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let the men get some exercise innit? lol........noted though, thanks

done, thanks

Maybe someday we'd find it,
the true intersection between sunrise and sunset
where mothers trade old tears for new smiles
and wives no longer dread that knock from the black suit

A small community that spans the globe,
where five individuals speak one language
and walls run around not through

The one true family,
where love is a default
and sibling rivalry is a race to show it.

The perfect closet,
that reverses beauty against nudity,
unzips the gorgeous character beneath,
and button all flaws up

where GUCCI makes bandannas, turbans,skull caps
and Paris moves to Mogadishu.

Maybe somehow we'd find,
that all of these branches are from the same tree,
the stability of which is, firmly rooted in unity.

Root,stem,branches or leaves,
the tree is one,the other and all at once.

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Is it me or most of us came here just to see the woman get showered with praises?

well, sorry i'm gonna have to disappoint you a bit on this one. Somehow, we never forget

how important the job of a woman is, but really, is it every woman that deserves to be praised?

hmmmm........maybe i'll answer that at the end of the post.

Now let us take THE woman that deserves all the praises. Now i'm seeing the smiles on your faces,

yeah, our mothers, our wives, our grandmothers (now some guys are beginning to remember the lashes),

our sisters (now more guys are remembering the fights) but come on guys, are sisters really that nasty?

can i get a Yeeeeeeeah!.

OK, back to business, not all sisters are evil ones. In fact, no sister is evil,

just that some of our younger siblings act their ages and somehow,the tension never goes away.

And as for grandmothers, God rest the souls of those departed, some of them? meeeeeaaaaaan.

I guess we owe our parents that, they must have been so stubborn growing up that the grannies go,

'no way you are attending that party young man'.

OK , all mothers are good but we are not looking at them as mothers now are we?

lets look at every woman as a partner,wife or spouse. Do they all deserve to be showered praises? hesitations right?

I mean isn't our partner the only one that deserves commendation? yeah i know the feeling.

Women, hmmmmm, guys, i'm seriously gonna have to sell out here.

Here's why, our assessment of women should be based on our experience with them,

so if for over a decade I have had enough reasons to be with the same woman,

there has got to be something she's doing right. The same way, a lot of men all over the world share this feeling,

so why do we always find it hard to celebrate them? feels to me like its either we are too loaded with ego

to admit that we depend on them to be who we are, or we have hidden plans somewhere.

WHY DON'T MEN CELEBRATE THEIR PARTNERS ENOUGH?

is it because they don't deserve it? clearly , NO. yet, it just seems to happen.

A woman is......................sorry people, i'll make it personal,

MY woman is the personification of the blessing that I always ask God for, the other bit of me that's missing when you find me off track,

the reason,the essence,the sun moon and stars in my universe. She is the station I come back to for the strength reload God has sent me.

I am not looking for a special meal tonight, I'm just being real.

We never stop learning and I recently just realised how important it is to keep her motivation high

by reminding her how much she means and how much she is appreciated.

We don't want women to make assumptions about us, so how about we stop making assumptions that they know how we feel.

If my woman makes me feel like a million bucks, she gets to see a million bucks worth of value.

It doesn't have to be a diamond bracelet (though they would prefer that),

it doesn't have to be a trip to Paris or London, just find your own way of showing

her appreciation and she'll come back to give you more.

Now,to answer the question raised: DO ALL WOMEN DESERVE TO BE SHOWERED WITH PRAISES?

I'm thinking YES !

If you cannot ask yourself this same question and answer yes, then brother, you have a discussion pending,

in fact you have one with yourself and the other with your partner. There's a reason you fell in love with this angel,

that reason is there still, somehow buried in whatever layers of filth she has endured for you.

Pick her up, clean her and wipe her tears, then make her feel like she truly deserves to feel,

you owe it to her and yourself.after all, she is your lady!

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