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I'd rather believe buhari is ipob or
Rapture.. mtcheww

Uncle Sam comes to mind..
Use samsu an hour b4 kick off.
Bath n relax 5 mins to kick off..
Drink very cold water at intervals during the match
In all, nor do pass yourself..

Ice cold pluto

Ok

Hahahaha

That's why I need to go out there to confirm be it her problem or mine, I need to go confirm.. plus they must have done series of health check. I don't believe in the Lord's time is the best on such issues. Thank u

holuwajobar:
what if the problem is from your side ?

19 what? Wow
But why wait for a woman for 19yrs to gimme kids, when I know she won't last 19months with me when I am broke or poor..
Marriage after 1yr6mons no child I'm outta here.. good he was patient tho, what if it didn't come, can't take such risk as a man, NEVER.

There might be another door he knows about.. so he choose the food for strength

Seriously?

Transsssssssformation

Ah ah.. real matters?

Una don come again

Don't blame the females, blame the males who knock down their fellow men for pvssy, who'd never as much as turn to see or listen to a fellow man in need but do heaven n Earth for a girl he's trying to toast or barely even knowing her..
Life is hard for men, but many a times men made it hard for themselves, the females are just smarter

That I spit on guys who considers women calendar n pity them. When u done with her no longer interested or she refuses to improve, dump the shediot.. fvck the time spent, cos they all almost won't give you a second thought when dumping your arss n still have billions of explanations to back it up..

Okafor's law..
That's all I see here, too bad AWALT

Naija

Wow

Ditch her immediately

Abeg e..

Theese kidsssssss Holy fuckery

Business men going about their business..
Ask the sheikh

Wonderful

Bondage

Going in bondage.. anyways happy married life

mk3jax:
I understand that you have answered the question "correctly" as per your currently understanding of life which is ok.
I have a 25 years old friend who was like you when she was younger and always talking about nothing more than wanting to be a CEO bla bla. She is 26 today and have graduated from the University, works in a bank and talk of nothing more than getting married because according to her, "I am getting older and want a secured future". What this means in simple terms are (1) My beauty will not be like this forever so I do not expect to get same attention from guys as I used to (2) I want to have a/some child/ children and do not want to raise them alone because it is hardwork (3) Work is not as cool as I was brainwashed to believe. It is hard to wake up all your life and hustle just to survive. Also most men don't want to be a CEO and are forced to work just to provide for their family. The don't like work per say but have little or no option but to do it because they have to provide for their family.

I am not saying that you must marry but you're too young to understand why alot of women prioritize marriage like their life depend on it.
It goes more than culture because most baby mama in the west also wished to be married to the father of their children.

I am not so much a pro marriage person myself (even though I am married with 2 children), but I can guarantee you that a single mother will start loosing grip of their sons from around the age of 7. From around 8 years, most boys are basically out of control and there is nothing you can do to stop that. This is why alot of single mum start looking for the influence of a man to help tame the excess energy that comes with being a boy.

Why marriage is bad for men generally, it is the best way to have a sane society where both boys are girls are raised to be a more responsible members of society. It is more of a duty from a man and a woman and rather a place where they both come to actualise their fantasies.

Also remember that women control access to sex, while men control access to marriage and relationship. A man will not commit to a relationship if he doesn't see a benefit down the line because he is expected to be a wallet for his wife and children till he dies. Many man cannot fulfil the wallet part in the modern depressed economy while many are also not willing to live with modern women because of the effect of feminism and legal consequence of a divorce (mostly in the west). These are the main reason why single motherhood is rising especially in Africa where we do not have any welfare system for single mum. Men are just not committing to marriage when a women get pregnant for them and the people that suffers most are the children.

Your mother gave you the advice she did because she knows what she went through to raise you alone.

Well said, the load is just too much for the man.. the economy is not helping too

Hmm

Goudouman:
No get money dey form toxic you go see if them go like you

Money or not, they always return to the toxic dicck, mostly the broke ex you better than.. the female gender is mysterious

Kudos David. Treat em the way they deserve,
"She still came back to same davido".. they love toxic guys

All the party jolllof and poundo waste Oh what a sad feeling for the man.

Guy/girl is a nairaland celeb.. there's this thing about him/her, shim makes stupidity look to amazing and attractive with so much consistency. I envy shim most times, wish I'd be that one every once a while. WTF man

She's getting it already, slamming his way in recklessly and all.. Bitter truth, take heart.