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He is not hopeless but romantic and lovely[quote author=Mynd_44]K is hopeless[/quote]

Petting

causewahala: Honeying_{u made ur choice yet?}

Sweets i will when killz opens the thread this evening.

causewahala: Honeying_{u made ur choice yet?}

I will interpret when she comes.it's a very romantic song.

HARDDON: When she comes u'd seee .

Ʊ didn't oblige ma request . Y?

Awww so romantic.

k2039: [color=crap] [size=13pt]
Let me tell you a little story.

I went to a friends room, checked through his phone and I saw this particular girl's picture.
I jokingly told him, I was interested in the girl and I requested he showed me the girl(She was in my department).
When my friend finally showed me, she didn't fit my picture and idea of a girl friend in terms of her body shape, size etc.

But after a while I got attracted to her(I kept seeing her in the dept.).

I remembered my friend asked me a question when I told him I'm beginning to love this girl, he asked me why the attraction now since I told him I wasn't attracted to the girl earlier?.

That question took me days to figure it out.

After clear and deep though I realized I was fascinated about how studious she was, that marked the beginning of my attraction towards her and the more I found out about her afterwards the more I was attracted by her personality.

So to answer your question, she is smart, prioritize, intelligent, devoted to God and she is beautiful(I never thought she was when I first saw her though).

But in spite of all this qualities, my attraction and love for her is greater, Honestly I can't figure out why I'm so crazy about her because there are girls who have same qualities as her and there are others who are way better but of course I'm not attracted to them.

I figure out that if my love was based on the qualities I found out, they will be superficial, there is something greater that I can't explain because if her beauty fades, if something happens to her intellect medically(God forbid), I will still love her. [/size][/color]

[quote author=Mynd_44]So when she meet him, she would have gained enough experience to thrill him with[/quote]

[quote author=Mynd_44]Is she to blame if some people have weak hearts?[/quote]

U wan turn love teacher?[quote author=Mynd_44]But wait ooo. Before you ask someone out(I am not refering to the mofos who chase anything in skirts here), there must be something which draws him/her to you. Something you see in the person that makes you want more and more of that person. At first, it might be that thing and then you find out the person has more qualities that are endearing to you and you keep falling.

If this holds right, then is it not possible that if those qualities suddenly or gradually change, you might fall out of love? If you fall for a man because he is humble and kind, if he stops being humble you might find yourself heting him.

The truth is that we as individuals have what we look for in a the opposite sex. K for example wants booooobs. And some wants intelligence. And most times, we do not know that we want those things in our partner but the sub-concious know s and when one who has those qualities come around, your defences which is built by the same sub-consiousness falls down. That is what you fell in love with. And those are what you can point to.

Thw point that you fall unconditionally is really not true and I mean romantic love here. Even among friends. You find things that draws you to your friends right? If your friends starts acting in ways contrary to what you first saw, won't you pull away?

Some one said "a reason to love gives a reason to hate" which is true because when that thing which you fell in love with goes away, the love goes with it. You can deny this all you want but it holds true.

There is always an object you love in your partner but if you know or discover it or not is left to you.

Do you even wonder why sometimes after being together some people fall out of love? Have you not heard where a man treats his wife bad but she still loves him cos of some other qualities which other people think is crap?

We are attracted to different things and those thing are attract up and keep us bounded or tears us apart.


Eff I said I won't get in this ooo. Now my fingers hurt[/quote]

Suprised i made the first page huh?

k2039: [img]http://t2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTxLhU3XwxPc8X0NzpylyhsTGHH-dd7TCbjVsGIn8OR0N91XLWg[/img]

Abeg dont give anyone a heart attack[quote author=mondi_cheeks]She is having a 3some I jus had a vision[/quote]

Babying

Welcome mr fresh[quote author=fresh_dude]Thanks.[/quote]

First page things.hipeee

*runs into thread and sighs* hope i made first page

Wow

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Preaching

Help comes the Lord

Ohhhh u got a romantic voice.really nice.[quote author=fresh_dude]For Badosky ni o. Be lenient y'all, it was impromptu.[/quote]

Do you have to answer?

Hipeee

Khloe rocked it

Same here.[quote author=@kenyattaMoore]This is one trend I refuse to follow [/quote]

So?

Very dry

Rip

Nice pics.very beautiful.
Is this making fp.In case it does this space is booked

Lmao.
Just in case........i ve booked this space[quote author=Okiki_Oluwa]Looking @ d 2nd pic, I no go fear dz (fampaya) vampire o!
See bobbi!
Infact I go pursue her with my kini.[/quote]

Lol

sexkillz: [color=#000030]So you had a reason. . . Hmm. [/color]

I refuse to comment for not making first page

Lol

debayun: :PIts obvious its a trick nw haha Nigerians neva stoop dat low.
Jesus am I dreaming or halucinating haha me a whole me 1st to comment chai I mst gv testimony tomorrow 4 church
My enemies

Hope this is frontpage things