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Neymar Messi all the way...But that Bale eh! Hmm

Chanchit: Nekede..? Lol. No be them Odii side be that..? Abeg o, we no wan go blind. Plz

Hehehehehe....Oga Chanchit i don catch u......
It is a community in my L.G.A shaa........

Arsenate: mention names?? U want make those girls eat me for dinner, abi. They mouth of those ladies are sharper than spartacus sword.

Ah ah! i dey here na......

*Smh*..........

Arsenate: @op, u are so on point. And yes, it's very much possible to meet a lady that has none of the flaws mentioned by the op.
Btw, I can think of more than 10 NL female posters that have at least 3 of the characters mentioned by the op. Those girls exude so much bitterness towards the male folks in all their posts.

You are welcome....
But u for like mention name na?

Tindi Gladys: Nice 1, thumbs up

Thanks my dear...I appreciate it,esp coming from a lady too....

Phranciz: @ op, I think what you would need is a barbie doll, because no one is perfect, and every woman must possess @ least of your stated xteristic for avoidance. What makes u the man is the ability to control the xcesses and live with it.

And then ur mates will be 50+ and smiling,and u wil b 50+ and bitter,and even look older than urself....If u luk at the post veri wel,u wil see that most of them can change,bt only when "they" are willing to change,especialy when it is late...Will u wait til it is late? Thats ur choice shaa...

fonzie2u: @op i knw of a lady dat fits into 6 of those categoreis.Never happy,always bitter,loves money,complains about everything from her job to the weather when we all knw Naija is al year hot.I cant rememba chattn her up and her sayin al is good.

Thanked my stars i dnt further d friendship.She curses and was alwys bitter.She wuld starve herself from eating because she claimed the food was junk yet she wuldnt buy herself a decent meal.

evrythin about her was negativity.

Thank God for u.....

Godson201333: Love your write up,The wasters always buys what they dont need,just to show off

thanks...

[14]..THE ARROGANT WOMAN:
This is a lady who thinks she is too good for you because of her good looks,social status and succex..She is arrogant and thinks that u are beneath her class or status in life..She is financialy sucexful,upwardly mobile and doing very well in her career..She relates with u in a condescending manner as if she is doing u a favour by relating with you...
If you are not as sucexful as she is or you are not from the same social background,you will find it challenging to maintain a relationship with her..She wants to relate with men who are in her social class and no matter how much she says she loves you,your relationship will never work out..It is emotionaly unhealthy for you to remain in a relationship with such a woman who thinks she is doing you a favour by dating with you..She is arrogant and self-absorbing...
She thinks she is the centre of ur universe,so your life should naturaly revolve around her..You will never feel good enough for such a woman and you will alwaz try too hard to impress her..Hanging around her will affect your self-esteem and make you doubt your owm intelligence and your success..You will feel that you are not sucexful enough for her and will be doing all that you can to show her that you are good enough...
She will let your family know that she is about to do them a favour by getting married to you..She throws around her money and showers members of your family with very expensive gifts to demonstrate her sucex and convey a veiled threat that if they dont allow her get married to you,it would be their loss..
She may humiliate or embarass you and members of your family just to prove that she is better than you..She doesnt have respect for you neither does she honour you...She is a deadly woman,let her go...


[15].THE IRRESPONSIBLE WOMAN:...
This woman does little or nothing for herself..She depends on others to handle all the responsibilities in her life..This woman does not like to pay her bills,debts or other financial responsibilities incurred by her..She is ever leaning on another person to do the most duties that life demands from her...
This woman gets by with her charm,beauty and charisma..People go out of their way to help her solve her problems and handle her issues when she applies continuous pressure on them..When she gets married to you,she will expect you to handle all her responsibilities while she does litle or nothing to contribute to the sucex of the marriage..This Woman is not only a liabity to you,but she will bring you untold pain....


[16].THE RELIGIOUS WOMAN:...
This lady is very interested in spiritual things..It is a good thing to like spiritual things as long as it doesnt affect your relationship and other aspects of your life..She spends most of her time in a church or in some Religious Organisation...She had rather be in church than spend time with you..When you are together with her,she spends the time talking about spiritual things that doesnt bother to find out the real you..She has little or no interest in your dream,your daily struggles and your concerns for the relationship...
She believes that your relationship will work out by Gods Grace and you dont Have to bother yourself about ephemeral and mundane issues of life..She believes that her Prayers will make everything all right so,she doesnt talk over your concerns about the relationship with you....
She hardly shows any romantic affection because she is too busy pursuing spiritual things..She feels that romance and spiritualitx are incompatible...If you like spiritual things,you may get attracted to her and want to be with her...But as time goes on,you will discover that she has little or no interest in other important areas of life...You may end up frustrated because of your relationship with her...Why not let her go and save yourself from that Frustration....
Courtesy: Praise George....

...This one na small tin na...I Have fought with Edward Scissorhands,Freddy Krueggor and a Triple Fat Goose;yet i came out with only a scratch.......Na to just use my Teeth tear him Pric.k comot......What else do i want?

duni04: see this one that was criticizing someone for knowing too much, which one is private and public ahawo? Is your sister one?

are u folowing the thread at all?

Thanks bro

Even Jesus said that Prostitutes,murderers,thieves,etc,are making their ways to Heaven while the hypocrites and mediocre's will alwaz be there criticizing....
You all seem to forget that Falling in Love is something that comes natural thing,it is not forced out of Someone...You dont even Know when it happens,but u feel it when it happens....Is Ashawo not a human being?..Why wont she fall in love too? Why are they alwaz been regarded as if they are the worst people cuz they sell sex?,after all most girls do the same,to take care of their needs....I know most girls do same even though they have not gone out to stay in a particular place where people wil nw patronize them fully cuz they are ashamed........
I believe that when you are in love,you alwaz do things,even silly things for the person u are in luv with....Thats the State The Ashii is in right now....
@op,if u reali want anytin fruitful to come out of dis ur relationship with her,now is the right time to do it......There is nothing she cant do for u now,esp,to make u happy.....Just stop pitying her,and see her as a normal person that needs care and love too....

Even Jesus said that Prostitutes,murderers,thieves,etc,are making their ways to Heaven while the hypocrites and mediocre's will alwaz be there criticizing....
You all seem to forget that Falling in Love is something that comes natural thing,it is not forced out of Someone...You dont even Know when it happens,but u feel it when it happens....Is Ashawo not a human being?..Why wont she fall in love too? Why are they alwaz been regarded as if they are the worst people cuz they sell sex?,after all most girls do the same,to take care of their needs....I know most girls do same even though they have not gone out to stay in a particular place where people wil nw patronize them fully cuz they are ashamed........
I believe that when you are in love,you alwaz do things,even silly things for the person u are in luv with....Thats the State The Ashii is in right now....
@op,if u reali want anytin fruitful to come out of dis ur relationship with her,now is the right time to do it......There is nothing she cant do for u now,esp,to make u happy.....Just stop pitying her,and see her as a normal person that needs care and love too....

donodion: Thanks.I've got a lady who is supportive.but your write up is good.

thanks bro

As the Most attacked Christians in this world,especially in this part of our world,Unrational and prejudiced scathing attacks from these Anti-Catholics are now like chilly waters to my body.....
If the pope had said that "Gay People" should be condemned,ehem,the same silly set of people wil stil come out and say he is a bad person,He is denying people their personal liberty....
Only a Wise person will know What the Pope meant by "if they seek the face of the Lord" .........Have u seeked the Face Of the Lord,Found it and remained the same?
Even Jesus said that we should judge not,that we might not be judged...........
It is still the same Set of Anti-Catholic foools that encourages Self Service....chai! Smh!

donodion: Bro Philo...See as I weak.You so right but, Which woman is then suitable??

The main reason why i stated this type of women is for u to be able to recognise earlier b4 u go too deep into that relationship.....You should date,but be sure to run away whenever u notice this traits,especialy,after you have tried to Change them or talk it with them and it stil lingers on..!!

idnoble135: Thank you Op. I must commend you for this.
But we need to clarify a thing here. We are not supposed to go into a relationship because we are seeking a perfect partner, we should go into a relationship not just because we love them but because we can add value to their lives.
Op, after mentioning all those, 85% of women may fall into these category. Does that mean you wait 80 years to get into a relationship?
From your list, there are some ladies that can be helped. If she is the confused type, give direction, teach her to make decisions on her own. If she loves to fight, it would mainly be because of insecurity and you can be of help, and so on.
Relationship is not about finding the perfect person, its about two imperfect people working towards perfection.

Thats the thing am talking about...You will Think u can help them,but u will end up leaving her,but as a bitter person.....

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[13]..THE ANGRY WOMAN...
When an Angry Woman talks,she generalizes:- "all men are bad,they are out to use u." She was probably in a relationship with a man who undestood the dynamics of r/ship better than her and left her holding the short end of the relationship stick..An Angry Woman wants a man who will talk but not disagree with her beliefs..She wants a man who will probably do her bidding without complain..Such women are sometimes immature in their approach to relationships between the sexes...
The Angry Woman could also be angry because she has failed several times in life and has become disillusioned..The magnitude of her failures may have affected her emotionaly and made her suffer depression..Such a Woman blames everyone but herself for her woes and any man in her life wil also be held responsible for her failure..Such A woman has a very negative World View which may even poison ur own world outlook if u linger on....
The Angry Woman has a strong tendency to resort to physical violence;this is one major reason why u should stay away from her..A woman who is unable to control her emotions is a dangerous woman to be around with..If u alwaz bring out the angry side of ur partner,i suggest u both go for some counselling bcus she may be the very wrong woman for u...If u and ur partner frequently get involved in heated Arguments,quarrels or engage in verbal fights,it is a dangerous signal and ur relationship could be headed for a trouble...If ur partner has ever hit u,4 woteva reason,you should go in for counselling...If she hits u now,guess what she will do when u both are married?
I suggest u reconsider such a woman....You cannot help her...You cannot pray her out of her problems,you cnt change her...She is not a humanitarian project for u to work on...Trying to Change her is a badly informed effort in futility..The Angry Woman will only change when she begins to experience the consequences of her untamdd emotions...She is a deadly Woman...Stay Away from Her................................To be continued...
Meanwhile,let the Comments flow....Ladies,u can also attack me if u wish.............