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Family › Re: Why Women Of This Generation Are Not Submissive By Tosin Martins by pickabeau1: 5:17pm On Oct 22, 2014
All i see is spit and vehement bigotry
Whats happening to you

Ok.. you win

You are the illiterate one that cant engage in a convo withot smattering it with irrelevancies

As i said check yourself.. you may have a bit of strange in you... double flaming fhaggot

http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/submission


For those of us not given to 'intellectualistic' flights of fancy.. Websters Dictionary will do for us grin grin

Full Definition of SUBMISSION

[size=4pt]
1 a: a legal agreement to submit to the decision of arbitrators

b: an act of submitting something (as for consideration or inspection); also: something submitted (as a manuscript) [/size]

[size=18pt]2 : the condition of being submissive, humble, or compliant
[/size]

[size=4pt]3 : an act of submitting to the authority or control of another [/size]
Family › Re: A Thread For Both Parties To Share Their Sides Of The Story by pickabeau1: 5:10pm On Oct 22, 2014
The major issue is actually the partner who may not be keen to bring the issue to a forum or to strangers so to speak who may even be experiencing much more in their own offline lives

Lets see how it goes

TV01,aluta,chaircover
Family › Re: Why Women Of This Generation Are Not Submissive By Tosin Martins by pickabeau1: 5:06pm On Oct 22, 2014
since you are the one that knows other peoples sexuality.. carry on

A Submissive woman may be different from a woman who is practicing submission grin grin grin

Lawdy lawd


You have started believing the BS you say about yourself

At least its a break from your typical AntiNaija, ProIjebu rants..

Oh,.. i forgot... youre the flaming phaggot... people like you that are so obsessed with gay ish r typically closet ones

check yourself dude
Family › Re: A Thread For Both Parties To Share Their Sides Of The Story by pickabeau1: 5:03pm On Oct 22, 2014
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Family › Re: A Thread For Both Parties To Share Their Sides Of The Story by pickabeau1: 5:02pm On Oct 22, 2014
Who determines who the 'best of advisers' are and who the 'trolls' are?

based on likes? undecided

i did not know there was a merit award group determining levels and ranks

grin grin grin grin

ok
Family › Re: Why Women Of This Generation Are Not Submissive By Tosin Martins by pickabeau1: 4:51pm On Oct 22, 2014
I cant believe this dude is still digging himself.. until you called my name.. i was out of this crappy debate


Submissiveness vs Submission grin grin (though from submit are different nuances...puhleeze)

Rather than state that is your own interpretation which is not English, youbring up your intellectual badge again and take potshots to fan your ego

youre so funny

To help those who are wondering about the mish mash

http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/submission

Full Definition of SUBMISSION


1 a: a legal agreement to submit to the decision of arbitrators

b: an act of submitting something (as for consideration or inspection); also: something submitted (as a manuscript)

2 : the condition of being submissive, humble, or compliant


3 : an act of submitting to the authority or control of another
Let me help further

sub·mis·sive adjective \-ˈmi-siv\

: willing to obey someone else

: submitting to others <submissive employees>

— sub·mis·sive·lyadverb
Dude stick to your pan african and womanism isms... and stop attacking people
As an 'intellectual' you should know better
Family › Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 4:36pm On Oct 22, 2014
lets see how it goes

freshdude2:
True but, not today's Juve. These sorts of scorelines tend to instil some humility and should bring them back to earth. Bayern, for all their efficiency, wouldn't go into the next game playing for a 4-goal winning margin. Remember Chelsea at Old Trafford and the Emirates last season? They played not to lose because, Mourinho was 'new' to the league and had to size his opponents up, so to speak. Arrogance with comes from naivety cost Roma dearly yesterday. Hopefully, they've learnt a thing or two. grin
Family › Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 2:49pm On Oct 22, 2014
freshdude2:
Per Bayern, you could say Roma didn't present a good enough opposition. It's the same reason Juve, for all their domestic dominance are woeful in Europe. They have good players but they need to get that European mentality. This is best of the best not Sassuolo.

I actually tip Chelsea for the CL this season grin. Of course, I'm objectively biased.

City are a fake club with no personality, like PSG. They had only four points more than 3rd placed Chelsea in EPL last season with 31 more goals, let that sink in for a moment, 31 more goals and a measly 4-point difference. They're just all muscle with efficient but dogmatic players, like PSG. They won't go far in Europe till they change their coach.
The bolded.... deep!
Family › Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 2:48pm On Oct 22, 2014
freshdude2:
Roma are over feeling themselves at the moment. They currently disrespect Juve becase they think they have a chance at prising the Scudetto from the Old Lady. But truth is, they cannot grind out results like Juve can and Juve wouldn't by, at most, two goals to Bayern. Roma have got too cocky too soon, and they don't have a goalie.
Is it not the same Juve that chopped 4 goals to Bayern the last time they were in champs league
Family › Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 2:47pm On Oct 22, 2014
TV01:
To be honest I wasn't aware of the "potting" style seeding. Anyhows they were dull. Bayern were quite chilling., Wasn;t it Roma that held City last time out?

TV
The seedings used to be based on performance in Europe over a 5y period
The biggest clubs are ranked in pot 1 and they are seeded

Notable clubs which will have been in pot 1 HAD they qualified are United and Valencia

Schalke and Dortmund can break into pot 1 on the back of superlative performances this year

However league champions will be used now..

Does it mean if barca win, Real will be in pot 2 while Man CIty in pot 1

A club that cant even win Roma or CSKA Moskow... plonkers
Christianity Etc › Re: The Midas Touch- A Balanced Approach To Biblical Prosperity - Kenneth Hagin by pickabeau1: 1:15pm On Oct 22, 2014
ch7...it seems you persist in annotating the book and calling out people (frosbel etc)

anyhow u want it

SO THE QUESTION IS

So which major pentecostal movement in nigeria does not use the highlighted

There are also some "red flags" or warning signs to watch for in determining whether a ministry is sound and worthy of support. I would suggest the utmost caution in supporting or being involved with any organization that has the following marks:

Exerts pressure to give or encourages impulse giving by saying, "You must give now!"

Makes suggestions of condemnation and guilt if you don't give.

Uses hype, emotionalism, and spiritual manipulation, such as "prophesying" dollars out of your pocket.

Makes outlandish promises such as "Everyone who gives now will receive a hundredfold return." Or, "Those who give to this offering will have your debts cancelled."

Does not promote the local church, or projects the idea that theirs is the only ministry worth supporting.

Spends more time and energy raising funds than in doing the work of the ministry.

Builds money appeals around gimmicks and sensationalism.
Also has Mr Hagin who admitted using gimmicks in his ministry also resolvd to embark on a form of restitution like Zaccheus
Family › Re: What Are Your Definition Of Head Of The Home by pickabeau1: 12:49pm On Oct 22, 2014
Interesting scenario pointed out though u did not point out where his decsisions have mostly being beneficial grin grin grin


But you r right and u highlight the fact that one person cannot know it all

Even global CEOs of consultancies make mistakes

Does it mean they should not be head of the companies? cheesy

Making a superior counterpoint to the benefit of a relationship is not usurping rather is wisdom BUT that does not suddenly mean the head is useless



vivalableue:
Ya... I will definitely say that it's fluid. But let's put conflicts into play. And this is where trust and ultimately having each other backs into play.

Ex: I live in a bilingual city where the majority speaks French. Daddy and I are both fully bilingual, but speak English. So, for the success of the kids were decided they would be better in a French school whilst learning English at home. No problem right? Wrong! I saw far my oldest was experiencing done speech delays and stuttering... At the pre-kindergarten level I enrolled him in a bilingual English school... Dad was livid, he expected our son to follow the program we put him in. But, I insisted that he stay in the school. Time goes on and, not to mine but dad's surprise, they started giving him speech therapy. His language improved,and to my delight he began conversing in French to strangers on the street (bus drivers, cashiers etc)...

So although his father felt like his decision was being usurped, he trusted me to make the right choice, and had my back. We now feel confident that once our younger one will begin school, both can start at the French ones with no difficulties.
Romance › Re: Slim Girls Are Smarter Than Fat Girls. I Go For Slim Girls. by pickabeau1: 12:35pm On Oct 22, 2014
temigracie:
...@OP...

You have concluded in your mind already...So, what should we do about it?
Family › Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 12:31pm On Oct 22, 2014
City are clueless in Europe
They are local champs who dont have a clue

Kompany is now blaming the fact that they had no fans to support them

The more reason they should be in the 2nd or 3rd pot

Unfortunately, they will benefit from the new seeding system where league champs will be in pot 1

I pity Wenger grin grin
Family › Re: What Are Your Definition Of Head Of The Home by pickabeau1: 12:27pm On Oct 22, 2014
Leave the bashing...lol grin

Now you have clarified your post... in your model theterm headship is a fluid concept, more of a situational thing depending on the role to be played at that time.

That is clear and it can work also as long as there is engagement of the parties/stakeholders and a clear understandingof the roles and requirements to achieve the tasks.

To each his or her own.






vivalableue:
Tbh... I didn't want to include my personal family model because I find that most members on this forum delight in bashing feminism. When the premise is the equality between genders. undecided undecided I Gave my interpretation of a traditional home based on my own upbringing and from what I observed.

If you are keen in knowing my POV... Here it is; in my family you contribute to its success by using your strengths to uphold others weaknesses. For example, the Daddy is a chef, so naturally he cooks most of the meals. I love to build and I'm an IT professional, so I make sure everything is in running order when it comes to that. He's a morning person so he brings the kids to daycare/school in the morning, I finish work with energy so I take the kids top the park in the afternoons. He's better with lists, so he organizes the shopping and trips. I have a better grasp of numbers, so I calculate savings and bills. We both take care of the kids and discipline them in 1 voice regardless of who takes charge in that instance. He doesn't need my cowering myself to feel like a man, because he knows that we appreciate whatever he does for the family. I don't emasculate him for watching the food channel, he doesn't make fun of me for being obsessed with every Tech convention. The kids are allowed to discover their God given talents without feeling the pressure of "not for girls/boys" stigma. So Ya... That's our family unit.
Family › Re: Why Women Of This Generation Are Not Submissive By Tosin Martins by pickabeau1: 11:52am On Oct 22, 2014
everyone be like spitting intellectual mish mash around these boards

who knows

crackhaus:
The rate at which 'self-acclaimed intellectuals' spit comments without pause for sound thought on here never cease to amaze me.

The other day it was one telling me she's a supporter of post-feminism grin
Family › Re: Court Orders Liya To Be Returned To Her Mum by pickabeau1: 11:48am On Oct 22, 2014
Exactly

aisha2:
Yeah when a will exists nothing much anyone can do except challenge the competence and loop holes if any. Most good wills are iron clad and challenging it usually leads to long pointless battles laden with hate and bitterness sometimes transfered across generations.

The case i quoted was a clear case of a man dying without a will and the daughter being excluded because of her gender.
The point is that she could have stayed quite and whine kike most Nigerian women would about how unfair customs and traditions are to women but she did something about it and got a judgement for her and now other women can refer to her case as decided by the supreme court and get their fair share of inheritance
Christianity Etc › Re: The Midas Touch- A Balanced Approach To Biblical Prosperity - Kenneth Hagin by pickabeau1: 10:39am On Oct 22, 2014
Damn...

At first i felt like laughing then throwing up and then smh

The comedy of horrors on the pulpit steps



BabaGnoni:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LEgS2uDMEF4
pickabeau1, this one is for you bro.
Enjoy watching Leroy Thompson and Creflo Dollar or throw up
- Now you know why he couldn't muster strength to turn up at Hagin's called meeting
Family › Re: Why Women Of This Generation Are Not Submissive By Tosin Martins by pickabeau1:
im also interested in this.. how submissiveness is not a quality of submission grin grin grin

crackhaus:
What is the difference between 'submissiveness' and 'submission' in the context of marriage genius?
Christianity Etc › Re: The Midas Touch- A Balanced Approach To Biblical Prosperity - Kenneth Hagin by pickabeau1: 10:16am On Oct 22, 2014
Wow.. the Dr Leroy video... wow

Wish it was unedited though
Family › Re: Court Orders Liya To Be Returned To Her Mum by pickabeau1: 9:54am On Oct 22, 2014
if the will excludes sons nothing can be done about it

The best that can be done is to challenge the legitimacy of thewill and the capacity of the person bequeathing the estate

But if that is not an issue, the will is sacrosanct

One can even give his money all to charity
Family › Re: Court Orders Liya To Be Returned To Her Mum by pickabeau1: 9:47am On Oct 22, 2014
this provision applies to cases where the man dies intestate and customary law has to kick in

If the will specifically excludes daughters which have been married out, i dont think anything can change that
Family › Re: Heaven Gained A Beautiful Angel Tonight.my "Twin" Sister. by pickabeau1: 6:31am On Oct 22, 2014
Such a beautiful woman

My condolences

May you and the family she left behind be comforted at this time


Please all ignore the poster above me
Family › Re: What Are Your Definition Of Head Of The Home by pickabeau1: 6:24am On Oct 22, 2014
donroxy:
Don't mind the Op ... How could you be feminist and allowed the buck to stopped @ the man's table ... What happened to mutual decision and collective responsibility for failure !!

The Op is an Opportunist not a feminist .....

@vivalableue,
Presently, we mankind are removing ''gender ability'' in our definition of the role of men and women but the truth is Gender structure can never be eradicated in defining role of men and women !!

The man is possibly the muscle and source of strength to the family (the CEO and the strategist) while the mother is the Manager (Monitoring , Control and managing the daily affairs as strategically communicated by the CEO which all stakeholders(children and parents agreed) !!!

There is nothing like shareholders in a family-affairs else na other people go own your family and such family already scatterscatter !!
I will like to hear her Own words..
Let's wait
Family › Re: A Desparate Mother's Choice by pickabeau1: 6:23am On Oct 22, 2014
podosci:
Did you read the post?...does it have to be about wizkid or jayz before you understand the wordings?...Children of this generation
K is for Klown
Politics › Re: Redeemed Church Pastor Jailed For N5million Fraud by pickabeau1: 3:09am On Oct 22, 2014
Source
Family › Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by pickabeau1: 2:59am On Oct 22, 2014
alutacontinua:
you sef, you too dey fear cheesy undecided angry
I will protect you, I promise cheesy
Just whisper their names cheesy
Who knows.....
Family › Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by pickabeau1: 2:56am On Oct 22, 2014
alutacontinua:
I like proof, just like op supported his claims with pictures
your statement would be more authentic if you can give at least, 5 examples to back it up cheesy grin
Ehya....for NL in my earlier post..substitute online forums....

Hope that settles it


Or do u know a greencard bride who is an avid online forum poster

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