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Your view of what the family should be like is different from the egalitarian model you believe in

Why should d buck stop at one person (3rd paragraph) when according to your 2nd you believed is non gender-specific roles

Want to get your POV

alutacontinua:
what are you talking about?
I was asking for names of women (nairalanders) that turned Naija in Diaspora by marriage

Why not names of guys who .married for green card

If guys do it..ladies also do it

That's the point...harasser..

OK


So what's the point of this tale


OP

alutacontinua:
examples or I don't believe you

What is good for the gander is better for the goose

bebe2:
Ehhhh madam wetin I do u nahhh

Carry goooo.....nothing do u oooo
I no b madam

Gombs:
Oh! I have accepted the existence of these gimmicks in Nigerian churches, even in some CEC churches.

Interesting.....


At least there is scope for more understanding

Yes it exists even aMong the bigger churches

The smaller ones...let's not go there

Gombs:
We sure have to pray for God's people.

Yes we do....


If I may say you have not accepted the existence of this gimmicks in the naijan church

If we dont agree there is a question how can we find d answer

Damn....messi control for his first goal for such a sharp pass from ini

What a rant


Thank to the powers that single hood is being de stigmatized in naija like the West

So you will not be saddled with such inconveniences like child bearing

Praise Jah for civilisation

Gombs:
Some are strange to me....and to be honest, I haven't heard of the hundred fold increase? I'd let you know of chapter 7

Now I see why u r so defensive when you see comments highlighting the gimmicks being practiced by some church

Unfortunately you are an island in an ocean which is increasing in water level

I have heard of 60 fold and 100 fold
In so many churches.


It is real..you need to listen more

Yomieluv:
Boys aren't smiling,everybody red eyes.
Anything to achieve your aim,even if it means marrying an old hag,whose toto don loose.
abeg use alum wash the place,no difference between it,and a regular snail.

What makes u think its only boys
What of the ladies who marry obodo husbands to escape poverty and then come to NL to post as Naijan in diaspora

The struggle is real

Gombs

I am gettin confused

You are making too many interjections into the text and i cant recognise which is the book and which is your annotation

i also observe ur side remarks to others... why

Who made the mistake of the 100 fold teaching because it felt good --- you or the author


Now as per your annotations i find it hilarious that you are find some of the practices highlighted by Hagin. Are they strange to you

Have u not heard of 100 fold teaching
or sowing into my ministry rather than the poor
Anointing to break spirit of poverty or debt?
Pastoral giving has higher yield

Please stop annotating the book

let me know when u have chp 7

crackhaus:
And someone is trying hard to make it seem I don't know what I'm talking about.

It's not even about how many people will say they can adopt but more about how many of them can actually treat a kid they didn't birth the exact same way they would theirs - benefits, pampering, same exact punishments and favors, etc.

No worry yourself

I was actually waiting for d session on statistics and how she can tell Us with certainty that stats have no inherent bias.

edoyad:
Niki Lauda and James Hunt, can't wait to see how the season ends

I know...I said its a good film

^^^^ Rush a good film

crackhaus:
Just when I was trying to be fair, you bring this 1 in 100

No need to look far
How many people have said they will adopt so far
Even step mothers who have no choice still struggle

crackhaus i think ur stat are overestimated

More like 1 in 100 (case in point the relationships between women and step kids)

However external factors such as fertility, individual attitude make some more amiable to adoption

This include guys also

Damn..

A40:
Isn't it so bloody obvious that Rosberg isn't competition! Later dem go talk say this year title race competitive

5minsmadness:
A DNA test takes 2weeks and costs about N100k. It can be done for confirmation.

Give Instances of illiterates that raised professors without financial backing and outside help pls.

Its not about the DNA.. i said in some traditions, if u are not married to a woman, you have no right over d child
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If u dont know of any, i wll be surprised

Market women have had graduates.. im sure prof dey there

5minsmadness:
Pickabeau1, busybody 2

But can't benyrazz fight for custody based on maternal incompetence and unwillingness to improve herself vis a vis furthering her education, even despite offer of financial aid from the husband? Isn't the child's basic upbringing being put in jeopardy by the mother's obstinate behaviour?

That is a different dimension which typically is an exception

Illiterates have raised professors


who says he is truly is the fada of the child

Gombs:
ummm...really? even if they tend to twist what the good old papa taught and wrote?

ok then, let's see how it plays out. By the way, chapter 6 is up... took me close to almost 5hrs to put it up here, i'd do that over and over if i must. A good read i tell ya!

ok.. i will read and make my comments later

Baddestguyp:
oh but d anime was fantastic to me

ok.. it slowed down towards the end

inconclusive ending

United fans

I put it to you that Berahino >>>> Falcao + RvP

Disqus

SPOILER!!!


I was referring to the anime though

Maybe i will get the manga

Baddestguyp:
I just saw chapter 61, looks like the fun is starting again. it was revealed that Eren killed his father

Look like a wonderful idea

Mynd44

Baddestguyp:
I think the anime will remain at 25, d manga is good but got dry towards d end as they weren't really fighting titans but were concentrating on a revolution. anyway commander Erwin lost an arm, levi is really good, fighting against d military police and their new type of maneuver gear. d identities of d armed and collosial Titans were revealed and a new bad ass Titan with hairy animal skin was leading the titans

True... it got boring

The lady titan was so annoying though

But i feel there is scope for one more season - explaining what makes up d titan

alutacontinua...i see u

He has shown by words and actions he does not regard you as a partner

- No involvement in the family biz, running you down verbally, you may have no stake in the house even though you are supporting him in the household expenses

- No body who can help with mediation that he respects

- Saying he is not interested in providin school fees for his kids


I am tempted to say you are a second family who h is not interested except you have evidence to the contrary otherwise his actions especially as pertaining his kids is strange

Good enough you hv a job so there will be minimal changes to your lifestyle

- You can make one more attempt at communication and all the issues pertaining joint expenses(feeding and kids schooling is a joint expense)
preferably with a marriage counsellor who can be expected to be neutral


- If that fails. You can do a trial seperation before you consider something permanent


PS That is if this is true

bukatyne:
But honestly how many leading to marriage has he seen?

Just like saying young men like much older women because there are sugar sons.

True.. however the lady has to be more careful when marrying a much older man

example

There was a thread about a woman who married a twice divorced older man who is not into sex

She is now complaining of sexual frustration

Who Knows

bukatyne:
LOL!

So in essence, they are boyfriend material and not husband material

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