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If bannana has anything to do with monkeys than yes.

prolly got AIDs and died.

GOLD DIGGER BE GONE THIS IS MALE SPACE!

RedBenson: Itsmodella, i dont blame a punk like u after all, dis is just internet. I've mistakenly dated a bunch of liabilities like u b4 and once they come into my life and see my standard, they refuse to back off. If i meet u whch of course a gold digger, after yanshing u once or twice, i will quickly send u parking and if u refuse to go, i wouldnt mind tearing ur cli.to.ris wit razor blade if that would make u stay off. Bunch of liabilities.

If Ngozi Iweala had d same gold digging mentality over-ruling u at d moment, i wonder if she would've ever been where she is today. Go think on how to make ur own money and stop gold-digging. Unam ikot.

Bro! your from akwa-ibom? nice, i hardly see my pplz here

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shymexx: Hysterical!!

White women are black men's prize and black women are white men's sex object - crazy world!!

hmmm... i think this should go " White women are black mens prize and black men are white womans sex object"

I just realized.. the situation is a little diffeernt for us in the united states than for yall in Nigeria. In Nigeria the dudes are beyooooooond thirsty.... they cant even see an average girl on the street without turning around and going ape-shit. Like if they have never seen a woman before.

This was one of the biggest impressions i had of the country when i visited.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Whichever you like[/quote]w/e lol

u being sarcastic or serious?

His post makes sense, women generally do have the upper hand. They play smart we men play dumb

tha balance switches when we get older tho

dBard: @pleep. dude stop wasting ur time. To each his/her own.
It's funny how d op himself is d one, as it turns out from his post, dat has d least bit of respect for d female gender

Its ironic. The guy who posted this is a self professed player who picks up strange women from the club only to have sex with them....

Now hes trying to give us a lesson on morals

The people on this site are SO DAMN STUPID!

As for the rest of the gibberish you wrote, there is no one with above a 50 IQ who will think anything you typed is a logical rebuttal to my post.

carefreewannabe: I don't feel like reading everything because there are enough misconceptions in the first sentences.
1. Not every man likes women with big butts. Many don't. Apart from that scientific research has proven that it's not about the size but about the proportions of a female body that send out the signal whether a woman is fertile or not. These are the latest findings.

Out of everything you read the only thing could understand was: "All men like big butts" Leave it to a Nairalander to find the most random unrelated point in a three paragraph post and try to argue with it.

First off, I didn't say all men liked big butts wide hips are the #1 indicator of proportion. I was simply giving the OP an example of sexual instincts that i knew he would relate with!

You are so damn dumb! And... besides it is just 1 fuckin example of how instincts play into our day to day lives. Seeing as you seem to agree that sexual instincts exist..(the whole idea of my post) your argument doesn't even have anything to do with my main points!

There is not a drop of advanced understanding in your brain... not a damn drop.

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Nice points raised.

50,000 years ago, bashing in the head of your enemy with a stone was an acceptable form of conflict resolution. Even in Abraham Lincoln's time it was still acceptable to challenge your enemy to a gun duel - to the death.

Today, we frown on rápe, murder, violence etc. Why? Because they are all vestiges of our basest animal heritage. We consider those most unacceptable today because we have evolved higher functioning.

Man has forged civilizations, evolved law & order, made outstanding advancements in the sciences and dominated the planet. A testament to the formidable power of our neo-cortex. It is this powerful guy that sets us apart from all the other home-boys on NatGeo Wild.


Kindly read this quote from the book Brain Respiration by Ilchi Lee (he puts it better than I can):

There is nothing worse than having people try and argue with facts that have been proven a million times. Dude... do you like girls with big butts? That is your instinct telling you a girl is fertile. Where you scared of the dark as a kid? That was your instinct telling you danger... These are responses that were programmed into our being during evolution... most are older than humanity itself. The male is less selective with his intimate partners because that is how he was best able to spread his genes, while the female can only produce 1 offspring a year and instinctively chooses the best mate. Every other mammal is designed like this. It’s not something everyone can just "turn off.”
Stuff like beheading and rape have nothing to do with human instinct... those are simply uncivilized traditions. Having instincts does not make us animals, I can’t believe you would bring up such an ill informed argument like this. This is something they can teach you in anywhere.

Contrary to your opinion above. Most women don't dress sexy to attract attention. Our society treats women as objects. They mostly dress sexy to feel worthy. To get feedback that they are 'enough'. We've objectified women so much so that a lot of them feel that they are 'nothing' if they are not glammed-up and looking fly.

Most women can hardly leave the house without make-up and arranging their hair. The societal pressure on them to always look beautiful and attractive is super massive!

Again you are being immature... Did you not read that I said that they do it for themselves as well as for attention? Guys like you who like to boo hoo over girls almost always lose sight of the fact that women are thinking human beings and can choose to do things for their own reasons not because of "societal pressure". For example; in the Victorian era, when revealing clothing was socially unacceptable women were still pushing the limits for their own reasons. Females are competing with each other just like we men are... this constant boo-hoo party about objectification bla bla bla is nauseating.

Speak for yourself man!

I’m speaking in General, Alpha males get sex as much as they want but the average man usually has to work for it.

it would surprise you to know that during intimate intercourse, the amount of pleasure a woman achieves at climax is thrice that of a man, and also despite the hight of tetosterone in a male, a woman also craves intimate pleasures, if you doubt, ask a woman on her heat period, yet, women are still able to put up resistance even when there is the craving for it. A little seductive act as winking at a man is enough to seduce a whole battalion of army, most men do not even have any guard to loose, they are just loose.

That is complete BS. The male and female orgasm is basically the same http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/body-sense/201004/male-and-female-orgasm-not-so-different

"Two studies done at the University of Minnesota Medical School and published in the early 1980's measured the intensity, frequency, and durations of pelvic muscle contractions (measured with a pressure sensitive anal probe) of males and females during masturbation. There was basically no difference in the pattern of these contractions between males and females"

masterpiecer:
With all these factors, women are still able to resist intimate advances from men even at the essence of alluring gifts. Women have a stronger will power to resist intimate advances than men, let us therefore not shy away from that fact, but accord them the kudos and accept our hypocrisy instead of being too quick to judge them harsly, i call that being fair. It doesn't necessarily mean that realising this fact would be a way to encourage promiscuity, IMO, it would boost their self importance.

Now do not think that the ability of a woman to resist a male intimate advance is inherent, or 'natural' as you claim, have you even imagine how it would be like if a man stand the chance of getting pregnant after every intimate intercourse? , yeah, it is because men do not really have much to bother about after the act that is why they wouldn't want to mind, thereby putting their stick into every hole possible, not caring about the aftermath except for STDs(that is if most men would even worry about such).

Dude have you ever left you house? Ask any woman and she will tell you that she is not attracted to the vast majority of guys that approach her... but is only attracted to the few men she likes. I dont know where you guys got the idea that girls are just fighting back the urge to have sex with every guy that talks to them.

We have already established that women get approached for sex alot, but i dont think you guys realize that most of those men are undesirable to her. An average girl is not getting hit on by Denzel Washington every day, she is usually approached by men on her level and below. That is not some unbearable temptation. Females are more selective with who they are attracted to, this is a proven fact. Just because they are getting gifts does not make it any harder... Would you sleep with an over-weight 40yr old woman just because she bought you dinner and a movie?

@ men don't have any consequences from sex... except 18 years of child-support you dumbfuk?

If i wanted to right now i could go down stairs and bang the chubby girl that has liked me for months... but i wont because im not attracted to her. The same applies to girls 10X. Just because random men are throwing sex in their face doesn't mean its so hard for them to refuse it. She prolly wouldnt even get an orgasm with most of them... The girls that cant refuse sex have low self control. There are girls with a strong will power and those are the virgins and girls who only had sex in long term relationships.. The average chick on the street its not doing anything special. Stop this BS dude

Sigh... i cant write it all again. repost:

pleep: Richfella your post is based in fact, but you reached the wrong conclusions.

First off, male and female sexual phychology is different, this due to evolutionary biology. Women are by nature more selective in their sexual partners, while mens standards are much lower. In an uncontrolled enviornment this would lead to most of the females reproducing with a handfull of males (the alpha males) and thus passing on the best genes to posterity.

This is why humans subconciously consider it deviant when a woman is loose, all it shows is a lack of self control. Yes, it is true that women get more offers for sex than men but you make the mistake of assuming that the temptation is as great as it would be for a man in that same situation. Like i said, females are more selective and will only get turned on by a few of those males.

As for your point about clothing... society doesn't force women to dress provacativly, they do it for themselves or for attention from men. Girls who dress more skanky get more attention and thats why they do it. The backlash comes from modest girls who feel pressured.

All this being said, also keep in mind that most women have had much more sexual partners than you could know, much more than the average man. Many have sex whenever they want, and really have nothing to complain about. Guys have less societal pressure but also far less opportinity for sex, so it balances out. 'Slut shaming' is more or less a way to uplift and add value to the women who have chosen to be chaste, it doesn't make life any more difficult for the ones who aren't unless they subscribe to it themselves.

Chances are if your GF is a not a virgin shes had alot of sex, prolly more than you (unless ur an alpha male)

There have been a million logical debunkings of this silly post... if you want to you can read them. Male a female sexuality is different, that is the fact of the matter.

lol true dat

Although ive thought about a girl at least every minute before

Age 40 is when the chairs disapear lol

balanced post

Serendipity: Man releases and it takes 45 days to recover? Thats fallacious as it has not been proven.
I remain to be controverted.

i recover in like .45 seconds lol