EmGeee:


You are yet to realize that you are just being misogynistic

Am sorry if u think i soundd so.

PrimadonnaO:


If I was 40, and a 32 yr old were to ask me out, I wouldn't be offended. But a 21-yr old, nahh, I'll smack him.

HAHAHAHA, ABEG ITS TOO LATE TO BE LAFFING OUT LOUD. ME AM IN MY LATE 20'S AND THE LADY IN QUESTION IS 33. THO SHE DNT KNW WHAT I HAVE IN MIND 4 HER BECUS OF HER ATTITUDE TOWARDS ME WHEN I WAS YOUNGER

Boat don leave youooo.
A 30 something years old woman.
Except she is extremely bueatiful or will pay me before I even fuk her.
I think you were doing shakara.
Please pray for me if you visit Shiloh these year.

Anigreat:







Hey darling believe me, he did you so much wrong stop deceiving yourself.


Age shouldn't be a factor or criteria to settle down with who you love, except you didn't love the person, then you can use age gap as an excuse.


Emmanuel Macron is happily married to someone that is old enough to be his grandmother, Kim Kardashian mum is dating a boy that she should be a grandmum to and a lot more... so what's 3years gap? Is either the niggar didn't love you, or he listen to people that brainwashed him about what the society will say... nonsense.

Just had to chip in that only couples know if they are happy or not, not third parties. You can't possibly be here and correctly state that the couples u mentioned are happily married.

EmGeee:


I think what I tagged matured is discipline, he is rather disciplined... had to even let him know he was beginning to act up.
On one occasion he called and along the discussion he was gisting me about a special Abacha joint and promised to take me there, then on another occasion I called to check on him then asked what he had for dinner... he told me off 'that we shouldn't be wasting our airtime on such matters'. We started on a good note then it began to hurt so I had to let go in my mind just want him to know I understand

I think you are just making a big deal out of this. I personally don't like it when someone keeps asking "what I ate" as if they can do anything about it, its boring. I think he wants you to think outside the box. think for yourself , don't sound like everyone else..

Michelle55:
Age is just a number.. The earlier some people realize this the better for everyone.

Age is just a number but you'll never marry someone who's younger than you are. Age isn't just a number. Age carries experience, carries physical and emmotional changes, age carries maturity and maturity comes at different age to different individual.

Age difference is not that important. Mutual respect is much more important.

I think you should tell him, if you want, that you'd like a no holds barred tell all talk about your situation.

Let him know of many couples, famous or not, in which the lady is older than the man.

E.g the Beckham's and the Jonathan's.

It has nothing to do with the age thing per say (to the guy in question) but to his parents, relatives and siblings who will definitely kick against it when the issue will be raised.

Remember, in most tradition, you don't marry only the man, you marry into his extended family also. So in essence, don't blame him and like someone said, just schedule a meeting in a restaurant and let him know you understand and would still prefer his friendship rather than romantic one (if you still want). If he is as matured and disciplined as you said, he will definitely understand and buy into your idea.

CC

OP
EmGeee

EmGeee:
I met this guy, he turns out a very nice guy very matured said he was interested in everything about me like that serious then we realized am 3yrs older.. kinda weird and I sense he is now withdrawn, I understand and already let go so how best do I let him know that I understand. Just so he doesn't feel he did me wrong, so he will stop calling me up randomly in entanglement


I think what I tagged matured could be discipline, he is quite disciplined... had to even let him know he was beginning to act up. On one occasion he called and along the discussion he was gisting me about a special Abacha joint and promised to take me there, then on another occasion I called to check on him then asked what he had for dinner... he told me off 'that we shouldn't be wasting our airtime on such matters'. We started on a good note then it began to hurt so I had to let go in my mind just want him to know I understand
I just feel he isn't sure and don't know how to open up probably not to hurt me so just want to let him know am cool with his stance so we both just move on

just carry this thing wey you write now tell am to him face or better still text him.

Bornsinner7:
You don't have to make him understand that he did not do you wrong..

But if you insist take him to a spot buy him a bottle of hero and one big chicken.. then explain to him that you understand why he chickened out

don't do this

PrimadonnaO:


Lol. The first response that came to mind when I put myself in this scenario wasn't nice. If I wasn't civil, I'd honestly smack him.

COS of just 5 yrs different, madam don't try it, infact never try it..woman no de senior man. .just advising you, for your "body" sake..

EmGeee:


Truth is it was a shocker realizing that cos it didn't seem so by any means... it was even issue of NYSC that led to the discovery I mean I never imagined such scenario but then I let him know he turned out more matured than the older people I have met. But it hasn't been as usual, he just changed overnight so I let him be but he keeps calling up randomly and all that so I just want the best way to let him know am cool

Meaning he calls demanding for cookies amidst his withdrawal coldness?

SweetiliciousD:


Meaning he calls demanding for cookies amidst his withdrawal coldness?

put it for her in plain english
as of now he is only interested in pussy hacking and banging business

baralatie:

put it for her in plain english
as of now he is only interested in pussy hacking and banging business

Ahhhhhh.... Even today being... A special day?

I unread what I read. Lol

SweetiliciousD:


Ahhhhhh.... Even today being... A special day?
I unread what I read. Lol

remember Jesus Christ came for people like me o

Seems men see marrying a lady as doing her a favor... just because they don't read the Bible, cos it actually says something about finding a wife

It was never stated or written any where that a man must be older than a woman before they can go into any kind of relationship na for Nigeria dem verify am sey man must senior woman. Let that be na I'm luck!

bammo:


I think you are just making a big deal out of this. I personally don't like it when someone keeps asking "what I ate" as if they can do anything about it, its boring. I think he wants you to think outside the box. think for yourself , don't sound like everyone else..

Yes... boring I agree, don't fancy it either. Just thought it caring though afterall he started the food talks

EmGeee:
I met this guy, he turns out a very nice guy very matured said he was interested in everything about me like that serious then we realized am 3yrs older.. kinda weird and I sense he is now withdrawn, I understand and already let go so how best do I let him know that I understand. Just so he doesn't feel he did me wrong, so he will stop calling me up randomly in entanglement


I think what I tagged matured could be discipline, he is quite disciplined... had to even let him know he was beginning to act up. On one occasion he called and along the discussion he was gisting me about a special Abacha joint and promised to take me there, then on another occasion I called to check on him then asked what he had for dinner... he told me off 'that we shouldn't be wasting our airtime on such matters'. We started on a good note then it began to hurt so I had to let go in my mind just want him to know I understand
I just feel he isn't sure and don't know how to open up probably not to hurt me so just want to let him know am cool with his stance so we both just move on

are u lightskin?

Bornsinner7:
You don't have to make him understand that he did not do you wrong..

But if you insist take him to a spot buy him a bottle of hero and one big chicken.. then explain to him that you understand why he chickened out

So, that's why she had to buy him a chicken.

For emphasis

Kondomatic:
Exactly





And prison is just a room

I fail to see the connection, but, okay...

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EmGeee:


Yes... boring I agree, don't fancy it either. Just thought it caring though afterall he started the food talks

oh.. I made a wrong judgement I'm sorry. It must be difficult for you having to suggest the break-up even though u are the one that is hurting. Lots of guys wouldn't mind dating an older girl as long as she doesn't look older. Age is just a number what's more important is what u feel for someone. I hope he sees beyond the age factor and accept you for who you are and if he doesn't, then I hope you find someone that truly deserves you.

EmGeee:
I met this guy, he turns out a very nice guy very matured said he was interested in everything about me like that serious then we realized am 3yrs older.. kinda weird and I sense he is now withdrawn, I understand and already let go so how best do I let him know that I understand. Just so he doesn't feel he did me wrong, so he will stop calling me up randomly in entanglement


I think what I tagged matured could be discipline, he is quite disciplined... had to even let him know he was beginning to act up. On one occasion he called and along the discussion he was gisting me about a special Abacha joint and promised to take me there, then on another occasion I called to check on him then asked what he had for dinner... he told me off 'that we shouldn't be wasting our airtime on such matters'. We started on a good note then it began to hurt so I had to let go in my mind just want him to know I understand
I just feel he isn't sure and don't know how to open up probably not to hurt me so just want to let him know am cool with his stance so we both just move on

Why are you bothered about his feelings for leaving the relationship because of age difference

Woman up pls

Thanks everyone... especially the courteous personas here, I do appreciate your thoughtful recommendations.

EmGeee:
I met this guy, he turns out a very nice guy very matured said he was interested in everything about me like that serious then we realized am 3yrs older.. kinda weird and I sense he is now withdrawn, I understand and already let go so how best do I let him know that I understand. Just so he doesn't feel he did me wrong, so he will stop calling me up randomly in entanglement


I think what I tagged matured could be discipline, he is quite disciplined... had to even let him know he was beginning to act up. On one occasion he called and along the discussion he was gisting me about a special Abacha joint and promised to take me there, then on another occasion I called to check on him then asked what he had for dinner... he told me off 'that we shouldn't be wasting our airtime on such matters'. We started on a good note then it began to hurt so I had to let go in my mind just want him to know I understand
I just feel he isn't sure and don't know how to open up probably not to hurt me so just want to let him know am cool with his stance so we both just move on

my girlfriend is 4years and two months older than me

EmGeee:
I met this guy, he turns out a very nice guy very matured said he was interested in everything about me like that serious then we realized am 3yrs older.. kinda weird and I sense he is now withdrawn, I understand and already let go so how best do I let him know that I understand. Just so he doesn't feel he did me wrong, so he will stop calling me up randomly in entanglement


I think what I tagged matured could be discipline, he is quite disciplined... had to even let him know he was beginning to act up. On one occasion he called and along the discussion he was gisting me about a special Abacha joint and promised to take me there, then on another occasion I called to check on him then asked what he had for dinner... he told me off 'that we shouldn't be wasting our airtime on such matters'. We started on a good note then it began to hurt so I had to let go in my mind just want him to know I understand
I just feel he isn't sure and don't know how to open up probably not to hurt me so just want to let him know am cool with his stance so we both just move on

LOL. What a funny post.

Telstar:
LOL. What a funny post.

Really?

EmGeee:


Really?

Yeah

How old is he?

Telstar:
Yeah

How old is he?

Late twenties

frozen70:


Why are you bothered about his feelings for leaving the relationship because of age difference

Woman up pls

Which one is woman up again lawyer.


Smh. Wetin musa no go see for Ariaria