ravensckar:
Who is this mental asylum escapee?

Don't be ashamed of your miserable life, quote me with your main moniker if you dare.

Pocohantas and her minions have been avoiding me ever since I dragged all of them like TIGER GENERATOR.

By the way, you type like someone with a leaky brain. I think I can guess who you are. But no worry, I won't cast you just yet.

I, Pocohantas, would NEVER avoid anyone, let alone you. Definitely not out of fear. You no reach who I go fear for this Nairaland. You no reach men wey I done handle for this forum. I don't even rate you enough to do that and there is not a single MALE Nlder I am scared of. I finished with you and moved on.

I fit RESPECT man and na based on intelligence and doings. Both of which you lack. Not because e dey drag tiger generator.

Please, get it straight and quit crying.

airsaylongcome:


Not a fan of Brain jotter but I think it's a good thing he's funneling the funds to the man. However there was a valid Copyright case and it's not right for you to call it idiotic

He is not funneling the funds to the man. Youtube and co have Copyright laws in place that automatically pays the owner of the song. The people that were crying are only being selective. On same platform we have danced to many Nigerian and foreign songs for videos. From PSquare's Busybody to Stormrex. Nobody told anyone to go give PSquare money.

So they should rest. Brain Jotter didn't make a sample of the song, neither did he remix it. There was NO copyright case.

Blessings to everyone that came through for them. People think I am averse to God's blessings when I say I don't want twins or multiple birth. Two kids, one by one is perfect for me, coupled with the dwindling economy.

Just look at her eyebags. They need at least 3 nannies. From the stress of pregnancy to the lactating stage. I wish them strength!

femi4:
You don't know about her past relationship. She doesn't flaunt them like cuppy

You have spoken well. This is the exact reason babes do not post a man until they are married and same men will come on Nairaland to complain. Temi is only posting Eazi because they were engaged and now married.

Esthered:


Shouldn't we blame the school that doesn't have a standard for haircut?
Some people see me as old school especially being a millenial for not giving my 30 months old son trending haircuts.

I understand your dilemma. 70% of the parents around me make their sons hair in one sort of way. As in, buns and twists o. I also don't like it, but I dey try mind my business on delicate matters. These schools just want patronage. Even the beads and colourful braids they put on the girls. I dey always wonder how they sleep at night.

Sonnobax15:

Obi cubana na celebrity bodyguard to Davido abi na Davido second wife,I no just understand

Please know the difference between Obi Cubana and Cubana ChiefPriest.

Pic 1: Cubana ChiefPriest, Davido's pageboy.

Pic 2: Obi Cubana.

Cubana ChiefPriest once worked with Obi Cubana as the celebrity hypeman of Cubana clubs, hence the name and mixup. They don't work together anymore, but CCP retained the name.

dapadawee:


You mean Yorubas abi.
Let me help your bigotry

I am not the cause of whatever paranoia you are suffering from. You are the only one that would read that post and think Yorubas. Sensible humans know I meant pablos and pablets.

SAMBARRY:
does tha madness happen in nigeria?

About 2 mths ago one trended for posting pictures of his daughter in bikinis. Sometimes she would be in a room with guys. While there was no evidence of abuse, it was a clear case of child porn. To think he was operating on Instagram. Social media users drew the attention of NPF and he was arrested. The girl was also collected from him. There are a certain set of people that behave this way. By their looks we know them. Sadly they are the ones having most kids these days. You see their kids in school with ridiculous hairstyles.

cococandy:
Yes absolutely 100% better to be an escort than a sad wife.

If you guys have nothing else to offer except suffering and pain to your wives. Women are better off being escorts. At least they get to decide on what terms to be with the man.

The rest of your post is senseless ramblings

As always...

cococandy:
I don’t even know why Nairaland boys think this is a gotcha. In my ideal world, I want a husband who respects me as much he expects me to respect him. Mutual respect. Mutual faithfulness. Mutual everything.

If I can’t have that, do they really think sitting at home crying over an unfaithful man is better than being single and doing whatever I want without commitment and expectations? I really need them to think about what they feel they are insulting women with.

God forbid I be one of those wives fasting and praying over a cheating/polygamous man. Staying faithful to him and hoping that one day (probably in his old age) when he’s done frolicking with his concubines he’ll bring his sick old and tired body for me nurse.

I 100% support the divorces they’re going through.
Let’s all be mad together.

They are desperately trying to put these women in pitiable conditions. Whereas we know some of them know what they were up to before taking the hard decision to divorce their husbands. It is a clear case of good girl no dey pay. Rather than be thr wife crying, let me be the side without commitments and expectations.

I don't know why it is so important to them that women remain in these unhappy marriages. If you desperately want your wife, how hard is it to stay faithful and kind? Nawa o!

folake4u:


This!!!!!

These set of men will rather go for women that have "something" to lose and have discretion in their dealings together.

Them nor dey go for Gen Z folks wey fit cast them for Whatsapp group.

It's only on Nairaland that I hear "evening newspaper". Na senior madams dey control men of timber and calibre. Make NL boys dey play.

I think it is age and circle that makes some guys think classifying and enjoying women is as simple as age. Majority of the women I know in this game are not young. These are women I would call sis/aunty. The other day one living in my ex-colleague's house moved out. He told me to patronise her supermarket in the area. I was shocked. How did she go from a mini-flat to owning this big store, a house and car? He said hah, the woman works in one of LASG offices and hooked an Oga. A young girl won't even have mind to ask for those things. Her problem would first be iPhone, clothe and restaurant.

Klass99:


You see that your first paragraph ehn! The matter dey weak me, especially when it comes from fellow women.

I hate statements like, it rains every where, there is no perfect marriage, etc. And I am starting to feel a strong dislike for people who push out such narratives because these narratives are false, they can be so misleading and inaccurate.

I talked about this with Farfalla on a different thread some time ago. A bad marriage is like a bad job, you often hear the same narratives in both situations.

I left a bad job for a new and different one, and boy, am I having a great time at the new job. I can't even begin to explain what a world of difference that has made in my life. I feel good, I actually enjoy going to work and doing the work, come rain, sunshine and mad traffic.

At the same time they shame women for staying. "Nigerian women can lick infection off your phallus if you have money. Blablabla"

You do, you are doomed.
You don't do, still doomed.

Nigerian women love marriage so much. Many wouldn't leave if they weren't at their lowest. Worse when kids are involved. She would slug it out for the sake of her kids. There are few who are obviously not cut out for the sanctity of marriage, but I am sure this isn't the case for majority.

Hahaha! Same here. My former job wasn't toxic, but it was stressful. Yesterday I wondered how I coped. Obviously I didn't have a choice then. Naso this marriage be kwa. Some might get lucky the second time and wonder how they survived the first . Some would see shege that will make them wanna run back to the ex-husband. Indeed there are two sides to it. Like my mum would say, you might think a man is the worst until you taste another one. You will na sit and say chai, if Klass was here, this can't happen. Peaceful co-parenting would make these situations easier on women.

Klass99:


Did she take the kids with her when she left?

Some weeks ago a divorced lady shared her story with a radio station about how she left her marriage taking along their 4 kids, only to end up as a side chic to a married man because there wasn't enough income or cash flow to take care of herself and 4 kids.

She left because her husband was cheating and her advice to married women was just stay in your marriage even if hubby is cheating so you don't end up in a situation like mine. At least even with his side chics you remain the main madam he goes home to.

I had issues with her story because;

1. I will never understand why women feel the need to leave and take the children along, particularly when they lack the financial capacity to take care of them. Did you climb on top of yourself to have those children by yourself? Why are we always trying to be super-women and acting like na we love pikin pass, more than the fathers?

The kind of woman I am though, I will not play myself that way. I didn't go to your house with children, I will not leave with children, I will leave as I came. And we will find a way to co-parent!

We let men get away with far too much in Naija, let them start feeling the consequences of separation and divorce too, by leaving him with his children and awakening him to the realities of a wife and mother' absence, after all is it not his name they bear? And NL men in particular are claim we bring nothing to the table, so leave the table with nothing too when going.

2. Cheating husbands can infect you an STD, curable and incurable ones. I personally know of three cases and one of those women married as a virgin and never cheated on her husband in marriage.

One clown on page 2 is boasting of picking escorts and fcking around, he is the kind to infect a virgin wife with disease. Chances are, that when wifey is heavily pregnant, and can't satisfy his urge he will still call one of those escorts and take home a disease at some point.

My own is that the day I have to treat myself for an STI and I know I didn't cheat, you better be sleeping with one eye open and that will signal the beginning of the end.

Exactly. They refuse to face the main issue here and resort to the usual subtle gaslighting of women to stay in unhealthy marriages.

The main issues are women taking on the responsibility of the kids alone after divorce.

Lack of financial capability.

Lack of moral willpower.

However, some go into a wild stage of their lives. So contrary to posts that they are helpless sidechiks, they know what they are doing. They don't want marriage again. They only want a partner. What better man for that than an adulterous (polygamous) man. It is a win win for both parties.

Any grown woman who would resort to sleeping around for 20k to feed herself was never supposed to be a wife in the first place.

Nazgul:

Rumored. Not confirmed. I'm sure he'll obviously deny the rumors.


Is it Ehi the gospel artist?


I said there are exceptions. Nothing is 100% accurate. I pointed that out.


I no wan talk wetin de my mind before someone quotes me and call me a tribalistic person.


We're talking about dating and fun remember, not marriage. Cos I'm fully aware of the fact the widows and divorcees do get married.


Daddy freeze is mentally unstable. I believe you would agree with me on that. Dude hasn't had a stable marriage in his entire life.


Rumored meaning it's not confirmed.


I don't know her. But I'd say she belongs to the 5%


Belongs to the 5%


Wait...which of the Abia Governors, Alex Otti?

Deflections...

GloriousGbola:


Equally important, who wants to date an unstable genz chick who can set you up for clout?

Is that not the story of Davido and all the chicks he keeps messing with?

This is what they miss. You forgot one posted Dangote's nyash for us? Some of these men intentionally go for women that have something to lose. Not a lady that will post screenshots of their chat on IG. When Gistlover leaked Desmond Elliot's side chick, did that lady say pim till today? 😂😂

These kinda women would also not get belle. They can date the married man for years! Young ladies of marriageable age would be looking for how to enter. But these old ones just wanna chop life and be free. Na the family oriented ones dey stay one place and try marry again. Ladies sleeping around for 20k are simply lazy and immoral. The thing dey their eyes since.

Nazgul:

Can you point out any divorced nollywood actresses outside that age bracket that's dating a politician?

Atiku didn't waste his money on a 40yrs old divorcee, but Sanwo Olu was rumoured to be dating Mo in her 50s.

Mc Oluomo dated Ehi a divorcee with 4 kids.

MC Oluomo dated the ex-wife of the late Alaafin. A mother of 2.

Yoruba actresses way into their 40s fight over their elites.

Yul left the wife of his youth to marry a mother of 2. Like she was still married when Yul snatched her.

Daddy Freeze is set to pay 5m for adultery. The woman is in her 40s. Divorced with 2 or 3 kids.

AY's ex-wife is rumoured to be dating a politician.

Damilola Adegbite was just exposed as the side chick of a married man. She is a SM of 1.

Ini Edo and Akwa Ibom state Gov.

Chika Ike and Abia state gov.

Ighodalo or what is that footballer's name, was dating the ex-wife of Ubi Franklin. Taking her to the same Bahamas you said they don't take them to.

The list goes on...