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Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by saintneo(m): 11:07am On Mar 21, 2021
Ashirioluwa:


Go through the lady’s post through other thread then you will know she is a scammer. She’s lying. Someone gave her 30k so she can use it to buy sewing machine on January 23rd but less than 2 months she back with another story. He is a man not a girl as claimed.

This is what she posted after someone gave her 30k on January 23rd



Nice work, thanks for outing the scammer
Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Blackdisciple(m): 11:14am On Mar 21, 2021
Simple take your SIM card off the phone and hand the phone over to him if the phone was purchased at the rate of 45k , put the phone in its pack give it to him plus 5k Makin it 50k if he refused then he can go to hell.
Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by SILVERLINES: 11:25am On Mar 21, 2021
husseinaaa:
I met this guy 2018 in my Madam's tailoring shop while I was learning as an apprentice.

He usually comes around, he talks and jokes with everyone in the shop and we are all free with him after sometimes of showing good behaviours towards us.

To cut the story short, one day he asked for my phone number that he wants to be communicating with me, so I told him I don't have a phone I am not working yet, I am still learning and he smiled and promised to buy me a phone, which I told him if it's not just a gift he should not buy but if he wants to dash me for no reason like having intention of relationship or sex etc he should. Then he said he just meant to buy for me as a friend and I thank him.

So few days later he gave me 50,000 to buy myself a phone and I collected it and appreciated it.

So we communicate normally but just as a friend.

Last month he started asking me out, I told him am not ready for relationship because the kind of suffering and stress I pass through to survive totally made me lose interest for anything like that, he got angry and told me to send back his 50,000 to him or I should accept him. He is threatening me because he knows I cannot afford such money to pay him so I told him to give me time, I will refund it just to avoid problem but he said no time will be given that either I should give him my virginity or if I don't pay before next 7 days he will destroy my life, either by jazz or attack.

I just don't know what to do I need advice.
whala dey oooo
The man na Yoruba man?

Just respond make I know what next and how I can help you
Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Ayo13945(m): 11:35am On Mar 21, 2021
Everyone should remember that there is
Nothing; i mean Absolutely nothing that
Is free in this world.

Everything Comes at a Price; and if you
Don't pay the price Now you will pay for
It in the Future.

Collecting a Free Gift is like Acquiring a
DEBT.
Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by generalwo(m): 11:38am On Mar 21, 2021
Before anything, offer to give him the phone you bought with the money...... And if he accepts, wipe the phone very clean and give it to him...... If he chooses not to accept, maybe you should talk to your madam and fellow girls about it especially if you have a witness the day you told him not to give you the money if he's expecting anything from you and if all these doesn't work, then send him and text message and hopefully he will respond with the threat again or maybe a phone call recording will do...... Take the threat message and report to the police and also those around your hood...... Such men are desperate and are the most dangerous creatures ever...... This is a lesson for you and other ladies...... In this life..... Apart from what God has created, nothing good comes easy...... If na man give you something, that thing MUST have a price!
Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Emeraldgreene(f): 11:43am On Mar 21, 2021
sirjamesjnr:
. Only you spoke the truth, you sound d so mature.That guy is a very wicked. Of all the blessings we receive in this life how many have God ask us to return? Of all the help good natured people have rendered to us ,how many tell us to return back?

She should quickly report him to the police ASAP, report to her madam,and find a spiritual head she can report to.be it her pastor,babalawo,white garment prophet.,dibia..Never take threats lightly.That boy is very wicked.


If in your heart to heart you know that no commitment was involved when he gave you that 50k. Get him to threaten you again. Go to the nearest police station with his threats and make him sign undertaken. Trust me he will be so scared of you. Men like that idiot are a problem to a decent mind. Make sure you record his voice and give it to the police. Only useless men blackmail a girl with gifts. Forget about jazz, who jazz help. Go and report that good for nonentity useless fool.
Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Hassanmaye(m): 11:45am On Mar 21, 2021
Xenry:
Give him the phone or give him the damn money. You should have known what he wanted from the beginning!
Haha
Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Hassanmaye(m): 11:52am On Mar 21, 2021
Bouz:
Why will you accept a gift you can't afford for your self, isn't that long throat, 50k you didn't work for you get mind collect. Isn't that long throat. you better give him back his money. You get mind oh, 50k just like dat and common sense did not tell you it was a greek gift. this is how you girls sell your self out for material things. undecided.
Leave them stupid girls if he is a good guy that's how she will be abusing him calling him Maga or fool thank he is a bad boy stupid girls
Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Hassanmaye(m): 11:54am On Mar 21, 2021
Nazgul:
You're a very greedy person...don't you know that gifts makes you indebted to the giver, meaning no one gives you something without expecting something back from you in return.

How can you collect 50k from a struggling guy without knowing that he's expecting you to submit your coochie to him?

I'll advise you to return his money back to him, since you've decided that you won't date or have sex with him, borrow, beg, sell your belongings... etc, just raise his money and give back to him so you can have peace of mind.

Cos struggling guys can be very dangerous when it comes to money. I've read countless stories here on Nairaland where people kill for sums which are far lesser than the amount in question. You don't know what he went through to get it, the menial jobs he must have done...so kindly give it back to him and use your head next time.

Good luck.
Good advice to stupid Nigerian girls they will learn, no be bad boys they want let's chill baby

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Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Emeraldgreene(f): 11:57am On Mar 21, 2021
LINTUNE:

You are very ignorant and Naive.Go and Ask occult men and those involved in Esoteric Spirituality how powerful women are in the spirit world.Let the occult men be open to u and tell u the truth, you will be shocked.

Women are more powerful than men, Spiritually.

No.1 Every woman is like a witch because every woman has a womb,the womb is a portal to the spirit world.,no power,spirit,or personality can enter this world without a woman.u can see this principle in action in d case of Jesus.he could have jump down from heaven,but he had to pass through the gate/tunnel(womb) to enter this world....many other reasons,I'm not in the mood to type.This is wat white men culture understand,and always respect women.



y do u gals feel, swearing in the midnight while naked, is only potent for u guys, why do u even think the universe or heavens can shake for your sakes, simply cos u a woman..my dear open ur fucking eyes, this is not nollywood...if u like go to the moon , naked a d swear from now till eternity, nothing will happen... don't think cos u are a woman, u have certain super Powers, u don't have shit ok......I see women this days, the way the post on their status, asking for gifts and money from ppl they don't know, believing as a woman, those ppl ought to give them those things, just like that, nothing goes for nothing in life..
Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Hassanmaye(m): 12:08pm On Mar 21, 2021
Sixfeetbelle:


So, wait, let me ask: all the guys that paid transport fare for a random lady in a bus was in relationships with him? All the guys that offered to take care of a lady's dinner bills were in relationships with them?

These are just a few examples of what people do for each other without expecting anything in return. But I can see now that low self-esteem men are more rampant than I originally thought if a man who offered to help someone would turn around and start blackmailing them and the whole lots of you will ably support him.

Don't worry about what I'll tell my daughters. I knew before now that Nigerian men can never give you help (financially or otherwise) without wanting something in return, no matter how 'saintly' they claim they are.

You are all the same. Bunch of untrustworthy snakes.
If the guy give her freely she will turn him to ATM and be calling him Maga or Mumu behind his back with her friends, if he is a good guy, no be bad boys you want? What happened all of a sudden

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Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by tolguy(m): 12:15pm On Mar 21, 2021
report him to police
Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Hassanmaye(m): 12:19pm On Mar 21, 2021
Kebbiprince:

Nobody can help a sister without strings attached. When you're not their sis, this life is give and take. Afterall how many brothers una don help.

Rubbish and entitled Nigerian b!tches

Stop collecting gifts, no one is fr Christmas
Hahahahahaha
Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Hassanmaye(m): 12:21pm On Mar 21, 2021
Machinegun91:
And you are using the same phone you bought with his hard earned money to type this nonsense here and still seeking for advice abi? this girl is very wicked and heartless, If that guy do you charm e go catch sharp sharp. You thought he was father Christmas when you were collecting the whole 50k from him? why are you girls with Vagina doesn't hv common sense like this? see, pay that guy his money asap or else..................
Lol common sense not common at all she taught he is the usual good guy not knowing na the bad guy they want turned violent
Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Nobody: 12:26pm On Mar 21, 2021
Maryjane001:

Exactly my dear, he trapped her.
All these guys shouting she was greedy to have collected such amount, if it were to be you, se u won't collect if given a harmless gift. I just suggest she returns the phone, selling it won't give her up to that amount.
My fellow ladies, hustle like tomorrow no dey make man no use money dey do shakara for u.


I'm telling you.

The guy may not even want to collect the phone back. I think he wants a refund.

May God help us. The way some men just like to take advantage of us is so despicable.

May God help provide her the money to refund him.
Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by LINTUNE(m): 12:30pm On Mar 21, 2021
[quote author=Emeraldgreene post=100072554][/quote]I knew u will involve the "womb" talk , abeg leave story..u guys are not only fighting for gender equality, obviously u guys are fighting for more, superiority and control..can u imagine the rubbish u are spewing out, that women are more powerful spiritual , and probably physically too, cos they have womb?..y u ppl like this?
Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by ENIGMATIC2023(m): 12:33pm On Mar 21, 2021
Give him the money asap and stop being myopic
Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Hassanmaye(m): 12:34pm On Mar 21, 2021
galaxi:
OP but you are a confirmed scammer on NL.
You just changed your format?

Nobody is falling for this scam!
You are smart person, let the fool send her the money na,
Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Hassanmaye(m): 12:35pm On Mar 21, 2021
galaxi:
OP but you are a confirmed scammer on NL.
You just changed your format?

Nobody is falling for this scam!
Na there type will never give his mum 10k buy ungrateful bitch will be chopping and cleaning mouth.
Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by bigcasava1(m): 1:01pm On Mar 21, 2021
husseinaaa:
I met this guy 2018 in my Madam's tailoring shop while I was learning as an apprentice.

He usually comes around, he talks and jokes with everyone in the shop and we are all free with him after sometimes of showing good behaviours towards us.

To cut the story short, one day he asked for my phone number that he wants to be communicating with me, so I told him I don't have a phone I am not working yet, I am still learning and he smiled and promised to buy me a phone, which I told him if it's not just a gift he should not buy but if he wants to dash me for no reason like having intention of relationship or sex etc he should. Then he said he just meant to buy for me as a friend and I thank him.

So few days later he gave me 50,000 to buy myself a phone and I collected it and appreciated it.

So we communicate normally but just as a friend.

Last month he started asking me out, I told him am not ready for relationship because the kind of suffering and stress I pass through to survive totally made me lose interest for anything like that, he got angry and told me to send back his 50,000 to him or I should accept him. He is threatening me because he knows I cannot afford such money to pay him so I told him to give me time, I will refund it just to avoid problem but he said no time will be given that either I should give him my virginity or if I don't pay before next 7 days he will destroy my life, either by jazz or attack.

I just don't know what to do I need advice.
girls with longer throat. Must you collect everything? Even if it's dash, don't!
Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by mechanics(m): 1:18pm On Mar 21, 2021
You shouldn't have taken the money, knowing fully well that it will surely be a trap to entangle you, do all you can to pay him his money and have rest of mind.
Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by CioAngels(f): 1:22pm On Mar 21, 2021
Young girl, be careful, he may want to use your Virginity for ritual, tell your people so that they raise money and give to him through the police or elders. Your colleagues knows his story so make it open what is happening before he uses you for ritual. He intentional gave you the money to you fast. He is a rutualist He threat could be real.
Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by charimick: 1:51pm On Mar 21, 2021
Send your phone number ill help you out PEOPLE comment is an indication of lack of empathy He was only trying to take advantage of the poor girl too bad what is 50k compared with a life threatening comment .
Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by LINTUNE(m): 2:01pm On Mar 21, 2021
Powerfly:



Lol. Yes i can date a dickless guy coz i'm already into women.. The dick is basically useless if i may say.
You think what happens in nollywood aren't inspired by true life stories and happenings, then you must be a visitor to this part of the planet.
stop twisting my comment.
Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by astute28: 2:51pm On Mar 21, 2021
Useless Nigerian girls, u don't want sex and relationship and you collected 50k, haba fear God can your family gave u 50k, u better return the fucking money, useless Nigerian girl mtcheew, i hate nonsense
Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Greenback: 2:55pm On Mar 21, 2021
Xenry:
When a guy starts to give you what he won't give to his fellow guys, just know that he would be expecting from you what his fellow guys wouldn't be able to give him.

Baaaaahahahahahahhaahaaaaacheesy
Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by lovethchioma(f): 3:05pm On Mar 21, 2021
The fact that you can't give people anything without expecting something in return, doesn't mean another person cannot.

There are actually good people out there.

Personally, I have received money from men and women too, and they never asked for anything in return. Huge amounts ooo.

Nobody can blackmail me. I normally would not accept help from the kind of men that have the mentality most of you have here.Very rotten mentality.


I have helped people without ulterior motive in the past and I have been helped by a lot of persons. I repeat, we still have good people out there.

I don't know if it's poverty or the natural wickedness most of you Nigerian men have, that is making it look like a man cannot help someone without asking for sex or relationship. But again, the people who have helped me are Nigerians... so I don't understand these venom..
Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by EmpressEnnie(f): 3:35pm On Mar 21, 2021
I don't understand,are you guys doing this on purpose?
Didn't you all see the part where she said she asked him whether it was a gift or not?
Or the part where she didn't ask him. He offered. why are you all like this?. You all use every opportunity to bash women. smh. You all should heal
Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by temi1290: 3:37pm On Mar 21, 2021
BarrElChapo:
So your guys can't give you 50k ? and/or vice versa ? Please change your guys' and stop generalizing


Try to read something and understand,he is not insinuating his own friends can't give him that and he's definitely not generalizing.
Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Opeade939(f): 4:00pm On Mar 21, 2021
This is so terrible though......Op, please send me your account number.
Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by kluv99(m): 4:26pm On Mar 21, 2021
mployer:
Lol. You think God will answer such prayer?
Keep fooling yourself.

mployer:
Lol. You think God will answer such prayer?
Keep fooling yourself.
, y won't God answer if your praying with a clean heart
Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Ashirioluwa: 4:31pm On Mar 21, 2021
Opeade939:
This is so terrible though......Op, please send me your account number.

Don’t do it. She is a scammer. Someone gave her 30k on January 23rd to buy sewing machine. Now she comes up with another story. This is what she posted after her account was credited

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