₦airaland Forum

LagosNIV:
As you've stated, the other parents' consent is necessary. These are the U.S. immigration laws. How you manage this situation with your ex or choose to move forward with the immigration process is ultimately a personal decision that only you can make.

Dear VO,
Thank you for your response, it is appreciated.
I know how I choose to go about it is a personal decision.
Like I said earlier,and you agreed,the other parents' consent is necessary.
But my question is this :
In the absence of consent,are there other options /alternatives that I can explore that would be accepted by the US embassy.
Thank you in anticipation.

Good morning VO,
Greetings to you.
My fiance is about to file a k1 for me,but I have a concern : I was married under native law and custom and applied for divorce in a customary court,but my husband refused to attend proceedings even after he had been served papers,i eventually got the divorce and custody of our only child, whom I have been taking care of,without a single help from my ex. Now I got introduced to someone and we fell in love and he wants me with him. But I know my ex will never give his consent for my daughter,who is now 14,to leave with me,and consent of the other parent is required for a k2 visa.
My daughter has known no other parent except me.
What can be done under the circumstances to ensure I travel with my daughter.
Please kindly be detailed and explicit in your response. I can't leave my daughter behind.
Thank you so much in anticipation of your response. .

vicope: Three people responded to my request by sending an email. May God bless you guys and may your wishes come true.

pls forward 2 me: getifyjayb@yahoo.com

Doc gd day,
A close friend saw her period on the 19th -23rd of August,she later had unprotected sex on the 10th of september and took postinor 2 immediately after..she had unprotected sex again on 12th and 13th without postinor.,but she has not seen her period ever since.she has even done 4 pregnancy tests: all came out negative .she has no pregnancy symptoms,she is above 35.what coul be the problem?

franchizy: It is only in Nigeria dat d majorities are marginalized. The North r majorities yet we ve only 2 Law schools in d North (Kano and Yola) while d south East also ve 2 (Bayelsa ,d Enugu).
This is not acceptable by us. We demand 4 more slots now

What are you waiting for ,carry placards now !

musiwa20: the politics math of 6 zones.



East get 2 --Enugu ,Yenagoa

West get 1 Lagos ( while is as the largest population)

North get 3 Yola , Abuja , Kano

And this clown must have critcized Lagos state commandant

bambuzz88: just with this alone, he his guilty to gross incomptence nd ignorance before he failed the real test and should just be fired for been irritative nd dull headed

you are in primary 1 right ?

fonssy: If I comment now, tomorrow they will say It was not true, just like that of the wife's protest. So no comment. I don't trust this media people again, until my aga at the top tells me to trust them.

so so dry

toshmann: Didn't want to comment on this issue until I see the interview in question, but I just had to comment now because all I see from the posts here are people complaining about the guy not remembering his website. That's bad, okay, but no one has complained about his functional ineptitude, So far. I maintain that we must focus our attention on the greatest thieves of all, not some dude who couldn't remember or didn't even know his office website. Shameful, yes, but not our biggest problem.
By the way, the kind of English I'm reading in this thread, including those who want to spear(spare) the guy, and those who can't resite(recite) the anthem, etc, i'm reminded that the generation that used mago-mago to pass JAMB/WAEC etc as well as Magomatized their degrees have become the workforce of the land. That's Nigeria's future, and it's more shameful.

Finally, I remember in 2008, Obama once forgot how many states were in the US. And he wanted to be president, and he still won the election.

Lets get our priorities right. Apart from the shameful ignorance of his office website, how dysfunctional is this guy?
How corrupt is he?
How is his office/ministry/whatever percieved in the eyes of the people he is supposed to serve?
These are more important questions.

Gbam !!

alfablondy: Your opinion. That's all!

Thank you .

Amya: Republicans you say. If Obama coughs, they'll ask him to resign.

Why I said Nigerians are hypocrites is simply because we talk from both sides of our mouth. If stuffs like this should happen to someone we know, we are quick to rally on his defense, and if it's a person we don't know, we bring him down. If this guy were your dad or uncle or relative, we wouldn't be saying this same thing. We are hypocrites and sometimes are mostly swayed by the winning side. Let's be truthful to ourselves, yeah we had fun with this, but at the same time it could happen to anybody.

u are on point sis !

Akeud: Silly Oga at the top ought
be fired to hiring such an
incompetent individual! The we NL members should sue Mr Sham and his Oga At The Top to court without any waste of time for this black mail!

What on earth are you talking about ! gosh

cashkid: i agree wit u bro, bt i guess u suppose 2 use worse nt worst in dt sentence. jst an humble correctn!

Bros no offence intended but you should use 'a humble not an humble'

~Bluetooth:
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Foolish organization working for a foolish government promoting foolishness in order to justify a foolish act by a foolish man who publicly displayed his world class foolishness and now being foolishly promoted by his foolish oga at the top.

And you cant help but display your foolishness

ogbonoeba: We will not be silent! You people cannot silence us!
How can we ignore gross incompetence?
A simple website domain cannot be remembered by a 'commandant'?
How did he qualify for that job position?

Nonsense!

Go ahead and carry placard now, mumu oga at the bottom !

ehibia: In my own opinion, It was so unprofessional of the so called anchors of the Program, Such errors are bound to occur sometimes and as professional TV broadcasters they should know how to handle cases like that. It was so obvious that the Lady and one of the two gentlemen that kept asking over & over again whether NSCDC has more than one website had other motives, Guest are not suppose to be treated that way. In foreign media shows , most times cases like this are immediately detected and sensed by program anchors and 9 out of 10 times they stylishly twist the question in order not to embarrass their guests.

Highly unprofessional duo. The 'lady' and 'gentleman' were bent on embarassing their guest.

osram: This man should not b speard,he shud b fired asap!!!

And you my friend should be more merciful especially when you cant spell. The word is 'spared not speared'. And that was obviously no error.

Elueme: Gbam! We celebrate mediocrity so well in Nigeria. I took time to watch the last 10 minutes of that interview on U-tube and would say the man in question didn't do badly with the exception of the website aspect where though glaringly clear he didn't know it but was trying to outsmart those young and hot blooded presenters who took him to the mud. Everybody ain't so complaint with ICT , so it would be callous to suspend him on that error, but that aside he caught me as somebody who knew his job and is proud of it.

Look man,you have said it all !

killuminati: Mumu party, mumu leaders, mumu followers. Add everything together equals to mumu talk, mumu decisions. So-called president sef carry mumu face, dress like a mumu, wife mumu, pikin mumu, papa mumu, mama mumu, entire family mumu...abeg make we stop these mumu people before dem turn our country to mumu country! Na everyday mumu thing dey happen for naija, which way naija? Abeg stop to dey mumu dey go na only one life dey oh!

That does it ! I am quitting nairaland, it has been taken over by infants.

musiwa19: i know why he said so because yoruba prefer to have the most honest person in power when compare with igbo people this is why igboland is not develop. the yoruba people hate people steal

you see the man who built this stadium, as been taken to court for increasing the price.. but igbo governors who did not build anything are walking free in igboland with that money.. because yorubas hates people who steal.

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your comment is very infantile

Billyonaire: Why would people be bothered about OBJ. He should be left to enjoy his retirement and make peace with the maker before going 6ft. Only a stupid person will still want to be involved in politics at 75. Its time we think about our lives and how we live. OBJ should be thinking of how he will die.

A very insensitve comment. Age is not the only determinant of death.

safarigirl: if a child is meant to die, it WILL die, make una forget these stats. NOTHING happens without God's endorsement...even accidents

u cant possibly be serious

RIP to those young boys.

I realy have to stop visiting nairaland,too much heartbreaking bad news

Blazinraj01: This guy obviously embarassed himself. How can I work in a place and I don't know anything about my organisation. Its just like asking a University graduate the what is 2 + 2? The phrase 'my oga at the top' shows how things are being run in the agency. He could have obviously find a way out rather than dribbling the interviewers and ended up messing up. The agency actually do not have competent hands. They are no better than the WAI Brigades.

Seun, I recommend u add 'dislike' so we can click on.

jeron1: Yeah...i concur with rugged man...dos guys Where highly unprofessional...

Gbam !!!

@post
why would any right thinking black woman want to fix an attachment,indian,lebanese,chinese sweden or whatever ,when at the end of the day everyone knows its fake. There is nothing wrong with black hair,we need to take pride in everything thats black and stop copying oyinbo.

@ touchmender
Dazz all

@ chiover
By the 'honourable thing ' you are insinuating that he ought to resign? Why should he have done that ? Aside from the fact that he was not eloquent enough,kept reffering to his oga at the top,didnt know his organizations website and is not sophisticated enough,what was his crime that warrants his resignation? Get real my friend !

coogar: you are very correct -
marriage is not a do or die affair - she should leave him if she cannot stand it anymore. he's better off single than having a wife disrespect him. when fortune smiles on this man again, this yeye woman should start praying.......

she should leave ke , she should leave house that she is paying rent ke ? What is the man still doing there anyway? Why cant he just leave since theres no more respect instead of playing the victim?