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Nayah:I am not against spending in the real sense and nothing wrong with doing things once in a while even if it is expensive. Like you said it is a pleasure if done in the right sense but when it becomes a condition or an obligation, then you start asking what is in it for me?. It at this point you start evaluating the reciprocity you get back from her. In nigeria spending includes those things you have just excluded and even more which makes me not to see any true sense in it if she is not your wife. sexkillz:Good to know you get my point and yes spending on a woman as whole is not wrong but the reasons should be on point. |
Cuddlemii:Lol i get your point now and it was just little bit difficult for me to separate it from the whole write-up initially. You are really funny . . . .but this topic is something else . . . don't actually like to get into it that much. Been reading some interesting stuffs on this thread and good to put your ideas sometimes on the table for others to analyze. P.S . . .[size=1pt]Hope you are doing good and your admission stuff is now through?[/size] |
sexkillz:A lady is just a subset of the people that you can spend on, you have friends, families, strangers and even enemies. So definitely you can spend on a lady but on what circumstance or reasons should it be necessary. If a lady earns her money and she can afford are needs for herself, so what could be your reason in doing it for her. It does not exclude you doing one or two things for her and vice versa once in a while. If a lady can afford to pay her bills, why pay it for her? don't you have your own bills to pay too or will she pay it for you while you are also earning your own income. It seems we forget the fact that men were paying the bills of ladies because there was no means for them to earn money in the past which is not true in this generation. The problem i and other people have been trying to point out is that, this spending of a thing has turned into a condition or an obligation which is very wrong. If spending on a lady is an obligation or a condition for the relationship to work then it is wrong but if not then it is okay but not complulsory. It is your obligation as a married man to take care of your family which is accepted but there are no laid down rules for a mere relationship. Thats the point i have been trying to point out and hope i do have a trajectory now?. |
badmrkt:So does that mean women do not love their boyfriends because the norm is that, it is only a weak and broke-ass man that would make demands on a woman. If the obilgations of a man that loves a woman is to spend for her and fulfill her demands then please do tell what are the obligations of a woman that loves her man?. |
Cuddlemii:I always like your intelligent write-ups, kudos to you for that but let me step in at this point. You are right that it is not a do or die affair but the last sentence which i bolded goes against your earlier stand. First an alternative to not dropping the partner in front of a bank to rob means that the second coloured sentence becomes a viable option. The partner is then pressured into stealing or doing whatever it takes to satisfy the demand because your last statement confirms the norm within the soceity. Your last statement implies that there is no alternative to being in a relationship without spending because you gave the only option of stepping out. Most guys in nigeria now take it as an obligation or one of the compulsory requirements to be in a relationship. If the low income of a guy is not sufficient then it is actually a do or die affiar which must meet up to the ladies expectation or you step out. On one hand it is not a do or die affair but your statement implies that a relationship will not work if it is not done. Hope am not getting you wrong but let me know if i have just done that. A lady should look up to her parents or be self sufficient either in a relationship or not because nothing is better than spedning your own sweat. Spending for a lady does not qualify a guy as the better partner than he who does not spend. I am still begging for the question, why do ladies go into a relationship and what are they expecting from their boyfriends? |
It is not wrong for any partner to spend for the other in the context of a relationship but i also think it is not compulsory to do it if you don't want to or if it is not your style. Marriage presents a different setting with clear rules and responsibilites unlike a mere relationship. I seriously want to know why a man has to spend for a woman or girl friend, be it wrong or right. I have been hearing about man do this and that but what about the women. Why spend money for someone that could afford to do the same thing him/herself. Why spend when the person can also work, make her own money and spend it the way she likes. This definitely does not rule out occasional assistance or doing one or two things out of the blue.The problem in nigeria is that, it is now seen as a defacto obligation on the men or boy friend which is totally wrong. Men should make their money and women also should make thier own money for whatever expenses they might encounter. The soceity has been libralised and we all have access or equal opportunities to make money. Saying a woman should spend for a woman or take care of her needs when she is in a relationships makes a mockery of the idea of being in a relationship in the first place. There are reasons for going into a marriage and a relationship and i don't looking for someone to spend for you is on top of the list. I wonder who is going to take care of the needs of a single lady or woman that is divorced. It is not wrong and neither is it compulsory to spend on a woman. It is not any form of obligation on the men but freewill which should not serve as a condition to make the relationship work. |
pro01:+100 jampro123:+100 |
Real Madrid achieve record-high revenue of €480m The Spanish giants claimed the highest turnover out of any sporting institution in the world during 2010-11 and also managed to cut their debt considerably Real Madrid announced the sporting world's[b] highest revenue figures[/b] after financial details from the 2010-11 season were released on Friday. |
wendoworld:How dey fear again come dey cough and clear throat for where y a elders dey ba . . . ![]() |
There has been calls to make a nairaland fantasy league for the uefa champions league competition but with time running out and no visible action, i have decided to do it myself but the moderators can create a new one if this is not appropriate. Here is the link and the codes for both the classic and head to head league, they are both unlimited with a knockout round. Your league code is : 93171-16171 Your league code is : 93171-16181 http://en.uclfantasy.uefa.com/ |
My wife will work no mata how much i earn. But her money will be hers,i will take care of the house. Then she can do as she pleases with her moni.+1000 . . . . . ![]() |
^^ Bad belle for wetin na . . . why i go beef person wey no offend me? . . . . ![]() |
^^ He is already out for two months and that does not look like getting well soon to me. |
Bloody Mancini . . . . . ![]() |
Only if she wants i guess. |
AjanleKoko:Yeah you are right . . . . but there is probably a special antidote for this system of play as we look no further . . than The ![]() P:S Messi now captain of argetina with mascherano, zanneti, cambiaso and tevez still in that same team?. ![]() |
I think we should resurrect this thread so we can follow all matches and news relating to la liga. La Liga is the biggest joke in the world' - Sevilla president lashes out at Real Madrid - Barcelona domination http://www.goal.com/en/news/12/spain/2011/08/30/2643085/la-liga-is-the-biggest-joke-in-the-world-sevilla-president |
^^ Team pressuring, marking and discipline is the key not rugged defenders, i think it was started by arrigo sachi. |
AjanleKoko:It is very simple, poaching of youth players and star players like the almost signing of rossi. Unlimited access to various financial funding and guarantees with no need to balance the books but still stay in debt. Bigger infrastructure, merchandise and support from the likes of media houses, sports companies etc. Unlimited access to the best resources in running a football club and an academy. It is not going to change unless Platini plans are implemented, fair sharing of the tv rights and fundamental changes are made to the league. |
^^ You better follow before it turns into a supersonic jet and leaves you behind but be mindful of your transfer costs sha. I am constantly looking for potential consistent point rakers to be in my team for the long haul and not some week wonders like Darren bent. Ibime:Lol . . . you are honestly making a mistake there because we are prepared to dominate for the long haul as we are not novices like lighthouse FC. I am very sure of my competence, so it is better for the competition to to start now or never. I have quoted your comments so that it can be easily referenced in the future, will soon reveal my list of top managers after my first 50 teams evaluation in the first three weeks. |
^^ You no see Pharaoh's Army in second position topping the gameweek . . . . . . afraid dey hold me self to type the points for here . . ![]() Phony200:Just stick to the present formula and you will always find yourself at the top even with the faintest touchlights. ![]() |
Varane debut before his new fans at the Santiago Bernabeu Trophy |
Real Madrid have reacted with anger over the launching of an investigation into the all-in brawl at Barcelona last week. |
Real Madrid fans will show their support for Jose Mourinho in tonight's Berlusconi Trophy clash with Galatasaray. |
Waoh i jumped from 49th in week one to 14th in week two and nobody even one praise me self . . . ![]() I think my highly protected intellectual property formular is working and i will defend it vigorously against any copycats as the season goes on. ![]() |
lalaboi:There is a new rule now, bonus points for weekend matches (saturday and sunday ) are added on monday while bonus points for monday matches are added on tuesday or the next day for midweek matches. |
You will not pay income tax but surely other forms of tax will be applicable to you. |
It is high time the focus on this sector and hell yes, it actually takes more than just declaring a state of emergency. There are a thousand and more actions that is needed to be taken in other to solve this problem. it would not be out of place for nairaland to even contribute to the solution of this malaise in one way or the other. |
jackpot:Wetin be thief-ed my guy abi you no finish primary school again?, better use the word stolen to save ya ugly face. ![]() BTW education is free and i no mind take you as adult student if you enrol for my tutorial class. ![]() |
Portuguese defender Ricardo Carvalho made his 50th appearance with Real Madrid against Barcelona in the return leg of the Spanish Super Cup at Camp Nou. Carvalho has been a key player for Jose Mourinho since his debut on 29 August 2010. He has scored three goals with the Whites and won the Copa del Rey in the 2010/11 season.Congratulations to carvalho and hope he gives more of his best before he finally retires here in real madrid. I would personally say thank you for all the contributions you have made to the team and real madrid as a prestigious institution. |
Iker Casillas and Xabi Alonso talked to the media as soon as the return leg of the Spanish Super Cup was over. Sergio Ramos addressed the media in the mixed zone after facing Barcelona at Camp Nou. |
It was a good match generally save for the last ugly moments and its time to improve on this performance to compete for the three trophies at stake. I should say we lost the cup probably right from home but i like the changes in the team and surely know they will improve more as time goes on. |
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