playapayaski:


Except u are lazy, totally helpless and not motivated.. and except she's totally dependent on u too then don't. 9 fuckingggg months is a long time to fix up at least 120k. Thing is we worry too much about what we can't get while neglecting what's right in front of us.
Non of those fuckstards rulling us now went to private uni, d president don't even have a degree. But nowadays we kill ourselves to send our children to 500k schools which don't guarantee intelligence and smartness to that child.. do as ur hand reach while working for better, love yours and take risks. That's what makes u human, try or fail but don't stay stagnant. Ur choice bro

A wise man once spoke like you, you be senior man, I respect you.

SweetCunt97:
You simply wanna die before ur time. That her yeye love will turn into hatred when u cant provide. Better wait for the appropriate time.

i swear..

Oga ZIP UP o...... To look after pregnant woman till she born....then.... Look after first pikin for the first 10 months na money o....build your husle first o.

Drsnives:

Continue forbidding
What has been written is written.. I just wish you a safe landing

But brother, I see tears

This I have seen

This part always cracks me up!!

Papertrails:

?.......

if u wanna relocate to ur village impregnate her...

tonididdy:

Personal experience, you have to have a savings or income flow of some sort.
Esp for the sake of the child, that's if your partner is not the demanding type.
Otherwise she just feels there's no need to beat around the bush or wait for wealth, start a commitment now.

My brother... I dey try to get stable income at least to carter for a child... Man dey old dey go o... Only God will bless the hustle of the common man

Papertrails:
Please nairalanders I need your advice on something that has been bothering me for sometime now.

I am a young graduate who graduated from the university almost two years ago and am done with my youth service too but am still trying to get a job or put up something maybe a business that will be fetching me money considering the situation of our country in terms of availability of jobs.

Then there's is this girl I have been dating for three years and everything has been going well but recently she has been really disturbing me to come and see her people or get her pregnant, am someone that will do everything within my power to make sure my kids don't pass through the hardship I have passed through being someone that wasn't born with a silver spoon, and another thing is that I really love this girl.
Am really confused and don't know what to do.

Hmmmmmmmm!

Papertrails:
Please nairalanders I need your advice on something that has been bothering me for sometime now.

I am a young graduate who graduated from the university almost two years ago and am done with my youth service too but am still trying to get a job or put up something maybe a business that will be fetching me money considering the situation of our country in terms of availability of jobs.

Then there's is this girl I have been dating for three years and everything has been going well but recently she has been really disturbing me to come and see her people or get her pregnant, am someone that will do everything within my power to make sure my kids don't pass through the hardship I have passed through being someone that wasn't born with a silver spoon, and another thing is that I really love this girl.
Am really confused and don't know what to do.

Pregi Gini? My guy ita a bubby trap, I repeat it is a bubby trap abort abort abort !!

For this Buhari season? No fucking way!!!

Papertrails:


Late twenties...

Its a trap out of desperation. Dont fall for it

playapayaski:


Except u are lazy, totally helpless and not motivated.. and except she's totally dependent on u too then don't. 9 fuckingggg months is a long time to fix up at least 120k. Thing is we worry too much about what we can't get while neglecting what's right in front of us.
Non of those fuckstards rulling us now went to private uni, d president don't even have a degree. But nowadays we kill ourselves to send our children to 500k schools which don't guarantee intelligence and smartness to that child.. do as ur hand reach while working for better, love yours and take risks. That's what makes u human, try or fail but don't stay stagnant. Ur choice bro

Good advice but risky.

I am in similar situation but just trying to set up a small business and guys that have made it are disturbing my girl too much for marriage, and I don't want to loose her

Papertrails, you've been dating her for 3yrs, been wanting you to get her pregnant or come and see her people. Seems like a girl I know and once dated last year.

She still disturbed me to get her pregnant. But as the real man that I am, I knew it's the thing that is sweeting her that is making her say all those bullshits. Give you belle. I dey craze?

She has been dating her boyfriend for 3yrs. She is been desperate to have a baby. She is between 24 to 27yrs.

Op who knows whether she is the same girl I once dated.

She might be the one. I won't disclose other info. But if she is the one I once dated then you are on long thing.

Pls I want a fine light skinned babe to get pregnant for me biko.....

My options include- Fulani, Hausa, Yoruba OR Tiv. I can manage my Ibibio sisters N Igbo maybe

Lol op I am so sure dats a yoruba girl.

Don't allow yourself to be put under pressure. Have a good talk with her about it.

Op, sit her down and tell her...
Girlfriend we can't bring a baby to this world now cos there is no money on GROUND.....

Papertrails:
Please nairalanders I need your advice on something that has been bothering me for sometime now.

I am a young graduate who graduated from the university almost two years ago and am done with my youth service too but am still trying to get a job or put up something maybe a business that will be fetching me money considering the situation of our country in terms of availability of jobs.

Then there's is this girl I have been dating for three years and everything has been going well but recently she has been really disturbing me to come and see her people or get her pregnant, am someone that will do everything within my power to make sure my kids don't pass through the hardship I have passed through being someone that wasn't born with a silver spoon, and another thing is that I really love this girl.
Am really confused and don't know what to do.

If a girl is asking you to see her people you must have over fvcked her when you had nothing and she’s seeing herself as a used product that you will abandon when something good comes along.

ogashman:




my brother, i have been an insider....i know everything

Jesus is Lord

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GreenDestiny2:



That pampers na something else. I spend up to 4k per month on pampers.

oh Lord! You are making me nervous.

Judybash93:


The thing is, i don't think she can be the only lady that'd have everything you need in a woman considering the huge population of the country as well as the continent.

The simple truth is that good girls that can manage and ready to build a future with a beginner is one out of hundred; that's why you see some guys dragging one girl.

Papertrails:
Please nairalanders I need your advice on something that has been bothering me for sometime now.

I am a young graduate who graduated from the university almost two years ago and am done with my youth service too but am still trying to get a job or put up something maybe a business that will be fetching me money considering the situation of our country in terms of availability of jobs.

Then there's is this girl I have been dating for three years and everything has been going well but recently she has been really disturbing me to come and see her people or get her pregnant, am someone that will do everything within my power to make sure my kids don't pass through the hardship I have passed through being someone that wasn't born with a silver spoon, and another thing is that I really love this girl.
Am really confused and don't know what to do.

Don't do either. Wait until you are financially stable or else you may have many regrets down the way.

Papertrails:
Please nairalanders I need your advice on something that has been bothering me for sometime now.

I am a young graduate who graduated from the university almost two years ago and am done with my youth service too but am still trying to get a job or put up something maybe a business that will be fetching me money considering the situation of our country in terms of availability of jobs.

Then there's is this girl I have been dating for three years and everything has been going well but recently she has been really disturbing me to come and see her people or get her pregnant, am someone that will do everything within my power to make sure my kids don't pass through the hardship I have passed through being someone that wasn't born with a silver spoon, and another thing is that I really love this girl.
Am really confused and don't know what to do.

My brother don't fall to woman pressure because if you fall she will later insult you when things go south

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zudozz:
ur pryk must be an equipment!

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Papertrails:
Please nairalanders I need your advice on something that has been bothering me for sometime now.

I am a young graduate who graduated from the university almost two years ago and am done with my youth service too but am still trying to get a job or put up something maybe a business that will be fetching me money considering the situation of our country in terms of availability of jobs.

Then there's is this girl I have been dating for three years and everything has been going well but recently she has been really disturbing me to come and see her people or get her pregnant, am someone that will do everything within my power to make sure my kids don't pass through the hardship I have passed through being someone that wasn't born with a silver spoon, and another thing is that I really love this girl.
Am really confused and don't know what to do.

Stop dating her. Most importantly, give your life to Christ and serve him with undivided attention. All other things shall be added unto you.

Muhylonaire007:


With the rising number of Snapchat girls and immorality at large, I can't lose this one bro, na when you need wife material you go know say true true women plenty but wetin you need no dey among them.
Don't let the numbers deceive you, wife material scarce

Wife materials no dey market, if you see anyone hold am tight, you can marry her plan things out before getting her pregnant. That is what am planning to do with my girlfriend before others go collect her from me

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Drsnives:
I foresee the girl pressuring you till all your defenses are down
I foresee her manipulating you to get her pregnant.
I foresee the misery and agony in the family


This I have seen

[quote author=Drsnives post=100609697]I foresee the girl pressuring you till all your defenses are down
I foresee her manipulating you to get her pregnant.
I foresee the misery and agony in the family


This I have seen[/quotes

These I have seen oga

samwillyco1:


Wife materials no dey market, if you see anyone hold am tight, you can marry her plan things out before getting her pregnant. That is what am planning to do with my girlfriend before others go collect her from me

God no go shame you baba mi...

Getting her pregnant without a job fastest road to LONG TIME HARDSHIP


Please before getting a girl pregnant MAKE SURE YOUR 2-3 MONTHS INCOME CAN PAY YOUR HOUSE RENT!!!

Muhylonaire007:


God no go shame you baba mi...

AMEN ooo and you too