₦airaland Forum

sexkillz:
[color=#000030]Who said so? Do you mean to say you've forgiven him already? You see, it's when girls fall for cheap lies like this, and decide to stay that makes most men think they can get away with everything! How the bloody hell will someone tell you that his cousin came and spent the week with him, cousin disappeared before you came into the house, and then re appeared and disappeared again while you slept, and you believed the abracadabra?   Do you really know what you want? Do you like your intelligence being ridden like a horse? It's obvious he is cheating like you said, so Why are you still in that place? And why are you complaining?  Listen up! He'll do it again and again! With his fathers aunty's cousin, and with the daughter of his uncles brother, and you will believe him! Then when he is tired of riding your intelligence, he'll tell you it's over and then "men" become wicked! You allowed it!
When someone is lying to you, you tell them they are lying! Do you even care about the relationship? If you tell me she came and went while i was sleeping, i tell you i was awake all night! 

Some people like being fools! It's like there's a personal joy derived from being told cheap lies and accepting cheap lies, under the mistaken guise that you are being forgiving! I laugh in jamaican! When you forgive someone, you forget about the grudge and you never bring it up again! If you ever complain of the forgiven behavior, you never truly forgave the person! So pls, roll up that "women can forgive more than men" crap, light it, smoke it, and choke on it! This has nothing to do with women forgiving their cheating spouse unlike men, this is about why some women choose to be dumb even in obvious circumstances!. . . [/color]

Yorisb:
Nice Brazilian Cambodian hair. . .

kevoh:
The story get as e be,true though but I sense conspiracy in the way the name Nigerian is written. Anyway, I reserve my comment.

dmainboss:
This is barbaric but I want to say that I always get amused when some guys come here and post things like "This is why the white man thinks we are backward and so on". Some of you living abroad think you are knowledgeable just because you live abroad but you know very little. Human sacrifice has been a practice for thousands of years and believe it or not, It is still being practiced all over the world, including in America and Europe. The only difference from Africa is that it is highly organized in these western nations that you can hardly trace it while it is not so sophisticated here in Africa so it is easily exposed.

Do check out the missing persons database in America and you will be amazed how many thousands of people go missing every year and are never seen again. Spirit-ism and Satan worship is practiced all over the world. It is not an African thing. It is a world thing. Modernity and scientific advancement can never and will never change it.

Orikinla:
For the glory of God. Because, I DO NOT share the selfish reasons of those who cannot live a normal life without marriage. I keep on repeating that bad marriages are the causes of the corruption, greed and wickedness plaguing Nigeria and the other corrupt and poor countries in the world. Go to the slums of the poor majority, you will see that most of the social problems are caused by dysfunctional families started by bad and wrong marriages. Marriage like religion is a very hypocritical practice among the majority who pay mere lip service to their matrimonial vows. If not for the FEAR OF GOD, I would have been sleeping with the wives of my friends and neighbours. Adultery is very common among them. Married couples do not behave like they are married. That is why I wrote "In the House of Dogs". IF YOU CANNOT BE FAITHFUL AND CANNOT SECURE YOUR FAMILY, PLEASE DON'T MARRY. So that you will not bring your matrimonial failures to disturb others. I hate the sight of married couples in the slums living like dogs. God does not force anyone to marry. Marry, marry, marry! How much is your marriage contributing to our GDP and GNP? Since 2008 to date, I have spent nearly N1 million on helping victims of bad marriages. You married id-i-ots make me sick with your liabilities. My late father  married early and left 6 children and I spent over a decade caring for my siblings and that cost me going to a college in Oxford. I worked as a national consultant for the UNICEF and most the programs are for taking care of poor children of poor married couples in slums. Then I was commissioned by the Johns Hopkins University's Population Communication Services as a public health illustrator and translator to produce family planning methods booklets for millions of poor couples in Nigeria  to plan their families. But the dogs will continue to breed  like dogs and cause more poverty in the society. Many of them cannot even afford to pay the examination fees for GCE/SSCE for their children. One particular case, I had to pay for a pupil and also bought food for the family. Why did all those telling the couple to marry not providing for these dogs? Who gave birth to the over 20 million unemployed youths in Nigeria? Unproductive and under achievers posing and posturing as married couples whose millions of  poverty-stricken children are more of liabilities than securities. Only in underdeveloped countries like Nigeria do majority of ignorant people place too much importance on marriage, because that is the best thing they can achieve in this world. Is it not PRIMITIVE that the greatest ambition of majority of Nigerian girls is to get MARRIED?

fireprunej:
This is a very interest post and I must confess I have been there before. I only want to advise that you should know that there are type 1 and type 2 errors in justice and judgement; Type 1: Failure to punish a guilty offender;Type2: Punishing an innocent soul. It is preferable to commit type 1 error rather than type 2. Now in religion or relationship with God, living life and carrying belief system that teaches that hell does not exist really and there is no punishment to sinners and unrepentant souls is a type of type 2 error while type 1 is living your only known life now in the consciousness of the reality of heaven and hell. Now, I we all get to the other side of life after closing our eyes in death and only finds that there is no hell or heaven after all, it won't really matter much to one with a belief in the reality of heaven and hell. What happens to the other fellow who says there is no hell or heaven when ultimately after death, he find out that hell is real, it would have been too late. Jehovah witnesses, seventh day Adventist and other christian or non christian groups that believe that heaven and hell are not real or hold the belief that once saved, you are forever saved such as Christ Embassy, are indirect agents of satan recruiting men/women for eternal damnation with the devil and his fallen angels. The truth is, "It is appointed onto man once to die and after this judgement" - Heb 9:27. God or Jehovah has no beginning of days nor end of life. However, man has beginning but has endless life either spendable in the presence of God (heaven wherever that will be located does not matter or hell 'outside /devoid of the presence of God' wherever this will be does not matter). Summary: Have a genuine unbreakable relationship with God, fellowship with people of like mind, run from sin like a plague, live your life now and hold to belief that heaven and hell are real till the very end. May the Lord give you understanding as he appeared to me and gave me personal revelation of what I have just shared.

bisiaet:
This is a very good question and a very good answer. Please can anyone tell me why is it that any sorts of controversy in the church in Nigeria Christ Embassy must surely surface?? Please am nt been bias is just a simple question for this particular followers.

Beside why is this desperation from this so called Mercy Jonhson of a thing? In Christain structure and foundation it is wrong to marry to a man whom I learnt was not legally divorced from his wife but why does this church want to go ahead any reason??

Well in other word its sometime shocking that so many of this ladies in the so called "Nonsensewood, Flirtywoo, Prostitutewood, Nodignitywood, Irresponsiblewood, Husbadsnatcherswood, Nomoralwood and whateverwood" they are called seems to have lost a screw in their heads by not looking for their own man than a married man and go out to be acting s i l l y films and say we are educating people whereas they themselve they are "Bunch of Boloks Eyesores" is damn annoying.


Anyway I wish her the best and wish the Christ Emabassy or Christ Consular the best of luck lets see how far it will go dodging away from truth principle of christainity and be chasing around shadow.