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| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Gr8Nez(m): 9:43am On Apr 04, 2021 |
PERVENCHE:game of thrones and darkness inside cold weather nr dey ever turn out well. My guy either you forgot it happened or marry someone,women don’t forgive except na ur mama you offend na she go forgive you only if na babe forget it |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Druss(m): 9:51am On Apr 04, 2021 |
He without sin should cast the first stone. I pray that you forgive yourself and go and sin no more. |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by LordOfTheGame: 9:56am On Apr 04, 2021 |
Bornsinner7:You get sense well well. The whole story is just a test to his writing skills and I must confess, He's good. No need to advise him to confess, it's all lies. |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by karmaleon: 10:07am On Apr 04, 2021 |
Cerebellum:You're swearing on a fictional story... ![]() |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Bassmetrics: 10:10am On Apr 04, 2021 |
Your literary prowess kept me reading |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Vonwolf(m): 10:15am On Apr 04, 2021 |
PERVENCHE: |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Guru9ja(m): 10:18am On Apr 04, 2021 |
You aren't Man enough. The Bible says, resist the devil and he will flee from you. Your fiance sister is the devil who has been lusting around you for a long time but you didn't take cognizant of it. You should have stopped Your Fiancé sister and scold your Fiance not to send her to your place again. I wanna shock you. You gonna still have sex with that Abigail again. Confess your sins to your Fiance and her family and receive grace from God. That's the solution. |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Guru9ja(m): 10:19am On Apr 04, 2021 |
PERVENCHE:You aren't Man enough. The Bible says, resist the devil and he will flee from you. Your fiance sister is the devil who has been lusting around you for a long time but you didn't take cognizant of it. You should have stopped Your Fiancé sister and scold your Fiance not to send her to your place again. I wanna shock you. You gonna still have sex with that Abigail again. Confess your sins to your Fiance and her family and receive grace from God. That's the solution. |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by vickydevoka(m): 10:24am On Apr 04, 2021 |
PERVENCHE:Bros you didn't do well at all. There are many ways of having fun with a girl romantically without penis penetration. Even if you want to penetrate , use condom or if no condom use you finger , while kissing n caressing her, finger her, after that she will suck and rub your dick until you come |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Kylce042(m): 10:25am On Apr 04, 2021 |
PERVENCHE:Firstly I think you should be writing books damn! you’re good. your word choices is very remarkable. If u n Abigail can bury this secret erh! Nah to bury am walahii. Cus not going through with the marriage will definitely break Grace and on the other hand the truth is like a double edged sword here ie no get as you won take hold am ie go cut you. Deed is done no going back just live with the consequences of your actions and pray God cements that secret forever. And most importantly no go Bleep the gyal the second time. |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by holatunde1759(m): 10:36am On Apr 04, 2021 |
MejiLoyon:You got me rolling with tears walai. But this your moniker sef. I hope it's not what my brain is telling me sha ![]() |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by chukel(m): 10:40am On Apr 04, 2021 |
PERVENCHE:Very wonderful writer. I love your write up. Take up a vocation in writing. It's your call. |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by pek(m): 10:40am On Apr 04, 2021 |
KLand:*deed* |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by pek(m): 10:41am On Apr 04, 2021 |
chukel:You didn't have to quote the whole epistle to say that |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Casper21: 10:48am On Apr 04, 2021 |
Abigail isn't a child anymore, she knows and understand the repercussion of her actions. But over to you though I must commend your writing skills, you Gracefully murdered it. I don't think you were ever ready for marriage, truth be told, if you go on with the marriage, it might affect you later on. The deed with Abigail has been done and there's a consequence for every action. It might not come now but It'll be fatal when it does. To you it's a one time thing with Abigail never bound to happen but to her it's an opportunist. I'm not saying you shouldn't Marry your Amazing Grace but when there's a breach to a relationship it's never tended to last. |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Jalo60(m): 10:52am On Apr 04, 2021 |
it looks like fictional story o..you are talking about things that happened last year and Sunday Igbogho matter of recent..anyway I like your writing. |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Casper21: 10:56am On Apr 04, 2021 |
The only way you can justify yourself and conscience is by telling Grace all that happened and knowing fully well it'll crash the sister bond/relationship. Exposure to the truth can make her want you, trust you or leave you. You're a man and you can handle any situations cos that's what makes us Men. If Grace and her family forgives you, just know they won't forgive Abigail which can can cause a suicidal tendency for her. If Grace and her family doesn't forgive you, just know with time they will be able to forgive Abigail. The truth always justifies itself in a negative or positive way. My advice is to learn from your mistake, look for another woman and continue your life. You have a very sweet life ahead |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by bigpicture001: 11:26am On Apr 04, 2021 |
Fxwarrior:Bro you don't understand, you don't need good commitment to get married, you don't need it to get a girls loyalty... All you need is money and more of it.. I hv been where you are same stage of planning for marriage. Your own happiness shld matter the most, not trying to refocus who doesn't want to focus on you because u think its time to get married.... If a girl wants to settle down with a man, you will know, all her actions and attentions will b directed at whoever wants to marry... So will stick to you like glue and refused to be angry at obviously annoying acts by the man... My ex would say so just loves dating very matured guys.. I left, cuz she doesn't know I know it's marriage sh seeks...also telling how she likes the fight of newly married couple strolling with their first little child. How this her friend and this university mate ah told me b4 are now all married..... I just didn't want to embarrass her by telling her msg straight to her face..... But who is ready for marriage will b known |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Yeyenairaland(m): 11:27am On Apr 04, 2021 |
PERVENCHE:OP You're a BASTARD for writing this long trash to portray your mumuness. |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Chikankem331: 11:31am On Apr 04, 2021 |
The story line made me login to my account to response... Quiet an interesting adventure for you and a very devastating one if Grace gets to find out. The deed has been done bro, and most of us fall victims to silly mistakes atimes.. but the better part is to do the right thing not minding the wrong that happened in the past but with the consciousness of preventing future occurrence of same. I don't like playing the blame game cause if I should, you and Abigail deserves strokes of cain. For crying out loud, the whole stuff is avoidable. You have your wedding bro, and the best advice I can give you is to focus on it, love your woman (Grace), and build your home with her. No be crime to trust, and bet me, you can't get it all in one person.. Best wedding wishes bro and get us here Sourvenir for reading this long story of yours.. |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by makydebbie(f): 11:32am On Apr 04, 2021 |
You and Abigail are stupid bastards and I hope Grace finds out before it's too late. Fools. |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by tonyetuokwu: 11:53am On Apr 04, 2021 |
Abeg show us Abigail picture, B4 I know wetin to tell u......... |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Olisehinnocent: 11:57am On Apr 04, 2021 |
My brother blame it on buhari. Buhari went to London and Chelsea suddenly lose match to relegated team. Buhari is the cause of all the failures we encountered this year ![]() |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by nairamaniac: 12:18pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
NobleDeSage001:it may be a made up story. it could also be real. but what u pointed out doesn't follow. didn't u realize that op just listed several things that trended at one point to another as excuses. he didn't count those excuses last year. he listed them in current time(this year). |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by nairamaniac: 12:25pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
makydebbie:haaa take it easy. do u know Grace in person? But u can see that op is remorseful. |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by TundeChris: 12:29pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
PERVENCHE:This is rough!! Hope Abigail is not underaged? I’d say confess.... it’s hard, it’s crazy, but it’s the right thing to do. Confess to someone you both respect, your marriage counselor perhaps and follow the instructions. If it falls apart, make plans to relocate. Just one moment of lust has ruined lives and crumbled empires. |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Sunnybabe(m): 12:50pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
Tell Grace abt ur mischievous act due to her insensitivity and let her know how regrettable u are... but OP, u sabi write sha.... be lyk say the problem u have wonna make u dey compete with Wole Soyinka |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by XBreathe(m): 1:07pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
Good day friend, Thanks for sharing this piece with us. I must commend your effort. It isn't easy to do what you did as most men will see it as a common thing in this world we are. *** MY OPINION *** I think I should let you know that you didn't commit one mistake here. Well, you did make one by sleeping with the girl and you are just about to make the other one by proceeding with the marriage without telling the sister. I must admit you are in a dilemma right now. Should I proceed with the wedding? Should I not? Here is my take: PROCEED WITH THE WEDDING. Meet the bridesmaid and pretend as if nothing has ever happened between you two. Ignore those looks you said she's putting on. I am sure you can do just that. Do not talk about anything aside the wedding with her. Put on a nice and happy face whenever you are meeting her. A face that expresses how happy you her about the wedding and having her sister. Let your expression tell her that you are over her and all that happened between you two. *** AFTER THE WEDDING *** Pray before doing this. Find a perfect time and atmosphere, call your wife and tell her everything you did with her sister. I know this will be very hard for you but that is the only way she would forever love and trust you. Tell her how much you love her and how sorry you were and still her for doing what you did. Tell her what you went through, how you wanted to call the wedding off because of it. Tell her you couldn't call the wedding off because you love her that much. Tell her everything she needs to know and let her know that you would never do that again. Be sincere about the vow you made not to do it again. This would be hard for both of you but I am sure she will forgive you. It may only take her some time(due to her personality; introvert) *** Should you be worried about the Sister you slept with? *** Yes! Why? You really do have an unfinished business with her, an old fire that can be reignited any time any moment. How do you quench this old fire? Meet her. Yes, invite her for a dinner and talk to her. Let her know for the last time how sorry you were and still are for what happened between you two. Take responsibilities for the action and let her know you really do. That way, she won't fell bad about it and about herself. Tell her you are with her sister now and you have informed her sister about it because you can't live with it. That way she would know that you are serious with her sister and her chapter is over. Let her know she doesn't have to worry about her sister because you have resolved everything with her and that she has forgiven her(if she has). *** CONCLUSION *** You and your wife should find a time to invite her over for a dinner someday. There, your wife can tell her she has forgiven her and they can end every grief or hatred they may be having towards each other. This may be hard for you to do brother, but it is the only way you can save yourself, your family and the girl's family. You can't save anything by keeping shut and pretending it never happened. If you do, be prepared for the second fire. It will reignite somehow. I hope you find peace with this piece. Good luck with your marriage XBreathe |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Nobody: 1:10pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
Tell Grace the truth before getting married. She may forgive you. If you can't tell her the truth, just walk away. If she should find out after you marry her, that'll be much worse. And the fact that you're guilty and remorseful shows that you're a good man. Hope things work out well for you. |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by jezuzboi(m): 1:36pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
In my opinion, this writeup solves your problem. Just get Grace to read it. Then apologise. I have no doubts she'll feel loved & cherished after reading this...& that feeling will surpass any feelings of betrayal that might strike her. |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by maitrelalley1(m): 1:44pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
Is OP a novelist or so?? Be like say na Chinua Achebe teach you work.... I'm sorry, but I don't have any advice |
| Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Iseoluwani: 1:50pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
PERVENCHE:u are a good writer. tell grsce the truth and break up. |
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