"I am this, I am that, I am scary, I cause more harm than good...blablabla"

Pseudo-machoism is now the order of the day with these male younglings. Who is stopping you all from doing a DNA test? Men now talk more than African Greys. Mtcheeew!

Gerrard59:


I would be calm as well. If you noticed, others just bashed the lady without considering certain factors as to why the amount was sent.

Not you in particular because I know you will be calm.

Says a 30+ man that has dated all the 19yrs old influencers in Lagos and gets dragged my them on IG. That is when they are not fighting over him.

Jewessgratitud3:
He probably has some unrealistic expectations.

To be candid, no body can give you the peace you need. they are not the holy spirit that gives true peace that comes from above. Only you can give yourself peace.

If you can't take nonsense from another person don't get married cos human beings are full of nonsense.

You should see his last two ex-girlfriends. So that you can know who he has been giving his heart to.

ednut1:
Men are angry women are doing what they have been doing lol

Suddenly they remember marriage is no more beneficial to them.

Gerrard59:


I see. Then in that case, N5K is too small. But 200K is too big, considering it is your birthday. Next year, you would expect something bigger. We should consider what she does for a living, her visa status and country she resides in. Also, how many siblings and extended family members does she have in Nigeria?

Many factors determine someone in the abroad sending money to another in Nigeria.

Would we be this calm if a woman expected 200k from a man abroad because she helped him in the past? I bet we would have a whole new topic on why men do not accept help from women.

kkins25:
The irony of it all, women-women marriages have a similar to higher divorce rates than heterosexual marriages.. 😂😂😂

See women talking as if they themselves are angels? Why do lesbian marriages have similar rates of divorce with the same complaints as heterosexual marriages? All this feminist wave is just wishful thinking, no different from the aggressive vampire booktok.


By the time western society wears off, Islam will take over. I'll see which B2 movement women will follow then.

Women are not talking as if they are angels. Women are saying men should at least leave them alone since we all know women are not angels. Men should marry men too. You should also know gay marriages pack up faster than heterosexual marriages. You didn't use that as an example because it doesn't fit your agenda.

It is has nothing to do with feminism. It is common sense to stay away from affairs concerning an institution you claim not to benefit from.

If 35+ women are unmarried, why are men bothered? Shebi men do not gain from marriage?

Homosexuals typically do not care about societal dogmas. People that could defy homophobia to marry do not care to stay together to please heterosexuals. They leave when they are tired and move to the next one. It is their way of life.

The more heterosexuals attain same state of independence and i-don't care attitude, the more marriages pack up like we are seeing.

Nazgul:

Yes no dey cause problem na.

DonPablo9511:
https://www.nairaland.com/8029989/why-ladies-above-35-years#128929083

Pocohantas

Good afternoon

Thanks and noted.
I will do as advised.

Good evening!

Twoclans:
Just mention Burna and kwin Poco will show up.

Everytime I want to say what is on my mind regarding Burna ,I will give myself a knock on the head .I don't want pocohantas trouble .

I am usually scared to view these topics too, because I don't like seeing him get insulted. So it isn't just you knocking your head. 🤣🤣

Sequel to this thread below claiming the estranged wife of Israel is remarrying barely 6 months after their separation, I had to go check her Instagram page.

thread.https://www.nairaland.com/8030377/said-yes-again-israel-dmws

It is an endorsement deal.

How did people even think it is marriage?

Smh!

GloriousGbola:


i said yes! again!

isreal probably never heard those words from her

_{stop i am tired}

Yes to Jesus.
Yes to an endorsement deal.

Nothing to say it is a man. She just wan tension Israel and make us talk. Expect his Edo curses in 3,2,1...

Once again, the gender that doesn't benefit from marriage is obsessed with the marital status of (unknown) women.

I do hope no lady reads some posters here and slips into depression. These ones are not the men doing the marrying. Year after year they haven't married any supposed good woman or morning newspaper. But they have a lot to say about unmarried women. Agents of distraction.

Acidosis:


You must show face. Burna's biggest fan 🤣🤣

I have to come defend him o. I give it to him. Burna stays away from women trouble.

Acidosis:


Do you work for him? You know too much about him to be ordinary online fan.

She doesn't need to. Did we work for Tuface, Davido and Wizkid to see their handiwork?

Eunoiaa:


Maybe you can help me sef and let me know when/if he follows you.

He has weird, gory kind of monikers and a profile that seems to belong to a mentally disturbed patient. And he follows some set of monikers. These are usually the dead giveaways for me.


Anytime he opens a new account, in 2 seconds, he's followed you, Folake, Pansőphist, qtgùru. He relates well with Qtguru, and the airsàylongcom guy in Programming section too. But I'm sure QT has no idea what kind of sick individual the Purvan dude is. I just shook my head and laughed to myself when he confronted "me" and said he noticed someone has been doxxing him. He thinks he's just some young dude who needs mentoring in tech and all.

Yes, he has followed me with some of these accounts and he unfollows after a while. Recently he re-followed with one of the aforementioned accounts.

If he needs tech mentoring, he should focus on that and leave you. At least it would guaranty he isn't celebrating a standing fan 10yrs from now.

chidiokay:




why will you think she will tey for her papa house ... ofcus there plenty men out there that give women 1million for upkeep and nail fixing per week

That you can't relate doesnt mean these things are not happening, @least pocohantas can relate

This one would never sleep well again.
E pain am.

ceejayluv:

Dem no plenty abeg. An LG chairman cannot even afford that.

Indeed they are not plenty.
Minimum wage is still 30k afterall.

Twoclans:
I ignored his quote because I know he is just a very stupid somebody.I am sure his body is filled with craw craw from heat .

SKYHIGHfx:
Congratulations, Poor people go soon start to advice am

while gulping pancake and fearless.

Eunoiaa:


He's one of the foolish twerps who run amok here.


That moniker strikes a chord in my memory. I remember it has attacked me once, and it wasn't just any kind of random attack over what I said in the moment; it was a deep-seated one that seem like whoever is behind the account has been wanting to get out.


It's an definitely an alternate, tab-keeping account.

I wonder what is always eating them up. Maybe heat and hunger. They are all similar. Reminds me of your tochi. Maybe na him sef.

Oh, they are all alternates. Thanks to you I learned to pay more attention. It is most times one person with numerous alternates. Giving the impression that many are out for you.

GloriousGbola:


na gen-z man-thing. folake4.u generation. so few men in her generation. a real scarcity

_{better for us oldies sha. ned nwoko 2.0 is sure}

Hahaaha. GenZ done really suffer for our hand. I done tire for some guys here. Ignore them, they run amok. Handle them and they show you they are indeed jobless.

GloriousGbola:




are you sure you are actualy a man? or maybe you are gender fluid - thats the ony way i can process your poking your nose in other people's buiness like a busybody

Abeg o. Na man.
No dash we women. He is one of you.

Ishilove:

He later went to interrogate the maid and confront the woman. The woman told him to mind his business and after that, went to slap the maid at the back of her head.

As expected..

As someone who cooks at home a lot and eats out too, I disagree that eating outside is cheaper. Good food costs money everywhere in the world. If the food is cheap, something has been compromised.

Looking at that food there, it is obvious everything was compromised.

However, I do agree the initial cost of setting up a kitchen and stocking it could be expensive.

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I ordered food yesterday @N9,410
Today @ N6380

Just a plate. Though yesterday's own had turkey, asun and meatpie _ aside the main meal. Today is croaker fish. This is for one eating and a serving of jollof is N900 or so. If I decide to eat twice a day, it is almost 100k for 5 working days. How much do I use to cook soup and stew that lasts 3 weeks?

Angelfrost:


What exactly is your reason for the needless censoring of the word "Foolish"?!!

You dey vex today o.

Jennyclay:
My south east sisters should learn this style of adopting a child

If you want to adopt a child or house maid and you can’t treat them the way you want your own child(ren) to be treated then don’t bother to adopt any.

Maltreating a child is very bad and should be considered a criminal offense

No lies. I got thinking the other day, women all over Nigeria have kids while working, why is it only/mostly Igbo women that have underaged helps?

liveLongNprospa:


Are you sure about that?
So you'd listen to the songs of a rapist if he sang about things you liked? 👀

Comparing rape (a crime) to a sexually adventurous man who only has sex with consenting adult females, shows you may not livelong and prospa. Have a nice day.

liveLongNprospa:

But you have a problem with them like you highlighted.

Or that's not too much of a demeaning issue for you?

That is their personal lifestyle. They are not selling to me as a craft.

liveLongNprospa:


Why do you listen to davido and wizkid?

Did you hear "if she no suck..." in any of their songs?