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MarieSucre:
Okay let's us break your paragraphs one after the other.

1 - I agree with your first postulation, it would lead to him being crucified on the altar of public opinion, but let's not kid ourselves, he is a RICH, POWERFUL, MAN. Nothing is going to happen to him, except you can give me a list of rich, powerful men who have been convicted of rape recently. You won't even be able give even give me a list of NOT RICH POWERFUL MEN who are accused and successfully convicted of raping grown women. Furthermore, he is in no danger of jungle justice so I think that's an odd choice of word there.

2 - What guys are you accusing of not making an effort to be principled? Us or the pastor?

3 - On what grounds do you declare that, "if you've been assaulted before this is not about you". Did you also say this when SARS was trending. Did you also tell other people affected by SARS brutality to keep quiet when any new SARS story is posted? Did you also keep this energy when people complain about armed robbery, political over reach and other socials ills, or does your specific brand of hypocrisy only apply to cases of sexual assault and rape? At what point can we talk, O prophet! Tell us! Do we have to take turns? Wait a period of 2 years each? Tell us please.

4 - Police do ask questions, that's true, but you're disingenuous in not admitting that the tone of questions asked on social media by the people you're purportedly defending are questions that would send a police officer on suspension or sent back to sensitivity training for further aggravating a victim. You want to sit here and tell me police will ask questions like "And he put his d*ck inside you while on the bonnet and you did not say anything or call your sister? You must have been enjoying it jare?", "I'm sure it was a relationship gone wrong abi?" will you sit here and really defend that nonsense line of questioning with "pOliCE aBrOaD alSO aSk QuEsTIoNs"!! Like dude!

5 - See paragraph 3. Check your questions.

6 - If there are cases of rape of underage boys, that is a serious problem and it's sad that society does not do enough to curb that.
Here's how to solve that: Join hands with other activist, including willing feminists to amplify our voices and place pressure on the government and society to enact measure so that no boy or even man ever has to suffer from rape or social assault.
Here's how to not not solve it: Well!! Nobody talked about my own thing!! So nobody should talk about anything!! 0/10 sense dude.

Finally, you're supporting Busola and every other victim of rape and assault and every potential victim of rape and assault if you come out and speak your truth. Whether you're a man or woman.
*See SARS reference for further clarification.

It's about you and I and every other victim out there. Heather it be SARS or rape.

Peace.

maynation:
I know.


All the solutions being proffered can't be all useless..

He should just be mindful of the kind of advice he allows to get to him.
That's all.

maynation:
I am not married so I won't affirmatively say things. Dear OP, I understand you need answers to some questions but Nairaland isn't the best platform to get this.
You've not dome anything wrong by seeking the views of others on this but trust me the mistake will be when you allow people who can't even control their home tell you how to do yours.
People who aren't even married yet, people who think marriage and dating are same thing.

Watch people whose home have been shattered come tell you trash that will end up making you towing their path.


Be careful of the kinda advice you put to use hear.
Thanks.

Hyacenth22:
Thanks for all your contributions

The issues is no matter how hard i try giving her head i cant seem to ratify her, her reactions toward my efforts is very discouraging and secondly since am not into it from onset i belive am not good in it.

The STD she tagged was toilet infection but i later found out it wasn't, after having disccuedwith my family doctor who told me STD cant be contacted from the toilet.


Marry a second wife na. This is why Islam is the best.
I just seem lost in this as all my effort to connect with her emotionally seems dead, secondly i dont wish to have a divorced home but then again i cant continue begging for sex always, i just feel bad doing that must times i just sleep with my urge, it's affecting me and cheating is not my stuff.

Abkreizi:
Email is umoruabraham06@Gmail.com

Abkreizi:
I'm having issues picking a university.
My name is August. I'm 18 years old. I graduated from secondary school last year. I scored 266 in jamb last year and i didnt get admission to study medicine in UI. I rewrote jamb and also scored 266 in jamb again this year. Please those with experience what university can I apply to.
I had 2A 5B 2C in Waec.

Your advice are highly welcomed.

Elxandre:
How much is it going for?

Baadal:
Available

legitnow:
Media Abuse.


Ighalo score goal, yoruba leave Ighalo dey hail Aina backheel.


Nigeria media is lost in their hands.

Danwakae:
Lolss


Don't worry about that , I can pay that for u, pls come

Amaureen:
Yes. Very close to home. Am from Anambra but schooled in Ilorin.

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Amaureen:
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cococandy:
Asset to whom?
Like your property to own?

Amaureen:
Ebonyi