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Peterrio:
The way they be fighting LGBTQ be like FORNICATION and ADULTERY dey okay as far as it's HETEROSEXUAL

Use your power to shout and speak against FORNICATION and ADULTERY

The way they be fighting LGBTQ be like FORNICATION and ADULTERY dey okay as far as it's HETEROSEXUAL

pocohantas:
I love that you are an all-rounder. Local, foreign, pastries, you full ground.

Whenever I try to fry puff puff, not buns, it comes out in weird shapes. Rhombus and trapezium shaped. Ste-rope suggested I thicken my batter, but I am sorry, I am done. I won’t allow FIVE NAIRA puffpuff spoil my kitchen credibility.

Puff puff is life oh

I even wonder who still struggles to chew buns nowadays

Especially when puff puff is life

popo1494:
It’s not a matter of whether he wins....it’s a sure claim when complete so he should locate the nearest Dangote designated center.

It’s the letter O I’m yet to get too

U go soon see that O

Great0ne1:
Sex is Important, but if she is worth keeping, then you can make arrangement for a meet up

how?

Hotbreadandbean:
Hmmm, omo nawao na so so lamentations guys just dey lament Left, right and center, omo make I go change my VPN for tinder try see weda I go catch one oyinbo babe, I don leave naija girls for una tay tay

But u can't fvkk someone that's not in your country na

Wealthbrain22:
Women don’t appreciate men enough and for that I don’t think they deserve my attention anymore. I’m just cold towards them now, no more flirting or playing or whatever..all they get is a straight face. Why?

There’s a very unfair reality we men live in, we are expected to be superheroes. Nobody cares how we make it in life but you must have a car or a house or something before any woman will want to take you serious. The funny thing is that these women have no idea what we go through to get these things, the blood and sweat and tears that led to the car or house is none of their business but you must have it to “deserve” their attention.

Now you would think after getting all these things all these girls will make things easier on you but no, you still have to prove your worth to them, you still have to “sweep them off their feet” you still have to wait in line and be played before you even manage to get a good one who’s not really good anyway but it’s still better than the others. Women will still make you “suffer” to get their “love” (mind you their love is fake anyway, it’s just them giving you their attention for providing all their needs) that’s what a woman’s love is defined as. Now you have literally broken you back to become a millionaire and yet you still get played by girls? You still have to impress girls? After fighting for your life to get all these material possessions? You’re still being considered and weighed in the grand scheme of things? Na that gender can fvck off.

I brought one to my house , and upon everything I have that I took years to get the bitch was still not impressed, things that cost me millions, gadgets and everything. That gender deserves all the evil yahoo boys do to them, they have no empathy for the male struggle, they are incapable of ever loving any man, they are extremely selfish and pretentious. I’m good at this point, at least I don’t get to be “considered “ after all I put in to get to this financial level. A female without up to 20k in her account will now be “considering” me? God forbid, if I toast any babe again make I bend.

One kobo dem no dey hold for pocket

They'll even tell u they want to plan with you, that you guys can build together

Na lie yooo! Na still ur money dem wan use take plan, their one naira no dey am

NA still u go work give them money to take start business oh, all the "building together" na FULLY on your neck

guobe:
As a Christian, Lesbianism should not be practiced and nobody in my lineage has ever practiced it .so I will make sure it is upheld by me and my kids and generations yet unborn. I won't judge lesbians and gays but I just told you what I intend to do

Then make sure your kids never go to Lagos or Abuja or even think about any country

guobe:
Why do you think so

Oga open your mouth and tell us how and when she told you she was a lesbian or adores lesbianism

guobe:
its obvious she is a lesbian.she schooled in Canada but currently doing her NYSC.She detests men alot and she dresses like a man which makes me think she is the male in the lesbian act.

Whats exactly bad about lesbianism?

guobe:
its obvious she is a lesbian.she schooled in Canada but currently doing her NYSC.She detests men alot and she dresses like a man which makes me think she is the male in the lesbian act.

You're thinking a lot

She never told you she was a lesbian and never mentioned her adoration for lesbianism

You're just thinking

tete7000:
When you become a Christian, we can begin to discuss Christian hypocrisy as you call it.

I don't care to discuss your Christian hypocrisy

Relax under cool tree shades this evening

tete7000:
Leave hypocrisy for the religious people to deal with. That shouldn't be your headache. In fact, if anything you suppose to be glad you ain't part of our system.

I'm glad I'm not a part of your system

It's not my headache

It's just amusing to me

As a kid, I thought Christians, religious people in general were reliable and straightforward

Vixlot:
Lionel Messi has now surpassed Pelé as the player with the most Goals and Assists in history

Most G/A in football history:
1 - Messi : 1127
2 - Pele : 1126

What's the source of this stat?

abuja007:
Who say na him dey pay bills or run the show in the house? The woman is rolling out the money and being a good loyal wife until this.

If the guy was making the big bucks I don't think he will react so gently like this and thread carefully like this.

Guy confront her gently. Tell her that you know and let her come clean.

And both of you agree on the next step with the boy. You should not have done the DNA test if you did not want to know the truth and take necessary steps.
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He knows the truth, "necessary steps" aren't always necessary

The truth in itself might be enough satisfaction to him

guobe:
I got chatting with a corper girl today and from the conversation I could denote that her schooling abroad has messed her psyche up.Its a norm to be a lesbian or gay abroad and so kids that are not God fearing may fall into that trap when they go abroad.Parents should endeavour to always train their wards properly and educate them from some foreign vices if they are taking their kids abroad.The girls parents are currently trying to change her by bringing her back to Nigeria but I feel it may be very difficult for her to change.

Is she a lesbian?

Or she just sees lesbianism as normal?

obembet:
Most men don't understand that A woman's need for tender moments goes beyond the actual lovemaking.

Some men don't even know how to care for woman after having quality time. A friend of also complain that her man falls asleep immediately after the act. I know that when a man is having sex, his endorphin level is very high. But what Man need to understand what woman need after love making.

To me, I see it as wickedness.

The fact that you urinate after drinking a lot of liquids isn't "wickedness "

it's nature

Fira09:
SOURCE

The villagers think they know too much, if they had not bathed him a few months ago, he would still be alive now

tete7000:
If you an atheist, the notion of fornication shouldn't bother you. The last term I checked, those are concept religion uses to hold people in check. Or do atheist also have codes that outlaw consensual sex between unmarried people?

Hypocrisy is the issue here, not fornication, saying one thing and doing another iz the issue, not the deed itself

"I believe in God, and the whole Bible, but I don't follow some of its teachings because i just like sex"

Without remorse

Romanoff:
If you are rich, you can opt for IVF so they can do selective implantation via advanced NIPT screening for the sickle cell trait.

If you can't afford it, I don't know how you'll do it cause 10 years is a long time to have wasted the time of that woman.

With all the awareness going on about sickle cell and genotype compatibility, it feels like you just crawled out of the stone age where the topic is concerned.

There's also the option of amniocentesis for the unborn child got through copulation

Registeredguest:
I'm a lady in my mid- twenties, I got married aged 22, (always wanted to marry early) on the second year of our marriage we were blessed with a baby, parked to our house and things were rosy. I have always been a workaholic due to that I have never lack as a young lady in terms of finance.

I have always helped him in his house projects, might not be much 100k, 50k, 20k when need be. I never siphoned my money to myself, as a young lady I envisioned my pretty little family on my head, (3 children, handsome husband and pretty wife with a fine car living happily)

Now to the main problem,I think it all started when he told me he has seen a genuine plot of land that we should buy it together, I told him no, I want the land all by myself I have money to pay for it, (just want to have something tangible for myself alone) he said no problem.He sent me an account number of the seller I sent 600k to the seller.we did the necessary documents and everyone was happy.

After some weeks, I decided to dig around his phone then I discovered that the account I sent the 600k to, refunded 200k back to my husband, woke him up instantly I demanded for an explanation.he story no make sense. I was heartbroken, for months I was hurt...the two families got involved and settled the issue.money I no see...

Ever since this issue happened,the home has not been peaceful, fighting everyday. I find it so difficult to forgive him. I insult him, he insults me, he broke my phone, I break his door...I was demanded for an apology he says
"I'm his wife, no be today man dey collect him wife money, he say woman go build house for him husband no ear no go hear" those things hurt me more... everyday was fight, I parked out,I went to my sister's place,he didn't call, he didn't reach out.

3 weeks after I parked I discovered I was pregnant,and informed him immediately through text.i stayed at my sister's place for 2 months no word from him... I decide to rent my own place,I rented a place and went to his house to park my remaining stuff,I meet him home,as soon as he sees I came with a truck to park my things he knelt down and started begging me...I was like,na today I commot for your house why now? He say he think say I dey play, he no think say I serious like this,for good two months you didn't say anything why now...with enough dragging I parked my things to my new rented apartment... since the day I park till now this man has not allowed me rest,his family members has been calling me to come back home, his dad came from the village to plead on his behalf.


My dad is insisting I should not go back...I'm now 6 months pregnant ,I need a father in my children's life.im finding it difficult to forgive him,I'm struggling within myself to forgive and trust this man again.

How can I let go of the past and move back with him...I decided to pay him a visit on Friday,he was happy I came,he did everything possible to show me he has changed but that feeling of betrayal and hurt is there.i left there this morning with querrell,I know I started the querrell,but I can't just seem to forgive him.please I need your help and advice on this pressing issue of mine.

No insult please, I have cried enough.

Maybe he just has to sit you down and give you satisfying answers to all the questions in your mind

Like have a very mature discussion as to why he did what he did, what were his motives, did he really mean the things he said during the fights, and why you should believe he won't repeat such rubbish and childish things in the future, like seize your money even after u gained knowledge of it, and not call or visit for 2 months thinking or assuming that you were playing

Your mind go calm down after such a conversation

tete7000:
If you an atheist, the notion of fornication shouldn't bother you. The last term I checked, those are concept religion uses to hold people in check. Or do atheist also have codes that outlaw consensual sex between unmarried people?

Na lack of understanding dey worry you

HardMirror:
I met one that claimed she was an atheist only to realize she was just trying to be an atheist because she thought it was cool. she still believed in god and all those shit.
I also noticed that if you are doing well financially, girls dont really care if you are an atheist, BUT they will try and convert you, they will hope you can change especially when you propose marriage, they start misbehaving

Gbamsolutely

kay29000:
I swear. I know a runs girl that doesn't joke with church... Sunday service, midweek service, and even house fellowship. The way she's able to compartmentalised her mind amazes me.

U never see olosho way dey play only gospel, mercy chinwo, et al

Franking:
Exactly. Their christianity is usually oral.

... and vaginal, and sometimes anal

Fiscus105:
Is ur aethism free way to immorality. Or u re being aethist so that u can indulge in fornication.

When I was a Christian, I felt guilt whenever I did something against God's law

But I just realised, most Christians don't

NeckingNgulping:
Yeah, a long thing here. My ex called me the devil. This was someone i had a high chemistry with, but we weren't compatible- incompatibility borne out of religion.

Did u tell her from the onset that you don't believe in gods?

NeckingNgulping:
I meant theists.. Check..

You're confusing me oh

I would advise that you overlook those bad habits of hers, overpamper and pet her a lot, then one day talk to her in a cool voice just before going to sleep

State the things you don't like and tell her to try and stop, that you love her and you want the marriage to work

Coinwarrior:
when i met this young girl,she was homely and well reserved and she loved me then.I told all my pastors about 9 pastors to help me prayed on her with about six names to make the total names I gave to them be 7 girls.All the pastors prayed on it and they all singled out this girl that is the lord’s choice. Her parent also prayed too on their side by given my name with other 5 names to their pastors and they all prayed and their pastors singled me out that I am the lord’s choice for their daughter.And this is what further made us to get married and we got married in 2020 after we did introduction by 2019 august.All through the time we were dating i love the girl and the girl loved me too and the girl has been good and faithful to me.But i ran into a discovery about my wife then why we were on the road.when we wanted to start the relationship i asked her a question that is she in a relationship currently at that time and she said she was not into any and that the one she was b4 went into water.ok I accepted to her.But one day she was sick and I was away I then called her to know her health condition and one guy picked her call and I was shocked and asked her who was he? And he said he was his boyfriend and I said boyfriend but she never told me she was in any relationship when i met her but out of my genuine love to my wife I just told the guy to not attack her becos she was still ill.Then later when she was totally ok.I sat her down and asked her who was that guy and why couldn’t she tell me the truth then.she then begged me and said she had broken up with him at that time i met her and it was her own friend that advised her not to tell me about it.And when I did my background check I saw that she was not with that guy again because she caught him having sex with her junior.But the guy kept pestering her and begging.Then later on her sister and mother called me that they really want to see me then and it was from there I further confirmed that my wife just finished dating that guy then b4 she broke up with her after she discovered his sexcapade with other younger girls.what do i want to bring out from this narration is dawned on not being totally sincere with me. I caught her there.Another area i caught her lying was when i returned from traveling and saw a new phone in my wife hand then and when i asked her she told me her dad bought it for her but i knew soonest they truth would be revealed.in the course of our relationship then I got to discovered that the old guy that she had broken up with bought her the phone then and her aunty later advised her to return the phone back when it was obvious she would marry me when the spiritual findings of their pastors came out,i overheard her aunty telling her on phone.And when i confronted her she later lied that she didn’t tell me that her father got her the phone.she said the guy gave her the phone as part of his begging to come back.That is lie no 2 I forgave her cos of my love and warned her but the guy was pained that he was unable to sleep with her when they were courting then because my wife was telling him then to wait till their wedding night because i read their long time chat they had on Facebook why they were together then.So when we eventually married...going forward i saw my wife randomly chatting guys with whom they went to secondary school with and some guys that once toasted her and i told her to stop that when she is now married.Even her pastor called her and warned her to never anything to do with those old guys again when she is now married.But one day i just checked my wife contact and I saw a particular number she saved with *Gabriel my first mistake* I was curious what that could mean.And my wife telling me she never had sex with anyone in all her previous relationship but she said she is not a virgin because one incident that happened to her while she was growing up in the north where one old man raped her when they sent her to buy bread by her parent.I didn’t believe the narrative but the same thing she told our church pastor when they asked us during one private discussion point with them.But i stumbled on one book where I saw where she wrote *my first husband Gabriel and put two numbers but I tried to call those numbers but they were not active.Then I remembered one day we were driving out together and we saw one guy and I was talk about him and my wife said she knew him very well.it was there my wife made mention of his senior brother whose name was Bro Gabriel,she said they were in the church quoir and the brother use to called her *his children mother and she use to called the brother *her children father* she told me they took themselves as husband and wife already but one day when she visited the brother the brother told her my children mother let step this thing up by having intercourse but my wife said she just stylishly find a wise way to dogdge it by telling the brother that she is coming to do the act with him he should just wait for her to tell her sister waiting to receive sth outside then she would then come in to do the thing with him.she said she has to use that wiseness because she can’t abuse or struggle with him cos the guy can do anything with her.if that is true or not I can’t say but I am looking at the meaning of *my first mistake* that is very symbolic.with that symbol,I believed she slept with that guy hence the reason why she saved his name with *first mistake*.That is another redflag I observed.Then about one week ago my wife was telling me she would change her phone pin and pattern so that those people in her shop won’t be able to swipe her phone start using it to make calls.I said it would be good and do you know my wife changed the pattern of her and she didn’t come to me to show it to me and I was waiting for her to come tell me as being open as it should be being husband and wife.I watched for 8 days and I concluded she deliberately didn’t want to let me know .I was then wondering what she could be hiding from me when she would look my phone from morning till night.But just yesterday I then confronted her and told her I don’t know the kind of wife she is that she would be hiding things from me.Then she exploded and was telling me that she used a pattern I once know.I then said she should show me the pattern and I could see it was a different pattern and I told her baby you use to lie.why is she lieing? I then told her i have some history of her lieing and I started mentioning those lie she lied that she was not in any relationship when she was in one and she just broke up when I came.I then mentioned that I saw a number on her phone that she saved with *Gabriel my first mistake *immediately she heard that ...she kept quite all through* and the next thing was she went to her phone dialed one unsaved number which happened to be Gabriel number though the number is still inactive.I then confronted her when I saw her dialed the number while she is still married to me.That made her to start telling me she is tired of this marriage and she told me I should go and bring my lawyer to divorce and she threatened that she would walk to where nobody know.And she was crying and I felt for her and started begging her again not to sad because of the love I had for her.

Good ladies are usually good friends with other good ladies

It's highly unlikely that you'll find them in a particular place

They're scattered in church, school, etc

NeckingNgulping:
Yeah, bro, all you have said are religious dogmatists' problems that i just can't wrap my head around. They're probably even more repulsive than atheists, at least to most of us.

A close-mindedness that amounts to an imprisonment so total that the prisoner doesn’t even know they're locked up.

About your last paragraph, i find it so hilarious. It's a truth they can't deny.

In what ways are atheists repulsive?