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Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by bluefilm: 11:00pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
needanswer: I'm sure you must have been watching I'M IN LOVE WITH A MAMA'S BOY on DSTV of lately? |
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by kingemaker(m): 11:03pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
needanswer: Ko ni da fun wife yen |
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by needanswer: 11:03pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
bluefilm: Am the wrongest person to be caught watching nollywood movies either on mnet or Rok. The story lines are too simple for me |
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by EmekusTHEgreat(m): 11:04pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
needanswer: All these questions are relative, my momsy and current babe get along very well, they are both really calm people that don't like confrontation, the likelihood of such happening to me is slim But if it does then I don't mind being the villain to both of them. How dare they try to confuse me after a hectic day at work. Both of them dey ment!!! I would castigate them, and query them for trying to make me pick sides to spite the other person. I would then go on to guilt trip the heck out of them. "Mom, this is your daughter why are you trying to hurt her" "Wife, is this how you would treat your biological mother " "If the two of you don't make up and stop bickering like silly prejuvenile children right now, you'll both go back to your husband's and father's houses and never hear from me again" This can only work for males because well... na me get prick and na me dey provide, it's different for women but I would not recommend picking sides and any partner that wants me to pick against my mom is immature Likewise only an insecure and overbearing mother would want to come to someone's home and cause havok.. Can never be my mom. The woman is too conscious about imposing |
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by needanswer: 11:04pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
kingemaker: Your ONE and ONLY, your LOVE |
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by needanswer: 11:06pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
EmekusTHEgreat: Option G, guilty trip them , that scope go work o |
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by kingemaker(m): 11:06pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
needanswer: Ko ni da fun love. Describing the mum-son relationship with love would be an understatement. I'm not even so close to mum, but that woman is my Orisa. I'll respect my wife, but I can't place her side by side with my mum. Will never let any family member including my mum disrespect her, and vice versa. Reason why I'll rather not let my mum-wife have any personal relationship. Just hello from afar. |
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by ImaIma1(f): 11:45pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
D or E. They can't come and kill me 1 Like |
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by Stanleyville(m): 11:58pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
Been almost a year now..no gulfriend no wifey,..just me and my Hustle. |
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by Nobody: 12:00am On Apr 08, 2021 |
Make my wife no even try having any issues with my mother. I'm not predictable when it comes to Maami's matter . I don't pray to be in such scenario. I would do my best to make the two be at peace always. @stanleyville above, singleness & peace of mind are like 5&6 |
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by addictiv(m): 12:40am On Apr 08, 2021 |
Wife: Which side are you on? Me: I am on the Lord's side... A more practical approach will be to quickly deescalate the situation by separating warring parties. Take wife to the bedroom and listen to her version, from her version, praise her for what she did right and point out what she did wrong. Then listen to Mum's version, praise her for what she did right and point out what she did wrong... Then bring them together and have them apologize to each other for the areas I told them they went wrong, then do something I know will make them happy, maybe gifts, outings, a stroll in the park, etc, according to their individual preferences. Luckily I have a great mother, even Jezebel herself won't be able to have issues with her. |
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by Yeahmehn: 12:57am On Apr 08, 2021 |
Option E. The 2 of them never pull cloth fight before I come house and so they won't do it when I'm there. you cannot divide women fight o. Na to hear gist later |
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by needanswer: 7:33am On Apr 08, 2021 |
addictiv: Lol....you're on the lord's side. Wahala for who marry MOG |
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by rita25(f): 10:23am On Apr 08, 2021 |
omo my husband and father ke? my husband must give way oh............me and him will settle but NEVER disrespect my dad since i havnt done that to any of your parents.....then i will go inside and talk to my dad if its his fault but right there i will just beg for peace to reign and cry better cry for the both of them |
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by gentleibraheem(m): 11:51am On Apr 08, 2021 |
I think the second scenario Either doesn't happen or is very rare. Men don't have time and Energy to waste on useless stuffs |
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by needanswer: 12:28pm On Apr 08, 2021 |
rita25: What if it was the first scenario, what will you have your hubby do? |
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by needanswer: 12:28pm On Apr 08, 2021 |
gentleibraheem: Good observation |
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by rita25(f): 1:50pm On Apr 08, 2021 |
THE GUY HAS SUPPORTED HIS MOTHER OVER ME SEVERALLY I DID NOT DIE SO ANY OPPORTUNITY TO PAY BACK EH............E GO CHOKE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! needanswer: |
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by Michaelcas(m): 2:05pm On Apr 08, 2021 |
needanswer:Oh this is a simple one, OPTION (G): I'll just turn back go out again, they should settle themselves, a man needs rest after work |
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by needanswer: 2:17pm On Apr 08, 2021 |
rita25: Wow, so this scenario has happened live to you . Hope you are fine sha? No vex o |
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by rita25(f): 2:24pm On Apr 08, 2021 |
its a very normal thing men have been choosing their mothers and sisters over us,the way our brothers do to other ladies...........its a circle......but las las women will be fine.......... needanswer: |
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by needanswer: 4:55pm On Apr 08, 2021 |
rita25: Amen. |
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by Analyst7: 10:58am On Apr 11, 2021 |
The funny thing is that second scenario is almost impossible to happen, men rarely fight men and will now go to the extent of calling the wife, it’s only women that like all those headache kinda fights |
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by needanswer: 3:39pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
Analyst7: Yeah, the keyword is RARE. |
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