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How do i even start this post....... its just not proper that Africa is being referred to as a country, i am not happy with fact that Africa is never being recognised or appraised for anything good but always bad eg terrorism, poverty, illiteracy etc. It pains me that most people especially people from other countries /continents thinks Africa is a country and a poverty stricken country for that matter. 

For crying out loud Africa is a continent of 54 countries and speaks English as their official language , this is not difficult to look up on google is it? I am not saying some parts of African countries don't have life difficult but it is really absurd how everything is being generailized, people think when you come to africa you leave with a disease or illness as if that wasn't enough, someone had to say "i feel for africa, they are really suffering" *straight face* which kind mumu talk be that na? 

If we Africans can differentiate between a South American and a North American and know that Asia is a continet and not a country then why can't you all do the same, why can't you all recognise the fact that some of us are not starving to death, why can't you all recognise the fact that Africa is not as backward as you say or that Africa is a beautiful continent with talented designers, philanthropists, celebrities and notable people. 

Well they say that bad news travel fast, when something bad befalls a country, it is being generalised but nobody ever knows when good things happens. I am not saying that these countries are perfect, ofcos  some parts of African countries are poor and has illiterates and experience terrorism and greedy leaders but i mean what other continents hasn't experienced or isn't experiencing such, i digress. 

Anyway i believe we all are educated and know what research is, i could go further on this issue but, i don't have strength *sigh*, so please let us all educate ourselves instead of being ignorant and stop this disdain or rather wrong impression about Africa..... thank you very much!!!! 

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As far as am concerned, grade doesn't really matter, i know someone who graduated with first class but can't defend, can't complete a sentence without using past tense, when you ask her a question, the way she explains it never adds up nd the way she talks makes you wonder if dis person attended skul atall but she is leaving with first class all because she was a course rep

justified19:
ur opinion but I accept not.

all I knw is education in nigeria is crazy, especially in state universities.. I cant judge any graduate based on grades...dia are so many 2.1 candidates who cant eve defend it.

I judge on what u can offer, not what u grad with.

My dear, you said it all

@mellin I know satanism is a religion, i just don't understand why you are forcing it on people, leave people alone, your Satan is powerful, good, God is powerful good too.... everyone should forget this topic and face the one that answers you, this argument is becoming sickening

guys are here arguing about who is deceiving who meanwhile in another thread(the link below) someone is calling muslims and Christians scam, and declaring Satan as the only true god

https://www.nairaland.com/2338294/must-read-why-how-became[url][/url]

mbolajide2010:
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Hi sis,

Please compare what you said now with John 16:7, and see the contradiction yourself. Please don't give me the excuse that i can't understand the bible until the holy spirit reside in me.

Again, why did he need to sacrifice himself since he could still forgive us without sacrificing himself.After all he is God according to Christians.Are saying God sucks blood like Okija shrine? And why then are you asking God for forgiveness since he died for your sins?

You probably won't be able to answer my questions, but please make an attempt.

Thank you sis.

John 16 vs 7 talked about Jesus wanting to leave for our own good to send down the holy spirit, which is why he couldn't save himself what does it have to do with "you expect me to give my life to a Jesus that could not save himself" pls don't ask me any stupid questns, am not going 2 answer, i just gave you the reason why Jesus died, am not going to stay here and argue about the bible.

Thank you bro

mbolajide2010:
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Hi sis,

Please compare what you said now with John 16:7, and see the contradiction yourself. Please don't give me the excuse that i can't understand the bible until the holy spirit reside in me.

Again, why did he need to sacrifice himself since he could still forgive us without sacrificing himself.After all he is God according to Christians.Are saying God sucks blood like Okija shrine? And why then are you asking God for forgiveness since he died for your sins?

You probably won't be able to answer my questions, but please make an attempt.

Thank you sis.

John 16 vs 7 talked about Jesus wanting to leave for our own good to send down the holy spirit, what does it have to do with "Jesus that could not save himself" pls don't ask me any stupid questns, am not going 2 answer, i just gave you the reason why Jesus died, am not going to stay here and argue.

Thank you bro

Satan is Satan, God is God, both exists, its upto you who you want to serve, everyone is trying to win souls in their own way, so am not surprised in the rubbish am seeing here, your devil is and will always be a liar

mbolajide2010:
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At the bolded, does that make any sense to you at all? The same bible that said God created man in his own image. Is that not a contradiction? Look i told you earlier that modern Christianity is so confused. Can you now see for yourself? See how confused you are too.

Quran uses plurality when he is talking about Allah and all his angels that works for him. For instance if you are the president of a country you can use "I" or "We" to address your administration. When you use "We" it shows humility.When Allah says "We" in the quran he is refering to himself and all his angels. That is God is even showing humility there. Can you see how logical Islam is as compare to Christianity?

You want me to accept Jesus as my saviour right? The same Jesus that couldn't save himself when he was about to be killed according to the bible.

Bro dont be confused as modern Christianity is.

Oga if you read d bible as you claimed you will know that Jesus came to die for our sins, stop making claims that he couldn't save himself, he would have done so if he wanted to

I don't even know what my problem is, i tend to sleep off whenever i am about to write, but in any case nothing is going to make me stop blogging, i just need to stop being a lazy girl  and am good. Its still all because of you and am grateful. 

This post is obviously going to hurt some people and am sorry about it. I really don't let things they say on the news get to me, not because am not interested but because am no longer surprised at what happens in the world today. I kept mute about the legalisation of same sex marriage but after what i read yesterday i couldn't take it anymore. 

Yes! I am against same sex marriage, but don't get me wrong i don't hate anyone, i just hate the sin and i will never forget to refer to my bible whenever i want to address issue, like i said before this post is likely to hurt people but in any case i will continue. ...... 

Gen 2 from 7 talked about the creation of man and his mate and he named them "Adam and Eve" he didn't name them "Adam and Steve" OR "Eva and Eve" he wanted a man and woman to carry out a legacy for him and don't get me started with people who think that God made them who they are, please!! Don't even involve him, he didn't create you that way, you chose your path. 

The bible doesn't speak of homosexuality often but whenever it does, it condemns it as sin, and i am very willing to give out the scriptures where there were all written:
Leviticus 18:22, "You shall not lie with a male as one lies with a female; it is an abomination 
Leviticus 20:13, "If there is a man who lies with a male as those who lie with a woman, both of them have committed a detestable act; they shall surely be put to death. Their bloodguiltness is upon them."
1 Corinthians 6:9-10, "Or do you not know that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, 10 nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, shall inherit the kingdom of God."
Romans 1:26-28, "For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural, 27 and in the same way also the men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error. 28 And just as they did not see fit to acknowledge God any longer, God gave them over to a depraved mind, to do those things which are not proper."

Well... i didn't really have a problem with this sin till i heard that priests are allowed to wed them, this is sacrilege! Like, these priests know these scriptures but still do it anyway, but who am i to judge, am not God, am not perfect either, i am also a sinner, but i just pray that the devil will detest from using innocent people to carry out his evil deeds, again! I love them all, i don't hate them, i just hate the sin and it's not their fault, it was something beyond their control, i know this post will not change anything but i believe it has touched someone. 

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Loveren:
lol and what are u going to do abt it?

Nothing just keep showing yourself, i cant waste my time on you

Loveren:
WHO ASK U?

Out of all the replies ere u chose mine to enter.... that's good

Some of you don't even get it, no one sends half castes in nigeria, kidnappers don't even send the whites that live in nigeria, why did he go 2 an extent of getting big guns to bury his father, the only insecurity in nigeria that has been bothering us are the boko harams, he really painted nigeria bad, let's be honest, i have friends that are 3 shades lighter than him that travel out and come back everytime w/out any problem there was really no need for him to paint us that bad and backward

leevi93:
hey!! who be this?
I think u shud join the click b4 em sew u like sewing machine

Cmon! He said the truth, wat is it?

Afrok:
Who is she? We don't know her here in Nigeria, infact the kidnappers that would have kidnapped her must be suffering from colour blindness if they can't differentiate btw Oyinbo, afin (albino) and yellow pawpaw.

We like giving attentions to cheap attention seekers like her coz her father's burial wasn't even announced in the village meeting not to talk of national dailies...

It's a he not a she, the guy that sang "classic man" the fact is those things he said wasn't called for, i have half caste friends nd dey live like every other nigerians nobody even send them sef not 2 talk of kidnappers

UjSizzle:
Your site's so beautiful. Had to be the cutest free hosted site I've seen on blogger

It looks better on pc than it does on mobile though.

Lol thanks..... tho i cant reallly say same for contents

Thank God for this thread because i have an issue that i have been looking for a very good solution for days, i signed up for adsense when i created my blog and along the line i changed the name of my blog and it affected the adsense application so i used another email address to apply for adsense now it has been approved and am trying to add the adsense widget on my blog but says i should "correct the error on the form" after much questions on google i found out that it's because the account is a hosted account, PLEASE is there a way to resolve this? HELP!!

@UjSizzle, thank you for bringing out your time to drop this post, wish i stumbled on it before creating my blog but it was still really helpful

Mine is a beauty, health, lifestyle and personal Blog

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Tolzeal:
[b]Yes, I always tell Upcoming who seeks advice from me.

To always and always willing to Have their Custom Domain name.

There are so many oppurnities you get when you have your personal domain name.[b]

This is quite true

abbeycial:
waiting for the BASIC RULES FOR MEN

MOB pls

Sorry i don't have the basic rules for men but here a post you might like

http://phloxiesblog..com/2015/06/things-you-should-never-do-to-your-man.html

"Things you should never do to your man"

That ladies suffer the most in a relationship is not a new thing, it has always been happening and truth is some of us bring these problems upon ourselves, am not a relationship expert but i think there are somethings that shouldn't be  overlooked.  Here are basic rules from me to you to follow in and out of a relationship: 

1. Don't destroy your value by always proving to a guy how much you mean to him, if he can't reciprocate that.

2. If he is ashamed to introduce you to his friends/world , you might as well consider yourself not part of his agenda.

3. When he claims to love you and can't give you enough proof then you should think about why you are getting together with him.

4. Don't give all yourself to a guy who is so difficult to predict his next step..... you might get disappointed.

5. Don't show a guy how much you really love him..... he is going take that for granted.

6. Always trust your instincts/intuition, they have our best interests at heart .

7. Don't chase him...... he should be the one chasing you.

8. You shouldn't always remind a man his role in a relationship, he already knows them and if he can't act on them then he is not worth the headache.

9. The more chances you give to him the less respect he begins to have for you.

10. Always use your brain and sometimes follow your heart.

11. Before you get into a relationship be sure of why  you are getting into one.

12. Never shed a tear for a man who wouldn't acknowledge or cherish you, your mascara Is damn expensive for that..... you deserve better.

13. Never let men be mean to you.

14. If you can't find true love........ find money. 

15. Don't get into a relationship because you are lonely or your friends are having fun in theirs or looking for refuge in the next guy because of previous bad break up.

16. Don't make him a priority if he hasn't given you enough reason to.

17. Sex in a relationship is an emotional and intimate issue, you wouldn't want to be with someone who sees it as fun and games..... be careful.

18. No matter how much he loves you, if that relationship is an abusive one? Run for your life........your life is more important than love.

19. Relationship is not all about sex and fun....... what you learn and impact on each other physically, morally and spiritually is really important and shows how much you mean to each other.

20. Relationship is a serious thing.... don't play with people's heart all in the name of having fun, its better you tell the person from the beginning what you really want instead of painting it as one.

21. Friendship, trust and communication are what makes a healthy relationship. 

22. Never stoop too low by becoming a man's play toy all in the name of love...... your value is worth more than that.

23. Never settle for less, you deserve to be treated like a queen that you are.

24. You are beautiful both in and out don't let anyone tell you otherwise. 

25. Nobody is perfect, try not to change your physical appearance and if he doesn't love you that way then he is not the one because he also is not perfect.

26. If you have a bad side that needs to be dealt with...... change it, no one wants to be with someone with an ugly character.

Ladies please take care of your self esteem and always try to make yourself happy. It might look like we are always lashing out on the guys so, dear males the next post is going to be for you, it might interest you to know that the guys sometimes get thier own share of encounter in a relationship. Relationship is a beautiful experience please don't take anyone for granted. 

I hope this was helpful........  

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[quote author=phloxie post=33913091]You never know the benefit of sleeping well at night until you start looking like a ragged doll, yes that is exactly what i look like right now. I haven't been getting much sleep lately, i rarely have siesta and my night sleep is really short, before i go out i have to place cold spoons on my eyes and also make my eye make up attractive, just to get rid of my eye bags.

I even disgrace myself everyday in the bus, nodding my head, i look stressed out, i lost weight (research says otherwise about the weight loss which i totally disagree, you can't gain weight when you sleep less) and am suddenly forgetful, yes these are the things that happens when you don't have a good night's rest, it affects you physically and emotionally.

Every adult needs to sleep for about 8 hours everyday while children should sleep for 10 hours, when you get enough sleep at night you wake up feeling refreshed, alert for the day and also improve in your mood too, it is really essential you pay attention to your body and here are resons why you should always get enough sleep: 

Getting enough sleep:
Decreases  blood pressure .
Decreases  the chance of heart attack.
 Happy mood.
Reduces diabetes risk.
Glowing skin.
Stronger immune system 
Less stress.,
Reduced pains and aches in the body.
Improves brain power.

Anyway, i slept well last night and imagine how happy i was the next morning,  having a good night sleep is not only important but very healthy, so i urge us all to head to this and live a heathy life. 

 I hope this article was helpful......

phloxiesblog..com

You never know the benefit of sleeping well at night until you start looking like a ragged doll, yes that is exactly what i look like right now. I haven't been getting much sleep lately, i rarely have siesta and my night sleep is really short, before i go out i have to place cold spoons on my eyes and also make my eye make up attractive, just to get rid of my eye bags.

I even disgrace myself everyday in the bus, nodding my head, i look stressed out, i lost weight (research says otherwise about the weight loss which i totally disagree, you can't gain weight when you sleep less) and am suddenly forgetful, yes these are the things that happens when you don't have a good night's rest, it affects you physically and emotionally.

Every adult needs to sleep for about 8 hours everyday while children should sleep for 10 hours, when you get enough sleep at night you wake up feeling refreshed, alert for the day and also improve in your mood too, it is really essential you pay attention to your body and here are resons why you should always get enough sleep: 

Getting enough sleep:
Decreases  blood pressure .
Decreases  the chance of heart attack.
 Happy mood.
Reduces diabetes risk.
Glowing skin.
Stronger immune system 
Less stress.,
Reduced pains and aches in the body.
Improves brain power.

Anyway, i slept well last night and imagine how happy i was the next morning,  having a good night sleep is not only important but very healthy, so i urge us all to head to this and live a heathy life. 

 I hope this article was helpful......

phloxiesblog..com

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