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Yenefer:
Sharrap. During Badluck embele jonathaf, Boko Haram did worse. bombed churches and mosques filled with people. Killed 500 people in one swoop and we know who are supporting boko haram indirectly. We will expose them in due time.

So you are waiting for a "due time" before exposing bokoharam supporters but you were quick to expose and clamp down endsars promoters...
Before the "due time" would come I'm sure your region would have been reduced to dust. Just continue waiting please.

Yenefer:
Sharrap. During Badluck embele jonathaf, Boko Haram did worse. bombed churches and mosques filled with people. Killed 500 people in one swoop and we know who are supporting boko haram indirectly.

I don't know why you moniker usually sound more like "Lucifer", are you in anyway related to Mr. Devil cos most of your reasonings are not just reasonable.
The joy I have is that most evils happening in Nigeria are happening in your region so why should I care.

I'll rather kidnap the idiot and get back my money in double fold. Police will soon release the mofo.
Nah dem-dem sha.

The problem with these northerners is that they can even recognize the terrorists yet they will still choose to protect their identity.

Fake news!


Shebi dem talk say army no kill #endsars protesters, dem get mind talk say CNN dey talk fake news.

Everything wey dem talk say e happen for aboki land nah fake news...

Hmmmmmm!

"Friends" don do me shege!

greymiles:
lol. how do you expect a sane man to take anyone out from from Monday to Saturday when you're not jobless...
thinking like these are what makes women not want to invest a dime in some guys.
we barely see on weekdays except on rare occasions, Sunday is the only day we see, cuz she has to work and I have to work
not denying the fact that I do support her also

Just that you didn't recognize the irony in my response. The fact that you do support her means she's only reciprocating by giving you 1% out of what you spend on her.
My argument for a woman to take a man out, I mean a man that really doesn't have anything to offer back.

greymiles:
my girls takes me out every Sunday... all bills on her

Every Sunday?
I'm sure you will be the one to take her out from Monday to Saturday while she will only take responsibility on Sundays alone.

greymiles:
change the type of girls you move with or better still, upgrade urself
If a lady doesn't see a bright future in front of you, she wont spend a dime but if she sees a successful man in you, she'll go any length

Lol, bright future indeed.
Do you know how many ladies men do pick from the gutter, clean them up and also give them the future they never dreamt of?
So women would always see the brightness in my future before investing in me?
How about them giving me a future even when it seems I don't deserve one.
Women are too greedy my dear. They should learn to give hope to the hopeless too.

BadRadio:
Like driving to his house and picking up, take him to someplace nice and do all the spending.

If there should be any then there will be so few of them.

Jashub:
Mr man, just admit it, you do not know the definition of the word "interview ".

The Zoom, Skype and co, you mentioned would require a facial interaction(face-face), not a messaging session like what was done between this girl and the company.

But take it or leave, what was done here was not an interview, it was Social media chatting

Social media chatting or whatever name you choose to call it but the underline fact here is that someone lost an opportunity to be offered a job due to her poor human relations.

I will also point to the fact that not all interviews need to be a face me I face you affairs. An interview in a graphics design outfit should carry the same weight as that of an oil industry. If the lady in question failed in such a small matter then I'm afraid of her performance in a bigger scene.

Jashub:
Bros, no offense but it seems you do not even know the meaning of an interview.

FYI, and interview is any face-to-face meeting, especially of an official nature. What is done here is not an interview ; it is incompetence modified as an interview.

You must be referring to ages when technologies were absent. This days, people can conduct interview through Skype, Zoom, etc.
We are in 21st century bro, archaic things don't exist or are almost going into extinction already. If truly you are an employer as you mentioned then I'll advice you to flow with technology and forget about the old ways of doing things,technology is way more cheaper and more economical.
E.G,if I am in kaduna and I applied for a job in Lagos and someone offered to interview me through just a phone/video call or chat then that means I'll be able to save my time of traveling, I'll be able to be safe from accidents on the road, I'll be able to save my travel expenses etc.

Please bro, it's more appropriate to live in a digital world than your old analog ways and please remember to thank me when you start enjoying your new ease as I don't always give out a free advice.

But how about them also asking the incompetent Bubu to resign after failing in every aspect of the economy.

Jashub:
...then what is the purpose of interviewing a person...?

The interview is a conversation in which you and an employer exchange information. Your objective is to get an offer of a job, and the employer's objective is to find out the following: What you have to offer (your skills, abilities, basic knowledge). Who you are (your personality, character, interests).

From the above I think you should be able to deduce that characters are also very vital in employment scheme. If an employee can be so rude if in a mere phone conversation/chat then how do you expect him/her to deal with the clients in the said organization.

I once worked in a hotel and I saw what my coworkers were doing. They attend specially to clients that hand them tips while clients that will only pay for the services rendered to them without giving out any tip were been treated like a nobody. That is how bad those type of employees can be.

Jashub:
Baba, I am not giving excuses here ; I am only stating the loopholes the company failed to put in place in their recruitment excercise. How do I know? Because I am an employer too.

Then you are not qualify to be an employer.
Do you expect an examiner to expose his question to his students before even asking such question?
Interview can come in any form bro.

Fish head is even sold for #1500, so fish head is more expensive than policeman head.

Shebi nah woman, ones they attain some level of elevation then the peacork proudness in them overshadows their sense of reasoning.

You better tell "your friend" to go and make money.

Magnoliaa:
Swears, you have NO idea this is an el dorado reality to Radical feminists! Ehn. A world where men leave women alone... jezus, bliss. Y'all have been in our places, spaces and bodies for centuries that women are fed up. Shebi, na ordinary 21st marriages alone no dey stable, wey una dey blame feminism and lesbianism for. Go on. Really, go on. We go see who go come dey complain.

Meanwhile, you be crying everyday about lack of good women to wife and the stubbornness of modern women in pants, for all the zero indulgence in emotions you like to believe about yourselves. Now that women are becoming less and less interested in dating, giving birth, marriage and more interested in their careers, freezing their eggs to have a kid/kids to raise as a solo parent in the future, having sex with no strings attached, you people are still bothered.

Are we missing something here? Please I'll advice you to read over again the message that prompted me to air my view about most ladies...

"So I decided to ask this question here because I have a lady that is overly demanding, I mean I tried pegging my monthly spending for her at 30,000 Naira per month including her hair, light, data and cable TV subscription plus one or two outings and hangouts.

But I noticed she never seems satisfied with my little efforts as she demands unimaginable things from me like buying her iPhone 12 and etc.

Guys pls how do you control spending on your women and how much do you spend on them monthly."



How will you react if your brother makes it a duty to keep waiting his hard earn money on some ladies all in the name of showing care?
No man will ever be in any woman's space cos our spaces are well stated. For the women that are into feminism then that shows their level of egoism which would always hurt them at the end. In African settings, a child will always request for his father so if you like go and get your semen from the World Bank.

If your likes wish to remain in your space then good for you, Men can easily go to a remote village,pick up a girl and clean her up but how many woman can do such to a man? Most women ones they start earning big will look down on men as if they are some kind of shit.

Women should stop being a leech and should learn to always come down from their high horses. Support your man in every aspect and not just becoming a liability.

Sixfeetbelle:
Since I never requested you to tell me why my assertions are faulty, I did not attempt to read the rubbish you put down

#sorrynotsorry

Get off my mentions and go Bleep yourself then.

Mizfabulous18:
then u must be oblivious to the fact that other things in this era have replaced that penis u guys are wagging around.....we cn do without it we r nt sex hungry like u men that get hard at the slightest show of provocative features trust me we dont get hard early in the morning nd we certainly dont feel the need to pour out semen ....vibrators full market oga ..maybe because In Nigeria we dont use it always but an era is coming when ur penis will be invalid getting pregnant sef we have sperm donors everywhere in hospitals d main fact that u Nigerian men think ur so important is what I hate ....each gender has it role and function it importance to the society and each other but when u act and talk like women are not necessary in ur life because they collect money from u nd to u it makes them tagged hoes then I need to help u expand ur thinking faculty which is without men women can very well survive but imagine a world of no woman nd tell me how that even feels

Now that you towed along masturbation, do you actually know that it is easier for men to masturbate than it is for women? Have you heard the song "soapy" by Naira Marley? That is how masturbation is so easy for men,with just soap or lubricant we can just wag off like that.

I'm so sorry if I'd been given you a very wrong impression about myself but the truth is that you don't really know what it is to be a man.
How can you meet a lady today and tomorrow she'll start demanding money to make hair?
Have you ever heard the "urgent 2k" stories?
Have you ever been disturbed by a demand of birthday celebration even when the relationship is not even up to a week?

The fact is that most ladies are always needing one favor or the other while when a guy is in deep shit you can't even run to them for any assistance cos they've spent their money on frivolities knowing fully well that another sucker would cross their path and continue paying other bills.

My dear you don't and can't understand how men feel. It is women that always feel that men can't do without them. We should be a helping hand to each other and not becoming a burden.

ogbonti:
naija girls in europe pay naija men just to have access to the gbolops, FACT - while in naija men are willing to destroy their bank account to nack ? why - the Nigerian society makes men develop inferiority complex that they want to feel loved so desperately

Help me to tell them o my brother.

Mizfabulous18:
can u also deny the fact that most Nigerian men give out that so called money willingly and not through any form of blackmailing can u deny it ....women r everywhere nobody has ever forced a man to give her money if u dont want to give jump the wagon oga

And that was why I said "if all men should follow my path most ladies will die of hunger"
I admitted the fact that most Nigerian men are sissy when it comes to women matter hence the reason I stated that if men would take my path.

Women too do crave for sex and it wouldnt be a bad idea if men get payment for a service rendered abi you think say e dey easy to dey pound pussy?
Let all men stop the nonsense of chasing women around and let's see if women won't pay to have us.

Mizfabulous18:
ur probably meeting ladies that are hoes because ur a pussy Biggs as well ...responsible men meet responsible hardworking ladies ..u attract only what u are so stop nagging cos I dont think any right thinking lady falls for pussy guys like u people...dont forget in the hoe bracket ur sisters might be included so stop with the self righteousness ness it doesn't suit yiu6

If my sister happens to be a hoe then I'll say it to her face. If my sister should be the type that depends on men so as to survive then I'll let her see reasons why she should be an independent lady.
I wish you'll learn to comprehend before replying though, I never generalized in my assertion and that was why I used the word "most".
I don't know why you ladies are always quick to react even when the whole game is obvious. Can you authoritatively deny the fact that most Nigerian ladies are not dependent on men?

Sixfeetbelle:
Actually, no. Many ladies won't die of hunger if all men chose to be like you. Do you know why? I'll tell you why.


Sex sells.
Men would always want sex.
Men would always pay for sex.
Men would always pay more to have premium sex.



Do you understand now why/how you not spending on any lady is inconsequential to their feeding yearn?

Do you know that your assertions were all faulty? I'll tell you why...

1. Ladies themselves do crave for sex just like men.

2. Since ladies will always crave for sex that means that they will be the one to approach and "pay" men in return for sex.

3. If all men will take my path that means we will patiently wait for women to come to us rather than going to them.

4. Sex is sex, nothing like a premium sex.
Premium sex is what the ladies use so as to obtain more money but at the end we will all cum.

yarimo:
who are folks ?

Your incompetent born to rule northerners.

yarimo:
who are you people ?

Your aboki family.

Mizfabulous18:
all this yeye people who always look for indirect ways to tackle Nigeria ladies ...dont worry since all ur friends cnt advice u nd ur family u only hv nairaland to do that I will need to start a thread on Nigeria guys maybe u guys think ur angels when most of u are actually despicable...if u cnt control ur spending ur nt a baby look for an alternative go online make research or leave her if u don't want dont act like u don't know what to do when indeed u hv already decided

Most ladies will die of hunger if all guys choose to follow my path. I won't spend my money on any hoe.

LightAunt:
Although the question is meant for guys. But giving your girlfriend 30% of your monthly income is reasonable.


Anyways, check my profile for business deals.

Even our Lord the almighty would make do with just 10% so why should I spend 30% on a hoe that can only offer me sex?