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mk3jax:
I understand that you have answered the question "correctly" as per your currently understanding of life which is ok.
I have a 25 years old friend who was like you when she was younger and always talking about nothing more than wanting to be a CEO bla bla. She is 26 today and have graduated from the University, works in a bank and talk of nothing more than getting married because according to her, "I am getting older and want a secured future". What this means in simple terms are (1) My beauty will not be like this forever so I do not expect to get same attention from guys as I used to (2) I want to have a/some child/ children and do not want to raise them alone because it is hardwork (3) Work is not as cool as I was brainwashed to believe. It is hard to wake up all your life and hustle just to survive. Also most men don't want to be a CEO and are forced to work just to provide for their family. The don't like work per say but have little or no option but to do it because they have to provide for their family.

I am not saying that you must marry but you're too young to understand why alot of women prioritize marriage like their life depend on it.
It goes more than culture because most baby mama in the west also wished to be married to the father of their children.

I am not so much a pro marriage person myself (even though I am married with 2 children), but I can guarantee you that a single mother will start loosing grip of their sons from around the age of 7. From around 8 years, most boys are basically out of control and there is nothing you can do to stop that. This is why alot of single mum start looking for the influence of a man to help tame the excess energy that comes with being a boy.

Why marriage is bad for men generally, it is the best way to have a sane society where both boys are girls are raised to be a more responsible members of society. It is more of a duty from a man and a woman and rather a place where they both come to actualise their fantasies.

Also remember that women control access to sex, while men control access to marriage and relationship. A man will not commit to a relationship if he doesn't see a benefit down the line because he is expected to be a wallet for his wife and children till he dies. Many man cannot fulfil the wallet part in the modern depressed economy while many are also not willing to live with modern women because of the effect of feminism and legal consequence of a divorce (mostly in the west). These are the main reason why single motherhood is rising especially in Africa where we do not have any welfare system for single mum. Men are just not committing to marriage when a women get pregnant for them and the people that suffers most are the children.

Your mother gave you the advice she did because she knows what she went through to raise you alone.

Well said, the load is just too much for the man.. the economy is not helping too

Hmm

Goudouman:
No get money dey form toxic you go see if them go like you

Money or not, they always return to the toxic dicck, mostly the broke ex you better than.. the female gender is mysterious

Kudos David. Treat em the way they deserve,
"She still came back to same davido".. they love toxic guys

All the party jolllof and poundo waste Oh what a sad feeling for the man.

Guy/girl is a nairaland celeb.. there's this thing about him/her, shim makes stupidity look to amazing and attractive with so much consistency. I envy shim most times, wish I'd be that one every once a while. WTF man

She's getting it already, slamming his way in recklessly and all.. Bitter truth, take heart.

Hahahaha there's hunger and anger in the land..

Righteousness2:
What a Beautiful baby!
Bad News for her Parents
Good News for Heaven and the baby. She is gone straight to Heaven to Meet JESUS.

Heaven kill you bastard.. foolish fool, heaven rejoice over a baby's death?
You need to be killed for this statement. Bastard son of thousand fathers.. spittsssss****

Na wa, real wa..

Sad

[quote author=MisterKennedy post=107698970]Hi dear nice profile pic... Who's the lady in ur profile pic... She lloks so beautiful and elegant like the morning sun[/quot

Untop dead child? Looking at yansh?? Kai

Wowderful

Rushur:
man are worse than animals.. no wonder the creator regrets after creating us... what kind of wickedness is this just to get money that won't profit u anything at the end

D creator nor see the future before creation, why d regret?

COURVOISier:
No misquote me bros, I talk generally, children hardly remember their father.

Sarcasm i guess..
But na wa o, I dey closer to popsy n dey reason e matter first Sha compared to my mum. Maybe it's cos I'm equally a father, I understand d struggles n what it means to be a man..

COURVOISier:
One dry gin or one crate of beer.

Imagine, but na papa/husband buy for him wife so n take good care of the gyal in the picture SMH.. too bad if u a man saying this, just too bad. Opinions tho

All na d plan.. we pawns on the chess board

Sad

True?

Nothing new

Do what makes you happy n choose wisely..
Death is the only sure thing in life, no other is guaranteed.. happiness, wealth, kids, family, peace, absolutely none.

0118832611 GTB
James

Na now day break?

Wow

MajorQuest:
*A woman goes to prison to visit her husband who has just been sentenced to 40 years in jail.*

*As soon as she enters the visiting room, she hugs him and exclaims with tears in her eyes: - "Oh! Roger, 40 years, Roger.?"*

*And the husband replies:*
*"Well, my love, what are you going to do?"*

*"Oh, Roger ...! I spoke to the judge handling your case,"*

*"And what did he say, my love?"*

*"He told me that for every time I make love with him, he will reduce your prison sentence by one year ..."*

*"What !!! What a miserable bastard and what did you say to that son of a bitch?"*

*" Oh, Roger! We'll talk about it at home, pick up your stuff, let's go… !!! (40years covered already)*

*Is this woman to be congratulated or not? Does she love her husband?*

*The debate is open! I cum in peace.�‍♂️��‍♂️���‍♂️�..Marriage or Divorce?*

Na serious matter o.. but ego nor go let me see road, that's sacrifice.. she should and must be congratulated n congratulationsssssssssss..
She for find another way out but if not and she Had to do what she did, then that's kudos to her.. but my ego will always betray me,I'll always see her as a cheat even tho it was for my own good.. men are just wired that way!!! Too bad

Nothing like miracle.
Write exam, fail or pass? Pass, it's a miracle
Applied for job, someone must get it, it's you then it's a miracle.
Fall sick, take medication or it gives u some break, boom miracle healing.
As a lady, a man proposes when u least expects, miracle husband... Etc
Funny how same pastors have body guards fully armed n visit foreign hospitals for checkups.

Chai Yahweh Y

hopefulLandlord:
Christians should be very watchful of their utterances against Pastor Joshua Shonubi as what he did might've been commanded by Yahweh as he works in mysterious ways and his wisdom, as our perfect Holy Bible said, looks like foolishness unto man.

Yahweh once told the Israelites to kill all Midianites but keep young virgin girls as war booty. This sounds wrong to us but whatever Yahweh commands is wise even if it looks wrong in our limited knowledge he has his reasons

Yahweh figuratively destroyed Saul for not totally destroying the Amalekites

Yahweh once told Ezekiel to eat bread baked with human shiit

Same way Yahweh sent lying spirits to Ahab's prophets. This also sounds wrong to us but he has his reasons we aren't privy to and he answers to no one

Yahweh also hardened Pharaoh's heart while using that as opportunity to send more plagues and kill innocent people until all firstborn sons of the Egyptians are dead. This also sounds cruel but that's Yahweh showing us his loving power and nobody should question him

Yahweh struck Onan dead for refusing to cum into his brother's wife's vagyna


Yahweh's ways are not our ways. its possible Yahweh instructed this pastor to arrange the fake marriages he did. Yahweh might have his reasons so we should not use our limited knowledge to judge what a man talking to a being of unlimited knowledge does. Beware not to bring a curse upon your lives and future generations by attacking a true man of Yahweh

Lol

Here to learn, waiting for elders..

Abeg ee