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sweetheart12:
I Need Your Advise Please

I will sincerely appreciate a good advise from you all.

I have been in a relationship for 7 years, in this relationship i was in, the guys father never like me from the day he heard my name. My boyfriend then asked him severally even the mum also asked the dad why he didnt like me, but he was not able to give any reason.

Myself and this my boyfriend has had several breakup due to his father not liking me.

The third time i broke up with him was because he beat me up and left several injury on me. He came back to beg and apologize and all then i accepted him back. A time came when we planed to do our wedding, when his dad heard of it he never supported it. Our Pastors asked him why he never wanted us to be together but still there was no reason given.

After this incident my family said i cant marry him since his father has never accepted me. I was not able to let go cos i was thinking how i will throw away the 7 years of relationship, but not quite long my boyfriend came to me and said he wanted us to breakup since his father wont accept, i cried n cried but at the end i decided to let go.

After 6 months i heard he has done introduction with a girl the father like and all. after a year now the same guy is now calling me saying he wants us to come back together and get married, he said he does not love the girl he was forced to do introduction with by his dad, he said he has told the girl he didnt love her and cant marry her,he also said his dad has accepted that we can get married now. DO I GO BACK TO HIM OR NOT?

During this last breakup we had, i met a very nice guy by name Sammy he has been so nice and good to me, When i and Sammy met it was not up to 6 months before Sammy traveled out of the country. He was supposed to be away from the country for 2 years then he will return and we will do our wedding. Sammy loves me alot, he is a God fearing person but recently he told me he's not sure of his coming home in next 2 years as planed, when i asked him what the new plan is and when he will return home he said he cant say, Sammy still loves me and wants us to be together but i am worried how long i will have wait before he returns. And now my ex boyfriend is saying he wants us to get married. i am just confused.

What do i do please? I need advise please.

optional1:
Lolz

Y u should vote 4 me;
Am beautiful jst as God made me no need to apply make-ups on my pretty face before u see my beauty.

Am a sincere nd honest pesin, God fearing nd intelligent wit God doing, a smart lil princess, am a footballer, a good cook.

I should say more.



Good morning.

refiner:

lol...thanks hun...

refiner:
lol !
ok dear....am a member of RCCG!

refiner:
lol !
ok dear....am a member of RCCG!

refiner:

RCCG dear...

buh does it change a thing?

refiner:
...yea sweety,I am!

there are numerous reasons,but I will just list two!

I wish you will vote for me because...
*...no doubt you'll be voting for beauty and brain!
*....and no doubt you'll be voting for a young sincere and humble lady...a lady with lots of extra ordinary character!

optional1:
I met a soldier man on Sunday, he actually helped me to get petrol because the queue at the station iwas very long and I have waited for 2hrs' the queue wasn't moving well so I walk up to d soldier who was controlling the queue and also making peace to reign. I begged him to help me out and indeed he did. But he didn't accept to help me without collecting my phone number.



Since on Sunday the soldier has been calling me and he stay on d phone for 10mins, yesterday the soldier pick up a courage and ask me to date him.






Please I need advice on what to do? What's the benefit of dating a soldier man?

Beside I don't what to date him but the way he sound if I say am not interested he will be hurt I don't want him to be hurt because he is a nice person.










Please don't mind my poor grammar.

Thank you!

refiner:
Good day friends and Merry Sunday!

this question have been bothering me for so long so I decided to write it down here,I might find a clear solution here!

in the bible Judas Iscariot betrayed Jesus,and remember Judas betrayal was already known to God,did Judas have a choice,and should he be held responsible for betraying Jesus?

is our salvation predestined by God? or is it a result of our own free will to respond to God's grace?

could Judas Iscariot have changed his own destiny by choosing to ask God's forgiveness like peter did,instead of committing suicide?OR was he pre-destined to betray jesus and become the vessel of God's wrath?

please a matured and clear reply.....


cc lalasticlala

Sweetguy25:
Idiot. A ragtag thief like Amaechi having the audacity and nerve to reveal confidential documents to foreigners tell a lot. Such acts would not have been tolerated under a more intolerant administration like OBJ's.
Amaechi is nothing but a pot-bellied hypocrite. Look at how he left Rivers State in a state of asphyxia. People could no longer breathe. Animal

Beeman1:
U broke na fulani herdsmen,u poo na fulani herdsmen,ur girl dump u na fulani herdsmen,girl no see her period na fulani herdsmen. *make una kwantinue*

Beeman1:
U broke na fulani herdsmen,u poo na fulani herdsmen,ur girl dump u na fulani herdsmen,girl no see her period na fulani herdsmen. *make una kwantinue*

Beeman1:
U broke na fulani herdsmen,u poo na fulani herdsmen,ur girl dump u na fulani herdsmen,girl no see her period na fulani herdsmen. *make una kwantinue*

klassykute:
yeeeeeeeeeah ..am happy at least since pmb no wan talk put .

gerrardomendes:
who mikel don epp

Unblockable:
According to the report, he played the FIFA U-17 Championship in 2011 that means he should either be 16 or 17 then. If I'm not mistaken, that means he was born around 1984/85. And if he's born around 1984/85, then he should just be 31 or 32yrs now. Definitely, if that's the case, his wife should be between 27 to 30. So why would he say his wife and kids are hungry when his wife is still young enough to make money either by hook (business, office work) or by crook (whatever that means)? I also blame him for 'chopping' all his money then.

The guy is definitely not 31 or 32. He should be in his 40s. And that's the disadvantage of those ridiculous age they keep parading as their official (football) age.

5starmilitant:
Kilonshele na? moti binu o