₦airaland Forum

shortgun:
Let's assume you will spend 700k to go and become a slave in a White man's country.
Sensible people will turn that 700k to millions in a few years.

As for how much I've seen, with your mentality I am confident that you are in the bottom of the food chain.

Simple question, "how?"

shortgun:
Relocating "Abroad" is for people who have failed in the country....
The amount spent on flight alone is enough to give a sensible person a source of income for years in this country.

Maybe na only 20k u Don see for your life

How can flight ticket of 700k give you source of income for life?

KingAzubuike:
Hope he doesn't use the innocent boy for ritu*** like he did to his friends tagbo and co.

Insight + foresight

Gallybounce:
Hello guys , Few months ago , I asked for you guys advice on my building project. I later roofed it and the house is 75% completed . I have some landed properties too

I’ve been able to save around 4m( including money people owe me) .
I sell cars and lands for rural area. I be ambassador . U can contact me if you want to buy no be free o
I’m also into arbitrage and house agents.
I barely have time tbh .


I’m 25 years, and I still live with my parents . ( I take care of 90% of the bills for house. Trust me I spend so much keeping the house running. ) and I’ve recently started my degree program though it’s part time (200 levels) . but the thing is that I want to move out of my parents house . I feel like I’m not growing enough as I want. And yes it’s not because of promiscuity, I have a girlfriend and my parents are cool with that . None of my friends are living with their parents at this age .
I don’t have privacy.
Now I will have completed the house and moved into it, but the place is still developing and far from urban center. ( although the place has prospect) , it was my mom that convinced me to develop the site. Anyway I’m glad i did even though I feel am for body .


I have my reason for bringing stuff like this to nairaland , I believe some of you have once been in this kind of situation and having read lots of stories here on nairaland , I don’t want to regret later in future .


My plan now on the money is
1. Japa ( honestly I don’t know which country and I’m average educationally but trust me I have marketing skills o. I mean I can sell anything in a short period of time )
2. Move out of my parent house , get apartment and buy a small car then continue by job .


3. Start developing one of my other lands ( one is in a fast developing area).
4. Buy more lands
5. Start gas/boutique / pos business but to be honest I’m not good at stuff like that.
Note : I travel a lot and the company I work for takes care of my expenses in that regard.


I make between 200k-1.2/1.5/1.7m monthly depends on how much sales I make. ( my combined earning in a month from different jobs).

Cc freestuffng legendhero
Ubunja CaveAdullam
pansophist
Seatrade
Fanadezisback
Airforce1
Mynd44
Seun
Lalasticlala
Igbofam2
Sanchez01
Pocohantas
Ishilove
Luminous

Please help .

Personally, I'm in a similar situation myself

But there are a few differences

I want you to give more details as to why you need to move out, give more insight

And the state you're based in

Peterrio:
The way they be fighting LGBTQ be like FORNICATION and ADULTERY dey okay as far as it's HETEROSEXUAL

Use your power to shout and speak against FORNICATION and ADULTERY

The way they be fighting LGBTQ be like FORNICATION and ADULTERY dey okay as far as it's HETEROSEXUAL

pocohantas:
I love that you are an all-rounder. Local, foreign, pastries, you full ground.

Whenever I try to fry puff puff, not buns, it comes out in weird shapes. Rhombus and trapezium shaped. Ste-rope suggested I thicken my batter, but I am sorry, I am done. I won’t allow FIVE NAIRA puffpuff spoil my kitchen credibility.

Puff puff is life oh

I even wonder who still struggles to chew buns nowadays

Especially when puff puff is life

popo1494:
It’s not a matter of whether he wins....it’s a sure claim when complete so he should locate the nearest Dangote designated center.

It’s the letter O I’m yet to get too

U go soon see that O

Great0ne1:
Sex is Important, but if she is worth keeping, then you can make arrangement for a meet up

how?

Hotbreadandbean:
Hmmm, omo nawao na so so lamentations guys just dey lament Left, right and center, omo make I go change my VPN for tinder try see weda I go catch one oyinbo babe, I don leave naija girls for una tay tay

But u can't fvkk someone that's not in your country na

Wealthbrain22:
Women don’t appreciate men enough and for that I don’t think they deserve my attention anymore. I’m just cold towards them now, no more flirting or playing or whatever..all they get is a straight face. Why?

There’s a very unfair reality we men live in, we are expected to be superheroes. Nobody cares how we make it in life but you must have a car or a house or something before any woman will want to take you serious. The funny thing is that these women have no idea what we go through to get these things, the blood and sweat and tears that led to the car or house is none of their business but you must have it to “deserve” their attention.

Now you would think after getting all these things all these girls will make things easier on you but no, you still have to prove your worth to them, you still have to “sweep them off their feet” you still have to wait in line and be played before you even manage to get a good one who’s not really good anyway but it’s still better than the others. Women will still make you “suffer” to get their “love” (mind you their love is fake anyway, it’s just them giving you their attention for providing all their needs) that’s what a woman’s love is defined as. Now you have literally broken you back to become a millionaire and yet you still get played by girls? You still have to impress girls? After fighting for your life to get all these material possessions? You’re still being considered and weighed in the grand scheme of things? Na that gender can fvck off.

I brought one to my house , and upon everything I have that I took years to get the bitch was still not impressed, things that cost me millions, gadgets and everything. That gender deserves all the evil yahoo boys do to them, they have no empathy for the male struggle, they are incapable of ever loving any man, they are extremely selfish and pretentious. I’m good at this point, at least I don’t get to be “considered “ after all I put in to get to this financial level. A female without up to 20k in her account will now be “considering” me? God forbid, if I toast any babe again make I bend.

One kobo dem no dey hold for pocket

They'll even tell u they want to plan with you, that you guys can build together

Na lie yooo! Na still ur money dem wan use take plan, their one naira no dey am

NA still u go work give them money to take start business oh, all the "building together" na FULLY on your neck

guobe:
As a Christian, Lesbianism should not be practiced and nobody in my lineage has ever practiced it .so I will make sure it is upheld by me and my kids and generations yet unborn. I won't judge lesbians and gays but I just told you what I intend to do

Then make sure your kids never go to Lagos or Abuja or even think about any country

guobe:
Why do you think so

Oga open your mouth and tell us how and when she told you she was a lesbian or adores lesbianism

guobe:
its obvious she is a lesbian.she schooled in Canada but currently doing her NYSC.She detests men alot and she dresses like a man which makes me think she is the male in the lesbian act.

Whats exactly bad about lesbianism?

guobe:
its obvious she is a lesbian.she schooled in Canada but currently doing her NYSC.She detests men alot and she dresses like a man which makes me think she is the male in the lesbian act.

You're thinking a lot

She never told you she was a lesbian and never mentioned her adoration for lesbianism

You're just thinking

tete7000:
When you become a Christian, we can begin to discuss Christian hypocrisy as you call it.

I don't care to discuss your Christian hypocrisy

Relax under cool tree shades this evening

tete7000:
Leave hypocrisy for the religious people to deal with. That shouldn't be your headache. In fact, if anything you suppose to be glad you ain't part of our system.

I'm glad I'm not a part of your system

It's not my headache

It's just amusing to me

As a kid, I thought Christians, religious people in general were reliable and straightforward

Vixlot:
Lionel Messi has now surpassed Pelé as the player with the most Goals and Assists in history

Most G/A in football history:
1 - Messi : 1127
2 - Pele : 1126

What's the source of this stat?

abuja007:
Who say na him dey pay bills or run the show in the house? The woman is rolling out the money and being a good loyal wife until this.

If the guy was making the big bucks I don't think he will react so gently like this and thread carefully like this.

Guy confront her gently. Tell her that you know and let her come clean.

And both of you agree on the next step with the boy. You should not have done the DNA test if you did not want to know the truth and take necessary steps.
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He knows the truth, "necessary steps" aren't always necessary

The truth in itself might be enough satisfaction to him

guobe:
I got chatting with a corper girl today and from the conversation I could denote that her schooling abroad has messed her psyche up.Its a norm to be a lesbian or gay abroad and so kids that are not God fearing may fall into that trap when they go abroad.Parents should endeavour to always train their wards properly and educate them from some foreign vices if they are taking their kids abroad.The girls parents are currently trying to change her by bringing her back to Nigeria but I feel it may be very difficult for her to change.

Is she a lesbian?

Or she just sees lesbianism as normal?

obembet:
Most men don't understand that A woman's need for tender moments goes beyond the actual lovemaking.

Some men don't even know how to care for woman after having quality time. A friend of also complain that her man falls asleep immediately after the act. I know that when a man is having sex, his endorphin level is very high. But what Man need to understand what woman need after love making.

To me, I see it as wickedness.

The fact that you urinate after drinking a lot of liquids isn't "wickedness "

it's nature

Fira09:
SOURCE

The villagers think they know too much, if they had not bathed him a few months ago, he would still be alive now

tete7000:
If you an atheist, the notion of fornication shouldn't bother you. The last term I checked, those are concept religion uses to hold people in check. Or do atheist also have codes that outlaw consensual sex between unmarried people?

Hypocrisy is the issue here, not fornication, saying one thing and doing another iz the issue, not the deed itself

"I believe in God, and the whole Bible, but I don't follow some of its teachings because i just like sex"

Without remorse

Romanoff:
If you are rich, you can opt for IVF so they can do selective implantation via advanced NIPT screening for the sickle cell trait.

If you can't afford it, I don't know how you'll do it cause 10 years is a long time to have wasted the time of that woman.

With all the awareness going on about sickle cell and genotype compatibility, it feels like you just crawled out of the stone age where the topic is concerned.

There's also the option of amniocentesis for the unborn child got through copulation

Registeredguest:
I'm a lady in my mid- twenties, I got married aged 22, (always wanted to marry early) on the second year of our marriage we were blessed with a baby, parked to our house and things were rosy. I have always been a workaholic due to that I have never lack as a young lady in terms of finance.

I have always helped him in his house projects, might not be much 100k, 50k, 20k when need be. I never siphoned my money to myself, as a young lady I envisioned my pretty little family on my head, (3 children, handsome husband and pretty wife with a fine car living happily)

Now to the main problem,I think it all started when he told me he has seen a genuine plot of land that we should buy it together, I told him no, I want the land all by myself I have money to pay for it, (just want to have something tangible for myself alone) he said no problem.He sent me an account number of the seller I sent 600k to the seller.we did the necessary documents and everyone was happy.

After some weeks, I decided to dig around his phone then I discovered that the account I sent the 600k to, refunded 200k back to my husband, woke him up instantly I demanded for an explanation.he story no make sense. I was heartbroken, for months I was hurt...the two families got involved and settled the issue.money I no see...

Ever since this issue happened,the home has not been peaceful, fighting everyday. I find it so difficult to forgive him. I insult him, he insults me, he broke my phone, I break his door...I was demanded for an apology he says
"I'm his wife, no be today man dey collect him wife money, he say woman go build house for him husband no ear no go hear" those things hurt me more... everyday was fight, I parked out,I went to my sister's place,he didn't call, he didn't reach out.

3 weeks after I parked I discovered I was pregnant,and informed him immediately through text.i stayed at my sister's place for 2 months no word from him... I decide to rent my own place,I rented a place and went to his house to park my remaining stuff,I meet him home,as soon as he sees I came with a truck to park my things he knelt down and started begging me...I was like,na today I commot for your house why now? He say he think say I dey play, he no think say I serious like this,for good two months you didn't say anything why now...with enough dragging I parked my things to my new rented apartment... since the day I park till now this man has not allowed me rest,his family members has been calling me to come back home, his dad came from the village to plead on his behalf.


My dad is insisting I should not go back...I'm now 6 months pregnant ,I need a father in my children's life.im finding it difficult to forgive him,I'm struggling within myself to forgive and trust this man again.

How can I let go of the past and move back with him...I decided to pay him a visit on Friday,he was happy I came,he did everything possible to show me he has changed but that feeling of betrayal and hurt is there.i left there this morning with querrell,I know I started the querrell,but I can't just seem to forgive him.please I need your help and advice on this pressing issue of mine.

No insult please, I have cried enough.

Maybe he just has to sit you down and give you satisfying answers to all the questions in your mind

Like have a very mature discussion as to why he did what he did, what were his motives, did he really mean the things he said during the fights, and why you should believe he won't repeat such rubbish and childish things in the future, like seize your money even after u gained knowledge of it, and not call or visit for 2 months thinking or assuming that you were playing

Your mind go calm down after such a conversation

tete7000:
If you an atheist, the notion of fornication shouldn't bother you. The last term I checked, those are concept religion uses to hold people in check. Or do atheist also have codes that outlaw consensual sex between unmarried people?

Na lack of understanding dey worry you

HardMirror:
I met one that claimed she was an atheist only to realize she was just trying to be an atheist because she thought it was cool. she still believed in god and all those shit.
I also noticed that if you are doing well financially, girls dont really care if you are an atheist, BUT they will try and convert you, they will hope you can change especially when you propose marriage, they start misbehaving

Gbamsolutely

kay29000:
I swear. I know a runs girl that doesn't joke with church... Sunday service, midweek service, and even house fellowship. The way she's able to compartmentalised her mind amazes me.

U never see olosho way dey play only gospel, mercy chinwo, et al

Franking:
Exactly. Their christianity is usually oral.

... and vaginal, and sometimes anal

Fiscus105:
Is ur aethism free way to immorality. Or u re being aethist so that u can indulge in fornication.

When I was a Christian, I felt guilt whenever I did something against God's law

But I just realised, most Christians don't

NeckingNgulping:
Yeah, a long thing here. My ex called me the devil. This was someone i had a high chemistry with, but we weren't compatible- incompatibility borne out of religion.

Did u tell her from the onset that you don't believe in gods?