God at first it sounded like a joke wen i read d thread but as ppl started talkin abt deir ordeal

marriage aint as rosy as i tot. to think i m realli anxious nd cant wait 4 mine.

@poster u ve to do somethin about it, prayer helps God manage d problem but u put d wisdom he gives u into practise.

God wont stimulate u 4 ur husband. u just gotta find dat spot wat eva it takes even if its thru porn, atleast i should think 4 married folks its

not bad. Else be ready to eda start sleepin around, be lonely for life, fightin ghosts of past nd present girlfriends. U JUST GOTTA FIND D SPOT

please nigerians stop sittin on a long thing arent u amazed u re at dat spot?

instance: afcon how well we did should tell us where we re supposed to be in dis rankin cos i 4 1 believe dat we re dere cos of

d performance of maybe our u-21, u-17, d falconets, eaglets but definitely not cos of super eagles.

we should be in recess rankin, if dere s anythin like dat

u re pathetic, u neva jam dey just start to diss u.

u re gonna leave 25yrs 4 17yrs. abi u neva see 30yrs breast wey stand. go and see wat d minors re turnin into even we way saywe be chics neva

dared it. i want to see wat lld happen wen u stop havin an erection. so lets see weda its bottle u ll b straffin nd orange u ll b lickin.

ye ye abi ye ye.

Gosh. Why are igbos so backward?? OSU? I say this categorically, igbos are very backward. Even the educated ones still have this old traditional beliefs in this day and age. If i was an OSU, i was used as sacrifices to gods against my own will by the other igbos, then who is considered evil here?? You freakin igbos, now i know there are diff. igbos, the OSU's are the good ones then the other ones are the evil and backward ones. shame on u assholes that still hold these beliefs.



to dis whoeva dat sent dis backward reply &all dose criticizin d ibos
m glad sum1 has enlighten u ppl abt d existence of dis caste system not only in igboland but in oda parts of d country aswell as oda parts of d world. sorry to say but yes it exists. m an igbo girl frm anambra state we ve lil or non of dis but dey bliv in it. i ve an uncle whose wife was an outcast my grand mum who by d way is a highly educated principal nd almost a deacon in church with her brothers didnt go 2 marry his wife with him dere re oda cases. A friend of my mum got married to an osu against her parents wishes nobpdy went for her xcept few family frnds nd relatives wen her mom died dey didnt let her c her mom's corpse d lady ended updying out of frustration nd rejection.
dis s a practice dat a lot of ppl abolish but dey cantdo lil about it YES TO AN XTENT U CAN TALK TO UR PARENTS who by d way may not reali b into it but since its tradition dey mite ve lil or no power ova it.nd it mite wrk but attimes its a lil beyond dat oalot of ppl ve sacrificed ova it nd it didnt favor dem. ass sum1 has said ITS A TIN OF D MIND, GUTS COURAGE, PRAYER U MUST BE READY TO FIGHT EVEN AGAINST UNFORSEEN FORCES.

M also a victim ve bin datin dis guy 4 along time nd all ofs sudden my mum tells me 2 watchout dat he s an OSU so if he s talkin about marriage i shld try 2 ward him off.nd dis s sum1 she can swear on his behalf dat he loves me. i was reali suprised cos dere was a tv program nd dis topic was on air she gave an immense contribution nd he was in my house only 4 him 2 leave nd sh bursted she said m TALKIN 4 FEAR OF WAT MITE B WEN M NOT DERE. i reali loved him nd was ready to go against her nd dem. dou we broke up irrespective of dat i neva told hom dat dou cos i didnt think it was an issue.
ALL IN ALL LOVE IS NOT ENOF TO CONQUER D AFTER EFFECT OF THE MARRIAGE DEY BOTH MUST B READY.

m  indifferent about it probably its becos i knw he lld always ask me to. so d knowledge  gives me ful confidence and if it happened dat his friend is tryin 2 form "I CAN SIT' and runs 2 sit in front den i ll simply ask him "PLS COULD U XCUSE ME" and all he says is ebeg dont mind her she s so used to sittin and pinchin me. otherwise i dont really mind but at times it makes alot of sense dat a guy estyablishes d status of his chic to his friends cos sum friends just dont  give a hoot thus makin her feel like sum1 dat was picked

well i was really dreaming of a WHITE CHRISTMAS but now m kind lost all my hopes re dashed,neways mun mum s really freaked abt us travelling i hope she does not want to give me out for marriage all d same m hopin to ve a blast sides if u ve sum trippin stuffs lldnt mind oh

yea suze i thnk u re right alota ppl re votin 4 familiarity as in fas sake instead of wat s real
I TINK D WORST DANCER COULD VE BIN MORE APPROPRIATE COS OMOTOLA AINT IT AT ALLLLLLLLLLL
I COULD STIL MAKE DO WIT PASUMA

OK I THINK ITS ACTUALLY NATURAL since dats d only (mature) male she came in contact wit first.
but at her age i tot she should be doin beta now,but since wat she feels is actually hindering her acquaintances u should try nd help her get out of it so she doesnt turn to antonniete in catalin nd sebastian
on serious note u should try nd get her associative else ,
to b candid m highly suprised

@ CRAZYKID U SOUND SO OBSOLATE

na ur type go give woman belle after she born TEN u go still tell am say "MAMA BUKKY U NO SAY 4 MY PLACE NA ONLY AMALA OR P/YAM WE DEY EAT".
u lld still send her on God forsaken errands wit a child on her back while u re busy readin a newspaper vor playin drafts dats so , gosh
even witout d advent of washin machines m yet 2 hear u state any plausible reason y u cant help her do her laundries.
bsides aw many girlfriends ve u had? eh m sure every1 of dem ve done ur laundries at 1 time or d other can u tell me if each of them were created 4 dat same purpose (sighs)

i 4 1 aint gat any problem wit it i really dont attach 2 much impt 2 such tins but dont make it a point of duty.
i know some guys dont like such tins atleast my ex doesnt do even his own washings cos he s allergic to washin soaps nd i dont complain cos wat he cant do there he made it up in d kitchen he likes to go 2 d market and atimes do d cookin so washin his stuffs dont move me a bit.

MATURITY GOES A LONG WAY TO ATTEST 4 D SURVIVAL OF THE RELATIONSHIP

sides wat each party wants also contributes to it if u see it as sumtin u want to workout well den i suppose u lld work towards it i cant say m against or for it cos it doesnt go down well 4 evri 1 nd it works 4 sum as sum1 stated
MOREOVER I BELIV DERE RE NO GIVEN RULES TO D SUCCESS OF ANY GUD RELATIONSHIP SUMTINS JUST WORK OUT ND U NEVA CAN TELL WHERE

THEY RE COUNTLESS ND HIS MIDDLE NAME S WRONG

this last valentine i spent the whole day looking 4 sumtin to buy 4 him nd suprise him b4 i got back he was already plannig a coup against me and i just felt it was all an act to make me luk like a sinner and he a saint wen he found i was so sober he just called his friends nd dey went clubbing leasvin me alone in d whole house.

the list is endless boy m i glad he s gone 4 good after 5yrs

on QOUTE @All
In as much as I am an advocate of female independence, I sometimes wonder --------
Since many guys eventually get bored in a relationship and move to the next one, why would the girl not go for one that she can be assured of some benefit/gain when the guy moves on? or is any of you guys married to the first girl he slept with? just wondering

my sister tank u oh

who says its beign a yahoo boy that makes your life a wrong tale. yes i accept d act s wrong nd what u do goes a long way to tell who u re but that doesnt mean all them yahoo buys re wrong by nature. m not dating anydou but do u know that d tots,words,nd actions of some of u non-yahooans re actually worse dan deirs?


i hear someone sayin its yahoo boys this and that i totally disagree wit d bad name dey give to our country but on second tot i lld rada ve them do that dan carryin knives nd guns killing innocents its not like dose dey re robbin on d net re not innocent but atleast dey ve a choice, i hear dey ve a talk show educatin them on ways a nigerian can scam nd still dey don't listen. i 4 1 think dey re greedy too.

as for you our SA i don't ve a problem wit what u said that is just because its true but most of my bros nd sis don't find it funny because u re not from this gender but it lld b 9ce if u spent sumtime watchin d news in anticipation 4 your countrys bad name dan waitin 2 hear another bad news in nigeria i don't think u people re any beta truth s  I KNOW DAT You KNOW DIS ND ITS A FACT

yea sorry to bryan&lovette dat couple stands 4 compatibility and crisp dance i really didnt believe it. as it is i wont b suprised if omowunmi and funlola leaves next. since zizi nd bryan could leave.
sides wat in d world s omotola still doin dere
m sure if judge dayo had his way he lld ve erased her existence ftrom the show cos wat she s doin s so pissin him off atleast i can tell from d luk in his eyes nd his tone to her comments
she needs to b checkin up on her kids nd husband not wearin tights nd showin d world her"sexy booty"

abeg wats which kind winch head una wan make e turn? eh?


does unruly battered, pam slippers wit deir mouth askin GOD 4 4giveness make ur head turn wen guys wear dem? wether dem fine or not?
just as u lld look disgusred at a guy so dressed dat comes around u, na so dem sef go dey askn wit big sigh oh say

WHICH KIND MUMU CHICK B DIS SEF WEY DEY FORM I VE ARRIVE?
u no d tin abt sum guys s dey try not 2 cal girls names in public 2 avoid BARRSMENT, IF U NO WAT I MEAN.
abeg try e hear!!!!

sorry seun wat do u mean by his ex's ghost?
 did she ve anytin 2 do wit d chick's death?
  i agree wit dose dat say u shouldf let him b 4 sumtime not knowin wen d chick died but mean while try doin sumtin wit ur life while u watch nd wait

yeah sugar u really re not xpectin too much. like someone said she had an ex like that who couldnt even get her mcdonalds. mine was a great flop to humanity. icouldnt say he was broke because i could swear dt even if i didnt know d color of his bank acct it was pippin hot. but damn was he,  i can't say if i shld call it stingy he  always had an excuse to give over every issue he couldnt caRELESS OR SO I TOT IF IT WAS UR PATH TO SUCCESS BUT HE PROFESYS Love like hell and always get me tinkin like i was been ova demandin nd he as well asGod nd i no that it was only impossible situations that made me ask him of anytin. i kept myb cool for 5yrs but tins only got worse it was only when i tried to blank him that he even shows face.
   so my dear if u can't sit 4 20mins witout tinkin of sumtin good to give him nd he can sit 4 three days nd not boda about antin that makes u feel good den u can clearly c both tables dnt measure ip nd guess what dey never ll,.
if a guy can't try to prove himself to u while dating or courtin when he knows its likable that u walk out girl he aint going to do it when he marries u either.definitely not when u re his property.
dose excuses never end.
as for the religious bacgrounds m sure u no beta.
i agree wit the patience nd hear to heart talk but i bet u re gonna kip gettin the same damn excuses dat makes u feel like u dont appreciate oor undastand,. m talkin frm experience but give it atry nd i wish u luck but pls dont sit around waitrin aimlessly 4 him 2 change to nothing.

@ poster
barbara is an artiste(song)now nd she used 2 b in d next movie star as sum1 sais earlier but i dont tink anytin abt her pls dont get me wrong its just 1 of dose tins u c nd dey make no difference to u. lets just say m indifferent abt her
yeah she s a chick as in girl so i dnt no if my comment abt her is supposed to b afterall m a lady too
an opposite sex should comment

, dats d spellin of silence , dats d spellin of loneliness , dats d spellin of joblessness
,
dats wat u get wen dey meet (loneliness silence nd joblessness )meets to play wit ur sanity
lets say she even showed u d stretch mark so bloody wat re u supposed to ask huh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

all i can tink of now s wentworth miller from prison Break just to ask him if he s dt smart,intelligent ,fast,quick,and so much a genius den we kld start talkin just talk no more

yes i can nd dou i feel utterly strange i also feel free u know like wen notin else matters
funny enof i went to work today nd m so not wearin anytin nd guess wat everi1 s so complementin me funny dou dat i ve no earings pn i just felt like i should ve a free tuesday nd m lovin it.
bsides i love meke up nd love to wear it on ppl if i didnt ve to study a BSC course i lld ve loved 2 bcome a cocmetologist neways its still in view

first u chicks ve guts oh

like odas ve said d reason 4 d break up goes a long way
but i bet dressin to show him wat he s gonna miss aint dat bad especially if he s d mismanager but u really should ve made up ur mind oh
no be d one way b say if he touch u 1 na u go dey beg 4 more ohhhh cos atimes lettin go if u really had it nd want it so so haaaaardd. so b prepared

wait oh is wat ure wearin on d inside too or just on d outside

ok
a purple lace bra wit a white tank top nd a lilac laced pantie wit a black short

beautiful liar
honest theif
noisy grave

no u re not greedy i say u tabulate ceach 1 compare nd contrast
eva heard of d word SCALE OF PREFRENCE yeah dere s just gotta b 1 dat falls short of d list nd need i say u should b mindful at aw close u get 2 each b4 u get real entangled

lest i 4get wats wit d michelles anyway i couldnt say if it were 2 much a coincidence

wateva its happenin to her i wish d little girl good health



bsides was it ojb dat 1 fine girdl dat has her own single gave birth for

wateva its happenin to her i wish d little girl good health



bsides was it ojb dat 1 fine girdl dat has her own single gave birth for

m really sorry if m d only 1 dat understands where u re comin from. cos i know wat it feels like to ve a friend u really feel comfortable wit u like 2 b wit dem nd all but ur heart s just so blank abt any sexuall entaglement. i mean u re so plain noil nd void on dat issue.now dats 1.
speakin from my own pt of view my ex didnt tink it was dat way he neva blives its just talk nd to sum pt i walked wit him. so if u ask me i know dat u mite not mean any harm but its just dat u cant c frm d nxt persons stand pt. Bliv me u lld neva feel comfortable if it were u .even if u always ve lunch wit d guy nd ur chick u lld always wonda wat dese 2 ppl always do 2geda. i ve a problem wit gettin close 2 ppl nd wen i do nd its plain i try my best 2 show every1 dat its just a harmless friendship since no 1 seems 2 undastad den i guess dere s more to it ndc wen it came i saw dat u lld neva take it if it were u.
Bsides u fiancee needs to no more dan wat u re lettin her on .

u ever heard of d word security or insecurity

abeg make una try no kill d oster
as 4 ini i neva really was into her she desnt ve this lady attitude she s alwas in d air nd acts very flirtatous or so i tot. as 4 d pregnancy i couldnt b less bothered ,but i , abeg watz dat , ehen , so wat??
but poster i no u were just trin 2 jist us . abeg ini no reach

nd wen tins started i didnt want 2 bliv it was gonna get dat bad not dat it was terribl but we were yung nd very much in love or so i guess frm d way tins turned out but wen events started to unroll i couldnt bliv it was d same person i startd 2 wonder abt promises made nd all dou i didnt ve time 2 regret any hurt cos i spent alot of tim treatin pain til i bcame an xpertin n pain heeler but it just balls down 2 d fact dat no time s 2 small to no sum1

but if u guys say courtin s difft and a last or a concludin step to finalise if u ppl re commpatible or not den i dnt no y it should take dat long but m so sure TEN YRS S NOT AENOF 2 KNOW UR SPOUSE
like n my case i started real early so even after losin 5yrs m stil yung nd wen i saw it was goin nowher i walked out i could close my eyes nd say he loves me cos i no he does but its more complicated
its all RISK ND DATS WAT LFE S ABT

an`immense contribution i must say to every1
i lldnot say dat courting 4 4yrs s too long or not but its clear dat wmost of the replies confuse dating for courtship as wen we tink of anytin abt a man nd a woman 2geda s a relationship(datin) dat comes to our mind.
I DONT TINK TEN YRS S ENOF 2 NO A GUY OR A LADY as m stil yung nd want 2 get married anytim soon dou i mite b too yung nd ve really not courted. i dated my ex 4 5YRS

an`immense contribution i must say to every1