ppl

thanks, i will take it from you because it will not change anything about me and name sake

Osahon7:
y u dey yarn like person wen nr go school? It happens everywhere! Its not specific to edo ppl

thanks

Osahon7:
wetin Edo do you?

you no hear am again, y dose my brothers no want let us hear better thing about them?

Thank you so much..

Its time to reach out to the world especially those that have their tubes cut off as a result of ectopic pregnancies and other related issues that its not the end of their chances of having their own children

Hahahhahahah my ife will do more than this ooooo









He will just bring wrapper for me to back the baby irrespective of what am doing and he will say the baby will be more comfortable at the back men and their laziness when it comes to children and in the night, they will not allow the woman to rest with konji

Remember end time things so that they will be free from sins of the flesh

Acidosis:
You don't marry someone because you LOVE them.


Married couples fall in "love" after wedding oo. Falling in 'love' is a never ending process.

You marry because you are compatible. My advice: get closer to the girl you claim you don't love. Love grows with TIME. There is no such thing as falling in love at FIRST SIGHT. Just spend more time with her, as in quality time and watch that love grow

thabks jare..... This op doesn't know what he want..... All these i don't love the ist girl is just because of the resent girl oooo and i assure him the devil he know is better than the angel he do not know

taryour:
Remain focus and dont be in a haste. Labake might end up being a big laibility and a terrible nagging wife and i tell you that will kill the love you both share. ( Building a good home is not only about LOVE ).

The other lady on the other hand is good but there is no feelings for her ( what is the essense of a good relationship is there is no TRUE LOVE ?

Best of luck in your choice

dont you think he loosed the feeling because of the second girl he met? This guy is emotionally unstable just like a woman

Hmmmmm, when i was young, i thought going to school is just all about getting a government work........ But now i see it also have a positive effect on sense of reasoning







Heaven bear me witness i didn't say anything ooooo but school good i swear

Edo,Edo hmmmm

Many are mad,but only few are roming round the streets