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EfemenaXY:
It's a holiday.

Special "me time" for the couple, away from family, friends, work, and heck - real life.

The honeymoon is meant to be heaven on earth. Paradise until real life kicks in.

Seconded.

December 20th.

To each her own.

trisha01:
2.
Because That Is What Guys Love To Hear
YES girls mostly lie about their virginity status
because guys in question always mount
pressure on them, therefore, they lie about
being one. However, an average lady is most
likely to lie about being a virgin because being
a virgin will make her appear innocent,
respected & holy.

That is NOT what guys want to hear. Whatever you were thinking when you typed that.
6.
Because the Society Discriminates against
non-virgins Some people react badly when
they know that a woman is not a virgin. Hence,
ladies would rather not deal with that reaction &
may lie because of the fear of Being chastised
or castigated.She Wants To Portray A Good Image.

Again, another untrue fact. That would have been true in the 90s. No one gives a hoot now. Virginity doesn't guarantee the perfect relationship.

Hello, I'm a girl and I'm new here.

Women be finding love online since the beginning of time.

My phone is all the intimacy I need.

And she didn't know that before "I do"?

She was counting?

And you're drinking panadol for your friend's headache because?

cesspit:
OK, I am definitely using an alternate account for this and kinda edited the story... I know too many peeps on NL. Had to make this short.

I met this girl about two years ago,we became best of friends and I started having this 'feeling' for her. I couldn't tell her cause I didn't want to spoil what we spent two years building, but I really started loving her.

I 'wasted time' and a new guy came into the picture, I felt heartbroken as I intended asking her out prior to the discovery. I then tried to distance myself from her as I couldn't handle the 'jealousy' but the more I push her away the closer she comes. Truth is, I really love this girl but she seems happy with this guy and I don't want to ruin that happiness.

I don't really want her gone forever but I just need space to heal...

NB: we are currently not in the same state, but she chats me up and calls like every minute

So you're willing to give up a girl you love because you're not "willing to ruin that happiness". Noble.

And FOOLISH.

If he begs enough I might be merciful

She won't wait for you. You shouldn't think about it either. Dating older women is as unrealistic as they come.

How does your story relate to being used and dumped?