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FamilyRe: Meet The McClure Twins, Ava And Alexis: Adopted By Justin McClure - Ami McClure by Phut(f):
Mindfulness:
Ok but you having a problem with interracial dating makes you a racist too. You have become the very same thing you are fighting.
I didn’t originally have a problem with IRR but now I do. This is because I feel most blacks enter it from a place of inferiority. In America most of the black male athletes and entertainers marry down (e.g Tiger Woods marrying his babysitter ... other examples abound). Even a lot of black women marry down. I doubt that Ami would pass up a Nigerian Doctor for another Nigerian that is a recovering alcoholic and convicted felon. Yet she married Justin.

In the past few years we have seen all the video recordings of killing of innocent unarmed black men. The white perps are mostly, either not charged or are acquitted by a majority white jury.

Most of these people (married Interracially) are the first to discount any racist incidents against their people. When asked about the killings they either “hem and haw” or they throw “All Lives Matter” in your face. Charles Barkley as well as an uncountable number of others. Its almost like the get married and become white supremacist apologists/attack dogs saying what their spouses feel but are not able to say in Public.

It is my belief that racism in America is almost as strong as it was in the 1960’s. It is impossible to legislate the minds of people. So all the Civil Rights Movement achieved was to make people be more covert with racism. However, it is very much alive and well.

One of the ways in which racism adapted and morphed was to further entrench itself in the legislative, judicial and executive arm of government while denying its very own existence. It is such that when one speaks of institutional racism, one runs the risk of being accused of reverse racism. When one talks about Black Lives Matter (in response to the killing of innocent and unarmed blacks) one is met with All Lives Matter or Blue Lives Matter. When Kapernick knelt, he was harassed and told that the kneeling was dishonoring the flag. There is a concerted effort to deflect, shift the goal post, discourage black people from fighting the oppression that they are under and just accept their lot.

During the Trumps campaign and when all the videos of the killing of unarmed black people started surfacing, there was a video of a black girl who was dating a white man. The white man went on a racist rant against all black people and even ended up calling his girlfriend the “N” word. The girlfriend posted the video to Facebook. Did you see that video? Well Christelyn Karazin (the foremost proponent of swirling on YouTube) teaches her followers how to date white people, while avoiding topics that may set them off on a racist rant. I find that most black people tiptoe around racial issues for fear of upsetting their white partners who still have racist views. In a loving relationship one should be able to watch TV and freely call out racist happenings (e.g the shooting of Philando Castille) as they see it. If a person feels the need to be ambivalent for fear of upsetting their partner, then I would say they are in an emotionally abusive relationship.

It is my belief that most white people of today are still very racist. Their unfounded hatred of Obama was what made them vote in doofus Donald Trump. 55% of white women voted for Donald Trump evnthough he is anti women. Those women ignored his anti women stance and voted WHITE FIRST, because Trump promised to make (White) America Great Again.

Now if people have just become more covertly racist, you don’t fight or overcome racism by marrying those people in droves. You cannot sex away racism.

The way to minimize or eradicate racism is by practicing Group Economics (buying black, strengthening the black family, building black wealth, keeping black wealth in the black community). All other minority groups do it except blacks. A lot of the rich black people in America (e.g. Entertainers) marry white, their biracial children marrying white and beget white children, with the wealth being permanently transferred out of the black community. Look at Diana Ross’s family, Donna Summer, Eartha Kitt and even the whole of the Jackson family.

Achieving economic parity (or a semblance of it) is what would deal a blow to racism not sex and IRR. Then when we achieve economic parity, blacks would be more likely to enter any relationships they want on an equal foot as opposed to a place of self hate.

All minorities (Jews, Arabs, Mexicans etc) work as a collective to propel themselves forward. Blacks are encouraged to live a “lala” land which says that racism doesn’t exist. They fail to recognize the covert racism that is hiding in plain sight. They are taught to diversify everything even when the dominant society (whites) haven’t truly diversified anything (e.g Hollywood). A lot of blacks foolishly follow along. How can a people diversify, when they haven’t even put their house in order?

IRR are currently not in black peoples interest. Yes I am against IRR. Charges of reverse racism (just like the dominant society’s attempts to deflect from or deny the existence of racism) are all attempts to bully and silence the victims of said racism. I will forever speak up in spite of all this. I do not want my people playing Checkers, while everyone else is playing Chess. We must get hip to the game and we must be in the game to win it.

cc: Pocohantas, Aribs, HypocriteNazi, Khiaa
FamilyRe: Meet The McClure Twins, Ava And Alexis: Adopted By Justin McClure - Ami McClure by Phut(f): 7:43pm On Jul 22, 2018
pocohantas:
I thought as much cheesy. Why?
I have lived most of my life in the U.S., the rest having been in Nigeria. I didn’t have a problem with interracial dating when I came to America. While I have never dated interracially, I would be one of those that would go “awww” and think that their love has conquered all. However, having since had the chance to view a lot of interracial relationships up close, I have come to discover that a lot of them are based on self hate (from the black persons perspective). Let me give you an example. There was this Nigerian girl that I met. She was getting married to a white guy in Florida. She invited me to the wedding and I gladly accepted. She didn’t seem to have a lot of friends and so she asked me to be part of her bridal train. I went about 5 days before the wedding and stayed with her and her fiancé. All these girl would do was make stereotypical statements against blacks and other minorities. Like one day we were out driving and we saw 2 black women that had returned from work. They were standing outside exchanging pleasantries before they entered their respective homes. Anyway, the Nigerian girl said that these black people are always loitering about, are criminals etc etc. Her fiancé was the one driving. I quickly corrected her. The girl made uncountable statements like that while I was with them, while deifying white people. Her fiancé would never correct her, he seemed to enjoy it. It was almost like she said things that he wanted to say, but couldn’t. I am a keen observer of people and a lot of IRR I have observed follow the above formula. That is why I am no longer a supporter of IRR.

P.S. Ami saying she is Nigerian and not Black American, as well as her implying that Black Americans don’t have culture is following the same formula. She is justifying Justin’s discriminatory statements against Black people (of which she is a part) by trying to create a distinction between herself and black people. But I don’t believe Ami likes her culture and people as much as she would like to have us think. Otherwise she would not chose an alcoholic and convicted felon over the Nigerian Doctor that her Mom tried to introduce her to. She is just using her “culture” to hide her real self hate
RomanceRe: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Phut(f): 7:37am On Jul 21, 2018
Bidobado:
You are 100 percent right. Nigerian women act as if they've met Jesus when they meet a white man. They love the good hair, light skinned mixed race babies and its embarrassing how they dote over them compared to the black babies they so often brutalize for either wetting the bed or stealing.
The Nigerian woman will never treat a black baby with the same level of kindness she provides to the white man's baby and that's a fact.
This reeks of self hatred.
Now this statement is a complete fallacy. You are generalizing Nigerian women on this thread just the same way you made very disparaging general statements about African American women. Why even bring African Americans into this. Learn to qualify your statements. Using “some” will not kill you. If you continue to try to make this a gender battle, know that YOU ARE A PART OF THE PROBLEM, NOT THE SOLUTION. Stop being emotional.

BlackAdam55: I saw you deleted post about All Nigerian women being whores. Good thing you deleted that. If you are going to make such posts please do not quote me on other threads were you deem my posts to be supportive of Nigerian men. I am not and will never be in favor of gender warriors.
RomanceRe: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Phut(f): 7:32am On Jul 21, 2018
LivingFree:
Is the guy a comedian?
No he is not. Google his name to see if you find any comedy skits. He was a convicted felon and an alcoholic and unemployed when Ami met him. Their source of income is the YouTube channel.
RomanceRe: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Phut(f): 7:30am On Jul 21, 2018
khiaa:
grin grin grin grin It's funny because this guy ( Dynast)has a son by his ex Nigerian girlfriend, maybe that's why he is so pissed at Nigerian women for bed-wenching for white men. The funny thing is he will admit to being a recovering coon who only chased after white women and had disdain for black women. Too many hypocrites on social media. He is correct about Ami's bed-wenching behavior though.
Dynast has been hating on Africans for weeks now, not just Nigerians. 1st time I noticed was when he made a video about Liberia and the Americo Liberians. He had so much vitriol and made sure he spread it across all of Africa. I was abit taken aback because previous videos I had seen was of him visiting different countries in Africa, being welcomed with open arms by the locals so much so that they would house and feed him for the duration of his stay. He would state that the purpose of his channel was to unite AA and Africans. So to see him spewing so much bile about happenings in Liberia 1979 and 1980 was astounding. Since then he has been on an Africa bashing spree. How can a person do such an about face?

Is he emotionally unstable?
Is he doing it for cash (causing disharmony between AA’s for clicks and views?). This would be my pick. A person who lacks integrity and would do anything for money, like all of the propagators of the gender war on YouTube.

Dynast has betrayed the people that saw him as one of their own and took him into their home. If all it takes is 1 Ami McClure to get him bashing a continent of 1 billion, then I would say they were trusting of the wrong person.
RomanceRe: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Phut(f): 7:15am On Jul 21, 2018
QueenSuccubus:
See ur mouth!

Did he insult his wife? NO! this is the thing, do ur research well before quoting me.. Don't waste my time..

He tweeted those waaaaay before he met his wife.. So, what are u insinuating again? embarassed
And where did anyone say he insulted her personally? People have been on her because her husband made tweets that black people deemed racist. And the fact that those tweets were made before he met her is irrelevant as well. A quick apology for having caused offense (in the past) would have ended everything. In fact saying that he has grown and changed since then and that’s why he eventually began dating and eventually married a black woman, would have put a definitive end to the conversation. But Justin did not apologize. He made excuses and his wife jumped in to make excuses on his behalf as well. You know the funny thing? People that inadvertently cause offense will quickly apologize, but a person that knowingly caused offense will be the first to attempt to argue you into the ground, while trying to prove that what they said isn’t offensive.

And Queen Succubus, you are a Philipino, right? No matter how close you think you are to blacks, you can never and will never have the full black experience. It is a tad insensitive to try to dictate to black people, what is racist to blacks. It’s almost like a Nigerian telling a Tibetan to shut up and stop complaining about Chinese domination.
RomanceRe: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Phut(f):
QueenSuccubus:
Definitely u never researched, u juz jumped on a wagon of haters like others.

He's a comedian... If he was a racist, why the hell nobody slammed him that day when he tweeted about the #hashtags? Not until he became sensational coz he's married to a black woman..
His tweets were racist.

Saying black people cannot pronounce words

Implying black women are easy lays

Saying Hispanics and others give their kids reasonable names while blacks people give their kids ghetto names (e.g. Allergies) is RACIST!

The fact that he says all these negatives about blacks people without balancing it out with some “jokes” about white people or any other race, makes it RACIST!

Most comedians if anything poke fun at themselves or their own race, so as to not cause offense. He focused all his negativity on black people. His trying to hide behind a “joke” is not going to cut it.

Nobody responded to him and his hashtags because he was a nonetity. Nobody knew him back them and nobody has the time to respond to each and every tweet made by some obscure racist. When a person obtains some fame or noteriety, then yes that person will come under more public scrutiny. Even if he were not married to a black woman but became better known in the future, he would be questioned about his racist tweets.
FamilyRe: Meet The McClure Twins, Ava And Alexis: Adopted By Justin McClure - Ami McClure by Phut(f): 6:17am On Jul 21, 2018
BlackAdam55:
that pocohantas won't reply This post. but if it's Nigerian woman getting married to a white man, she pocohants won't allow anybody rest by telling us that Nigerian women have high values by marrying white men.

I'm so glad you type this. the white men never see Nigerian women as high values rather he seem them as cheap women, easy laid
I am a woman. I believe in speaking the truth. On NL, we see both men and women putting whites people on pedestals. Some men on here proclaim that they want to marry Oyibo/foreign women and that Oyibo’s are better than Nigeria. Women. Now most of these men live in Nigeria and haven’t had any dating experience with foreign women. There are more foreign men in Nigeria than foreign women.

I am not for interracial dating. Nigerians have to love, believe in and uphold themselves for us to get anywhere. Every one does it. If we fail to do same, we will remain perpetual losers. You can’t be playing checkers while everyone else is playing chess.

So what I am basically saying is as you are speaking out against what this woman did here, I hope you speak out too if a Nigerian man does something similar. Because what I see sometimes on NL is a double standard where men engage in certain behavior but want to castigate women for engaging in same behavior. That, I can never ride with. Gender warfare and blame game never gets a people anywhere.
SportsRe: "Kylian Mbappe Better Than Thierry Henry At 19" - France Coach, Didier Deschamps by Phut(f): 9:17pm On Jul 20, 2018
kaydp:
Why won't you be happy he's French undecided
I know right. The brain drain, skills drain is too much. We need to do better.
FamilyRe: Meet The McClure Twins, Ava And Alexis: Adopted By Justin McClure - Ami McClure by Phut(f): 8:14pm On Jul 20, 2018
pocohantas:
That was rape, the idea was to inflict pains and dominate the victim.
This man isn't 'raping' her. Someone just posted what he tweeted on and I wouldn't call that racist.

Now you're sounding like he knew those twins were money making ventures on sighting them. Let's not forget its his account that was converted to theirs. He probably discovered that 'potential'.
The distinction you made does not really make a difference. The question is: can a man be sexually attracted to a woman while holding racist views against that woman’s race. The answer is yes.

You are well aware of the recorded spate of killing of unarmed black men? Well these has been happening since the beginning of this country. Black people have always complained. White people would deflect and say it’s all in their minds, white police officers would frame and tell lies against the dead victims and white jurors would always let the policemen off the hook. Well in this day and age when everyone’s phone has video capabilities, people are now recording everything. Yet I spite of the video evidence, the white jurors continue to acquit even in clear cut cases like that of Philando Castille.

Most of these people in interracial relationships can never discuss any current race related topics with their spouse because like the white jurors, their white spouse would always take the side of white no matter how clear cut the evidence is. During Trumps campaign, there was a black girl on YouTube in an interracial relationship. Her white boyfriend went on a rant racially abusing all black people was very aggressive and physically threatening to the girlfriend and even ended up calling her the “N” word. Most interracial relationships follow this dynamic with the black partner tiptoeing around racial issues (or just plain pretending that racism does not exist) so as not to offend their white partner. What kind of marriage is that when you cannot watch TV with your spouse while freely commenting on current affairs? Most people in Interracial relationships are in an abusive relationship. They just put up a good facade. And since a lot of people want to believe the grass is greener on the other side/live in fantasy land, they believe the hype. That is why a lot of interracial youtubers have very high views. But in spite of them trying to portray a fantasy, a lot of them are developing cracks and showing their not so pretty underbelly. For example Judith’s Foreign Life (Nigerian girl from a well to do family went and married this broke ass loser white man who turned out to be bisexual and involved in the adult sex industry). Then there is Valencia’s life. Also Brittslife or some similar name. In her case, her husband cheated on her with a suspected tranny and the news was all over YouTube. All these youtubers had very high viewership because people are/were enthralled with all things interracial.

Christelyn Karazin the premiere promoter of Interracial relationships on YouTube tries to teach female swirlers how to date white men without setting them off on a racist rant. My question is what kind of life/Love is that? That is not an equal partnership but an abusive relationship. The whites are mostly racist and when they have children from these unions, they continue to spew racist nonsense against black people while encouraging the children to identify more with their white side and eventually marry white. While the black partners are self hating try hards, who lack the ability to impart love of their black self/portion on their biracial children. Lose Lose situation if you ask me.

Justin McClure’s statements were racist. And yes racist white men are sexually attracted to, sleep with and even marry black women, all while holding onto the racist ideas they were raised with.

America was built on racism and it is closely interwoven into the fabric of the nation. All the civil rights movement achieved was to drive racism underground. It’s many proponents are alive, well and thriving and pass it on from generation to generation. They only difference is that they are more covert with it, which makes it even more dangerous because many people look but do not see what is “hidden in plain sight.” Racism is systemic, it’s in our judiciary, law enforcement arm, the prison industrial complex and the executive arm of government. Most importantly, it’s in the minds of many people. Unfortunately, one cannot legislate the mind.

cc: aribs, HypocriteNazi
FamilyRe: Meet The McClure Twins, Ava And Alexis: Adopted By Justin McClure - Ami McClure by Phut(f): 7:33pm On Jul 20, 2018
HypocriteNazi:
You try to show people the light and will continue to not see it.
I think we have been brainwashed to think that the colonizers have the black people's best interest at heart. He said indirectly in other tweers that black people are intellectually beneath them and people are debating whether he is racist.
I agree 100% with you. But when one tries to open some of our people’s eyes, the push back is crazy.
FamilyRe: Meet The McClure Twins, Ava And Alexis: Adopted By Justin McClure - Ami McClure by Phut(f): 7:31pm On Jul 20, 2018
xtervaganza:
lotsa money? Lol




Like how much do they make that you consider lots of money?
With almost 1 million subscribers they could easily make $200,000 to $350,000 a year from YouTube. I watched a video where a person broke down how much all the big youtubers make.
FamilyRe: Meet The McClure Twins, Ava And Alexis: Adopted By Justin McClure - Ami McClure by Phut(f): 7:27pm On Jul 20, 2018
Mindfulness:
That's racist?



That is definitely racist. undecided

21st century. I tire ooo
Saying black women cannot pronounce or enunciate.

Saying black women are easy lays

Saying black people give their children trash names while Hispanics and other give their kids reasonable names.

Generalizing black people as being ostentatious and having low IQ.

Focusing all these negatives on blacks while not making similar “jokes” about any other race, is RACIST. RACIST not insensitive.

He never apologized for his racist jokes but instead sought to minimize them.

Ani had said in a video that she is not black (I.e. Black American) but Nigerian and that Nigerians have culture while implying that Black Americans do not.

I find Ami’s reasoning to be hogwash. If Ami so loved her culture then why didn’t she marry within said culture? Instead she perennially chooses loser white men (1st husband was abusive and current husband is a convicted felon and a former alcoholic who was not gainfully employed when she met him). Word is that (in between husband’s her Mom introduced her to a Nigerian Doctor, but she preferred a white man on the unemployment line.

Justin McClure hit paydirt when he married her because he is living high off the hog based on the YouTube earnings of the twins, who are not his biological daughters. I would say his marrying Ami was a strategic move which has paid off handsomely.

In my opinion, Ami has self hate. But of course she is not going to admit that. Her husbands tweets were racist. Why didn’t she sit back, let him apologize and then everyone move on? He didn’t apologize, instead she started voltroning for him. That is probably why she threw in the tidbit of having hated white people before (to deflect by implying she had behaved more egregiously in the past and so black people should give Justin a pass). Now when you look at Ami’s antecedents, it’s more likely that she has never hated white people but instead has put them on a pedestal and worshipped them.

cc: aribs, Pocohantas , HypocriteNazi
PoliticsRe: Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala Appointed To Board Of Twitter by Phut(f): 2:36am On Jul 20, 2018
DonGotti:
Sorry bro..but what’s the meaning of what you wrote?

Thanks
Praise God.
FamilyRe: Why We Need To Rethink Transgender In Nigeria ( Photos ) by Phut(f): 4:24am On Jul 19, 2018
1Sharon:
If he doesn't have his testis anymore there is no way he can revert back to looking manly..
Okay. But his estrogen levels will always be lower than that of a natural woman, in the absence of estrogen shots. Is there a way he can bump that up permanently? Me thinks removing testis puts him in the twilight zone (neither here nor there) and permanently dependent on hormone shots.

Anyway this topic “haf” tire me self. Very discombobulating something.
RomanceRe: Lesbian Couple Looking For Sperm Donor On Twitter (Photos) by Phut(f): 10:05pm On Jul 18, 2018
JONNYSPUTE:
Why looking for sperm donor to make babies? Thought they said its normal to be a lesbian or a gay? Mad people.
Ndi ara! Ndi ara! Le le lekwa ha angry
RomanceRe: Lesbian Couple Looking For Sperm Donor On Twitter (Photos) by Phut(f): 10:03pm On Jul 18, 2018
jabberjawz:
They should manufacture thier own sperm na......shebi Dem over Sabi pass God we create them.... angry
I know right. Nonsense people
RomanceRe: Lesbian Couple Looking For Sperm Donor On Twitter (Photos) by Phut(f): 10:02pm On Jul 18, 2018
CAPSLOCKED:

I'M IN NIGERIA, HOW CAN I DONATE FROM HERE? HOW MANY GALLONS YOU WANT? cheesy
See how you just devalue the thing
RomanceRe: Lesbian Couple Looking For Sperm Donor On Twitter (Photos) by Phut(f): 10:00pm On Jul 18, 2018
sapeleboi:
pls my sperm is not for sale
That is the way. Men need to value their essence more. And stop being general distributors.
RomanceRe: Lesbian Couple Looking For Sperm Donor On Twitter (Photos) by Phut(f): 9:58pm On Jul 18, 2018
sehin79:
do you need to come on social media,you can simply go to a sperm bank all over america
Don’t mind the attention seekers.
SportsRe: Benjamin Okenna Swadinho: Pidgin Commentator In Russia 2018 (Photos) by Phut(f): 9:55pm On Jul 18, 2018
dingbang:
Its good we are proud of our home languages. I told myself if I travel abroad, I will still speak pidjin to ndi oyibo...




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Pidgin is not a language. Pidgin is harmful to the indigenous languages. It’s almost like English first, pidgin second while indigenous languages are a distant third. Pidgin is a bastardized something. Let’s restore our indigenous languages to their rightful place. Even if English is first for reasons we cannot help, then indigenous languages should be 2nd.
FamilyRe: Why It's So Difficult To Be A Girl In Nigeria by Phut(f): 4:22pm On Jul 18, 2018
Hanseel1:
I don't have a problem with that because even if I'm a billionaire I'll still share the bills. . Tell that to Nigerian men who paid bride price .

Women shouldn't change their names because of marriage, I never subscribed to that nonsense.


Don't submit to any Man in the name of marriage unless he wants to reciprocate it.
Well good for you. You do do not believe in paying bride price and so you did not pay bride price. Most Nigerian men would insist on their wives taking their last name submitting etc. Let those men continue paying bride price. Every household does not operate the same You do what works for you, they do what works for them. But at no point in time should there be an attempt to cherry pick only the changes that they deem beneificial to their gender.
FamilyRe: Why It's So Difficult To Be A Girl In Nigeria by Phut(f): 3:31pm On Jul 18, 2018
Hanseel1:
Funny I must say.
Ahhh! No retort, I see.
FamilyRe: Why It's So Difficult To Be A Girl In Nigeria by Phut(f): 3:00pm On Jul 18, 2018
Hanseel1:
It is these same responsibilities which the society imposed on them alone instead of both genders that is making them to treat their wives like trash.

Also, I never emphasized on India rather I was talking about Nigeria and Africa as a whole.
If you want equal responsibility sublimity be sure to do 50 percent of the house chore, stay up all night to take care of your new born, take paternity leave so as to take care of your new born and where that is not available or the leave provided is insufficient quit your job. Also be prepared to move with your wife to a new state if she happens to get a higher paying job (over there) than you. Your wife should not be required to take your last name. The last names of any children you might have should be split between you and your wife etc
FamilyRe: Why It's So Difficult To Be A Girl In Nigeria by Phut(f): 2:56pm On Jul 18, 2018
Hanseel1:
It is these same responsibilities which the society imposed on them alone instead of both genders that is making them to treat their wives like trash.

Also, I never emphasized on India rather I was talking about Nigeria and Africa as a whole.
Men have responsibilities, women have responsibilities. Women are the bread winners in a lot of Nigerian families and they do that quietly because they do not want the man to feel emasculated. Traditionally men were to be the providers, women the child bearers, nurturers and keepers of the home. Currently, Women have carry a lot of financial responsibility without men taking up a corresponding amount of child rearing and family chores.
The fact is a lot of men in Nigeria were spoilt in the youth and made to feel special just because of their gender. They were told that the world revolves around them. As some one mentioned in this thread, you will see situations where the little girl is sent on so many chores and errands while the little boy lounges around and these men carry it into adulthood and become a burden.

Everybody know that it’s a mans world and men even throw this fact in women’s faces from time to time. However in spite of all the benefits society bestows, you still see men whining in a very unbecoming manner.
Whining is unbecoming of a man. Now if being a man (with all its attendant benefits in Nigeria) is too much for some guys to handle, they can give up there cojones and let women take over. Don’t cry when we call the shots.

P.S. India’s example was very apropos because it shows a system where the absence of bride price did not improve the plight of women.
FamilyRe: Why It's So Difficult To Be A Girl In Nigeria by Phut(f): 5:10am On Jul 18, 2018
ImaIma1:
What of in countries and cultures where men do not pay bride price? The domination mentality is still there. It has nothing to do with paying bride and everything to do with male ego and a faulty perception of women due to upbringing or personal experiences.

Men that treat their wives like trash and those that treat their wives like queens both paid bride price.

So if someone wants to use paying bride price as an excuse to treat a woman like an acquisition, it is a personal thing.
In India it is the women that pay dowry to the men and we all know that the women are generally treated like scum. In fact the men sometimes kill the women when the deem that the women and her family haven’t paid enough dowry. Maybe Hanseel1 can explain that to us?

Fact of the matter is, how a man treats a woman depends on indoctrination. A man that respects women is not all of a sudden going to treat her badly because he paid bride price. Likewise a man that has been taught that women are less than him and not worthy of consideration, is not going to treat his wife better just because he didn’t pay bride price.

Case in point is the cases of poor people in Nigeria who move in together and start having kids without a marriage or bride price being paid. We know that a large number of those unions are rife with domestic violence and a whole host of other issues. Why is that Hanseel1?

Some men just want to absolve themselves from all responsibility, they cry about every little thing that sane society requires of them and act as if it is the biggest imposition. These same group of men have been so coddled that they even refuse to take reaponsibility for their own bad acts and will do anything to absolve themselves from liability, including blaming the victim. We have many examples of them here on NL.

cc: Cococandy, Ujujoan
FamilyRe: Why We Need To Rethink Transgender In Nigeria ( Photos ) by Phut(f): 6:06pm On Jul 17, 2018
Amakavula:
apparently you are one of them who Dm and I didn't respond. sorry oh. Don't know what brought my gender into this, but if you feel I am male good for you. I doesn't change my sex though
Me DM a confused being? LMAO! Is the female behind your name a signification of your longing to be a girl? grin
Like I said, libidinous boy trying to deceive other libidinous boys. Broad is the road that leads to destruction.
FamilyRe: Why We Need To Rethink Transgender In Nigeria ( Photos ) by Phut(f):
He has breast implants, butt implants, had ribs removed to create a smaller waist. Has had facial reconstruction to soften his chiseled (manly) jaw and cheekbones. Has an artificially created vagina, no womb. Will revert to manliness in all his glory once he comes off his estrogen shots and that is what you as a man (yes I know you are one of these libidinous male teens roaming Nairaland)want to compare to a WOMANhuh

Chai! Chai! Chai!

Uwa mmebi!! This world “haf” spoil finish.
FamilyRe: Why We Need To Rethink Transgender In Nigeria ( Photos ) by Phut(f):
Take this “shim” off his estrogen shots for 1 month and see how “feminine” he’ll be looking 5 o’ clock shadow and all.

For the rest of his life his body will always produce a preponderance of testosterone and he will continue to take estrogen shots, seeking to become what he can never become. Shiorrr!!!
FamilyRe: Baby Names No One Loves Any More - (check It Out) by Phut(f): 5:32am On Jul 11, 2018
Ishilove:
These are non-Nigerian names. What are we supposed to do with them?
Help me ask am o! They can all go into oblivion for all we care. People just copying and pasting rubbish. mschew!
CelebritiesRe: E-money Poses Beside His $500,000 Maybach 62s In New Photo by Phut(f): 4:31am On Jul 07, 2018
Lilimax:
Cool!

Mana ka m jukwaa!
Bikonu, gini na-amiri nwoke be anyi a ego? shocked

Ikparikwa a m, aga m agba gi nkiti smiley
O bu ogwu ego grin
FamilyRe: 'Mourning While Black': Family, including dead woman, kicked out of church.... by Phut(f): 2:32pm On Jul 06, 2018
Ubenedictus:
latent racism ke,

the man who was with the grieving family the previous week, planned the burial, helped defray cost and has served as priest for over 25 years without incident is now a racist because he lost his head for a few minutes.

abeg nor find another talk,

his actions was wrong tragic and totally inappropriate but it has nothing to do with race, I don't understand why anytime a white man misbehaves it suddenly becomes race. I have seen black priest who refuse to celebrate wedding mass because of small issues...it has nothing to do with race, if he were racist he wouldn't have been with the family the week before consoling them nor would he have helped in planing the burial.


you can call him whatever you like his actions were wrong but I wouldn't call man who has ministered for over 25 years a racist because he was stupid once.


lastly, since you want him fired, erasing a man's accomplishments of years over one mistake, then maybe you can also report him to the police get him arrested and prosecuted and jailed so you'll have peace.

pro buruku
Most of the time, there is a thin veneer covering up people’s true and deep down feelings. This is because most people attempt to be politically correct at all times. However, during an episode of “5 minutes madness” is when you see a person character from way deep down in their being.
Some overly religious people will never see this too. Because in their eyes, a man of the cloth can never do wrong.

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