Bro do not fall for it.

Wahala!!!! Brother please thread with caution

SanctifiedSista:
It's best to avoid sex with her. Don't try it and break up with her if she is that desperate for marriage.

so there is no longer right to break up with a desperate girlfriend? Or what will happen if he call it off?

Papertrails:
Please nairalanders I need your advice on something that has been bothering me for sometime now.

I am a young graduate who graduated from the university almost two years ago and am done with my youth service too but am still trying to get a job or put up something maybe a business that will be fetching me money considering the situation of our country in terms of availability of jobs.

Then there's is this girl I have been dating for three years and everything has been going well but recently she has been really disturbing me to come and see her people or get her pregnant, am someone that will do everything within my power to make sure my kids don't pass through the hardship I have passed through being someone that wasn't born with a silver spoon, and another thing is that I really love this girl.
Am really confused and don't know what to do.

I hope she never abort for you within 3 years? guys these days sabi loyal once no money dey wit them, but once change begins to enter dem go start to misbehave like unknown gunmen and transformers.

someone has promised her marriage. she's just in love with you. she might left sooner if you did not concur

Bro, dnt dare it. You go suffer ham las las...

Papertrails:
Please nairalanders I need your advice on something that has been bothering me for sometime now.

I am a young graduate who graduated from the university almost two years ago and am done with my youth service too but am still trying to get a job or put up something maybe a business that will be fetching me money considering the situation of our country in terms of availability of jobs.

Then there's is this girl I have been dating for three years and everything has been going well but recently she has been really disturbing me to come and see her people or get her pregnant, am someone that will do everything within my power to make sure my kids don't pass through the hardship I have passed through being someone that wasn't born with a silver spoon, and another thing is that I really love this girl.
Am really confused and don't know what to do.

GUY YOU BETTER NO THINK AM, NA WHEN DE BELLE ENTER YOU GO NO HER TRUE COLOUR, YOU THINK TO TAKE CARE OF CHILDREN EASY. FROM ANC TO SCHOOL LEVELS

How old is she?

without a job, bros take off

Are you sure she is not pregnant now. For another person wants the thing to look like it is you that did the thing

ogashman:
get her preggy only if you have the resources to cater for the baby.
most times what these girls say in the morning is not usually what they say in the afternoon.

mouth don dey sweet her as she dey tell u to get her pregnant as if she has everything figured out.. but na same girl no go allow u rest when she finally get the belle.

Very wise talk, though in a funny manner ...

Just go to the market and do a survey on the prices of baby things. then go back home, bathe and advise yourself. You don't need nairaland to advice you, especially without a job, God gave you a brain, it is time to use it.

ogashman:
get her preggy only if you have the resources to cater for the baby.



most times what these girls say in the morning is not usually what they say in the afternoon.



mouth don dey sweet her as she dey tell u to get her pregnant as if she has everything figured out.. but na same girl no go allow u rest when she finally get the belle.

ALL the time, what the woman says in the morning is not what they say in the afternoon.
Go and get a job, and build. Distractions can derail your journey.

You never suffer young man, women are looking for poverty alleviation ways and one sure way is clinging to a man, once she gets pregnant for you in this wicked economy, your hair go bald sharp sharp..

Papertrails:
Please nairalanders I need your advice on something that has been bothering me for sometime now.

I am a young graduate who graduated from the university almost two years ago and am done with my youth service too but am still trying to get a job or put up something maybe a business that will be fetching me money considering the situation of our country in terms of availability of jobs.

Then there's is this girl I have been dating for three years and everything has been going well but recently she has been really disturbing me to come and see her people or get her pregnant, am someone that will do everything within my power to make sure my kids don't pass through the hardship I have passed through being someone that wasn't born with a silver spoon, and another thing is that I really love this girl.
Am really confused and don't know what to do.

Young man don't do it. I repeat don't dare it orelse your new name will be sorry oo and eeyah.

If she loves you for real let her be patient and support you to secure job first. Bro fear woman my honest warning you will be surprise when she succeeded traping you with baby, failure y you to meet up with her welfare and the baby then you will hear yourlife history

Papertrails:
Please nairalanders I need your advice on something that has been bothering me for sometime now.

I am a young graduate who graduated from the university almost two years ago and am done with my youth service too but am still trying to get a job or put up something maybe a business that will be fetching me money considering the situation of our country in terms of availability of jobs.

Then there's is this girl I have been dating for three years and everything has been going well but recently she has been really disturbing me to come and see her people or get her pregnant, am someone that will do everything within my power to make sure my kids don't pass through the hardship I have passed through being someone that wasn't born with a silver spoon, and another thing is that I really love this girl.
Am really confused and don't know what to do.

It's just as if am you and you are me... Same story same condition... Don't know why this girl would want to put me in a tight condition all in the name of love

Well if I can advise us both... Try and get anything doing that would fetch you money... Just go out and hustle hard

You may have meant this to be a joke but you have pointed out something that is often overlooked.

If you are a guy who is ambitious, then you want to be recruiting someone who shares a similar vision with you and not carried away by this love induced stories.

There are many people in the world who can still follow the usual template.

i926:

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Choose women the way CEOs pick workers..you will avoid lot of future problems this way. Love na scam.
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What if she’s already pregnant for someone else and wants to Pin it on you

Bro i do not even need to go tru ur post before advising you. The subject alone is okay. Now come to my advise (run don't stand, run. I repeat don't stand run

She is in a fantasy world now,maybe she have the feeling/desire of getting pregnant.But guy giving birth and taking a care of family no be rice and beans,except you wan live life of frustration.The Bible says in proverb 24 vs 27 Develop your business first before building your house..
BE WISE.

I've been there before....

But I declined, even when she volunteered to shoulder the major responsibilities cos she's working...

If I could turn back the hands of time, I would've done things differently.....#one of my biggest regret

Papertrails:


Thanks alot....

A child is a beautiful gift from God, a child opens new doors of possibilities and forwardness.

Consider your age and your GFS potentials... From there you can no what decisions to make.

get her pregnant without a job at your own peril. I can bet 100% 2 months after she delivers the child she will tag you a lazy man if by then you haven't secured a good-paying job that will Carter her needs and that of the child

Papertrails:
Please nairalanders I need your advice on something that has been bothering me for sometime now.

I am a young graduate who graduated from the university almost two years ago and am done with my youth service too but am still trying to get a job or put up something maybe a business that will be fetching me money considering the situation of our country in terms of availability of jobs.

Then there's is this girl I have been dating for three years and everything has been going well but recently she has been really disturbing me to come and see her people or get her pregnant, am someone that will do everything within my power to make sure my kids don't pass through the hardship I have passed through being someone that wasn't born with a silver spoon, and another thing is that I really love this girl.
Am really confused and don't know what to do.

First verify that she is not already pregnant.
After doing so, run!

You better don't try this, if you try it my brother you will smell hell when the responsibility occurs

Run for your life...bringing a child into a world you are not fully prepared of is scary,you girlfriend doesnt know what she want to bargain for.....dont be push okay

Bro, don't try that until you have work, this my kind advice

Bro, don't try that until you have work, that is my kindly advice

Run ooo....... If she love you, she go wait for you.
Having children no be joke oo.
You go feed dem, cloth them, give dem love too.
If you never ready to carry the load oo, why put hand for another person head.....
Na Onyeka and sunny Ade sing am ooo

Only and only she has good job or she has well to do parents that can handle the bills till you people get jobs.
If so, go and formalize your relationship.