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Poster i can understand how you feel about this. I had a similar case at babcock last year, i had to attend summer to re-sit an exam i had a D grade in my 100level. My course of study wz cis but i had to take a cognate course wch to me then my D grade wz a fair pass. Wn d time for graduation came, my name wz not listed. I got wind of d information that a D grade in a core, cognate, elective course meant u failed dt course. The school comes out with funny rules at d last minute and you just keep wondering y the need to have a school bulletin wn rules concerning admissions and academic performances are changed witout consideration. I didnt convocate, wnt for summer, did my best evn though it wz painful nd finished wit good grades. Am currently serving but wuld be going 4 my graduation ceremony ds sunday and am happy. However; i must state dt most computer students at babcock are never serious with new horizon courses prolly bcus its a zero unit course. Almighty babcock saw ds as a money making venture and decided to make good use of it. Its unfortunate dt ur sister was caught up in ds mess. Its good to know dt they finally listed her for graduation. This just shows dt it wasn't abt being a requirement for graduation, but jst abt d money. I wish her well.

Here in ogun state, i don't think any corp member has been paid.

This is really heartbreaking. Please they better pay corp members their allowance.

This post is worisome. Op if she truely loves that dude and herself, she should seek d face of God herself and i knw God answers. All them prophet ish na wash ooh! Let her pray 4 herself and ask 4 divine direction oh! Jare! Prophet ko! Doom ni!

After waiting patiently 4 ds news; i feel so sad that she wasn't chosen.

honeric01: Just because my opinion came contrary to yours and that in your support, it means i am forcing them down your throat? the last time i checked, i didn't force anyone to support or agree with me, i just see life differently from the way the 'norm" see life.

Ok.

Following this thread, the arguments, e-fights and misunderstanding of other fellow Nl comments, i now declare this thread officially closed. Haba!!! Honeric you no try at all ooh! U just took over my thread. Lol! Nice coments though, but in all your opinion cannot be forced down on other people view of such relationship. Good to know ur relationship with your girl is stable. For those who think that wasn't love or what we had couldn't conquer d so called barrier we had, mehn! That's so your opinion and you are entitled to your own way of thinking. Still would welcome a lesson or two on how to love or rather be in love when a relationship. Thank you cinammon, killz, honeric and others who gave me new insights on inter religious relationships. Y'all are greatly appreciated.

Honeric has taken over my thread.

simpleseyi: my friend is an anglican; his wife is a jehovah witness; my friend's wife was suspended from jehovah witnesses gathering becos she married a non-jehovah witness whom they called an unbeliever. please can the believers on this forum define who is an unbeliever?

I like your comments but please don't derail my thread. Keep the unbeliever question for another thread. Thank you.

ismaeel86: i don't know why in this modern age, people still place religion above everything, shior... both of u are cowards and that means the love u have for each other cant stand the test of time. i'm really sorry for u, but that's the best decision u took cos both of u are not in love, u just enjoyed each others company when u guys were in the uni.

ismaeel86: i don't know why in this modern age, people still place religion above everything, shior... both of u are cowards and that means the love u have for each other cant stand the test of time. i'm really sorry for u, but that's the best decision u took cos both of u are not in love, u just enjoyed each others company when u guys were in the uni.

You really think so?

kelz88: In my opinion that wasn't love. Your love would have found a way to conquer the barrier. See what religion does to some people!Kai.

Maybe in your opinion, which you are entitled to you think its not love or maybe not, but we both knew how we geniunely felt for each other.

Vikin: OP, THIS IS THE BIGGEST APRIL FOOL HE DID TO YOU!

EITHER YOU ARE DOING APRIL FOOL TO NL OR HE DID IT TO YOU!

GOOD ONE THOUGH

Its so not april fool. I thought so at first until it hit me hard that he was serious.

cinammon: So sori dear,I was exactly in ur shoes nd to worsen it,my dad is a pastor..crazy huh? We both decided its best 2 part waes afta 2yrs..d@ was 2months back..it still hurts,I can't count how many crazy things we hav done aftawards,how many tyms he'd call beggin 4 us 2 just com bac,I still wish I cud go back..we hav tried other relationships just 2 get it ova with buh hell,MESS.lol..now am just on my own,buying tym to heal.it gets better wit d passin daes nd am confident d@ one dae I'l get ova it.so dear,all will b well...I feel ur pains 2.

Yes dear we will be fine. Thanks a lot. Coming to nairaland to post my story was just a way of me not sitting and wallowing in self pity. Bn busy with my fingers and reading helpful comments make me laugh and feel good.

neyostica: Op u did the right thing, too bad for ur bokoharam bf

He was not. lol..

~Killz~:
[color=#000030]Good! Now, to that effect, delete his number, his text messages, the texts you sent to him, delete him from facebook, untag him from your pics on Facebook, delete all his picture in your possession, Burn the physical ones. . . Unfriend his closest friends. The idea is for you to return yourself to how you were before he came into your life. . .

Omo mehn, NO TIME to sit and brood over something that can never be. . . something you have no power over. I'd rather you take control of your life, and be responsible for putting the pieces of your heart back. Let bygones be bygones! [/color]

Lol at all you mentioned above. Don't worry i will be fine.

seedord247: I hate seeing this religious sh1t everyday . .. I thank God for my family. I can even date a Ogun worshipper.

Good for you.

~Killz~:
[color=#000030]Don't worry. . . It will pass. Just make sure you NEVER remain friends with him, else, it will slow your healing process. [/color]

The distance between us now would do justice to that.

mykejones: Look@d bright side dear,trust me,in the long run,you would also agree it was d best decision u eva took.
It's best if u enter in2 a relatnshp wit people of ur kind. It's an advice fo next time.
Gudluck...and speedy recovery frm ur 'hrtbrk'.

lol at heart break. Thanks anyway.

~Killz~:
[color=#000030]The best decision you ever took. . .[/color]

And the most hurting at the moment.

I am the christain and he the moslem. I was never willing to succumb into his religion. It just happend that we fell in love at the university and never thought that religion was going to be a barrier. Now been through with school and more mature in making decisions about our lifes, i initiated the talk about the future considering how the love we feel for each other deepens everyday. I told him my fears and he assured me that all was going to be fine with us. But it seems he thought about it hard and decided to make a decision which initially surprised me. But hay! What can i do? I had to accept the split and it hurts terribly.

Crown Prince: Elaborate more to get a vivid picture of your predicament. Who is the moslem/christian among you? Were you initially willing to succumb to his religious belief?

I and my boyfriend decided to end our 3yr old relationship today. When he called this morning and told me he has been thinking about the christainity and islamic factor which we see as a barrier in other for us to be together, he decided to call it quits with me, and i accepted even though it hurts badly and i still sob as i type this. All the same i still think it could be for the best as i don't intend staying in a relationship that long again without been sure of the outcome. He was so good to me and i hope to get someone as great as he was after my healing process is over.

This is so true. At ogun camp, i would say probably 85% got posted to a primary or secondary school. Many where rejected even those posted to the ministry. I got favoured by God and was posted to a higher institution where my services were needed urgently, and a fair pay guaranteed, with a near perfect corpers lodge with the basic ammenities. I truly got lucky and favoured. With such exposure i'll be so glad i served my nation at that institution; but its so not the same for my fellow batch A corp members who got places not so okay and those who got rejected. I feel sad for them.

I can go on my knees and beg my man if i was at fault. Really no big deal; cos i get lots of kneeling and apologies from dudes in d past who wronged me while i was in a relationship with them.

Here i was thinking that s.a government are better off than thier nigerian counterpart, but it seems they are the same. Yes! S.a ego has been bruised, but we got an apology; so lets kiss and make up already! And let those peeps quoted up there stop making noise jare. See their english spelling sef! Mstcheeww!!

This is so sad. Rip perx.

Hurray!!!! No Boko haram State for me. i have been posted to Ogun State. so Happy

I Would be serving with batch A 2012 and i want to say a big thank you to the poster. You are God sent.

Helping out the bricklayers in the renovation of my father's house.

I will accept a card and a bunch of flower too.