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[quote author=Abbey_city link=topic=336344.msg4723010#msg4723010 date=1255424548]can u plz tell m hw it's our fault?[/quote]First and foremost it belongs to you people and the way you lay your bed you lie on it. You ladies gave the men access to it for what reasons? Money, fun or what? You ladies join the men in condemning virgins and supporting the idea that we all need sexual experience before going into a married life. Who gains and who looses in this experiment? the signs are self evident but you ladies don't want to see it.

Did you miss the thread where a guy was complaining about his Girl friend sagged breast after sleeping with her for four months? Some men here are messing girls up and will still boldly come out to say they want to marry a virgin. Don't you see men here on nairaland saying they will shine their eyes before getting married because of what his happening in our campus? Who are the pimps and who are those messing these girls up? Did you miss the thread where men are saying their intending wife's will have to get pregnant before they tie the knot. Did you also miss the thread that says what if your GF comes home and tell you baby i am pregnant? will you accept or reject the pregnancy? Please go and read guys comment in those thread and see for yourself. Then ask again whose fault is it?

I am not blaming the ladies 100 percent, don't get me wrong. The society and economic reality also has its blame and other factors as well but the majority of the blame should go to the ladies. If you ladies never game them the chance to mess you up then there will not be a need for this situation.

michelin89:
Pharoh & phraoh

Are you trying to confuse me??

No we are not confusing you, we are two separate individuals with just a slightly similar name.

phraoh:
Nobody is tryin 2 confuse u as Phraoh and Pharoh are 2 separate entities.Nice meetin u Pharoh n i appreciate ua explanation.U see.

Nice meeting you too and i would like to say i really appreciate the way you have handled this issue with her. She is not what most people want to believe she is. I have multiple ID's here and i am an old member like her as well but as a guest for almost two years. So i will just want to say it takes guts to maintain only one ID here on nairaland so lets appreciate her.

There is a message in that post dear.

We are all greedy but i guess the blacks are worst

You sure don't have time to examine the six packs and muscular bodies? , _{heard most girls are crazy about those}

Chai how long has the ride been dear? So your personality here on nairaland is different from reality? Now i get you hmm but the ride was sweet anyway LOL

She sure has some anger but i can say she is diplomatic if only you try to know her style and how she wants to be related to. i have been burnt sometimes in the past but i am getting to know her style more lately  .  You are asking her to be diplomatic? have you argued with TheBlessed before? My guy go and try that one and come back to give Michelin a thumb up Lol. if you are old here enough and tried one lady called Militia then you will know what i am talking about. _{I like that militia die but she no dey here again}

Ebonyeyes:
haba make una settle nah no drag me inside o

You have the attributes of a fair Judge  

Ebonyeyes:
Yes Karma visits both parties. I think I know who you are now _{Nigeria is indeed ready for a revolution} So you are a guy as I guessed why are you using this ID then?

Oh you know me now after i gave you more 10,000 clues right?   , Chai you spelled my name there ooo anyway no problem. Did i mentioned that i am a guy anywhere?   BTW who did you guess was a guy? the ID here or the one am not using for now?  Well i am using it for ******, i have more if thats is not going to scare you?   Nairaland thought me that anyway. _{Hmm i don't know why i trust you, i am kind of free with you.?}

Ebonyeyes:
Uhmmmmm where do we stare at now?

if you are at the Gym what will you be staring at? what about a social gathering? won't you checkout his appearance as well? you girls stare more than the guys you just call it side peeping Lol.

This is interesting hope the thread will be focused and not derailed. Can you place another map below it i mean the full map of Nigeria so we can see clearly are you solved the niger-delta map, you did not include kwara in oduduwa? Do you mind i place maps too or we should discuss just yours only? So a future biafra will be landlocked? i don't think the ijaw will form on nation, they will either move into biafra or oduduwa.

Olaolufred:
Lulu is a liar.
How many times do they delay the teams training in Spain because of corruotion in their broken house called glass.
You may buy a book for your son to prepare for an Exam.
But, when you buy the book a day to the Exam, how usefull is it?
NFF is the greatest problem of Naija Footy.
They can frustrate even the world best coaches.
Siasia accepted responsibility for the poor performance,
But remains the most Tactical Coach we have if encouraged.
To the Nigerians talking Jargons against Siasia,
they to me are very unfair.
Lulu should have been blown up with a detonator before he could even have blasts someone else.
He should go back to FCDA where he was embezzling Nigeria money than to also ruin our football.
A Quantity Surveyor should only be helpfull in building the stadium. And his job ends there.
But in Nigeria, A Vulcanizer can be Coach, if he is a PDP member.
Shame on Yar'adua and his group of crooks.
One day, all of them will be dethroned.

I get you bro but why didn't siasa simply resign because of all these wahala or is it compulsory to coach a Nigerian team? To he got what he deserved because the praises has obviously been getting into his head. He should go get a regular job by coaching a club side.

lannre:
Government of the elites,by the elites and for the elites. I think I should hear him talk about, PSP for the Educational sector,Health Sector, Infrastructures (its only the flowers that are drinking water) Those Fashola Loyalist don't know how much Lagos state is making compare to his "lets shout" projects. (Clearance of oshodi has been the major achievement) Decay in the Educational sector can be stopped,water can be provided in this Aqua State. We are not asking for too much,let there be Vocational centers for the less privilege ,let celebrate the 900 days or what next with smiles on the faces of less privileges. affordable housing can be achieved.

Will fashola loyalist listen to you?

Does lagos need a dubai in the first place? misplaced priorities everywhere , Very unpatriotic comments here only talking about creating jobs. Jobs for who? Yes i know about the development politics going on in Nigeria and building your own airports will solve that right? Why don't we sit down and re-write that fucking damn constitution and practice true fiscal federalism where the center will no longer dictate to the states what they can do or not do. is that not better than building an airport and a free trade zone.

The most annoying this is that people don't realize that Lagos state is a special state and is not that fashola is even the expected messiah. Why don't you put him in those far northern state and see if he will perform?

Ebonyeyes:
Ebonyeyes are made for staring I guess

But you ladies don't stare at the face only anymore these days?

ilohim:
Many callous comments have been made by lots of guys here;but my question:

Why do u same guys always want to have premarital sex? Yet you dont want a child?

I really dont get you guys;stop the sex outside marriage bit so that we can have women who can still put to bed after marriage;many abortions have undone lots of ladies.

Someone could treat your sister or daughter the way you have treated someone elses too!

Its a vicious cycle, & I strongly believe that what goes around,comes around!

Were the ladies forced to have pre-marital sex?

Ebonyeyes:
'Great post" When these men cannot have kids in future or have failing business they wonder what went wrong . You can run from pastor to babalawo but you will still be visited with Karma.

Karma visits both parties IMO because both are guilty.

Ebonyeyes:
Thats the scary things about forum, you dont know who is reading. I try to be careful about what I say.

As for the hints im as thick as two bread sticks when it comes to clues and will not get it till you literally spell it out

Okay let me give you one more try by stating all the hints

The user name has two words, one tells a common noticeable feature about africans and the other is an abbreviation of the most important thing nigeria needs right now. I last talked with you on that Id about two weeks ago . I am a friend to Patwhizkid with that ID, I gave a compliment about your eyes with that ID. Mostly on the politics and romance section. Do you know how to read your ABC? there is a clue there. Please just try and make one guess atleast. I am not popular on nairaland

[quote author=Abbey_city link=topic=336344.msg4719497#msg4719497 date=1255366411]am jst fed up abt u guys in here! if somone talk abt virginity u guys will say it's "bad"! but imagine wat u're trying 2point out here nw       am jst pissed offffffff. . . .  [/quote]Good morning hope you know the meaning of that word? it was said by Ojukwu to the Niger Delta people. The men are obviously eating their cake and having it again because the fault comes from you ladies but it seems most of you don't realize it yet.

Ebonyeyes:
Tell me about it hun. Hypocrites. I hope you dont they dont have sisters because other goons are "wearing them out"

It is not about their sisters dear, you ladies gave them the opportunity to be hypocrites and that's the truth of the matter.

Ebonyeyes:
Ok my definition might be different to yours and others. Well guys are all about what they can get from girls too. Its a rotten game and girls are playing now as well. Yes I check out handsome guys with my side-eye not graphically like you guys do

Well out of pride you girls settle for the side eye view and not that you don't do the same like the guys. Don't let me expose it here because i sure you do know it as well. We look graphically because we have to examine the total package and we are not ashamed of our actions or what are the EbonyEyez meant for?

michelin89:
Thank you for spelling it correctly.

I have been a mod for a long time. Can't I have fun too?

Oh sorry my bad i never noticed it and do you mind telling the category you moderate? You surely need to have fun too just like every other member but because of the position you occupy people will have to interpret your actions in a way you never imagined. Thats the problem here, i intend having a forum as well in the future and i have learned a lot here on nairaland. I have an idea that can be a solution to this moderator problem with members.

Missy B:
Who be all these unsought referees?

Don't get you?, are you suggesting we let them be so they can slug it out here? Will that be nice for the forum?

Do you Mind EbonyEyez as well  _{I have answered your question here https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-333635.192.html}

michelin89:
Yes, I get you. I don't mind being called Mich, or Michie, or Michy, but don't change the name into another different one altogether.

Okay thats good then, please house take notice of the right spelling of her username and the other acceptable ones.

@iyke Someone need to bark down please and as a guy like you, i am pleading for you to bark down Please do before it gets out of hand and very nasty. Moderators are not jobless people oooo, it is just how things are being done on Nairaland thats why it looks so.

@Michelin89 You are now a moderator please tone it down a little bit because there are certain expectation now expected from you which this is not part of IMO. I know it pains you but you guys should just settle it like adults.

@Michelin89 you  should understand that sometimes it is difficult to spell the names exactly which is not so important because you do know they are referring to you. Sometimes it is just an humble mistake and for someone like me i would have preferred calling you Michie just to shorten it and personalize the name. Don't be mad with us ooooo, Most of this wrong spellings are not intentional or trying to abuse you in anyway. Hope you get me.

People do worst than that, they can wake up what you said on this thread after 5 years  , Telling you the two ID might defeat the purpose of having them but anyway it will not be straight forward but like you said i will give you five simple hints.  . Even if you guess right i won't confirm it here LOL. First Hint, The ID is something that is common to Africans or what we are generally known for.  . _{The hints are very glaring and i think you need only one to figure it out and not even the 5 hints} 

Keep it up brother God bless you

_{Guess you girls like it when guys seek your help when they offend their GFs} . But did you tell her the reason you cannot talk that long with her? if you did then she is wrong. By the way will the world end if you loose her? , the above signs does not smell good for someone you don't want to loose IMO.

What is all the hype about this swagga of a thing?

Ebonyeyes:
You will get where there, all it takes is patience and hardwork . I wish I could tell you hun but I will not disclose personal info about me in here because I have seen how people use that against NLers

Thanks for the encouragement i really appreciate them just that life is so fast these days that if you don't make it quick you might not get the best out of life.
Sorry i really didn't mean it that you should disclose it here, i wanted to say you should not if you don't want to. Yeah peoples info have been used wrongly here and thats why most people don't have info and pics on their profiles anymore. Anonymity is the other of the day here on Nairaland . I am really disappointed in somethings i have seen on nairaland. I have started to remove all my infos and links to them from the internet and replacing them with camouflag identities like what is now on my profile. _{I have more than one ID here}

chic2pimp:
Oh my dayzzzzzzzzz. Do you seriously think what you wrote is true?

Yeah IMO and observations, black girls especially naija girls go after white guys because of what i pointed earlier and in addition for the money and better life to derive from it. Not that they would have done that easily if everything was right for them. The percentage that does it for true love is negligible .

Ebonyeyes:
Haba you want me to define the term again? what do you mean by most girls are[i] fake[/i]? and what games are we playing? we just want to be loved. Yes women are beautiful thats why yall scope

Yes na okay define it exclusively to me, I mean girls are also into relationships for what they can get and these days it is two who can play the games. So we men don't deserve love as well . We are also handsome too thats why you girls check us out

Ebonyeyes:
One of my italian flatmate always asked me why black guys are chubby chasers. I told him chubby girls need love too and are beautiful. You know black men prefer fuller figures anyway. Last time I checked, black girls are not really interested in white guys like that.

Why would they be interested when they have got the ***** guys at their disposal already? . Well it is those guys who are looking for papers and not the average black guys. Ha we don't prefer fuller figures anymore. wait self fuller as in overall fat or just the back and front delicate organs of the females body with a complimentary fitting body. . Yeah black girls are not interested except those doing it for papers and prusti runs.

Chai my black brothers has suffered a lot ooo and you really know a lot about this i can see. I also believe just like you and most other people in the marriage institution. Our Fore-Fathers usually says that a crayfish becomes bend due to conditions, just don't pray for you to be in those people's conditions sweety . In the same club don't you see black girls chasing white guys

Actually the medical field anyway, my parents wanted me to be a medical doctor (same as my elder brother ) but i had a rough education that made me to decide otherwise. Because that rough education was against my principles and Policy somehow. By way of permutation i found myself studying information Technology which am through with now. Thats why i was wondering how did your ebony eyes deduced that in my earlier post. Well i am happy somehow for some reasons though i am not yet there in that field anyway.

Come answer my questions jare you believe in that i know and people preach what ever they believe. So what can you say about this word, do you practice what you preach or believe?

Ebonyeyes:
Hunny, it most of the fat and not so attractive girls these men go for and these women accept them because they are not wanted by their European men.

How do you know all these?

Ebonyeyes:
I agree this was a selfish reason but still he should atleast remain faithful for the 2 or more years that he has to be married before he gets his passport .

You are not fair dear Even those who are married to damsels still cheat and you are now advocating for th case of an 80 year old woman. Body no be firewood na