Post her an invoice then innit.

There's obviously some big shot involved in her life. He's breaking her off with some serious dough.

Calculate everything and send her the bill!! See opportunity to get money!! LOL

But why the girl dey slack sef, so all of a sudden she don turn miss independent?

Are u asking what to do, when it's apparent that she does not love u anymore, will u consider losing her and at the same time losing the money she accepted to back to U. No waste time to send her the bill,

Are you sure you've not used your expenditure on her and her family as a point of reference to receive gratitude from her? This usually occurs when she thinks you're using that to your advantage. If that is not the case, be sure to sit down and talk with her about it. But if she has no concrete reason for wanting to break off of you, I may have to conclude she's found another rich guy she wants to elope with, and who on comparison with you, surpasses you in almost everything she needs in a man.

Let it go, because she now has new loaded boyfriend.

Secretz:

Post her an invoice then innit.

Too bad you didn't see that coming.
But it is what it is,move on with yourself.

why not break up wiv her imediately u started noticing those strange attitude before she broke up wiv u? People can't handle rejection. If u don't put ur WHOLE EMOTIONS in ur relationships no matter how vague then u qualify to be a real man

Calculate everything, including the credit you used to call her and the t-fare u've given her then send her the bill!
It's clear u're gonna lose her, don't lose your money too! If she wants to pay, let he pay in full! What is worth doin' is worth doin' well.

Just let her be, If she's really yours, she will come back to you, Free her

Hmm, calculate her bill to close to 500thousand or 1m.jst to let her know wat u've done 4 her is nt refundable den let her consciense do d rest

Secretz:

Post her an invoice then innit.

guy, if u don chop her, u no loose anything. just send her ur a/c no and say any huge price. u don hama guy.

jidesamuel:

u ought not to let her serve u with quit notice  before u take a walk out of her life,
all u need is to let her go like a prodigal son,if she's yours she will come back begging on her knees
just brace up urself and try as much as possible to forget whatever u've had with her,
this may sound foolish [b]if u still have any respect to retain from her,dont make any attempt to collect
anything spent on her.Try to visit your close friends,get engage in mental and career improving activities so as to have less time to think about your break-up with her.
i really wish u quick recovery!!!!![/b]

Nuff said!

@Poster,
Pay for all you spent on her? That would be materially right?
What about emotionally? Doesn't that count?
Its obvious she's found someone else. Do not collect a dime from her. It'll bring nothing but ill-luck.
You'll get over her. It just a matter of time.

all these our babes sha
Lord have mercy

jidesamuel:

u ought not to let her serve u with quit notice before u take a walk out of her life,
all u need is to let her go like a prodigal son,if she's yours she will come back begging on her knees
just brace up urself and try as much as possible to forget whatever u've had with her,
this may sound foolish if u still have any respect to retain from her,dont make any attempt to collect
anything spent on her.Try to visit your close friends,get engage in mental and career improving activities so as to have less time to think about your break-up with her.
i really wish u quick recovery!!!!!

Thanks for your advice.

tanimz:

Calculate everything and send her the bill!! See opportunity to get money!! LOL

But why the girl dey slack sef, so all of a sudden she don turn miss independent?

LMAO

naija_guy:

Hello House,

I have been dating my girl for about (4) four years now and all over the sudden she started behaving strange, and when i ask her to explain about her recent behaviour she respond and said, [b]i should calculate everything i have ever spend on her , that she is willing to pay me back everything i have ever don for the family, that she is no more interested in the relationship.

Now my question is,

If your girl ask you to calculate everything you have ever spend on her, that she is willing to pay you what will be your reaction??[/b]

Chai. That must hurt. *Shivers down my spine*. Gotta agree with Jide, just let her be and don't collect anything back from her.

naija_guy:

Hello House,

I have been dating my girl for about (4) four years now and all over the sudden she started behaving strange, and when i ask her to explain about her recent behaviour she respond and said, i should calculate everything i have ever spend on her , that she is willing to pay me back everything i have ever don for the family, that she is no more interested in the relationship.

Now my question is,

If your girl ask you to calculate everything you have ever spend on her, that she is willing to pay you what will be your reaction??

U should consider yourself lucky she even had the guts to tell it as it is.
Some other women will still be milking you dry while sleeping-with other men.

Let the babe go. . . . . . .Kick her out like POLIO.
Errrrrrrrrrrrrrrm, if you have any iota of self-pride. . .don't collect a dime from her.

eiya, poor you

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@suny mee
are u a gay,why thats ur first post

Are u sure dat u dnt insult her cuz u have been spending 4 her n her family. Tell us ur own part of d story, then we can advice u. Pls dnt take offence on this. Just be plane about the issue. One luv

emans:

@suny mee
are u a gay,why thats your first post

oh oh

Men dis poster guy funny wat were u doing for 4 yrs were u blindfolded during ur relantionship i cant imagine being in a 4yr relantionship nd d gurl suddenly dumps me i wuld av read btw d lines nd av seen dat d relantiönship isnt going anywhere my advice is dat u let d girl be cause its ur fault dat u did nt see dat she was a bitch

stay clear?

forget her forget d money
she will come beggin later

Mr Poster, U'r one cheap dude, U mean for 4 years d babe asked u 2 calculate all u have spent, It shows u spent a little, But if this babe is a GLUTTON, immediately she said those words, u would have DIALLED her number, may be when it rings she take those words back. But anyways thank your starts, she is know somebodies WAHALA, BYE BYE TO BAD RUBBISH  

sazzy-phy:

Mr Poster, U'r one cheap dude, U mean for 4 years d babe asked u 2 calculate all u have spent, It shows u spent a little, But if this babe is a [b]GLUTTON, immediately she said those words, u would have DIALLED her number, may be when it rings she take those words back.[/b] But anyways thank your starts, she is know somebodies WAHALA, BYE BYE TO BAD RUBBISH  

I won't be surprised if this is the case!

Take heart dude shit happens. . .that's life!