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Exactly bro even the life is not REAL/CONSTANT, my own opinion tho. Everything including life itself is temporal.. reason you do things you can't explain sometimes and kick yourself later, reasons no living thing can prove they are self aware.!!!

Let's talk about the famed universal unconditional love( mother's love ), think bro, is it really unconditional?
If you think it is, then why can't same mother's love other women's children like theirs, why the disparity? Like I said my own opinion.
She was conditioned to carry a sperm till it turned a child n went through the most painful experience known to mankind to deliver a child and you expect that not to last till her last breath, the thoughts? Why do you think it's easier for Father's to scold n punish kids and disown a child but mother's NEVER DO? YOU think it's love? Hell nah, it's what's at stake it's the sacrifices and pain she's gone thru, so nothing on Earth as long as she's alive will ever mask away that experience, hence the things she does n affection towards her kid/kids to soothe herself n have a sense of "I did the right thing, he/she was worth my pain".
When a child is swapped at birth without the mother knowing, she loves n adores the child like hers, WHAT HAPPENS WHEN THE TRUTH COMES OUT SIR, WHEN SHE FINDS OUT? let's not even talk about father's.. no feeling is permanent, even the dead are forgotten with time, MEMORIES are the realest feeling ever, but they too like others are not constant.
Peace bro

Kenturkey048:
Oyaaaaaaa...As usual...Buhari don drop him on...

Love is not real but is a temporary feeling. Is life itself not temporary?? Does that make life not real?? Doesn't sex give temporary pleasure? Does that make sex not real?

Like you said, FEELING.
Love is not real, it's just a temporal feeling, like hate, happiness, sexual urges etc.. influenced by hormones..

Those quoting me talking about finding love someday n spending forever or whatever with the person.
Wake up
1. There is no forever, we all are going to die today or tomorrow
2. For the religious people, God loved n created the world including Lucifer, hell n all? His feelings never changed when Lucifer disobeyed, she he made hellfire? Oh it's just punishment for disobedience yes, but for ETERNITY?
LIKE I SAID, MY OWN OPINION, MY THOUGHTS. OH AND UNCONDITIONAL LOVE OF A MOTHER YET WE SEE ABANDONED DAY(S) OLD BABIES EVERYDAY? UNCONDITIONAL LOVE BUT YOU WANT TO MAKE EXCUSES FOR THE MOTHER NOW, BUT ITS SUPPOSED TO BE UNCONDITIONAL.
NO FEELING IS REAL ENOUGH TO BE CLOSE TO PERMANENT, MY OPINION.
Drop the EMOTIONS n think, reason with the BRAIN, GOD GAVE US FOR A REASON.
PEACE

God1000:
I don't think my brother will toe that line, he's a very Godly and principled man.

Too bad, no reasonable man should be too religious at these times.. it takes away your sense of reasoning.. anyways his choice but be a brother and advice him, at least do your part.
No man, I repeat no man should put up with a woman or make up excuses for her after 5yrs of marriage without a child. Except if and only if he is the problem, but if certified okay and he's still faithful n monogamous after 3-5yrs without looking the IVF way? Then sorry na him name

A crate of chilled Heineken and stout for you..
Logic over emotions..

Zoharariel:
Wonderful! Don’t worry, leave them. In 10years time, the wife will convince the husband to “pause” religion and pay a courtesy visit to an IVF clinic.

It could even be earlier than that when the Husband impregnates another woman outside.

I remember my Ex. After so many raw-cummin and no show, she confessed to me that she had a fibroid surgery about 4years before we met and the fibroid seemed to have grown back.

As an Akinkanju, I stood by her and tried convincing her to try traditional herbs that would incinerate & flush out the fibroid.

She said no! She would wait for Jesus Christ of Nazareth.

So, I did a quick mental calculation. 10years before the prayers ascend to Heaven due to traffic.

5years before the prayers are transferred & channeled to Jesus’ office.

Another 2years before Jesus’ instructions is received & executed by Angel Gabriel like he did to Mary in the Bible.

Then I told her that if I mistakenly or accidentally impregnate any woman outside, I would be blameless (I swear, I said this to her).

Her response was what scattered the relationship.

She said: “Are you dating me in order to have children or because you love me” ?

My response to her was harsh.

[quote author=God1000 post=109446835]they are doing everything within their capacity, it's not just bearing fruits[/quote

Better advice him to get someone pregnant outside..
Don't deceive yourself, as a man only two things woman can provide we truly value..
1. Peace of mind/loyalty/submissiveness
2.children
Enough of this for better for worse nonsense, try having a child outside n bring him/her home. Except he still has time n can wait for the Lord like this couple 20yr or more..
Better still go the ivf way

With bernado Silva in the starting lineup, victory is sure for city.. better still if paired with gundo in midfield.

Disgraceful performance.. 70+ mins with a man down and no short on target??
Utterly disappointed, title pretenders indeed

Real matters.. na wa

Men still fall for this??
Never place any woman above you, NEVER.
Leave his sorry stupid ass.
Others should learn

Mother of 3 and dude has none? Pls how is this a blessing to the man? At 521 what exactly is her use in marriage
My gender amazes me.
Anyways happy married life. Spits

Radicool:
Bro I've tried it.we all need a woman in our lives,good or bad.

That's what the society n everyone says, what do you say n think? Do you need a woman in your life or you're going with the societal norm..
If you think you do then what for? If the needs outweighs the nots then pls bro by all means get married. You only live once

Marry who love you, cos women are incapable of love, so anyone who tries as much as to love you genuinely is rare, go with it..
But make sure humility n submission is included

And you need opinions n validation?
Well I'd say no football match starts 0-1 or 1-0..
But all the same, your choice..
But why marry at all as a man, sit down son n think of the advantages n disadvantages

Mafia... That's a penalty

It's already happening look around.

Except bernado Silva is injured n subbed off, man city must win.. he carries so much grace n luck

Nam :Dnda nam mda lmfaooooooooo
Nice format..

Nairalandian:
But why England Engrand no dey allow players rest for this festive season
Matches here and there

For the pounds they are being paid.. tah
Plus the ball sef na enjoyment/exercise o most times, if you play football you will understand..

[quote author=danny56 post=108892678]Am up... Just save the post... That's my prediction![/quot

Ok I'll save it up..

danny56:
I don't know what match that could be... But I predict the victory to happen in an "away" match. It will be an underdog adventure. Alonso will shine again with a free kick, this I have seen!

Wake up..

That 1k part got me lol

Hahahaha simple men..
One dead one on the run/jail, she marries another entirely new one.
Men know this "women and children are the only beings loved unconditionally and can afford to be careless not MEN". Never fight a fellow man for any girl/woman y'all won't hear..

Lols

Stop that!!! Shitty mentality
First off, marriage is not a must.
Secondly don't drop your standards whatsoever, reason why your grandpa married 3-6 virgins and they all loved together peacefully..
Men are the cause of their problems, the moment we dropped our standards the women trampled on it and here we are..
Criteria for marriage then was mostly virgin bride from a good family.. what we have now is a bastardized system where gender equality and mediocre men worship used women n ignored standards.. placing women on pedestals above themselves.
God first, man then woman.
Man answers to God, woman answers to man.
No unholy man will stand before God, at least without being punished, so it is for a woman before the man. Set standards brother, there are a few good ones out there encourage them by setting standards..

Don't buy it if it ain't brand new..
No non virgin is worth any bride price, men dropped their standards hence the women trampled on em.
It's where we are now, exposure but even at that have and set standards, if she's not a V then she's for the streets. Love her if you have to and do all you can to raise a good family, but if she thinks she's too good for u or special, pls remind her of where she belongs THE STREETS.

Man should answer to God, woman answer to man.. all that changed when religious practices and gender equality trash started coming up.. yes Adam messed up by listening to eve n not seeking God's authority first.. but any stupid foolish man who still makes such mistake cannot be redeemed n doomed to fail in any union with a woman. ALWAYS LET HER REALIZE SHE LOWER THAN YOU IN EVERYTHING AND AS SUCH IS LIMITED, SAME WAY YOU ARE TO GOD. SHE DISOBEYS, DEAL WITH HER ACCORDINGLY N DIVORCE IF POSSIBLE. FUNNY HOW WOMEN OF OLD RESPECTED THEMSELVES N THRIVED IN A POLYGAMOUS HOME THAN WHAT WE HAVE NOW, ONE MAN ONE WIFE STILL CHAOS EVERYWHERE.
TAKE CHARGE N BE THE MAN, BE HER LORD.
PEACE

Rtk5:
sir, it baffles me how some people reason, honstly if i type all my experience with this woman you will think it is fiction. A woman that when i lost my job and there was no money for diapers her sister advised her to steal my phonr and go sell it. Thank God i found it under the bed. I saw the chat with her sister on that.

Shuu, divorce her na, divorce her since yesterday joor. Na till u die or she do the unthinkable? Fvck what people would say Mr man.. where were they when you were suffering and had it rough, never seek validation from people.. you only live once, and happiness is the topmost priority, she ain't giving you, ditch her ASAP. Cos if anything happens to you, she'd be on the next comfortable available dickkk. Place yourself first and your child before any woman bro.
Self love is amazing

Not in support but better than getting burnt n all lost..
They should have tried to put the fire out, but if beyond their control then the looting is justified.
Better looted than destroyed

Burial is for the living.

And it's news.. wonderful