Ashirioluwa:


Go through the lady’s post through other thread then you will know she is a scammer. She’s lying. Someone gave her 30k so she can use it to buy sewing machine on January 23rd but less than 2 months she back with another story. He is a man not a girl as claimed.

This is what she posted after someone gave her 30k on January 23rd

husseinaaa:
I met this guy 2018 in my Madam's tailoring shop while I was learning as an apprentice.

He usually comes around, he talks and jokes with everyone in the shop and we are all free with him after sometimes of showing good behaviours towards us.

To cut the story short, one day he asked for my phone number that he wants to be communicating with me, so I told him I don't have a phone I am not working yet, I am still learning and he smiled and promised to buy me a phone, which I told him if it's not just a gift he should not buy but if he wants to dash me for no reason like having intention of relationship or sex etc he should. Then he said he just meant to buy for me as a friend and I thank him.

So few days later he gave me 50,000 to buy myself a phone and I collected it and appreciated it.

So we communicate normally but just as a friend.

Last month he started asking me out, I told him am not ready for relationship because the kind of suffering and stress I pass through to survive totally made me lose interest for anything like that, he got angry and told me to send back his 50,000 to him or I should accept him. He is threatening me because he knows I cannot afford such money to pay him so I told him to give me time, I will refund it just to avoid problem but he said no time will be given that either I should give him my virginity or if I don't pay before next 7 days he will destroy my life, either by jazz or attack.

I just don't know what to do I need advice.

sirjamesjnr:
. Only you spoke the truth, you sound d so mature.That guy is a very wicked. Of all the blessings we receive in this life how many have God ask us to return? Of all the help good natured people have rendered to us ,how many tell us to return back?

She should quickly report him to the police ASAP, report to her madam,and find a spiritual head she can report to.be it her pastor,babalawo,white garment prophet.,dibia..Never take threats lightly.That boy is very wicked.


If in your heart to heart you know that no commitment was involved when he gave you that 50k. Get him to threaten you again. Go to the nearest police station with his threats and make him sign undertaken. Trust me he will be so scared of you. Men like that idiot are a problem to a decent mind. Make sure you record his voice and give it to the police. Only useless men blackmail a girl with gifts. Forget about jazz, who jazz help. Go and report that good for nonentity useless fool.

Xenry:
Give him the phone or give him the damn money. You should have known what he wanted from the beginning!

Bouz:
Why will you accept a gift you can't afford for your self, isn't that long throat, 50k you didn't work for you get mind collect. Isn't that long throat. you better give him back his money. You get mind oh, 50k just like dat and common sense did not tell you it was a greek gift. this is how you girls sell your self out for material things. .

Nazgul:
You're a very greedy person...don't you know that gifts makes you indebted to the giver, meaning no one gives you something without expecting something back from you in return.

How can you collect 50k from a struggling guy without knowing that he's expecting you to submit your coochie to him?

I'll advise you to return his money back to him, since you've decided that you won't date or have sex with him, borrow, beg, sell your belongings... etc, just raise his money and give back to him so you can have peace of mind.

Cos struggling guys can be very dangerous when it comes to money. I've read countless stories here on Nairaland where people kill for sums which are far lesser than the amount in question. You don't know what he went through to get it, the menial jobs he must have done...so kindly give it back to him and use your head next time.

Good luck.

LINTUNE:

You are very ignorant and Naive.Go and Ask occult men and those involved in Esoteric Spirituality how powerful women are in the spirit world.Let the occult men be open to u and tell u the truth, you will be shocked.

Women are more powerful than men, Spiritually.

No.1 Every woman is like a witch because every woman has a womb,the womb is a portal to the spirit world.,no power,spirit,or personality can enter this world without a woman.u can see this principle in action in d case of Jesus.he could have jump down from heaven,but he had to pass through the gate/tunnel(womb) to enter this world....many other reasons,I'm not in the mood to type.This is wat white men culture understand,and always respect women.



y do u gals feel, swearing in the midnight while naked, is only potent for u guys, why do u even think the universe or heavens can shake for your sakes, simply cos u a woman..my dear open ur fucking eyes, this is not nollywood...if u like go to the moon , naked a d swear from now till eternity, nothing will happen... don't think cos u are a woman, u have certain super Powers, u don't have shit ok......I see women this days, the way the post on their status, asking for gifts and money from ppl they don't know, believing as a woman, those ppl ought to give them those things, just like that, nothing goes for nothing in life..

Sixfeetbelle:


So, wait, let me ask: all the guys that paid transport fare for a random lady in a bus was in relationships with him? All the guys that offered to take care of a lady's dinner bills were in relationships with them?

These are just a few examples of what people do for each other without expecting anything in return. But I can see now that low self-esteem men are more rampant than I originally thought if a man who offered to help someone would turn around and start blackmailing them and the whole lots of you will ably support him.

Don't worry about what I'll tell my daughters. I knew before now that Nigerian men can never give you help (financially or otherwise) without wanting something in return, no matter how 'saintly' they claim they are.

You are all the same. Bunch of untrustworthy snakes.

Kebbiprince:

Nobody can help a sister without strings attached. When you're not their sis, this life is give and take. Afterall how many brothers una don help.

Rubbish and entitled Nigerian b!tches

Stop collecting gifts, no one is fr Christmas

Machinegun91:
And you are using the same phone you bought with his hard earned money to type this nonsense here and still seeking for advice abi? this girl is very wicked and heartless, If that guy do you charm e go catch sharp sharp. You thought he was father Christmas when you were collecting the whole 50k from him? why are you girls with Vagina doesn't hv common sense like this? see, pay that guy his money asap or else..................

Maryjane001:

Exactly my dear, he trapped her.
All these guys shouting she was greedy to have collected such amount, if it were to be you, se u won't collect if given a harmless gift. I just suggest she returns the phone, selling it won't give her up to that amount.
My fellow ladies, hustle like tomorrow no dey make man no use money dey do shakara for u.

galaxi:
OP but you are a confirmed scammer on NL.
You just changed your format?

Nobody is falling for this scam!

galaxi:
OP but you are a confirmed scammer on NL.
You just changed your format?

Nobody is falling for this scam!

husseinaaa:
I met this guy 2018 in my Madam's tailoring shop while I was learning as an apprentice.

He usually comes around, he talks and jokes with everyone in the shop and we are all free with him after sometimes of showing good behaviours towards us.

To cut the story short, one day he asked for my phone number that he wants to be communicating with me, so I told him I don't have a phone I am not working yet, I am still learning and he smiled and promised to buy me a phone, which I told him if it's not just a gift he should not buy but if he wants to dash me for no reason like having intention of relationship or sex etc he should. Then he said he just meant to buy for me as a friend and I thank him.

So few days later he gave me 50,000 to buy myself a phone and I collected it and appreciated it.

So we communicate normally but just as a friend.

Last month he started asking me out, I told him am not ready for relationship because the kind of suffering and stress I pass through to survive totally made me lose interest for anything like that, he got angry and told me to send back his 50,000 to him or I should accept him. He is threatening me because he knows I cannot afford such money to pay him so I told him to give me time, I will refund it just to avoid problem but he said no time will be given that either I should give him my virginity or if I don't pay before next 7 days he will destroy my life, either by jazz or attack.

I just don't know what to do I need advice.

Powerfly:



Lol. Yes i can date a dickless guy coz i'm already into women.. The dick is basically useless if i may say.
You think what happens in nollywood aren't inspired by true life stories and happenings, then you must be a visitor to this part of the planet.

Xenry:
When a guy starts to give you what he won't give to his fellow guys, just know that he would be expecting from you what his fellow guys wouldn't be able to give him.

BarrElChapo:
So your guys can't give you 50k ? and/or vice versa ? Please change your guys' and stop generalizing

mployer:
Lol. You think God will answer such prayer?
Keep fooling yourself.

mployer:
Lol. You think God will answer such prayer?
Keep fooling yourself.

Opeade939:
This is so terrible though......Op, please send me your account number.